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Naughty or Nice Season Three

A Daddy for Kinkmas

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Naftali doesn’t want a Daddy.

Naftali has tried depending on a Dom before, and it didn’t work. He’s too messy and irresponsible to be a full-time sub, so it’s much safer to stick to hook-ups and scenes.

Even if it’s never quite enough.

David doesn’t want to embarrass himself. He just wants to become a good Dom.

David has spent a lot of time denying what he wants. And now he’s ready… mostly. He just needs to learn all the skills and get it right. He’s too awkward and insecure to practice with just anyone, but when the compelling and submissive teacher of his first workshop appears in his life again, maybe he can finally test out being the Daddy Dom he was always meant to be.

A week-long ski trip with a Cuffd Kinkmas event seems like a dream come true for both of them. David slowly gets to try out everything he imagined. And Naftali gets the pampering and care he never knew he wanted.

But will that be enough to stay together when the vacation is over?

A Daddy for Kinkmas has two neurodivergent trans characters, a happy-go-lucky boy with hidden insecurities, a shy Daddy with a lot to offer, latkes, mistletoe kisses, and lots of heat! It's part of the Naughty or Nice Season Three multi-author series. Each book can be read as a standalone, but with so many Daddies and boys finding their happily-ever-afters, why not grab them all?

492 pages, Kindle Edition

First published December 20, 2022

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Reese Morrison

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Reese Morrison lives in Philadelphia with their partner, two precocious children, and intermittent housemates, guests, and homeless, queer teens. Their hobbies are volunteering on too many boards, planting gardens that they forget to water half-way through the summer, making up songs for their kids, and putting off writing their dissertation.

Reese and their partner both identify as genderqueer and are part of a vibrant community of queer and trans folks. They started writing because they were dissatisfied with the lack of trans and genderqueer characters in what they were reading and finally decided to do something about it. Many, but not all, of their books are kinky (for a whole range of kinks...) and they feel that it's important to represent a range of backgrounds, dis/abilities, gender presentations/ identities, and body types in their writing.

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621 reviews
December 27, 2022
It’s such a relief to read an autistic character who isn’t just the same set of narrow stereotypes and is written for autistic readers. (The first sign of this was actually labeling an autistic character as autistic instead of just neurodivergent.)

The book starts with an author’s note explaining Morrison’s research, which focused on one specific person. That research paid off, because David felt like a real person who experienced his traits in ways that felt realistic and affirming to me as an autistic reader, instead of hollow or patronizing. Where David and I shared traits in common, I felt seen, and where we differed, I felt I was getting insight into another member of the community. It also meant a lot that this book didn’t constantly portray David as weird and unlikeable, and Naftali as the rare exception who enjoyed spending time with him. So many non-autistic authors write their autistic characters that way, and it’s unpleasant to read.

One of the many details I appreciated was that David’s stutter sometimes took the form of repeating whole words or phrases, something that I also do but haven’t seen in a book before. And it sparked a conversation with an autistic friend about communication-related traits we share, as an added bonus. Another interesting aspect was seeing other readers react to David’s autistic masking. Some reacted to the parts of his masking process that felt like social anxiety and felt the book was too anxiety-inducing at times. This helped me reflect on my own masking process, because what David was thinking just felt normal to me—the unavoidable self-analysis necessary to pass as neurotypical in almost all social situations. For me, the book didn’t invoke feelings of anxiety at all (and putting it down didn’t reduce my anxiety). The line between masking and social anxiety can be hard to see at times, so I appreciated the way this book helped illuminate it.

I loved Naftali’s character as well, and the ways he and David complemented each other. Although David and Naftali are different in many ways, they find ease and comfort with each other because they’re both neurodivergent and trans. When your partner already has the language and experience to understand fundamental aspects of who you are, it lifts a burden you have to carry in most relationships, and Morrison captured that so well here. David and Naftali accept each other without question, which makes it easier for both to accept themselves.

The portrayal of Naftali’s ADHD is a bit harder for me to judge because I don’t have personal experience with it, but for the most part it felt like Morrison made the same effort to understand Naftali’s point of view as David’s. However, at times the book focused more on how Naftali’s ADHD affected others than how it affected him, so I’m not sure if it will feel as affirming for ADHD readers as David’s portrayal felt to me. I’m also highly skeptical (based on my own experiences with executive functioning issues) that having one partner take on 100% of the mental load for planning, scheduling, cleaning, and so on would be a satisfying or sustainable solution in the long-term.

