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856 pages, Hardcover
Published October 19, 2022
“A Uachtaráin agus a chairde.’ The sentence – meaning, President and friends' – was a short one, but she could not afford to mispronounce it. Her hosts were happily taken aback. 'Wow!' declared President McAleese. Republicans, royalists and the press were all equally stunned as the Queen went on to address the 'heartache, turbulence and loss' felt by both nations. Expressing her 'sincere thoughts and deep sympathy' to all who had suffered in the process, she declared: 'With the benefit of historical hindsight we can all see things we wish had been done differently or not at all.' This was a watershed moment in the UK–Irish relationship. Every word had been scrutinized and approved by her government (except for her Gaelic introduction, which had been a personal touch) yet her words were unquestionably from the heart. Even the godfather of Irish republicanism, Sinn Féin president Gerry Adams, acknowledged afterwards: 'I believe that her expression of sincere sympathy for those who have suffered as a consequence of our troubled past is genuine."
"She invited the US ambassador, Will Farish, to attend as her guest of honour. The gesture was not only profoundly comforting for expatriate Americans stranded in the UK, but resonated powerfully across the United States. So, too, did the Queen's message to the American people. To this day, her conclusion – 'Grief is the price we pay for love' – remains one of her most widely quoted statements."
"Here she was again, eight decades later, with the same aim in mind: reassurance. True to form, she was dwelling on years gone by to make a point about the present. 'The pride in who we are is not a part of our past,' the Queen went on, 'it defines our present and our future.' And future generations, she insisted, 'will say the Britons of this generation were as strong as any'. To emphasize the point, she concluded with the wartime words of Vera Lynn: 'Better days will return; we will be with our friends again; we will meet again.' The newspapers had their front-page headline – and not a moment too soon. Here she was again, eight decades later, with the same aim in mind: reassurance. This was not mawkish reminiscence, however. True to form, she was dwelling on years gone by to make a point about the present. 'The pride in who we are is not a part of our past,' the Queen went on, 'it defines our present and our future.' And future generations, she insisted, 'will say the Britons of this generation were as strong as any'. To emphasize the point, she concluded with the wartime words of Vera Lynn: 'Better days will return; we will be with our friends again; we will meet again.' The newspapers had their front-page headline – and not a moment too soon."
"When discussing current affairs or politics, particularly foreign affairs, she never seems bored by it, or tired by it. I think it's that sort of combination of knowing "I have to do this" and finding it interesting at the same time."
“Elizabeth was dutiful, reserved, reluctant to be the centre of attention, reticent with emotions and opinions.”
"The Duke had voiced similar love and affection the previous day during a wedding anniversary luncheon hosted by the City of London. After paying an unexpectedly tender tribute to their children, he turned to the Queen herself: 'I think the main lesson that we have learned is that tolerance is the one essential ingredient of any happy marriage. You can take it from me that the Queen has the quality of tolerance in abundance."
"Just before the Queen's ninetieth birthday, her cousin and lifelong confidante, Margaret Rhodes, reflected on her approach to the job. As an insight into what makes Queen Elizabeth II tick, it is surely as good as any: 'She did it with such dedication because she wanted to make her father proud of her."