A FINAL SOLUTION TO THE INCEL PROBLEM: parts 1, 2, and 3

A FINAL SOLUTION TO THE INCEL PROBLEM #1-3

by Andy Nowicki

The self-mastered man must of necessity remain a mystery, and we can only recognize him as someone who has been infused with grace, a grace that, for the present time anyway, has been kept hidden from most men. Thus the men of our day, be they fortunate enough to be amongst the ranks of “Chad,” or part of the less fortunate, burgeoning “Incel” demographic, are equally lost. Some are obviously miserable, angry, and desperate, being bereft of any semblance of love, compassion or empathy from their fellow humans… others must think that their life is pretty grand, until they discover, whether overtly or inchoately, that the status they won is a frequent source of anxiety, even dread, since what was won can always be lost, and that which was granted can, in the twinkling of an eye, be forfeited.

37 pages, Paperback

Published October 17, 2019

Reviews

[Ben · Rating 3 out of 5]

Andy Nowicki has a talent for writing about low-status males, in this case incels. Having heard interviews with him, he has a pretty firm grasp on inceldom, without the more immature and inflammatory aspect that these people so-often display (Which is largely in part due to their youth.) Like myself, Andy is an older guy. Unlike me, he's married and has kids, however the marriage seems to be loveless at this point, and at one point Andy refers to himself as a "Born-Again Incel".

His age and his desire to discuss this issue rationally are extremely rare. The first half of this is very good, explaining how more and more males are getting into these types of situations, where they feel completely hopeless. He also points out the hypocrisy of woke liberals/SJWs who look at men unsuccessful with women with a truly venomous scorn (I find this especially true of women) that they would never apply to women or trans people who are not sexually successful. Just imagine the outrage if a trans person unsuccessful with finding a sexual partner was told that they're not entitled to any type of relationship, and should work on making themselves more attractive.

The book kind of lost me in its third and final portion "The Master Monk Speaks" which advocates attempting to ignore the issue and become more stoic about the whole thing. While it is not very explicit in this particular book, I feel that his religious faith may help him with this. While I'm happy that he found at least a small sense of peace on this problem, it leaves agnostic/atheist readers a bit stranded or I felt that way at least.

So didn't enjoy this all too much but 3* for approaching the topic seriously and not resorting to PUA cliches.