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Remember Me Now: A Journey Back to Myself and a Love Letter to Black Women
An unforgettable invitation to treat our lives as the sacred things they are—and a call to embrace the love, dreams, and healing that only we can choose for ourselves.
“A must-read for all Black women . . . Remember Me Now is more than words on paper. It’s a journey back to ourselves.”—Toni Collier, speaker, podcast host, and author of Brave Enough to Be Broken
When Breonna Taylor was killed, her police report was virtually blank. Feeling as if she was suffocating in the initial silence and lack of public outcry, anti-racism educator and activist Faitth Brooks wondered, “Would the world care about and remember me if I was killed?”
In Remember Me Now, Faitth grapples with the answer, charting the story of her activist grandparents and ancestors, as well as chronicling her own journey as the first-generation suburbs kid who becomes an activist and organizer herself. Part manifesto, part love letter to Black women, Remember Me Now shows us how we learn to celebrate the fullness of ourselves—a holy, defiant, and necessary move in a world determined to silence us.
Filled with transporting stories, poems, and letters to sisters of all walks of life, Remember Me Now is a transformational read that calls Black women to be their own activists. It's a reminder to all that Black women matter, and our lives, voices, and stories are worth everything.
“A must-read for all Black women . . . Remember Me Now is more than words on paper. It’s a journey back to ourselves.”—Toni Collier, speaker, podcast host, and author of Brave Enough to Be Broken
When Breonna Taylor was killed, her police report was virtually blank. Feeling as if she was suffocating in the initial silence and lack of public outcry, anti-racism educator and activist Faitth Brooks wondered, “Would the world care about and remember me if I was killed?”
In Remember Me Now, Faitth grapples with the answer, charting the story of her activist grandparents and ancestors, as well as chronicling her own journey as the first-generation suburbs kid who becomes an activist and organizer herself. Part manifesto, part love letter to Black women, Remember Me Now shows us how we learn to celebrate the fullness of ourselves—a holy, defiant, and necessary move in a world determined to silence us.
Filled with transporting stories, poems, and letters to sisters of all walks of life, Remember Me Now is a transformational read that calls Black women to be their own activists. It's a reminder to all that Black women matter, and our lives, voices, and stories are worth everything.
225 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 17, 2023
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January 28, 2024
Book Club Pick for January ( BWRT )
Will be meeting the author later today.
A lot of gems per usual like every other self help book.
Will be meeting the author later today.
A lot of gems per usual like every other self help book.
February 22, 2023
Highly recommend this touching memoir and self help book. I got alot from it.
January 22, 2023
Full disclosure: I know Faitth from when she was working with Legacy Collective. So when she posted that she’d written a book, I pre-ordered it immediately. So what’s a White woman doing reading a book written specifically for Black women? Well, like I said, I know Faitth, and I wanted to read what she wrote. I have learned over the years to sit and hold thoughts that make me uncomfortable and explore why that’s the case. Some of this book did that to me, and I listened and learned from this fabulous Black woman about Black experiences that I didn’t understand. At the same time, there is much that resonates with me as a woman, because many of the truths that she writes about are universal truths for women. This book is well-written, flows beautifully, and shares truths from deep within the writer’s soul. A great memoir and writing debut. Well done, Faitth Brooks!
January 3, 2024
Read this with my bookclub (@bwrt.bookclub) . This is based on the authors life. We follow her through girlhood - into woman hood. I enjoyed the book because I related to a lot of it. However, she wrote it with Women in mind — so I think no matter your race , there are parts of the book that we can all relate too.
She is very open & honest in the book. In my opinion way more open than a lot of the self help & memoir books out there. Which is good ! Okay so , she is raised religiously, & doesn’t really question those principals. But she struggles being a black suburbian girl growing up the black friend that gets told she talks too white, & also dating in a swipe left world. & how hard that is when really she just wants to be married. I love the letters in the book , that remind women, specifically Black women, the importance of loving ourself. & actually getting to know who we are outside of who we are to the world.
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She is very open & honest in the book. In my opinion way more open than a lot of the self help & memoir books out there. Which is good ! Okay so , she is raised religiously, & doesn’t really question those principals. But she struggles being a black suburbian girl growing up the black friend that gets told she talks too white, & also dating in a swipe left world. & how hard that is when really she just wants to be married. I love the letters in the book , that remind women, specifically Black women, the importance of loving ourself. & actually getting to know who we are outside of who we are to the world.
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Black Women Read Too on all platforms. 📔🤎
January 23, 2023
If you’re looking for a book to read that highlights the experiences of black women this is it.
