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A Domme for Christmas
The made-for-TV Christmas movie you wish they’d make!
Just when things are going great on the set of Memphis Clark’s latest Christmas movie for Milestone Movie Network, he runs into big problems. His latest production is over budget and overdue, and the big bosses aren’t happy. So, they bring in a new producer, who claims she can fix everything with a new actress and location.
When Memphis is ordered to travel to his hometown, Evergreen Ridge, and assess a local actress, he’s skeptical... but his new boss is very persuasive.
To make matters worse, Memphis’ assistant director and best friend, Thane, recognizes the producer’s dominance and takes her side. Maybe it’s because Thane is a pain slut who likes to frequent BDSM dungeon parties and share the sexy details with Memphis... who begins to wish his own girlfriend was into more than just missionary sex.
With the assistance of Mrs. Claus ~ the ultimate Dominant Female ~ Memphis confronts his past in order to earn his kinkily ever after.
Merry Kinkmas!
The tropes that are the hallmark of Christmas movies [Cute Kids (not connected to kink), Gingerbread Cookies, Sparks, Magic] and a healthy dose of kink [BDSM, Femdom, Spanking, Dungeons, Some Male-on-Male Scenes, Whip, Crop]; and of course, a Happily Ever After
ADVISORY This book is *adult fiction* and contains scenes that do *NOT* fade to black.
Severe Content B.J. Frazier books contain *plots* and *well-developed characters*
Just when things are going great on the set of Memphis Clark’s latest Christmas movie for Milestone Movie Network, he runs into big problems. His latest production is over budget and overdue, and the big bosses aren’t happy. So, they bring in a new producer, who claims she can fix everything with a new actress and location.
When Memphis is ordered to travel to his hometown, Evergreen Ridge, and assess a local actress, he’s skeptical... but his new boss is very persuasive.
To make matters worse, Memphis’ assistant director and best friend, Thane, recognizes the producer’s dominance and takes her side. Maybe it’s because Thane is a pain slut who likes to frequent BDSM dungeon parties and share the sexy details with Memphis... who begins to wish his own girlfriend was into more than just missionary sex.
With the assistance of Mrs. Claus ~ the ultimate Dominant Female ~ Memphis confronts his past in order to earn his kinkily ever after.
Merry Kinkmas!
The tropes that are the hallmark of Christmas movies [Cute Kids (not connected to kink), Gingerbread Cookies, Sparks, Magic] and a healthy dose of kink [BDSM, Femdom, Spanking, Dungeons, Some Male-on-Male Scenes, Whip, Crop]; and of course, a Happily Ever After
ADVISORY This book is *adult fiction* and contains scenes that do *NOT* fade to black.
Severe Content B.J. Frazier books contain *plots* and *well-developed characters*
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319 pages, Kindle Edition
Published November 2, 2022
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About the author
B.J. Frazier
93 books111 followersB.J. Frazier is an award-winning author of erotica from the U.S. Her professional résumé includes high school English teacher, advertising executive, business owner, certified Master Sexpert, Relationship Coach, Love Coach, and Sexologist. B.J. draws upon her diverse background to create believable and relatable characters and stories.
B.J. also writes from personal experience in Femdom, which adds realism to her stories.
A self-proclaimed feedback whore, B.J. loves to receive feedback from her readers. The comments she never tires of hearing are, "you're so readable" and "your characters are relatable." The stand-out comment is from a very vanilla reader, who said, "I don't mean to be insulting, but I think 'Mistress Managed' can be mainstream!"
When she's not writing or reading, B.J. loves playing games of all kinds (except mind games--though she's good at those, too); board, card, dice, and especially word games. She also loves jigsaw puzzles, but is very particular: The pieces must be thick and interlocking.
Her happy place is Vegas, but she is also happiest spending time with her puppies, daughters, friends… and anything involving chocolate.
B.J. also writes from personal experience in Femdom, which adds realism to her stories.
A self-proclaimed feedback whore, B.J. loves to receive feedback from her readers. The comments she never tires of hearing are, "you're so readable" and "your characters are relatable." The stand-out comment is from a very vanilla reader, who said, "I don't mean to be insulting, but I think 'Mistress Managed' can be mainstream!"