This book would have been a 5/5 if not for the Kinkmas crossover portion of the book. The section where Naftali and David spend time with the characters from one of Morrison’s other entries in a multi-author series just did not work for me. The crossover characters weren’t really given any characterization other than their kink roles, and the kink 101 lectures they gave David and Naftali were awkward. I also felt like David and Naftali’s personalities disappeared in this section, as Naftali became generic bratty sub and David’s autistic traits conveniently disappeared to ensure they could participate in a scene that felt like it was on a list of elements required by the series theme. Although the characters learned some lessons in this part of the book, it mostly felt like a distraction from the better parts of the story. It also made the ending of the book feel rushed—I wish the number of pages spent on Naftali’s deliberation over whether to start a relationship vs Kinkmas had been swapped.

Overall, though, I loved David and Naftali, and am incredibly thankful to Reese Morrison for making the effort to authentically portray an autistic character in a way that centers autistic readers.
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3,811 reviews139 followers
January 1, 2024
The characters in this story are a trans/masc couple, David and Nafalti. David is an accountant and a "baby" Daddy Dom who is anxious to learn everything about his kink. Naftali is a teacher and a submissive. The two guys meet at a rope workshop that Naftali was helping to run and are attracted to one another right off, but both have insecurities and are afraid that they won't "get it right". Both have recently come out of abusive relationships and are afraid to try another one so soon...especially Nafalti. David had booked a ski vacation before his break-up and still plans to go, and Naftali volunteers to go with him for the week and be his "boy" and hopefully learn more about one another. Along the way they also attended David's parent's anniversary party. I hated David's mother. She acted as if he was still his birth persona calling him Diana instead of David (deadnaming). The rest of the family was wonderful. The way these two supported each other was part of what made this story extra warm and special. Each of them had their own difficulty navigating the world, but neither of them ever got exasperated with the other. They were always asking “how can I support you right now?” The author made notes about the things that they were writing about which helped to explain what both characters had had in their individuals lives and what they were going through. That was helpful to understand them and others like them as individuals and their sexuality. You can't help but be glad that you got to know Davd and Nafalti, and it won't take long to become deeply attached to these sweet guys. I have a good friend who is trans, and I really appreciated that Reece Morrison didn't present these characters being trans as something that they owned others any explanation or apologies for, but something that made them happy and complete in themselves.
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1,227 reviews90 followers
December 24, 2022
Goodness me...

Ok listen, I loved every bit of this story. These two showed up on the pages and boom! I was hooked.

Slight Spoilers ahead

So in here we have David, a baby Daddy Dom, who wants to learn very much how to do kink but is very shy because he is not very good in social situations and Naftali, a man who knows who he is but is scared that he is not organized enough to be in a relationship. They meet at a workshop on how to use rope in kink and it was an instant connection.

David had booked a vacation while he was in a relationship that ended amicably that he still had to go on as his parents were having a get together that he could not get out of. So at the urging of his ex and the ex's girlfriend, David signs up for Cuff'd, the app I wish was real and Naftali happens to see it and volunteers to go with him. But you see, David is a Daddy and Naftali agrees to be his boy although he has never done this before. But to no ones surprise, Naftali is a natural boy.

Side note, the B&B that they stay at is the same one that has shown up in all the naughty or nice Reese books and at this point, is as much of a character as the actual mcs.

Most of the book focuses on these two and how they really get to know each other while on vacation. So while fast, they got all the getting to know you and are we compatible things out of the way quickly. But there is a deadline for them, as Naftali thinks he cannot be in a relationship due to his former Dom.

Of course after they get back the separation only lasts a couple of weeks and they get together for real.

Now onto my only complaint about this one.

This story was too long. While I loved the characters, the transness that was just accepted, the whole vibe of the book, the book just kept on going. I would have loved less vacation time and more day to day at the end. The anxiety that these mcs felt was written so well that I felt it and it really made it hard for me to get through.
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329 reviews1 follower
December 20, 2022
David is an autistic accountant dipping his toes into kink for the first time when he meets Naftali, an experienced sub. Eventhough they are both kinky trans men they are very different. Their personalities, life experiences and relationship with their bodies is very opposite. But they interact with each other with so much understanding and respect. My heart melted for the two of them.

I will always trust Reese Morrison to write fantastic trans romance. I will add great neurodivergence rep as well.

