What an amazing person Eddie Betts is.
I’ve never followed any of the teams he played for (Carlton and Adelaide) so I never knew a huge amount about him personally but everyone who has watched their team play him knows what an absolute demon he was on the field. He kicked goals that no one should probably ever kick from ridiculous spots. He always seemed like a very personable kind of guy and I admired him for the public stance he took against racism. I have read a few articles and do remember a few horrid incidents but until reading this, I didn’t know just how much racism he had faced on the field and off. I shouldn’t be surprised, because there has been no shortage of disgusting incidents. I’m a Sydney Swans supporter, Adam Goodes is fresh in my mind and always will be.
This is a refreshing, frank account of a kid who grew up loving footy and wasn’t necessarily motivated to play at the top level at all. He loved playing with his family, his ‘brothers’ and being drafted was somehow something that happened to him rather than something he sought out. He was at times, by his own admittance, lazy in the offseason and didn’t stick to the diet and exercise plans he was given and he is also quite open about the fact that until the second year he played in the AFL, he actually couldn’t read very well, which is partially why he couldn’t stick to the plans – he couldn’t understand them. He was given literacy classes by the AFL which he attended with some other players (I think he noted all of them were of Aboriginal heritage, which is an indication of how Indigenous kids are slipping through the cracks in education).
He’s a super proud Indigenous man who loves his culture and his family and is big into preserving the culture and also, helping other young Indigenous players. He and his wife Anna (who honestly sounds like an equally amazing person) often open their home to young Indigenous players drafted from interstate as he knows how important it is for them to have some of their mob around them to help them adjust to a very different life. It seems like their home is a hub of support for anyone who needs it.
In this he details the highs and the horrible lows: winning goal of the year awards, making a grand final (losing that grand final), the horrific murder of one of his coaches, the ‘development camp’ that ended up being splashed across the media for all the wrong reasons, being separated from his family and playing during a pandemic, being told he wasn’t going to be offered a contract after his final year playing for Carlton and what came after footy. The book is printed directly as he would speak it so it is very much like listening to him telling you his life story. It works, because it showcases all of his personality in the narrative, how he feels at any given moment is so obvious and you can hear/feel the pain when he talks about being racially profiled by police or when someone threw a banana at him or took the time to mail him a letter calling him a racially charged name and you can also feel the joy when he talks about his family: his mother, his aunties, his brothers and cousins, his wife and their children. Eddie and Anna have five children, including twins and it seems like nothing fazes them! They initially struggled with fertility, having treatments to conceive their first two and then when they went for a third, got twins! Their fifth was a complete surprise, discovered when Anna was already over 20 weeks without any treatments at all. You can really feel the ‘more the merrier’ vibe and they happily cart their kids on overseas holidays and give them amazing experiences as well as keeping them grounded in their Indigenous heritage and culture, using Indigenous words and language etc.
I loved this. It was so interesting to learn about his life growing up, how he came to almost have playing in the AFL fall into his lap and all of the stuff he talks about away from footy as well. Incredibly enjoyable.