When she's not writing or reading, B.J. loves playing games of all kinds (except mind games--though she's good at those, too); board, card, dice, and especially word games. She also loves jigsaw puzzles, but is very particular: The pieces must be thick and interlocking.
Her happy place is Vegas, but she is also happiest spending time with her puppies, daughters, friends… and anything involving chocolate.
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November 30, 2022
I’ve read a couple other books by B. J. Frazier and enjoyed them so I thought I’d give this one a try even though it’s in the vein of those almost disturbing “Christmas movies” made for and shown on a certain channel. This was a book version of those movies so it was a little different than what I’ve become accustomed to from B. J. That said I thoroughly enjoyed reading it and the story was pretty darn good. I started not looking the main character Memphis because of some of his initial thoughts about particular people, but he did grow through them. Thane was my favorite male character in the book and I appreciated his and Memphis’ friendship and how Memphis seemed to live vicariously though Thane’s experiences. If you are into kink and submissive men in particular I think it’s fair to say you’ll enjoy this book. The sex scenes, like always are well written. My only complaint about them could possibly is that I’d not mind if some of them were a little longer, but that’s just me. 😊. If you don’t mind Christmas move tropes definitely give this book a read, you won’t regret it.
November 21, 2022
I love A Domme for Christmas, I will say, I was never a big fan of the Christmas movies, but BJ Frazier managed to capture the vibe and tone of those old school Christmas movies and couple it with all this hot bdsm erotica.
This book felt magical, and it even comes with lessons. I felt as though I had an epiphany while reading this book, when one of the characters explains his mindset on the bdsm lifestyle.
And all the fetishes included in this one are pretty great and for sure female led. This book is perfect to read by the fireplace, with a nice cup of hot chocolate, under the mistletoe, and maybe have a few toys handy when things get too hot.
This book felt magical, and it even comes with lessons. I felt as though I had an epiphany while reading this book, when one of the characters explains his mindset on the bdsm lifestyle.
And all the fetishes included in this one are pretty great and for sure female led. This book is perfect to read by the fireplace, with a nice cup of hot chocolate, under the mistletoe, and maybe have a few toys handy when things get too hot.
December 19, 2022
A Domme for Christmas is one of those stories that works on multiple levels. A Christmas story about the making of a Christmas movie, it’s both an homage to and parody of the whole Hallmark Christmas movie genre (and, to some extent, Hollywood in general). There’s romance, humor, and a bit of magic to it, with characters who are living the genre even as they film it, but the real magic comes in how B.J. Frazier brings it all together.
Memphis Clark is the main character of the story, a successful director who feels constrained by the saccharine Christmas movie genre, and a successful lover who feels unfulfilled by girlfriends who are too nice. He’s a submissive at heart – we can see it, especially in how he reacts to the BDSM tales of Thane, his assistant director – but he’s never accepted or explored it. Even as the arrival of a femdom-dream-come-true Producer tests his inner resolve, he still insists on chasing the same nice girls.
There are so many wonderful relationships in the story, with platonic, romantic, and erotic overlapping in increasingly surprising ways, that each chapter is like opening a new present. It’s Thane who provides most of the erotic fuel, regaling Memphis (and the reader) with tales of his BDSM sessions, including those with Holly, the new producer, and I just loved him to death. He’s the perfect submissive, blissfully happy in his service, and open to anything his Domme requires, even when that expression of submissive sexuality lies outside his romantic attractions.
Speaking of Holly, she’s just one of the amazing women in this tale. There’s also Sara, the pretty girl who never had time for Memphis in high school, and Tessa, the wild girl he retreated from after she dared him to prank a teacher. There’s a lot of baggage there – memories, emotions, expectations, hopes, and desires – and it all contributes to Memphis finding his way in life and love.
Again, I don’t want to spoil any of the magic, but Frazier does a lovely job of exploring traditional dungeon scenes of BDSM, more domestic aspects of female-led relationships, and even some fantasy scenes of extreme submission. It’s the Christmas theme that connects everything, and when the wink-and-nod Hallmark movie humor fully indulges in the magic, it’s absolutely beautiful.