My only minor complaint was with some aspects of the adhd representation. Some of it was truly excellent (especially when talking about the need for independence and the reasons his previous relationship didn’t work). But sometimes it was a bit heavy handed in how often I was told about the mess Naftali made, or how scattered brained he was. But it’s a minor complaint in what it’s a fantastic book.
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1,288 reviews168 followers
January 4, 2023
If you had told me a few years ago I would be reading – and loving – Daddy books I probably wouldn't have believed you, yet here we are.
This was so wholesome and affirming and this author has gone on my "must read more!" list!

It was extremely well structured (which this review won't be) – so well, I found myself reverting back to French literature class and grouping chapters and situations under headlines: like what :D


It was long but it wasn't boring – we got to know and fall in love with Nafti and David.
I am so thankful that a) this book was written and b) it was recommended.

It's 2022 2023 and this article from just a couple of months ago found that there is a need for "more diverse, accurate and positive portrayals of autistic characters in entertainment media"!

Awareness is learned Living in Germany, I am aware when ‘Germanness’ is depicted incorrectly. As a historian, I am aware when historical research was done well. But there are many things I am unaware of and I continue learning. I learned the other week of a stigmatising “autism-excuses-assholery” portrayal in a book that I had forgotten about. Because I was lacking awareness. So I went on a lil learning quest and found a well-written essay from 2018 by Emily Brooks, a disability scholar and autistic writer who highlights stigma and stereotypes seen repeated in mainstream media over and over again in Opposing Forces? Autism and Dating, Romance, and Sexuality in the Mainstream Media.

“Autism’s dominant description as distant, unemotional, disconnected, and infantile does not fit into conventional westernized concepts of Romance, so autism and romance are presented as opposing forces. Because of the entrenched idea that autism and Romance are opposites, news articles and film reviews impose an overcoming, supercrip narrative on autistic people who date, fall in love, and express themselves sexually. Journalists position autistic people’s sexuality as disruptive and potentially threatening to family members and professionals. A heteronormative, gendered, and whitewashed discourse pervades autism news stories.” (p. 172)


This book takes these mainstream narratives and denounces them!
- There is no storyline of overcoming: Both MCs love each other for who they are and they fit together perfectly: i.e. David's OCD and Naftali's messiness balance each other out in an act of taking care and being taken care of that I found beautiful.
- There is no desexualisation: The opposite in a way with both our MCs embracing their sexuality and kinks wholeheartedly and even
- There is no white-heterosexual-cis-washing: David and Naftali are two trans men, one with a Jewish background (and may I just say that the incorporation of faith in this book was absolutely beautiful! I've read so many negative depictions of religion and faith in MM books that this was so validating!)
- There is no infantalisation: I'd say this is done rather ironically with the Daddy/Boy relationship and I approve! Also just a sentence like "working with autistic kids and adults" (p. 132) can have power.
- There is no lack of empathy: David is a caring Daddy who tries his hardest, recognises patterns, engages in conversation and knows where his strengths lie and uses this!
- There is no immaturity: These are two men who are in their thirties (I believe with David), working jobs and are not "grown-up children"
- There is no dehumanisation, imagined masculinity, conflating autism/ADHD with character flaws, unfriendliness or supercrip storyline
- David is introverted but he has techniques, knows his strengths and Naftali is supportive at all times.

Brooks writes that
“Queering autistic sexuality–whether as a theoretical framework or as an acknowledgment of LGBTQIA autistic identity–aids in the understanding not just of autism, romance, sexuality, and dating, but also to the wider construction of nondisabled, neurotypical, gender-normative heterosexuality.” (p. 168)

and this is a wonderful book for exactly that!

It is important to the story that David and Naftali are trans, and have autism (David) and undiagnosed ADHD (Naftali) BUT it is just as important that David is a new Daddy Dom, that Naftali has to overcome past pain, that they are falling in love with each other!

This was a great fling or forever book and I know I've forgotten to mention stuff I've liked and haven't quoted any of the ton of highlights I have in the book but I don't want this review to get to long :)

NSFW infos:
Two out gay trans men
One submissive
One dominant
Discover Daddy/Boy relationship together
Edging
Sex in front of others
Spanking
Impact Play
Bondage
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475 reviews118 followers
October 2, 2025
3.5⭐️ 2🌶️

📝 REVIEW & THOUGHTS:

Perhaps what Naftali had needed wasn’t time, but the right kind of relationship. One that supported and encouraged who he was instead of forcing him to hold it back.


This was a really sweet book with a good representation of an autistic character and character with ADHD. I don’t have ADHD (at least I don’t think lol) nor am I autistic, but I think the representation was good and healthy.

Now this was my first trans masc read, and I had no idea what to expect. While it is surely different from MM (cis guys), I’m glad I read this allowing me to learn more about trans people pov, insecurities and issues they encounter.

