I like how the story didn't just skip over Alan's therapy, once he had finally decided to go through with it. We got to see him discuss some of his issues with his wife's death, with his therapist.
I also liked the friendships between Kathy and Alan, and Kathy and Charles. I like she got to know each man, and didn't just meet them and then jump into bed with each man as she was getting to know them.
I'm finding more and more often lately, that in the books I read, it's rare to find any actual friendships between the opposite genders. Most books I read, end up throwing some romance in right away, having a big problem that lasts a few pages, and then ends with the man and woman sleeping together.
This book wasn't about that. It was about different forms of loss, grief, friendship, romance, family, and much more. I also like that the two main characters weren't immediately thrown together.
I'll be honest and admit that when I found out Alan's wife, Meg had died, I figured we'd get a mention or two of her, and then that plot would be dropped and forgotten about, because the author was focused more on getting Alan and Kathy together.
That's not what happened. The author showed us some of Alan's grieving process, and how he felt guilt and sadness, and like he couldn't move on after the death of his wife.
And with Kathy, we were showed how she was having trouble moving on from her past relationship as well. I loved their friendship with Grace, and her family.
I love that the story wasn't simple and quick. It was long, complicated, and messy at times, which is good. Because I find that dealing with grief, or trying to deal with grief, and trying to work through it to move on, isn't as easy as others would like us to think.
This book made me think, and it made me cry. In a good way. The author was good at showing Alan's grief and his struggles, and it actually made me cry, as I felt bad for him.
I also felt bad for Kathy, because it seemed like Alan was going to stay drowning in his grief, and not give things between the two of them a real shot. And I feel like that would've been a waste.
I really wanted Alan and Kathy to get together. And though the book ended without really clarifying if they get together or not, the ending made me think that it's going to happen.
A book that can make you laugh and cry, and laugh again within a short period of time, is a good book. And this book did that for me.