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Why Are We Afraid?
From the creators of the highly acclaimed Why Do We Cry? comes this poignant, evocative exploration of the many reasons we feel fear. After a clap of thunder, the lights in Max’s house go out. Max’s father lights a candle, and Max asks, “Dad, have you ever been afraid?” His father says everyone is afraid sometimes. Then he slowly and carefully begins to describe the contours of fear. He explains how even small fears can seem to flood everything around us. He enumerates the many different things that can make us shadows, feeling lonely, losing what we love, not being able to control the future and fading away. And he reassures his young son that while our fears can stop us in our tracks, we must keep going. Award-winning author Fran Pintadera’s poetic text together with Ana Sender’s stunning imagery make for an entrancing picture book about emotions. It makes clear that fear is a normal part of life and that when we can identify our fears, it’s easier to accept them and to move past them. A wonderful conversation starter, this book could be used to help young children understand and process their fears and, more generally, why we feel our feelings. It makes an excellent choice for lessons on social-emotional learning. Back matter includes informational content about the different types of fear, the purpose and usefulness of fear, and an activity to further explore some of the story’s key concepts.
34 pages, Hardcover
First published March 1, 2022
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Fran Pintadera
41 books17 followersFran Pintadera es narrador oral, director de teatro social y escritor de literatura infantil.
Licenciado en Psicopedagogía, Diplomado en Educación Social por la UCLM y Técnico Superior en Integración Social. Desde hace años su oficio es contar historias y ayudar a que otros puedan contar la suya.
El humor, las posibilidades de la fantasía y la belleza de lo cotidiano son los ingredientes fundamentales de sus recetas artísticas.
Como narrador ha participado en festivales destacados de ámbito nacional, en diversas Ferias del Libro de España, y en bibliotecas y programaciones culturales estables de casi toda la península.
Como escritor ha publicado con diferentes editoriales como Edelvives, SM, Kalandraka, Takatuka, Milrazones, Akiara Books, Libre Albedrío, Tres Tigres Tristes o La Guarida. Sus libros han sido seleccionados entre los mejores títulos publicados en lengua española por la Fundación Cuatrogatos y han recibido el reconocimiento de la Fundación Germán Sánchez Ruipérez.
Licenciado en Psicopedagogía, Diplomado en Educación Social por la UCLM y Técnico Superior en Integración Social. Desde hace años su oficio es contar historias y ayudar a que otros puedan contar la suya.
El humor, las posibilidades de la fantasía y la belleza de lo cotidiano son los ingredientes fundamentales de sus recetas artísticas.
Como narrador ha participado en festivales destacados de ámbito nacional, en diversas Ferias del Libro de España, y en bibliotecas y programaciones culturales estables de casi toda la península.
Como escritor ha publicado con diferentes editoriales como Edelvives, SM, Kalandraka, Takatuka, Milrazones, Akiara Books, Libre Albedrío, Tres Tigres Tristes o La Guarida. Sus libros han sido seleccionados entre los mejores títulos publicados en lengua española por la Fundación Cuatrogatos y han recibido el reconocimiento de la Fundación Germán Sánchez Ruipérez.
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May 23, 2023
In a Nutshell: A lovely children’s picture book about accepting fear as a valid emotion. Scary artwork though.
This book was originally published in Spain under the title ‘Per què tenim por?’ in 2022. This is the English translation, coming in June 2023.
The premise is quite simple. During a power cut, Max is watching the flame of the candle lit by his dad when he suddenly asks his father if has ever been afraid. Max’s dad thinks about his son’s query for a moment, and then launches into his response, covering the fact that adults too feel fear, and a list of things that can scare people. The story ends with the lights coming back on, in various ways.
I liked the structure of this book. The setup involves a parent confessing that he also has been afraid sometimes, which is so important for kids to know. It justifies fear as an actual emotion, and shows that it is okay to be afraid, and that fears have nothing to do with age. In a way, having a father admitting his fears is even more impactful as kids tend to see their dads as brave superheroes who aren’t afraid of anything.
The book covers all kinds of fears, ranging from imaginary monsters to actual events to irrational feelings. The power of fear is never dismissed; instead, the book highlights the importance of embracing the fear and never giving up. However, I must also point out that a major chunk of the book is dedicated to the titular question: “Why are we afraid?” The part about dealing with fears covers barely 1-2 pages.
My favourite line: “Sometimes, we’re afraid because the real monsters aren’t under the bed after all.”
