Named after the scenic American beach site, Ben Sur, this is basically a story of how a working successful interior designer heroine gets into marriage with a highly qualified architect Hero and finds that her husband resents her attention towards her business. Sure, he helps her climb the ladder but I found it ridiculous that hero could be so needy. Heroine is a one-man woman who is not prepared to let go of the hero, her only love , even if their sex life borders on rape and brutality, and so realizes the solution to mend their marriage==compromise! I personally couldn't understand why H blamed the heroine for not getting pregnant, it was ridiculous. However, big sur is the venue when they first meet and its also the place of their final reconciliation. not bad but it seemed to me that the HEA would always depend on how the mcs compromise.