I don't know if I have enough words to describe how much I don't like this.
I'm about 8 hours into the 17 hour audiobook. 17 hours, yes... And if you expect those 17 hours to be due to an abundance of content, you are totally wrong.
Whenever something even somewhat important happens, the narrator reflects on it. Then character A reflects on the same thing. Then character B reflects on the same thing AGAIN. And sometimes, we get the perspective of another character too, because why not. It's so frustrating, hearing the same exact thing being regurgitated over and over again. After 8 hours - enough for most full length audiobooks to have wrapped up a complete plot line - very little of note has actually happened so far. A few uninspiring and unnecessary love triangles, a ton of angst, but no character development, or actual story progression.
If after more than 8 hours, your protagonists are still completely unlikable assholes with no visible redeeming qualities whatsoever... something must've gone terribly wrong. Seriously: 8 hours should be more than enough, to fully and exhaustively introduce your characters.
Joe is untrustworthy, because he literally only cares about himself. He is also, depending on your definition, A. a cheater, or B. a cheater waiting to happen. In either case, he is a controlling narcissist with psychopathic tendencies. In all of his monologues so far, he only ever thinks about himself and what he wants. Should he be faithful to the woman he keeps stringing along, or should he have another week-long sex vacation? Which one would yield him the best results? When things with Tess go wrong, he decides he should fire her and throw her on the street with her infant daughter, while he spends another week, again, having sex in France... literally the same night Tess tells him how much his sex-excursions make her feel jealous. And he doesn't even feel slightly bad about it, not even a LITTLE bit. I can't make this up: he is completely, irredeemably evil. He always has the power in their relationship, and he uses and abuses that fact whenever it suits him.
The art of giving a character flaws without making them a complete piece of shit, is not one the author managed to master in this book.
The female protagonist isn't very likable either unfortunately. She is also a cheater, only with less ego and without the issue of literally being a psychopath - which kind of makes it worse.
I had no interest in the two main characters getting together, until it turned out they were both irredeemable pieces of garbage. At which point, all I can say is: those two deserve each other, but I really really don't want to have anything to do with them.
An uncomfortable read.