The equivalence of fear with darkness is also brilliantly done. It uses the metaphorical dark vs. light to show how fears can diminish by shining the light of positivity on them. There is also a special note at the end titled “Shining the light on fear”, which talks about the types of fears and the lessons we can learn from our fears.
The illustrations match the above feel, keeping all the hues on the darker side as if to intensify the impact and the mystery of fears. A part of me feels that the artwork was too scary. Perhaps, this was deliberate. But considering that the book was written for children who might have fears, the art could have a counter-effect as well.
The book is aimed at readers aged 3-7 years, and the language and style will work wonderfully for the elder lot of this age range. The content might be a bit too metaphorical for the younger ages. That said, this book can serve as a great conversation starter for kids aged 6+ because every page offers tremendous discussion opportunities.
Definitely recommended. Because of the theme, this would be a nice addition to home libraries as well as classrooms. But do keep the scary illustrations in mind if your child is sensitive.
3.75 stars.
My thanks to Kids Can Press and NetGalley for the DRC of “Why Are We Afraid?”. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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This book was originally published in Spain under the title ‘Per què tenim por?’ in 2022. This is the English translation, coming in June 2023.
The premise is quite simple. During a power cut, Max is watching the flame of the candle lit by his dad when he suddenly asks his father if has ever been afraid. Max’s dad thinks about his son’s query for a moment, and then launches into his response, covering the fact that adults too feel fear, and a list of things that can scare people. The story ends with the lights coming back on, in various ways.
I liked the structure of this book. The setup involves a parent confessing that he also has been afraid sometimes, which is so important for kids to know. It justifies fear as an actual emotion, and shows that it is okay to be afraid, and that fears have nothing to do with age. In a way, having a father admitting his fears is even more impactful as kids tend to see their dads as brave superheroes who aren’t afraid of anything.
The book covers all kinds of fears, ranging from imaginary monsters to actual events to irrational feelings. The power of fear is never dismissed; instead, the book highlights the importance of embracing the fear and never giving up. However, I must also point out that a major chunk of the book is dedicated to the titular question: “Why are we afraid?” The part about dealing with fears covers barely 1-2 pages.
My favourite line: “Sometimes, we’re afraid because the real monsters aren’t under the bed after all.”
The equivalence of fear with darkness is also brilliantly done. It uses the metaphorical dark vs. light to show how fears can diminish by shining the light of positivity on them. There is also a special note at the end titled “Shining the light on fear”, which talks about the types of fears and the lessons we can learn from our fears.
The illustrations match the above feel, keeping all the hues on the darker side as if to intensify the impact and the mystery of fears. A part of me feels that the artwork was too scary. Perhaps, this was deliberate. But considering that the book was written for children who might have fears, the art could have a counter-effect as well.
The book is aimed at readers aged 3-7 years, and the language and style will work wonderfully for the elder lot of this age range. The content might be a bit too metaphorical for the younger ages. That said, this book can serve as a great conversation starter for kids aged 6+ because every page offers tremendous discussion opportunities.
Definitely recommended. Because of the theme, this would be a nice addition to home libraries as well as classrooms. But do keep the scary illustrations in mind if your child is sensitive.
3.75 stars.
My thanks to Kids Can Press and NetGalley for the DRC of “Why Are We Afraid?”. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.
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July 1, 2023
Read for my toddler's bedtime. This book discusses about things we are afraid of..
Thunder sounded out and the electricity went out. Max's dad put on a candle and after awhile, Max questioned his dad if he's ever been afraid. His dad then proceeded to telling his son of the different fears people have. Afraid of the unknown, afraid of the shadows, loud words, feeling lonely, the future, and a lot more! The illustrations were scary and good to accommodate each fears. Good read! At first my toddler was a bit afraid but then she questioned why the lady has snake coming out of her mouth to express being afraid of loud words. The second time reading was good and she no longer afraid of the illustrations.
Thank you Kids Can Press for the opportunity to read and review!
Thunder sounded out and the electricity went out. Max's dad put on a candle and after awhile, Max questioned his dad if he's ever been afraid. His dad then proceeded to telling his son of the different fears people have. Afraid of the unknown, afraid of the shadows, loud words, feeling lonely, the future, and a lot more! The illustrations were scary and good to accommodate each fears. Good read! At first my toddler was a bit afraid but then she questioned why the lady has snake coming out of her mouth to express being afraid of loud words. The second time reading was good and she no longer afraid of the illustrations.
Thank you Kids Can Press for the opportunity to read and review!
