I would have liked Aaron better if he took more accountability and ownership of his actions. Aaron had an excuse locked and loaded for everything and he always found someone else to blame. I know Bakari and Kam played a huge part in how he felt but he only focused on them and not what he contributed. Yes he was wronged but he was no saint. He complained too much and annoyed me more than anything.
Mrs. C and Kam got on my nerves when they were pressuring Aaron to forgive Bakari. It was between Aaron and Bakari only. I hate when people try to pull the family card. It’s rooted in manipulation to me. Although they came from a good place they also came from a bias place, especially Kam. Instead of trying to hear Aaron out and be neutral, they chose to project their feelings onto him and try to rush him. Aaron has been through just as much as Bakari but they made it seem like Bakari was this weak and helpless baby who did no wrong. They saw the trauma Aaron went through but somehow he’s the bad guy for not wanting to forgive Bakari or have empathy for him. That’s why I don’t believe in portraying myself as the “strong” one in the family.
For the length of this book, I feel enough wasn’t done when it came to Aaron and Bakari making up. It was too easy. It took just two weekends for all their problems to be resolved. Technically one because the first weekend they were at odds. For 300+ pages, Aaron went on an on about how he can’t see himself forgiving Bakari, about the affair, but of couse something bad happened (like it always does) to sway/hurry his decision. Now all of sudden he can forgive Bakari, and he doesn’t care about Kam and Bakari. As if he didn’t spend the entire book complaining about them😒.
I straddle the fence when it comes to Aaron and Bakari’s reconciliation. All Aaron and Bakari did was hurt and demean each other. This is fiction so it’s easy to root for their relationship. But realistically, their reconciliation is so absurd. How do you recover from a betrayal like that? If I have to go to therapy because of you, it’s a wrap. The fact that Bakari had to fake die, Aaron had to be blackmailed(which made no sense), and their mother had to have a heart attack just for them to make amends tells me how contrived their reconnection was because why did it take all of that? It would not have been a crime if Aaron chose not to forgive Bakari or didn’t want him in his life anymore. It wouldn’t have deterred Aaron from having a happy ending to me. But for fictional purposes, I guess they deserved a second chance.
In conclusion, this series was a rollercoaster and this family was/is toxic. Aaron and Bakari have a long road ahead of them. All the lies, deceit, and betrayal is not going to be cleaned up in a day, not even months. There’s a lot of trust and communication that needs to be built and wrong perceptions of each other to be unlearned. I hope this isn’t the end because I didn’t think this book had a good conclusion for the entire series. Aaron and Tisha riding off into the sunset while Bakari stand on a porch? Very anticlimactic for a 5 book series. I would like to see where everyone is at 3 or 5 years later.
P.S. I give it a year before Aaron and Bakari are not talking again.