One of the underlying storylines that really stood out to me was Faitth’s experience in largely conservative and homeschooled circles. She writes about this idea of alienation and being the only black female in a group of people.
As someone that grew up similarly but white, it’s interesting to see these intersections of how we can experience different life moments within these communities.
Faitth writes with intention, integrity, and compassion for the black women in her life and for those that want to truly understand and take up the challenge of bringing these all-important issues to light.
One of the underlying storylines that really stood out to me was Faitth’s experience in largely conservative and homeschooled circles. She writes about this idea of alienation and being the only black female in a group of people.
As someone that grew up similarly but white, it’s interesting to see these intersections of how we can experience different life moments within these communities.
Faitth writes with intention, integrity, and compassion for the black women in her life and for those that want to truly understand and take up the challenge of bringing these all-important issues to light.
September 29, 2023
First of all, I must admit I am a white woman in her 80’s in a fairly large church with some black members in a very white city, so I was never meant to be the audience of this beautifully written book, but in reading it I feel I have grown closer to being a sister with Faitth.
The honesty of this book runs through her memoir written to strengthen and shine a light to her Black sisters. I feel very unqualified to speak as I watch her gain in her strength and passion to be the guiding light to her sisterhood.
Each step of her way was written in truth from the homeschooling with her very wise mother to her relationship with her hard working father, who was trying in the only way he knew how to move his family up the ladder by buying a first generation suburb home. Faitth moved from one part of the south to the north and left behind their close-knit family, and as she gained in employment in churches, education, ministry and finally into her current role as I saw through the 9 chapters which ended with a beautiful letter written to her Sisters in love at each step of her journey. Her attempts to fit in and be loved and then to fall down when an assault almost destroyed her determination. She is truly a wise and beautiful voice of advocacy to her sisterhood of Black women. She has empowered many as a non-profit activist and strategist and consultant. She showed that wise counselling can help you mend and move forward also.
I loved the wise poetic words that started each chapter, I have the greatest of admiration for Faitth and hope she achieves the goal she hopes for to strengthen the plight of Black Women in America in this so terrible racist time in our America history. I pray that you will support all women as they strive to gain their footing in the world.
February 4, 2024
"Remember Me Now" by Faiith Brooks is an exceptional self-care book that deserves all the praise it receives. From start to finish, this book offers valuable insights and practical advice on how to prioritize self-care and cultivate a fulfilling life.
One of the things that sets this book apart is its unique approach. Faiith Brooks skillfully combines personal anecdotes, expert research, and practical exercises to guide readers on a transformative journey towards self-discovery and self-care. The author's writing style is engaging, relatable, and filled with authenticity, making it easy for readers to connect with the content on a deep level.
The book covers various aspects of self-care, including physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Faiith Brooks emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, nurturing healthy relationships, practicing self-compassion, and finding joy in everyday moments. Each chapter is thoughtfully structured, providing valuable insights and actionable steps that readers can incorporate into their lives.
One of the standout features of "Remember Me Now" is the author's ability to address the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our self-care journey. Faiith Brooks acknowledges the realities of busy schedules, societal expectations, and the constant demands of life. However, she offers practical solutions and empowering strategies to overcome these barriers and make self-care a non-negotiable priority.
“Remember Me Now" by Faiith Brooks is a gem in the world of self-care literature. It provides a comprehensive guide to self-care while reminding us of the importance of self-love, self-acceptance, and self-empowerment. Whether you're new to self-care or a seasoned enthusiast, this book will undoubtedly leave a lasting impact on your life. Highly recommended!
January 3, 2023
Very Powerful Writing
This is a truly amazing book. The author provides information on herself stating that this book is the story of her journey as a single Black woman who was home schooled and raised in conservative evangelical Christian culture and who grew up to become an activist.
The author writes about her journey growing up Black and some of the many racist remarks she endured as a teenager trying to fit in with her white friends, as compared to the uneventful life she led as she embarked on with her Black friends. She recounts an experience whereas when she visited Rwanda on two occasions, the first time as a team member on an all white college team, and seven years after that, as a stronger and more grounded woman, this time with a team of all Black women.
The author states that on her second trip to Rwanda she went as Faitth, and left Rwanda as "Igihozo". She had acquired a new name, a new country, and new sisters.
Whether you're Black or not, as long as you stand for justice, let us all remember the Breonna Taylors, Sandra Blands, Natasha McKennas, Michelle Cusseauxs, and the many more Black women whose lives were cut short. “Remember me now” is a book basically journaling the author's struggles and achievements as a Black woman, and how and why she became an anti-racist educator.