May 16, 2024
“Some people hide behind heavy armor to mask their fears. They’re afraid their armor will crack open and expose them. But they don’t usually tell you that."
One stormy night, the power goes out causing a young boy named Max to question his father about fear and if his father has ever been afraid.
This leads to the most beautifully worded and illustrated explanations of the many things that we humans fear. At the end of the book there is a wonderful indepth by child appropriate psychological definition and explanation of Fear that is great explanation for parents to read to their younger children or to utilize as a resource to field any questions a child may have about fear. In addition to the main story and the non illustrated 'on Fear', there is a few practical learning activities that can be done with one's child. The book is written for younger children but the activities can be done with children up to the age of around 7.
I don't normally review children's books but as a Horror fiction and horror theory fan,I was interested in seeing what a children's book calledWhy Are We Afraid? had to offer for both children and the adults who would be reading the book to/with them. As a 31 year old female, who is an avid reader does nor have kids of my own, I was out of my element and did not know what to expect. To say rhat Fran Pintaderaexceeded my expectations is entirely an understatement as I was touched on an emotional level in such a way that for the first time in my adult life a children's book made my cry old Hollywood starlet style(you know, that one tear at a time slowly sliding down one's cheek). I think even as an adult we forget why we are afraid, and how our own fears are roadblocks that we've for the most part created for ourselves. I would definitely recommend this book for your children or as a gift for anyone with children. The message it contains is timeless, important and educational. I like that it is a story with a purpose, not nonsensical. The images inside are vibrant, captivating and beautiful and most importantly relevant to the words on the pages. I loved this book so much, thank you Kid's Can Press for sending me this ARC Copy through Edelweiss. I highly recommend this book.
One stormy night, the power goes out causing a young boy named Max to question his father about fear and if his father has ever been afraid.
This leads to the most beautifully worded and illustrated explanations of the many things that we humans fear. At the end of the book there is a wonderful indepth by child appropriate psychological definition and explanation of Fear that is great explanation for parents to read to their younger children or to utilize as a resource to field any questions a child may have about fear. In addition to the main story and the non illustrated 'on Fear', there is a few practical learning activities that can be done with one's child. The book is written for younger children but the activities can be done with children up to the age of around 7.
I don't normally review children's books but as a Horror fiction and horror theory fan,I was interested in seeing what a children's book calledWhy Are We Afraid? had to offer for both children and the adults who would be reading the book to/with them. As a 31 year old female, who is an avid reader does nor have kids of my own, I was out of my element and did not know what to expect. To say rhat Fran Pintaderaexceeded my expectations is entirely an understatement as I was touched on an emotional level in such a way that for the first time in my adult life a children's book made my cry old Hollywood starlet style(you know, that one tear at a time slowly sliding down one's cheek). I think even as an adult we forget why we are afraid, and how our own fears are roadblocks that we've for the most part created for ourselves. I would definitely recommend this book for your children or as a gift for anyone with children. The message it contains is timeless, important and educational. I like that it is a story with a purpose, not nonsensical. The images inside are vibrant, captivating and beautiful and most importantly relevant to the words on the pages. I loved this book so much, thank you Kid's Can Press for sending me this ARC Copy through Edelweiss. I highly recommend this book.
June 24, 2024
This is a good enumeration of the things that one must be afraid of but shouldn't. Author tells how fear affect us and why we shouldn't be afraid at all. However, we all keep our some kind of fear and this is with all but we must overcome those fears.
Poetic as well as realistically moral.
Poetic as well as realistically moral.
June 23, 2024
Esta bien para hablar con los peques de qué es el miedo, las cosas que nos pueden causar esa emoción, y ver qué a veces tener miedo es útil pero a veces no lo es.
June 30, 2023
A beautiful way to talk about one of our most powerful emotions: fear. In this book, a father tells his son about fear: the things people fear, and how to keep moving forward. And in the end, the fear is embraced. Loved it!
January 17, 2023
Some of our fears feel so powerful that they stop us in our tracks. Like a guiding lighthouse, they can warn us of the danger ahead. Either way, we always keep going.
All children have dealt with fear. Fear of the dark, people, trying new things, etc. This book about a little boy named Max has some of these fears. With the help of his father, Max names his fear and his father guides Max thru it. Our fears also can determine who we are and what we become. It is good to discuss with your children fears and how keeping those fears inside may destroy who we can become.
A special thank you to Kids Can Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
All children have dealt with fear. Fear of the dark, people, trying new things, etc. This book about a little boy named Max has some of these fears. With the help of his father, Max names his fear and his father guides Max thru it. Our fears also can determine who we are and what we become. It is good to discuss with your children fears and how keeping those fears inside may destroy who we can become.