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Memphis Clark is the main character of the story, a successful director who feels constrained by the saccharine Christmas movie genre, and a successful lover who feels unfulfilled by girlfriends who are too nice. He’s a submissive at heart – we can see it, especially in how he reacts to the BDSM tales of Thane, his assistant director – but he’s never accepted or explored it. Even as the arrival of a femdom-dream-come-true Producer tests his inner resolve, he still insists on chasing the same nice girls.
There are so many wonderful relationships in the story, with platonic, romantic, and erotic overlapping in increasingly surprising ways, that each chapter is like opening a new present. It’s Thane who provides most of the erotic fuel, regaling Memphis (and the reader) with tales of his BDSM sessions, including those with Holly, the new producer, and I just loved him to death. He’s the perfect submissive, blissfully happy in his service, and open to anything his Domme requires, even when that expression of submissive sexuality lies outside his romantic attractions.
Speaking of Holly, she’s just one of the amazing women in this tale. There’s also Sara, the pretty girl who never had time for Memphis in high school, and Tessa, the wild girl he retreated from after she dared him to prank a teacher. There’s a lot of baggage there – memories, emotions, expectations, hopes, and desires – and it all contributes to Memphis finding his way in life and love.
Again, I don’t want to spoil any of the magic, but Frazier does a lovely job of exploring traditional dungeon scenes of BDSM, more domestic aspects of female-led relationships, and even some fantasy scenes of extreme submission. It’s the Christmas theme that connects everything, and when the wink-and-nod Hallmark movie humor fully indulges in the magic, it’s absolutely beautiful.
https://www.sallybend.com/2022/12/boo...
November 15, 2022
What can I write about a magic xmas tale ? Miss B.J. didn't promise too much when She said: "The made-for-TV Christmas movie you wish they’d make!" But does it always have to be a movie that binds us ? I definitely can say: No. With Her picturing words, Miss B.J. captivated me right from the beginning. The way how She adapts and/or repurposes the well known tropes of the TV x-mas movies is amazing. She made me dream and gave me these typical cosy warm hugs - especially when She didn't fade to black. She also included some unexpected twists what made me smile. I loved this book and I'm very thankful that I was allowed to read it. And not to forget: Miss B.J. answers THE one and most important question: You wanna know what question ? Go and find out yourself. Magic must be experienced by yourself, otherwise it's no longer magical.
December 29, 2022
What can I say about this BJ Frazier offering that hasn't already been said?
This work is a masterpiece of well paced plotting, excellent character development, dialog that crackles like a Yule fire, sizzling eroticism, plenty of femdom action, magical cookies, and best of all, it pokes a little (gentle) fun at Christmas movie tropes. Oh, and there's romance and a happily-ever-after to put a real star on top of the tree.
This book is FUN to read. "A Domme for Christmas" is one of my very favorite books by BJ Frazier.
This work is a masterpiece of well paced plotting, excellent character development, dialog that crackles like a Yule fire, sizzling eroticism, plenty of femdom action, magical cookies, and best of all, it pokes a little (gentle) fun at Christmas movie tropes. Oh, and there's romance and a happily-ever-after to put a real star on top of the tree.
This book is FUN to read. "A Domme for Christmas" is one of my very favorite books by BJ Frazier.
December 30, 2022
B.J. Frazier makes the matter of consent, as some younger readers might say, hot AF and it shows.
This is a story within a story where the major characters find their happily ever after through being faithful to their true selves. They find where they fit in, be it through a vanilla relationship or a kinky female led one with power exchange. It pokes fun at the sappy Hallmarkesque holiday movies that are too sweet to handle at times and makes it into a journey where change happens on several levels between characters and within themselves.
It's high kink spicy, though it's not heavy erotica, and represents the importance of consent, discussion before playing out kink scenes and actions, and caring for one's partner after the play. For me the hottest parts revolve around the depth of communication and desire for consent and respect for personal limits. Sure, the scenes of physical intimacy have heat, though it's the depth of emotions and reflections about what a character feels about specific dynamics and the focus of giving permission that burn hottest.