Faitth Brooks states that little did she realize that when she became an anti-racist educator that God would use her life experiences, and her trip to Rwanda to change everything in her life. Faitth further states that she knew that God was with her, that activism was before her, that she would not stop fighting injustice, and to Breonna Taylor and the other Black women who lost their lives to police brutality, that she will spend her life saying their name(s).
This is a truly amazing book. The author provides information on herself stating that this book is the story of her journey as a single Black woman who was home schooled and raised in conservative evangelical Christian culture and who grew up to become an activist.
The author writes about her journey growing up Black and some of the many racist remarks she endured as a teenager trying to fit in with her white friends, as compared to the uneventful life she led as she embarked on with her Black friends. She recounts an experience whereas when she visited Rwanda on two occasions, the first time as a team member on an all white college team, and seven years after that, as a stronger and more grounded woman, this time with a team of all Black women.
The author states that on her second trip to Rwanda she went as Faitth, and left Rwanda as "Igihozo". She had acquired a new name, a new country, and new sisters.
Whether you're Black or not, as long as you stand for justice, let us all remember the Breonna Taylors, Sandra Blands, Natasha McKennas, Michelle Cusseauxs, and the many more Black women whose lives were cut short. “Remember me now” is a book basically journaling the author's struggles and achievements as a Black woman, and how and why she became an anti-racist educator.
Faitth Brooks states that little did she realize that when she became an anti-racist educator that God would use her life experiences, and her trip to Rwanda to change everything in her life. Faitth further states that she knew that God was with her, that activism was before her, that she would not stop fighting injustice, and to Breonna Taylor and the other Black women who lost their lives to police brutality, that she will spend her life saying their name(s).
January 19, 2023
This is a book for black women. It is a story of life and the joy, trauma, healing, celebration it entails. Faitth Brooks is an incredible story teller. She is a social worker, author and speaker who draws you in with her story and helps you see your own differently.
This book is written for black women, yet every woman will find commonality and understanding here. Each of us will find a renewed desire for our own healing. If you love a black woman, this book is also for you. What a privilege to be invited in to learn about a black woman in America's experience from such an incredible storyteller. I found myself thinking of my own daughters and sisters and friends and wanting to send them a copy, knowing how special it is to see yourself in a book like this.
Faitth has written a love letter to herself, to all black women and the One who created us all. This is a must read book for 2023.
The publisher made an advanced copy available of this book, this is my honest review.
This book is written for black women, yet every woman will find commonality and understanding here. Each of us will find a renewed desire for our own healing. If you love a black woman, this book is also for you. What a privilege to be invited in to learn about a black woman in America's experience from such an incredible storyteller. I found myself thinking of my own daughters and sisters and friends and wanting to send them a copy, knowing how special it is to see yourself in a book like this.
Faitth has written a love letter to herself, to all black women and the One who created us all. This is a must read book for 2023.
The publisher made an advanced copy available of this book, this is my honest review.
October 14, 2023
[from the "standing room" section]
I learned about this book from an interview that Brooks did on the Truth's Table podcast, and was really intrigued to give it a read. It's an honest and powerful book, and for those willing to listen, gives a raw testimony to the deep costs that white spaces, and specifically white Christian spaces--churches, schools, colleges, organizations--exact from Black women specifically. There is lament in this book, but also justified anger, the process of awakening and liberation, as well as healing.
As someone who works with Black women, ministers alongside Black women, and teaches young Black women, I need books like this to confront me, rebuke me, and help me to grow.
Really grateful for this book.
I learned about this book from an interview that Brooks did on the Truth's Table podcast, and was really intrigued to give it a read. It's an honest and powerful book, and for those willing to listen, gives a raw testimony to the deep costs that white spaces, and specifically white Christian spaces--churches, schools, colleges, organizations--exact from Black women specifically. There is lament in this book, but also justified anger, the process of awakening and liberation, as well as healing.
As someone who works with Black women, ministers alongside Black women, and teaches young Black women, I need books like this to confront me, rebuke me, and help me to grow.
Really grateful for this book.
January 21, 2024
This was one of our bookclub "book of the moth" picks. I loved this book. It reads more like a diary but there are major gems to be taken from the book. The letters after each chapter give the book relatability and depth. This book highlights the experiences of Black women, but more importantly looks at the fact that Black women are not Monoliths, but are complex individuals who represent diverse backgrounds, beliefs, experiences, perspectives etc. This story of joy, trauma, healing, spirituality, acceptance, and faith reads like a diary and drops many gems that stick with you. This book highlights the process of unlearning, deconstruction, rebuilding and self love. This is a great book for all Black women to have on their shelves. I even love it for my daughter.