It’s a slow paced book, and I wasn’t expecting that from a kinky book, that’s probably one of the reasons the rating isn’t too high. And that made it drag a little for me. I was personally craving (and expecting) a bit more of a faster pace. Although the pacing did work for the characters and their relationship development.

🏷️ TROPES & TAGS (possible spoilers):

Genre/subgenre: contemporary romance
Pairing: MM
POV: 3rd person, dual
Angst: low
Burn: slow
Vibe/mood: sweet, kinky
Pet names: Daddy / baby boy, baby, little monster, little songbird
HEA: yes

Trans x trans (masc)
Autistic introverted MC
Extroverted ADHD MC
Jewish MC x atheist MC
MCs are in their 30s
Caretaking Daddy
Good and healthy communication
Emotionally intelligent MCs

🌶️ SPICE & K!NKS (possible spoilers):

Strict top/bottom or versatile: top/bottom (D/s)
Heat: 8 scenes, medium heat
New Dom/experienced sub
Daddy kink (no age play)
Bondage
Impact play
Primal play
Praise
Rimming

⚠️ CONTENT WARNINGS (possible spoilers):

Dubcon: no
Noncon: no
OM/OW: some insecurities, but no drama.
3rd act breakup: a little bit, didn’t last one chapter though
MC is deliberately misgendered and disrespected for his autistic traits (only short passage in one chapter)
Some racism (nothing crazy, just one MC referring to “people like xy” in reference to a person of color

💬 QUOTES (possible spoilers):

They were separate, but together. David was supporting Naftali, and Naftali was… just being happy. If this was what it was like to be a Daddy Dom, David didn’t want to let it go. He didn’t want to let Naftali go.

It was more a feeling of being precious. Of being so valuable that he was worth taking care of.

Perhaps what Naftali had needed wasn’t time, but the right kind of relationship. One that supported and encouraged who he was instead of forcing him to hold it back.


* Fyi about 🌶️ levels: I rate spice on a combination of quantity, quality, length, intensity and explicitness of the scenes. K!nks are listed separately and generally do not directly affect the steam level to keep it fair for non k!nky books.
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809 reviews78 followers
December 28, 2022
I'm struggling to put my thoughts down for how this book worked for me. It managed to be such a long book while also a book I didn't want to end. I was hooked from the beginning with David and Naftali. FYI, this will be mainly gushing. I am who I am.

CW - there is a chapter that's called out in the author's note where they go to a party for David's mom, who's pretty awful. She deadnames him, and manages to be the trifecta of transphobic, homophobic, and racist. The leads cope by creating a bingo board and checking off the boxes of the awful things David's mom says and finding a quiet area to hang out with David's brother and his family, who don't suck. If this is triggering, I'd recommend skipping the first half of chapter 18 and knowing that David is supported by Naftali and ends up having a better day than expected.

I highly recommend reading reviews from autistic readers and/or readers with ADHD - I'm neurodivergent and felt seen by both David and Naftali's inner thoughts, but also know that I felt seen by David's social anxiety and introverted tendencies, which are intertwined with him being autistic.



Listed below are my highlights:

1. The dynamics between a new (and shy) Dom, with an experienced and outgoing sub. The teaching moments of new kinks, consent and checking in, safe words, exploration of Dom/Daddy.

2. Watching David grow from being shy and unsure with himself to feeling more comfortable as being a Daddy, seeing him both fall into his role, as well as have moments of "am I doing this right? how can I be a better Daddy to Nafti?" Swoon.

3. I find books that have teaching moments between the leads to be extra cute; learning is awesome, and I like seeing people put their egos away to learn new things or broaden their horizons. There were teaching moments of Naftali talking to David about being Jewish, his experience being a Torah school teacher, holidays, how nature is woven into Jewish beliefs. I found this really interesting and enjoyed that both leads were interested and engaging with each other. I also thought the kink education was a fun way for them to bond and be intimate with each other.

4. Zeev was such a great friend, and I really enjoyed when they had some time on page with Naftali. I also appreciated that they were a voice of reason and checking in for Naftali.

5. David's stutter - I rarely see stutters included in dialogue with characters and I appreciated that Morrison included this, as well as showed how anxiety or stress could affect it. I appreciated that it wasn't made a big deal, and there weren't any assholes (except David's mom) who were rude to David.

6. The pampering! I love a Daddy who is a caretaker. I loved the snuggling, cuddling, dressing up Naftali, baths, etc. I liked also seeing both David and Naftali's POVs to show what it meant to each of them.