A special thank you to Kids Can Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
February 22, 2023
Par un soir d’orage, un petit garçon demande à son papa s’il a déjà ressenti de la peur. À la lueur de leur chandelle, ce dernier décide de lui parler de tout ce qui peut effrayer les gens.
J’ai bien aimé cette album jeunesse. 🖤
Il aborde un sujet bien présent dans la vie des enfants, la peur. Que ce soit la peur d’être seul, celle de la nouveauté ou la peur de perdre ceux que l’on aime, elles sont toutes bien réelles. Il faut simplement apprendre à les affronter.
C’est un livre qui amène de belles discussions.
Mention spéciale au guide de lecture à la fin. ✨
J’ai bien aimé cette album jeunesse. 🖤
Il aborde un sujet bien présent dans la vie des enfants, la peur. Que ce soit la peur d’être seul, celle de la nouveauté ou la peur de perdre ceux que l’on aime, elles sont toutes bien réelles. Il faut simplement apprendre à les affronter.
C’est un livre qui amène de belles discussions.
Mention spéciale au guide de lecture à la fin. ✨
March 11, 2023
Kiddo (8) and I really enjoyed this. He was able to connect some of his own fears to the story and the discussion questions found at the end.
The story was very sweet - a young boy asks his father if he's ever been afraid, and his father says yes, and then tells him about all the different types of fear.
The illustrations were my favorite part - they are gorgeous. The style is a little bit surreal, not bothering with proper proportions or accurate depictions, which gives the whole thing a dreamlike quality. They are painted - I think with goache - but kiddo remarked that they looked like a collage, which they do. The colors are the best part. They are rich and bold and darker than one usually gets in kids books, emphasizing the many different fears depicted.
I also really liked the discussion points at the end, which elaborates on why we feel fear and the different types of fear and their uses.
I think this book could be very helpful to kids with big fears so they can see that they aren't alone and see how their fears can be categorized into one of the types that many people have.
Thanks to NetGalley and Kids Can Press for providing an early copy for review.
The story was very sweet - a young boy asks his father if he's ever been afraid, and his father says yes, and then tells him about all the different types of fear.
The illustrations were my favorite part - they are gorgeous. The style is a little bit surreal, not bothering with proper proportions or accurate depictions, which gives the whole thing a dreamlike quality. They are painted - I think with goache - but kiddo remarked that they looked like a collage, which they do. The colors are the best part. They are rich and bold and darker than one usually gets in kids books, emphasizing the many different fears depicted.
I also really liked the discussion points at the end, which elaborates on why we feel fear and the different types of fear and their uses.
I think this book could be very helpful to kids with big fears so they can see that they aren't alone and see how their fears can be categorized into one of the types that many people have.
Thanks to NetGalley and Kids Can Press for providing an early copy for review.
April 21, 2024
During a power outage, Max sits at the kitchen table as close to the candle flame as he can get. “Dad, have you ever been afraid?” he asks. This story explores innate and learned fears, and how we can overcome them by bringing fear out into the open. Good back matter on the types and sources of this powerful and sometimes debilitating emotion.
February 26, 2023
Some people are afraid of th unknown.
We are afraid because we cant control the future.
Either way Max, we always keep going.
Menarik dan menyenangkan sekali membaca soal rasa takut yg juga basic emosi. Selain cerita papanya Max soal takut, di belakang buku juga ada penjelasan tentang apa itu takut, tipe takut dan pembelajaran lain soal rasa takut. 💙
We are afraid because we cant control the future.
Either way Max, we always keep going.
Menarik dan menyenangkan sekali membaca soal rasa takut yg juga basic emosi. Selain cerita papanya Max soal takut, di belakang buku juga ada penjelasan tentang apa itu takut, tipe takut dan pembelajaran lain soal rasa takut. 💙
February 22, 2023
Why Are we Afraid? addresses one of our most basic instincts of fear, and describes why we are afraid. Fran Pintadera and Ana Sender thoughtfully explain why we experience fear and how we need fear to keep us safe.
I would have liked if the story focused more about the positive aspects of why we feel fear and how it keeps us from falling down dark holes or being bitten by dangerous creatures. However, while these topics weren't developed within the story the author(s) did add a few sections in the back discussing the scientific behavior of fear. Additionally, the reader can enjoy practicing a few activities in the back of the book to discuss their own experiences with fear.