March 6, 2023
[TW: Sexual Assault] Faitth Brooks did a great job reminding women, specifically Black women, why important it is to make sure we remember to take care of ourselves. As women, we are often shouldering everyone's feelings and making sure they are fine, but we put ourselves last. For her to be as vulnerable and open with everything, it was powerful and appreciative. I felt like I was listening to one of my friends and taking in her experience and advice. Thank you to NetGalley and Waterbrook Press for providing me with an arc of this book in exchange for an honest review.
May 27, 2023
If you are a black women in the process of deconstruction your faith from the teachings of the black or evangelical church, this book needs to be added to your resources. This was such a powerful and moving story of one woman's journey into finding herself and unteaching all of the trauma that was taught to her (and as black women who were brought up in the black church, all of us ) at a young age. This book healed a part of me that I wasn't expecting it to. I have no other words to describe how much I needed and enjoyed reading this book.
January 16, 2023
In “Remember me Now” Faiith shares her stories and her reflections in a way that is open and relatable. Her heart for justice and advocacy shines through the pages, drawing the reader toward a world that is more equitable and free for all. There’s a lot of tenderness and truth packed in these pages, and following Faiith’s leadership is a worthwhile endeavor.
January 20, 2023
This book is one of the most relatable I’ve read in a long time. I appreciate Faitth sharing the details of her upbringing in a way that highlights the intricacies of being a Black woman in predominantly white spaces. This book affirmed my story and let me know that I’m not alone. It helped me re-commit to remembering myself.
March 26, 2023
This book is honest and tender. I listened to the book on audio, and it was special to hear it in Faitth’s voice. The stories she shares from her own life are important for all, and the letters she writes to her Black sisters at the end of each chapter are a beautiful offering from one who leads and loves others with a shepherd’s heart.
January 29, 2024
I really loved this book. I felt such a deep connection to the authors experience as my childhood mirrored alot of what she went through. I loved the flow of the book in the way it made you feel like you were reading a diary. My absolute favorite were the letters. Those are something I will reference frequently. Amazing Work and cant wait to see more from her.
January 17, 2023
This book is a powerful must-read for all black women! The transparency that is shown, in the tears shed reading this testimony, and the feeling of this shared space for so many of us. Thank you Faitth for your bravery and strength to write this book for all of us!
February 6, 2023
Remember Me Now connects to an array of emotions. It is inspiring, genuine, and uplifting. It is an easy read and a must-read. The stories and poems enrich the soul. Faitth shows us how to walk through difficulties with your dignity and identity enact.
March 14, 2023
10/10
September 2, 2023
This whole book feel like a friend sitting down with you for coffee and telling you her story, in the most beautiful way!
January 19, 2024
Anazing
January 29, 2024
This was a great book! I love the letters between each chapter and especially the one at the end!
August 7, 2025
I cried so many times because I can related this author. Being a black woman in America is hard and sometimes I feel lonely but reading her experiences and advice gave me confidence to keep going.
January 6, 2023
A bit out of my normal read, I can only give my impressions of the book. As a male, I am no doubt, the least qualified to comment.
The book was, it seemed to me, a tale of two perspectives. The first part of the book was the tale of a privileged black woman, who despite the closet racism she experienced, no doubt had no idea the type of racism her parents experienced to give her the life she had.
The racism, and I have no idea that the racism was real, produced an activist. I really wanted to see how she harmonized her radical political views with conservative Christianity.
Her assault changed the trajectory of her life. She has taken years to rebuild her life and she is recovering. This is an ongoing life change for her and I thought she was frank and honest in all the turmoil and challenges of this experience.
An excellent read and well worth the time you will spend.
Highly recommended
The book was, it seemed to me, a tale of two perspectives. The first part of the book was the tale of a privileged black woman, who despite the closet racism she experienced, no doubt had no idea the type of racism her parents experienced to give her the life she had.
The racism, and I have no idea that the racism was real, produced an activist. I really wanted to see how she harmonized her radical political views with conservative Christianity.
Her assault changed the trajectory of her life. She has taken years to rebuild her life and she is recovering. This is an ongoing life change for her and I thought she was frank and honest in all the turmoil and challenges of this experience.
An excellent read and well worth the time you will spend.
Highly recommended
May 27, 2024
Read this book with the best bookclub !!! BWRT 🩷🫶🏽
Very well written and quick read as well, which I love btw !
I loved the way this story uplifted me and told real life situations that I could actually relate to!
We also met with the author as well after reading the book! She was very sweet and answered all our questions 😌 definitely a read !
Very well written and quick read as well, which I love btw !
I loved the way this story uplifted me and told real life situations that I could actually relate to!
We also met with the author as well after reading the book! She was very sweet and answered all our questions 😌 definitely a read !
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