7. Both lead's having moments of growth and learning with their identities. David had some moments where Naftali's presence alone made him question his thoughts on masculinity and his trans identity. Naftali had some healing and unlearning to do from a past relationship, and how his feelings of Daddy/boy and Dom/sub might be different with David compared to past partners. Also, Naftali learning that he might be a bit of a brat. I loved seeing both of their growth.

8. Erotic and cuddly bathtimes! Are you kidding me? Emotional bathing scenes are so much fun.

9. Both leads showing their support and care for the other in different ways. They both check in with each other and ask how to support them. They also tune into one another, and aren't judgmental or disappointed in the other. I loved how by being themselves, they just worked together. It might have been a bit idealistic near the end with their rules, but I'm rooting for them and know if that doesn't work out, they'll make changes. I felt like they had good systems of communication.

10. The pinecone!! To be treasured for forever.

11. Both leads are trans men, but also have very different feelings towards their bodies. I appreciated showing the realities of body dysmorphia, while also showing how they respected each other's bodies. There's a scene where it's mainly dirty talk that gets off the lead and is just as hot as any kind of penetrative or stimulative scene. I thought that was a really thoughtful inclusion!

12. The consent and checking in with each other, both during intimate moments and also to make sure there wasn't any over stepping or making the other feel uncomfortable. I love check-ins.



I know this book is set in the cuff'd world, and that kinkmas was coming. Listen, I thought it was very fun watching David get to experience his first group spanking, new kinky friends, and dungeon. Loved that for him. Did I really care about the other couples and dungeon play time? No. But it helped David gain more confidence with his dominance, and i'm happy for him. Would I have liked an extra 100 pages of David and Naftali being domestic and cute together after leaving the vacation and living together? Yes, absolutely. Would I have traded the group kink events for more domestic bliss and after vacation time? Also, yes. I will take what I can get though. Fingers crossed there will be a novella or something with them living together further in the future. I'm invested in David and Naftali's relationship.


Some quotes that made me happy:

"He felt like he'd been hit by a hurricane. Hurricane Naftali."

"He added the book he’d been reading last night and wondered if they’d read in bed together. He knew there wasn’t any promise of sex or kink, but maybe he could request that. Just cuddling up before they went to sleep? That would be heavenly."

"Naftali was just… happy. A little ball of portable sunshine."

"He couldn’t even put words to how he was feeling. Protective? Adoring? Maybe even honored."

"What baffled him was how comfortable Naftali was with lacing their fingers together while they walked, or murmuring quiet words to each other while they watched the Hanukkah candles burn down in the dark window that framed the night. It felt like something that David would expect to do with someone who he’d been dating for months. Once they’d gotten comfortable with each other, and shared their mundane interests along with their secret desires and fears."

"Naftali hid his smile. David being awkward about sex was adorable. Especially after what they’d just done. “Fucking?”"

"And Naftali was singing a ridiculous song with Kenzie about how Pharoah woke up with frogs on his head. It involved a lot of jumping and giggling, and Naftali had insisted it was a necessary part of the Passover experience." EPILOGUE FROGS!!


I was provided an ebook arc from grr in exchange for an honest review.
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2,469 reviews104 followers
December 22, 2022
[I received a digital copy for an honest review]

A Daddy for Kinkmas
is a Queer holiday BDSM romance by Reese Morrison. It features two Trans Male neurodivergent main characters and both Christmas and Hanukkah traditions.

David and Naftali meet at a BDSM workshop where Naftali is doing the demonstrations and David is there to finally explore his Daddy side. They have an instant connection, but David is too shy to explore it. Shortly after, David posts on the Cuffd kink app looking for a sub to take with him on a ski vacation and to his parent's anniversary dinner. It seems like fate that Naftali sees and answer his ad. They spend the following week together getting to know each other in and out of the bedroom. Naftali helping David to feel comfortable as a Daddy while discovering maybe being someone's boy is exactly what he needs in his life.

There was something about Naftali that made David feel invincible.


There was just so much that I loved about David and Naftali's romance. They both have different difficulties they face and insecurities with aspects of themselves that make them who they are. This makes them a perfect match because they understand each other and even when they don't, they have patience and understanding. David is on the autism spectrum. He struggles with large crowds, understanding social cues and over stimulation with too much noise, his stimming and OCD are soothing mechanisms for him. Naftali has undiagnosed ADHD which causes him to become easily distracted and lose track of time. I loved that they were always acknowledging the other's struggles but not trying to fix it for them but instead asking them how to support them at the time.