The illustrations are beautifully drawn - successfully portraying whimsy and depth simultaneously. Very well done!
I would have liked if the story focused more about the positive aspects of why we feel fear and how it keeps us from falling down dark holes or being bitten by dangerous creatures. However, while these topics weren't developed within the story the author(s) did add a few sections in the back discussing the scientific behavior of fear. Additionally, the reader can enjoy practicing a few activities in the back of the book to discuss their own experiences with fear.
The illustrations are beautifully drawn - successfully portraying whimsy and depth simultaneously. Very well done!
July 21, 2023
I loved this moody broody and straightforward book about fear.
Themes: Fear, Emotions
Age range: Preschool-Early Elementary
Themes: Fear, Emotions
Age range: Preschool-Early Elementary
March 19, 2023
The questions that arise in childhood are often just as poignant in our adult years. Sometimes, the answers are clear; sometimes they make sense to us & we can understand our feelings. In other cases, we find ourselves worried; set against ourselves & the way our minds seem to reel against common sense. Why are we afraid of the dark? Are there monsters under the bed? What purpose does fear serve? Is it okay to be afraid?
The illustrations in this book welcome the reader into the world from a different point of view. The colour palette of deep greens & blues paints the landscape into a dream sequence brought to life. Ana Sender has an unparalleled ability to open the words of the author up into art. Her talent brings these discussions to light in ways that remind us that, no matter our age, the lessons shared within this book are of value. It is okay to be a learner at every age & it is okay to be afraid.
What I appreciate so much about Pintadera’s work is his dedication to his medium. When I first read one of his books I was blown away by how easily he was able to host answers to complicated questions & I found myself appreciative of the opportunity to have read his book. This second time around is no different. Fear is just as important an emotion as any other & yet, we are sometimes meant to feel as though it is a burden; something we should not admit to experiencing.
This book encourages readers to understand why we are afraid. Sometimes, we might think that the goons of our nightmares wander the halls at night when in reality, it’s just the house easing from all the movements it fostered throughout the day. Other times, our fears keep us safe. In either case, we do not need to feel embarrassed or shy; our feelings are powerful conductors that should be appreciated.
Young readers will find an eternal gift in Pintadera’s work. There are answers for every reader in this book & it is certainly an adventure worth taking, on a dark & stormy night, just as the uncertain little main character did when he thought to ask about fear.
Thank you to NetGalley, Kids Can Press, & Fran Pintadera for the free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!
The illustrations in this book welcome the reader into the world from a different point of view. The colour palette of deep greens & blues paints the landscape into a dream sequence brought to life. Ana Sender has an unparalleled ability to open the words of the author up into art. Her talent brings these discussions to light in ways that remind us that, no matter our age, the lessons shared within this book are of value. It is okay to be a learner at every age & it is okay to be afraid.
What I appreciate so much about Pintadera’s work is his dedication to his medium. When I first read one of his books I was blown away by how easily he was able to host answers to complicated questions & I found myself appreciative of the opportunity to have read his book. This second time around is no different. Fear is just as important an emotion as any other & yet, we are sometimes meant to feel as though it is a burden; something we should not admit to experiencing.
This book encourages readers to understand why we are afraid. Sometimes, we might think that the goons of our nightmares wander the halls at night when in reality, it’s just the house easing from all the movements it fostered throughout the day. Other times, our fears keep us safe. In either case, we do not need to feel embarrassed or shy; our feelings are powerful conductors that should be appreciated.
Young readers will find an eternal gift in Pintadera’s work. There are answers for every reader in this book & it is certainly an adventure worth taking, on a dark & stormy night, just as the uncertain little main character did when he thought to ask about fear.
Thank you to NetGalley, Kids Can Press, & Fran Pintadera for the free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!
May 1, 2023
I received a free digital copy from the author.
"Why Are We Afraid?" by Fran Pintadera and Ana Sender is a beautiful and poignant exploration of fear, its many forms, and how it affects us. The book's story revolves around Max, who asks his father if he has ever been afraid after a thunderstorm knocks out their power. Max's father explains to him that everyone experiences fear, and he goes on to enumerate the many different things that can make us afraid.
The book's poetic text and stunning imagery make for an entrancing picture book about emotions. It helps young readers understand and process their fears and shows them that fear is a normal part of life. It also makes clear that identifying our fears is an essential step in accepting and moving past them.
The book is an excellent choice for lessons on social-emotional learning, and it can serve as a conversation starter for parents and teachers to discuss different types of fear and how to cope with them. The back matter of the book includes informative content about the different types of fear, the purpose and usefulness of fear, and an activity to further explore some of the story's key concepts.