Most stories I read, even vanilla romance ones, lack discussion between the characters about consent to do things to the other. Plot features such as the "surprise kiss" and alpha males deciding unilaterally what the female protagonist will or won't do with them turn me off. When you read this story things like that aren't a worry. The characters ask for consent, state enthusiastically they wish to do something without a direct question, and check in with each other when there's doubts about whether their partner is into something in that moment. Those are things I rarely see in other romances regardless of their spice level or interpersonal relationship type (MF, MM, FFM, MMF, MFM, FF, poly, etc).
I fixate on the consent so much because stories such as this one put it front and center. We need more stories with this aspect. From my point of view, the hottest parts of the intimate scenes between Memphis and Tessa aren't the physically spicy, steamy, kinky bits, its where they discuss their feelings, wants, needs, and the open discussion about permission. Even when consent is given, the partners still check in as the scenes flow to make certain the consent remains.
The only way the story could be even hotter would be increasing the narration of giving permission and the check in as a continuous flow of pillow talk/dirty talk. Sharing emotional intimacy, putting it front and center, describing how the scene and acts make each other feel would make things more intense.
The only quibbles I have relate to my personal quirks like matters of em dash/en dash usage or lack there of or perhaps some word choices within the dialog. There are some matters of author writing style that I might do differently, too. HOWEVER, as I write creative fiction myself, these items don't materially affect the delightful nature of the story and the richly done relatable characters, they are personal preferences only. I look forward to more stories like this one.
This is a story within a story where the major characters find their happily ever after through being faithful to their true selves. They find where they fit in, be it through a vanilla relationship or a kinky female led one with power exchange. It pokes fun at the sappy Hallmarkesque holiday movies that are too sweet to handle at times and makes it into a journey where change happens on several levels between characters and within themselves.
It's high kink spicy, though it's not heavy erotica, and represents the importance of consent, discussion before playing out kink scenes and actions, and caring for one's partner after the play. For me the hottest parts revolve around the depth of communication and desire for consent and respect for personal limits. Sure, the scenes of physical intimacy have heat, though it's the depth of emotions and reflections about what a character feels about specific dynamics and the focus of giving permission that burn hottest.
Most stories I read, even vanilla romance ones, lack discussion between the characters about consent to do things to the other. Plot features such as the "surprise kiss" and alpha males deciding unilaterally what the female protagonist will or won't do with them turn me off. When you read this story things like that aren't a worry. The characters ask for consent, state enthusiastically they wish to do something without a direct question, and check in with each other when there's doubts about whether their partner is into something in that moment. Those are things I rarely see in other romances regardless of their spice level or interpersonal relationship type (MF, MM, FFM, MMF, MFM, FF, poly, etc).
I fixate on the consent so much because stories such as this one put it front and center. We need more stories with this aspect. From my point of view, the hottest parts of the intimate scenes between Memphis and Tessa aren't the physically spicy, steamy, kinky bits, its where they discuss their feelings, wants, needs, and the open discussion about permission. Even when consent is given, the partners still check in as the scenes flow to make certain the consent remains.
The only way the story could be even hotter would be increasing the narration of giving permission and the check in as a continuous flow of pillow talk/dirty talk. Sharing emotional intimacy, putting it front and center, describing how the scene and acts make each other feel would make things more intense.
The only quibbles I have relate to my personal quirks like matters of em dash/en dash usage or lack there of or perhaps some word choices within the dialog. There are some matters of author writing style that I might do differently, too. HOWEVER, as I write creative fiction myself, these items don't materially affect the delightful nature of the story and the richly done relatable characters, they are personal preferences only. I look forward to more stories like this one.