Everything about Naftali made him want to pull him into his lap and kiss him. No, not just kiss him. Devour him.

The intimacy scene are on fire in this book. While David does carry hesitation with certain intimate acts due to his body dysphoria, it doesn't stop him from worshiping Naftali. Naftali doesn't carry the dysphoria that David does, and he slowly helps David see the beauty in his body and grow in confidence. A plus for communication and all the after care between them. Thier relationship follows a Daddy/Boy dynamic with no age play, lots of care, spanking, toys, primal play bondage and voyeurism.

I also really enjoyed the focus and attention that's given to Naftali's religious beliefs. David was raised celebrating Christmas, but he doesn't hesitate to embrace Naftali's love for his beliefs and takes the time to learn in order to support him, by respecting his observation of Shabbat and learning prayers that are important to him.

This doesn't cover everything I loved about this one, but I think I've covered most of it lol As you can tell I loved A Daddy for Kinkmas. A holiday romance between an energetic boy and shy daddy filled with Jewish traditions, hot chocolate, snuggles, hiking, emotion, vulnerability, communication, acceptance, nature, and lots of delicious steam.
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475 reviews20 followers
December 18, 2022
This was a really sweet book and I enjoyed it from the start. I love how much detail is in this book as well as how sweet the two men were.

Reese’s books are always such a feel good story and this is no different. Loved it
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560 reviews75 followers
April 28, 2023
The good
    + Accurate autism and ADHD rep
    + All their communication
    + David's ex. He's a good guy
    + The compatibility of their ADHD and ASD traits. One person accidentally makes a mess wherever he goes, and the other absolutely loves organizing those messes
    + Bingo at David's parents' anniversary
    + David's brother and sister-in-law
    + Naftali checking for David's tells and making sure to step in when he's starting to get overstimulated
    + Naftali being completely himself, and David loving him the most when he is
    + Naftali's ridiculousness
    + The mutual trust
    + Pampering and bathing


The neutral
    o I had this book on pause for a few months after I had read the first 30%, so I don't remember much from that part of the story


The bad
    - David's mother was a horrible woman, and I don't understand why David didn't cut her out of his life. Especially now that he'd 'collected' his brother and his family, there really was no reason for him to stay in contact with his parents. Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean you're obligated to keep them in your life
    -
    - This book was really long, which made all the 'issues' seem really dragged out. It felt like every other page there was a reminder for the impending end of their trip in some inner monologue, and at some point it just started grating on me


Quotes
    "I'm easily influenced by rewards. Or maybe I'm just easy."
    "You're not easy, N- Naftali. You just l- love everything that you do. You're c- c- complex and b- b- b- b- beautiful and imp- p- p- portant."

    Naftali pouted. Then, since David was watching the wheel and couldn't see him, he pouted louder. With the folded arms and everything.

    "Naftali's like an amusement park all by himself."



I really liked the connection between David and Naftali. Had the whole book been about their explorations and budding relationship, I would have loved it. Unfortunately, David's mom really ruined a good thing, as she got away with everything she did scot-free. I also didn't like the looming deadline to their relationship, and how much it was emphasized again and again without either character making a move to try a more lasting relationship. So, five stars for David and Naftali, and two stars deducted for the rest. Would still recommend.
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2,338 reviews93 followers
December 21, 2022
I love big romance books where you really get the time to look deeply into someone's psyche and truly get to know the characters and Morrison never fails to deliver on that. This chunky book is about David, who wants to explore his Dominant side now that he is single again, and Naftali, who loves teaching but is not looking for a long-term arrangement.
right from the start, these two hit it off when they meet during an introduction rope class - there's flirting, longing glances, and a little play. And while the setup might sound like it might be a rushed romance, it's anything but that. The getaway weekend simply gives both characters the opportunity to relax and completely focus on each other. They earn each other's trust, they are careful with each other's boundaries and the initial promise of it being a one-time event gives this enough tension to turn the pages.
Two major part of both of their identities is the fact that they are trans and neurodivergent. Morrison talks about both of these things with care and nuance - David's less comfortable than Naftali in his body and how other's might perceive him but it's not framed as a negative thing or an issue to overcome. All Naftali wants to do is make him comfortable and feel confident and masculine. On the other hand, David is more comfortable with is stutter and working with his autism and OCD, whereas Naftali's ADHD is a source of shame that he fears will cause friction further down the line.
There is just so much to their relationship and within almost 500 pages, we get to see many different aspects, navigate difficult situations in and out of kink, and fall in love with each other.