Overall, "Why Are We Afraid?" is a touching and insightful book that can help children and adults alike better understand and cope with their fears. It's a must-read for anyone who wants to teach children about emotions and the importance of emotional intelligence.
I would love a physical copy of this book.
"Why Are We Afraid?" by Fran Pintadera and Ana Sender is a beautiful and poignant exploration of fear, its many forms, and how it affects us. The book's story revolves around Max, who asks his father if he has ever been afraid after a thunderstorm knocks out their power. Max's father explains to him that everyone experiences fear, and he goes on to enumerate the many different things that can make us afraid.
The book's poetic text and stunning imagery make for an entrancing picture book about emotions. It helps young readers understand and process their fears and shows them that fear is a normal part of life. It also makes clear that identifying our fears is an essential step in accepting and moving past them.
The book is an excellent choice for lessons on social-emotional learning, and it can serve as a conversation starter for parents and teachers to discuss different types of fear and how to cope with them. The back matter of the book includes informative content about the different types of fear, the purpose and usefulness of fear, and an activity to further explore some of the story's key concepts.
Overall, "Why Are We Afraid?" is a touching and insightful book that can help children and adults alike better understand and cope with their fears. It's a must-read for anyone who wants to teach children about emotions and the importance of emotional intelligence.
I would love a physical copy of this book.
June 14, 2023
A simple yet powerful book exploring some of the reasons why people feel afraid in life, yet must push past that fear to continue living their lives. As someone who suffers from an anxiety disorder, this book really speaks to me. I found myself nodding along through several pages, agreeing with the descriptions of many different fears that I often deal with. The art is beautiful, even if some of the imagery is a big unsettling or creepy. But I kinda like that, as it emphasizes how certain things that others might not be afraid of, like darkness or the future or public judgment, can be perceived as scary by people like myself. The only way to get non-anxiety sufferers to understand our fears is to characterize them as actually scary stuff, so they can feel a little bit of what we feel in these sort of contexts.
I definitely think this is a great book for parents to read with their kids to open discussions about fear and anxiety. But I also think it could be quite helpful to use in therapy sessions too, for those kids (like I did) who go to therapy for anxiety disorders. It just really explains the whole concept of fear/anxiety and preseverance really well.
I definitely think this is a great book for parents to read with their kids to open discussions about fear and anxiety. But I also think it could be quite helpful to use in therapy sessions too, for those kids (like I did) who go to therapy for anxiety disorders. It just really explains the whole concept of fear/anxiety and preseverance really well.
January 9, 2023
Why Are We Afraid?
2.5 Stars
Why Are We Afraid?
2.5 Stars
I loved the idea of addressing one's own fears while diving into this book. However, I couldn't get behind the execution and freaky art style. I found the artwork had no rhyme or reason to it, which is confusing. The creepy glowing eyes, awkward facial expression, and strange stuff, at times, were just scary. The use of bright colors I found abrasive, not soothing.
Throughout the book, illustrations depict evil eyes, snakes, animals, and strange costumes that could spark even more fear in a young child.
I appreciate how this book covers many common fears and suggestions for coping with our fears. But the number one reason why I wouldn't recommend this book, is because the artwork will probably give a toddler nightmares or new fears. Thank you, NetGalley and Kids Can Press, for an advance review copy for free and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
2.5 Stars
Why Are We Afraid?
2.5 Stars
I loved the idea of addressing one's own fears while diving into this book. However, I couldn't get behind the execution and freaky art style. I found the artwork had no rhyme or reason to it, which is confusing. The creepy glowing eyes, awkward facial expression, and strange stuff, at times, were just scary. The use of bright colors I found abrasive, not soothing.
Throughout the book, illustrations depict evil eyes, snakes, animals, and strange costumes that could spark even more fear in a young child.
I appreciate how this book covers many common fears and suggestions for coping with our fears. But the number one reason why I wouldn't recommend this book, is because the artwork will probably give a toddler nightmares or new fears. Thank you, NetGalley and Kids Can Press, for an advance review copy for free and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
September 12, 2025
This is a very deep and meaningful examination of fear, inviting the reader to face the various kinds of fear and to discriminate when fear may help us and when it may hurt us.
It is worthwhile to learn how to summon the bravery and articulate the words needed to address one's fears in order to ultimately live more fully and securely. In the right setting, this sensitive story and large lush illustrations should help a child to do just that.
