This is a gem of a book. It's so touching yet funny and wise; I loved learning how one rather enigmatic yet charismatic person, and his death (not a spoiler), became an opportunity for reflection and connection for three fascinating women: a drifting millennial (the girlfriend and recent ex), a middle-aged mom (they met as children and had a memorable fling) and a single, older, former dancer (his cool aunt). I could relate to all of them and their desire to live an interesting and purposeful life. I really liked all three characters, maybe especially the urban, artsy, thoughtful aunt, because she's not the type of character I often meet in the novels I read, and she had an interesting perspective. This wonderful book has had lasting impact on me -- I can't recommend it highly enough!