There is this great balance between Naftali coaching David on how to top and David reacting on instincts and insight he has gained on Naftali to inform the scene that you don't often get to see since the Dominant partner is so often the more experienced one in many romances. The realism of checking in, looking for cues, and discussing it before, during, after a scene - it's all there. And I always love when the community gets included, like local classes, talking to other kinksters in the area; few people do this just by reading a book or watching one video.

It's a delightful romance that I can only recommend. (I encourage you to pick up All Tied Up first, it's the first appearance of the cottage and the book about the triad that runs it).

I received an advanced reading copy from the author in exchange for an honest review.
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2,177 reviews76 followers
December 16, 2022
I received an advance copy from the author for review purposes; this in no way influences my review.

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Reese Morrison’s books so often feel like warm hugs for me; I love the way they show Daddy kink and how delightfully queer their books are in so many different ways. A Daddy for Kinkmas delivered on so many of my favorite elements - sweet caregiver dynamic, trans-for-trans romance, and Jewish identity. I loved David and Naftali’s dynamic and the way their week-long vacation gave them space to truly get to know one another and get comfortable. This was really sweet and Naftali especially was such a delight with his sunshine personality. Plus I always love returning to Meadowlark and seeing Jamie, Sebastian, and Neil. I will say that, as much as I enjoyed this, it felt really long and slow in some ways, not like I was bored but like I wanted more happening. It may have just been my mood while reading, but it was still a satisfying, enjoyable romance. Can’t wait to see what Reese will write next!
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3,825 reviews30 followers
July 14, 2025
July 2025
Kindle edition

It was alright. Wasn't really in the mood for it. As much as I liked Neil's story, they were a bit much almost drowning out the main characters. David and Naftali were well matched, glad they got their HEA and stayed in touch with the brother and his family. The mother was awful. Reminded me of my sister's in-law actually. Cute couple.
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59 reviews3 followers
December 18, 2023
I discovered this book randomly and the title made me laugh so hard I started reading it as a joke. Except I got attached to the characters and the writing was actually good, so here we are, 4 days later with a 4⭐ review on what was supposed to be a joke read. And I hate the word "daddy"

The representation was amazing too, so many different people!! And a better love story than some of the more mainstream stuff I've read, so I might check Reese Morrison's other works, see if they've written other things that might interest me. Preferably with no daddy kink lmao
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12 reviews2 followers
December 22, 2022
I love all of Reese Morrison’s books and this was no different. It was so sweet and I adored the main characters. David and Naftali are both neurodiverse and trans and I loved the way they treates each other with care. Both characters are fully fleshed out and the rep is amazing. 10/10. Thanks to the author for giving me a free review copy of this book in exchange for an honest review
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Author 19 books69 followers
December 18, 2022
Thank you Reese Morrison for the opportunity to read this early in exchange for an honest review.

REESE DID IT AGAIN! 😭🙌

This book is so SO good. I always love Reese Morrison's books because the characters are so diverse, and the plots always pull at my heartstrings, and I was SO excited for this one because it's a T4T romance between two trans men. I adored both the main characters, as they're both such sweethearts with their own demons to face.

David is a wonderful character because he's a new Dom and very nervous to start a kinky dynamic, but he's an absolute natural when he actually gets down to it. David has a stammer, is Autistic, and has a few body issues thanks to gender dysphoria. Naftali, on the other hand, is an experienced sub, is charismatic and bubbly and mostly care-free, and is comfortable and open with his trans body. However, with undiagnosed ADHD and run-away mind, he's got some healing to do after a bad breakup and isn't ready yet for a long-term relationship.

Naftali and David meet at a kink workshop that Naftali is teaching. David is trying out kink for the first time and is incredibly nervous, but the two hit it off pretty quickly and when Naftali invited David up to do a rope demo with him, sparks fly. Unfortunately, David leaves right after the event before Naftali can get his number.

Months later, David gets a phone call from his mother (who constantly misgenders and deadnames him - there's a CW in the book explaining how you can skip these bits) reminding him about the anniversary party he'd promised to attend, and wanting to know if David is bringing his boyfriend, who his mother hadn't met yet. David's already got the tickets booked for the visit, which includes a week of skiing before he sees his family, except for the fact that his boyfriend and he had broken up already. In a moment of panic, David tells his mom he's brining his new boyfriend - except he doesn't actually have one of those yet.

With some prompting from David's ex, who is still a close friend, David joins a kinky dating site in the hopes of finding someone he could take on the trip with him, and finally attempt to be in a kinky relationship. This is when Naftali finds him on the app, and they decide to go on the trip together.