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December 29, 2022Another story by BJ Frazier that I really enjoyed ! I don’t really get into the tv hallmark Christmas movies, so I did enjoy her work on this story. Very well done . I was very glad I read this work. I’ve enjoyed other stories by MS. Frazier and I have never been let down. I would recommend this book to my friends and other people who are into our lifestyle. I’m looking forward to your next book.thank you
January 21, 2024
As I was raised marginally Jewish I am not intimately familiar with all of the conventions and tropes of Hallmark and more general Christmas movies though I have seen a couple. With that in mind I wasn't sure how much I would like B.J.s first Christmas story (another one is planned for 2024) however I needn't have worried as I quite enjoyed it.
I quite liked the story on it's own and still definitely recognized some holiday movie tropes and liked the way B.j. has, um, perverted them to include some kink elements. As usual with her the story features good characters, scenes, and dialog which really make the kink scenes better, for those who like those kinds of things, along with some fun female domination, tease and denial, impact play, and both discovery and self-discovery by someone new to experiencing kink, all within a a modern day holiday period setting.
It's also clear that B.J. likes the genre so this is more of an affectionate twist and send-up rather than some cynical skewering. Recommended for those who'd like a bit more spice than just nutmeg in their holiday fare.
I quite liked the story on it's own and still definitely recognized some holiday movie tropes and liked the way B.j. has, um, perverted them to include some kink elements. As usual with her the story features good characters, scenes, and dialog which really make the kink scenes better, for those who like those kinds of things, along with some fun female domination, tease and denial, impact play, and both discovery and self-discovery by someone new to experiencing kink, all within a a modern day holiday period setting.
It's also clear that B.J. likes the genre so this is more of an affectionate twist and send-up rather than some cynical skewering. Recommended for those who'd like a bit more spice than just nutmeg in their holiday fare.
February 10, 2024
This book is what you get when you mix a rom-com, kinks, and an ode to Hallmark holiday movies -- the perfect gift for those of us who enjoy both the petals and the thorns of the rose. If you like the BDSM and power exchange themes, it's a softer side of things but still has the yummy for those who love the familiar flavors of it.
February 11, 2023
I always love how B.J. Frazier takes the time to develop the characters in the story and does not disappoint with this book. Combining Christmas, Hallmark and kink in one book is a great idea. I really enjoyed reading, since we always watch all the new Hallmark Christmas movies each year. Great way to spice up the holidays!!
December 23, 2022
Seems like I'm the odd one out here, and in the Christmas spirit of being kind, I'm going to refrain from listing all the reasons why this book was such a letdown - for me. Your mileage might vary, so don't be put off by my rating.
One thing I will say is don't pick this up expecting some delicious female domination. What there is, is a long time coming (no pun intended) and brief. Very brief. Like one 'telling' paragraph.
Contains: fat slurs and rides the slippery slope of gay shaming.
"I don't want to find that guy and have sex with him. That thought makes me want to vomit."
^^ Oh, right, because being gay is so vile? Idiot. He should've shut up after the first sentence.
One thing I will say is don't pick this up expecting some delicious female domination. What there is, is a long time coming (no pun intended) and brief. Very brief. Like one 'telling' paragraph.
Contains: fat slurs and rides the slippery slope of gay shaming.
"I don't want to find that guy and have sex with him. That thought makes me want to vomit."
^^ Oh, right, because being gay is so vile? Idiot. He should've shut up after the first sentence.
January 26, 2024
This book is a puts a clever spin on the cheesy Hallmark movie franchise, injecting BDSM and female domination into the genre as satire, for its own comedic effect, and somehow manages to tell a delightful love story at the same time.. The result is surprising and the story works on several levels at once. I can honestly say there were parts of this book I found hilarious, romantic, hot, cringey and beautiful. The story manages to be all these things and a tongue in cheek at the same time. It was a pleasure to read.
December 1, 2023
This is a perfect Christmas Story for you and all your kinky friends. It even includes "It's a Wonderful Life". B.J. deftly layers Christmas Story within Christmas Story within Christmas Story in this must read for the holiday season. It'd make a great gift fir someone special as well. Be sure they enjoy Christmas though first!
August 23, 2023
Overall, I really enjoyed A Domme for Christmas. It’s a fun play on the tired holiday tropes. Well written with interesting characters. I need a Holly in my life and some gingerbread cookies. Love B.J. Frazier’s work.
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