However, to avoid stirring up more fears than it puts to rest, it would surely be best to only read this book with a trusted adult or role model for reassurance and discussion, rather than reading it alone or with an unsympathetic or abusive adult or a mischievous older sibling!
Also, if a child hasn't really encountered problematic fears of their own (yet), then it would probably be better to wait to read this book in order to let them enjoy their innocence as long as possible!
It is worthwhile to learn how to summon the bravery and articulate the words needed to address one's fears in order to ultimately live more fully and securely. In the right setting, this sensitive story and large lush illustrations should help a child to do just that.
However, to avoid stirring up more fears than it puts to rest, it would surely be best to only read this book with a trusted adult or role model for reassurance and discussion, rather than reading it alone or with an unsympathetic or abusive adult or a mischievous older sibling!
Also, if a child hasn't really encountered problematic fears of their own (yet), then it would probably be better to wait to read this book in order to let them enjoy their innocence as long as possible!
January 18, 2023
I am happy to see another book from this author, as I also enjoyed "Why Do We Cry?". This book tackles fear which can be a tricky topic with kids. Sometimes adults may not be sure if they should tell their children when they are afraid, but this book shows us the power of sharing our fears with people we love. They can help us feel safe and comforted. The art in this book is moody and cozy with lots of darker colors, which contrast with the candlelight that the main character's father puts on.
Kids and adults alike could benefit from this book. It has some wisdom that reminds me of the popular picture book "The boy, the fox, and the mole." I recommend this book to parents and teachers as a great conversation starter to discuss fear.
(Thank you to the publisher for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.)
Kids and adults alike could benefit from this book. It has some wisdom that reminds me of the popular picture book "The boy, the fox, and the mole." I recommend this book to parents and teachers as a great conversation starter to discuss fear.
(Thank you to the publisher for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.)
May 4, 2023
I really enjoyed the author's previous book, Why Do We Cry?, but this one misses the mark. The illustrations are scary in and of themselves, with strange creatures, glowing eyes, sharp teeth, and creepy distortions. Also, the father's answers about why we experience fear as so abstract and poetic that they don't actually answer the question, and won't help a child resolve their fears or their questions about the world. The author's note at the end is more helpful, but this book will scare fearful kids instead of helping them, and this is mainly just for kids who actually like creepy, scary things.
I received a temporary digital copy from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
I received a temporary digital copy from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
July 12, 2023
A young boy asks his father about fear. What follows is a sort of philosophical overview of what we’re afraid of, why, and how to live with it.
This was a good stepping-off point for my child and I to have a talk about fear. I’m sure other kids–particularly those who might feel embarrassed about being afraid of something–would also enjoy having a discussion about their own fears, and discovering their grown-ups’ fears.
Some of the images here may be genuinely scary, for a kid. Most notably, there’s a page where the fear is tragically real: a scene of bombs being dropped on a city. My kid didn’t clock this, but be prepared to have a more difficult conversation with your child, if they notice. (Difficult conversation books are important, I just wasn’t expecting warzones to be covered in this particular book.)
Advanced reader copy provided by the publisher.
This was a good stepping-off point for my child and I to have a talk about fear. I’m sure other kids–particularly those who might feel embarrassed about being afraid of something–would also enjoy having a discussion about their own fears, and discovering their grown-ups’ fears.
Some of the images here may be genuinely scary, for a kid. Most notably, there’s a page where the fear is tragically real: a scene of bombs being dropped on a city. My kid didn’t clock this, but be prepared to have a more difficult conversation with your child, if they notice. (Difficult conversation books are important, I just wasn’t expecting warzones to be covered in this particular book.)
Advanced reader copy provided by the publisher.
March 12, 2023
This book came to me at just the right time- my daughter has been struggling with anxiety and irrational fears and this was the perfect book for her. Through a conversation between a father and son, Pintadera outlines and explains a number of basic fears as well as the reasons behind them. The words are gentle and basic enough for children to understand. The illustrations in this book are amazing- imaginative, colourful and engaging. I also really appreciated the descriptions of fear at the back of the book that were directed toward parents and the activities parents could do with their children. I would highly recommend this book for any child struggling with worry or anxiety.
(I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.)
(I received an advance copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.)
May 2, 2023
Wow! I'm absolutely blown away by this picture book exploring fear for young children. The combination of rhythmic narrative woven together with evocative imagery is impactful and memorable. There is even more detail in the back of the book exploring fear. My 7 year old daughter an I had a rich and detailed conversation about fear, inspired by this book. We flipped back through the pages and discussed some of the metaphor more.
This is just a really fascinating dive into fear and one that I think young children will resonate with. Further, it will challenge them in all the right ways to explore their fears.
Beautifully done!
***Note: I was given a review copy of this book via the publisher. Opinions are my own.
This is just a really fascinating dive into fear and one that I think young children will resonate with. Further, it will challenge them in all the right ways to explore their fears.
Beautifully done!
***Note: I was given a review copy of this book via the publisher. Opinions are my own.
February 21, 2023
I’ve actually loved this book, from the images to the way the author expressed a complex emotion such as fear. “You could say we like playing with fear.
And why shouldn’t we? As one of our basic emotions, it’s part of who we are, so it’s normal that we want to explore it”.Being afraid it’s absolutely normal, as the book explain, and there’s no need to feel embarrassed or to see it in a negative light. “Some of our fears feel so powerful that they stop us in our tracks. Like a guiding lighthouse, they can warn us of the danger ahead.
Either way, Max, we always keep going”, that’s what it is,it’s the power that gives us the energy to keep going in life.Inspiring book,totally recommend <3
And why shouldn’t we? As one of our basic emotions, it’s part of who we are, so it’s normal that we want to explore it”.Being afraid it’s absolutely normal, as the book explain, and there’s no need to feel embarrassed or to see it in a negative light. “Some of our fears feel so powerful that they stop us in our tracks. Like a guiding lighthouse, they can warn us of the danger ahead.
Either way, Max, we always keep going”, that’s what it is,it’s the power that gives us the energy to keep going in life.Inspiring book,totally recommend <3
January 10, 2023
While I loved the the concept and approach to discussing fear for a younger audience, the artwork does have scary elements to it that I feel will actually scare younger children as they are having it read to them, The artwork overall is beautifully done, it is the scary faces that would make me hold off on showing it to a younger child as opposed to an older one not as easily scared. That being said, the words used to describe fear as well as giving reasons why people would feel those feelings of fear were well done and I appreciate the message the story conveys.
January 13, 2023
Oh em gee! I think this is my absolute favorite kids’ book I have seen lately!
The drawings are so, so, so unique! Absolutely gorgeous! I had to look up the artist’s name and her other works and I have to say I am absolutely, absolutely, and positively in love! I will be keeping an eye out for more of her work! Ana Sender’s drawings are exceptionally unique and her drawings set the mood for this book also.
The story is nice also! It feels like having a short conversation about fear but in a book.
The drawings are so, so, so unique! Absolutely gorgeous! I had to look up the artist’s name and her other works and I have to say I am absolutely, absolutely, and positively in love! I will be keeping an eye out for more of her work! Ana Sender’s drawings are exceptionally unique and her drawings set the mood for this book also.
The story is nice also! It feels like having a short conversation about fear but in a book.
May 1, 2023
Why Are We Afraid? is a children's book intended to help them overcome fears. The art style was unique and while it would usually be too "scary" for a children's book, it felt like it fit in with the theme of this one.
One thing that I didn't like were the open quotation marks on many pages. I know it's likely because the speaker was continuing, but since it spanned over multiple pages it felt disconnected and inconsistent.
Thank you to the author, the publisher, and NetGalley for an eARC in exchange for my honest review!
One thing that I didn't like were the open quotation marks on many pages. I know it's likely because the speaker was continuing, but since it spanned over multiple pages it felt disconnected and inconsistent.
Thank you to the author, the publisher, and NetGalley for an eARC in exchange for my honest review!
March 17, 2023
This picture book addresses a child’s fears. The main character asks his dad if he is ever afraid. Dad lists many possible fears. He talks about being afraid of monsters and and the unknown and shadows and being lonely. I believe the book goes a little too deep for elementary readers when it talks about the fear of freedom and falling short and fading away. Overall it is a good book for opening a discussion with children about their fears.
June 23, 2023
This book looks at common fears, people have, and why this makes them afraid. It starts with a power outage and a child learning that fears are important, but they can always be defeated. The illustrations in this book are simply beautiful and are a joy to look at when turning page to page. The story is well done and is a great example of why fear is OK. Overall, this book is lovely and there will be some who want to read it over and over again.
January 2, 2023
In a power outage, a young kid asks his dad about fear, and gets quite the unexciting monologue in response. Visually this is much more interesting, with all the double-paged spreads showing characters with large black eggs as their fears, but I just didn't think the script up to the purpose of answering the titular question, for the character or for any potential reader.
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