Like I've said already, I loved this book. There's a way that Reese writes character who are new to the kink scene (and I'm thinking particularly about Pretty 'n Peak, Reese Morrison's last book before this one) that just feels so cathartic to read - seeing these characters who have something missing from their lives find the missing puzzle pieces in finding the perfect sub or Dom for them, and discovering this whole new world of kink. And characters who are insecure about something finally being able to be confident in that aspect of their life because of the trust their partner puts in them, UGH! These books really make me break down sobbing because I'm so happy for the characters by the end of the book, when they get their Happy Ever Afters.

It was also lovely to get more of Jamie, Neil and Sebastian from All Tied Up (which interlaces with A Little Bit Naughty, Pretty 'n Peak and now A Daddy for Christmas, though every book works perfectly as standalones), and the scene with all 5 of them having Christmas dinner together and then playing afterwards was very hot.

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3,776 reviews114 followers
December 20, 2022
This is a very long story, 445 pages total, but every word, gesture, explanation, and courageous action is necessary to complete the big picture and bring these characters to their full potential as individuals—and as a couple. Naftali and David are both neurodiverse, trans masc characters, one self-assured in kink and comfortable in his own skin, a little disorganized, but always on-point with people, and possibly with ADHD; and the other, more cautious, less outgoing, highly organized, stutters when frustrated, on the autism spectrum, and desperately wanting to explore being a Dom, especially in relation to daddy kink.

The author takes the time to build each character, making them three-dimensional and very real. Each has family but are not close to their family of origin. Naftali is Jewish, and does some part-time Torah instruction for youth and adults and he’s also a gifted musician, very personable and outgoing, a submissive, and enjoys sharing his love of kink with others. He meets David at a rope demo and is never so grateful as when he volunteered to allow David to practice on him.

When Naftali is bound in rope and then kneels and looks up at David, the “baby Dom” is lost in Naftali’s gaze and in the beauty of his submission, thereby affirming his own decision to pursue domination. If he can just get past his stuttering and insecurity and self-esteem issues...

David invites Nafali to spend a week in the Portland area to visit David’s family in celebration of his parents’ anniversary and then to stay at the lodge that is hosting a Cuff’d Kinkmas. Thus begins their journey together to self-discovery. Each step of preparation, each lesson in domination, each kinky action, is explained, discussed, agreed upon, and practiced. In part, this contributes to the length of the story but it also contributes to an enriching and educational experience; at least, it did for this reader. Not only did I learn more about D/s relationships, but also about transgender roles, potential family issues related to transphobia, and body dysmorphia, I also learned more about typical and atypical signs and symptoms of ADHD, OCD, and various aspects of autism and the effects any of those symptoms might have on one’s emotional health and well-being.

When I woke up this morning, my first thought was: Today’s the day I’m going to learn what happens to David and Naftali. That might seem odd, but it showed me how much these men have grown on me and how very much I enjoyed their story. It was fun, heartwarming, emotional, educational, and satisfying. And when I got to the end, I was rewarded with a heart full of happy as these young men finally found the way to their HEA. Very highly recommended.

4.5 stars rounded up due to how much I learned along the way and how beautifully the author told the story.
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447 reviews5 followers
December 23, 2022
I love Reese's books because they always feature main characters who deserve the spot light and don't get enough love! Every time I read one of their books, I always want to get more reacquainted with my faith since they make it sound like such fun! I grew up in a very hands off Jewish household so I never really felt that connected with it but the snippets we get from Naftali really peaked my interest to learn more!

As far as the story goes, this one totally hit it out of the park! I absolutely loved David and felt for how awkward he thought he was in social situations. While his mother's a whole different story, it was nice to see him get some family acceptance with his brother. I also loved the confidence that grew within him during his time with Naftali. Naftali is the perfect partner for David because not only was he able to bring passion and lightness to David's life but we see David getting more comfortable with his own body through Naftali's relationship with his. Naftali was definitely hurt by a past relationship and is worried about jumping into another. His struggle for wanting to understand his own needs versus starting a relationship with David felt really relatable. I was so happy when these two finally decided to be fully committed.

While Reese's books are definitely no stranger to kink, there was definitely a lot of new things here! These two had chemistry right off the bat and I loved everything from the ropes, to the baths, to the roughhousing. It was playful and fun and just perfect for these two guys! A Daddy for Kinkmas was moving and perfect! I loved it and think it may be pushing to the top of my favorites as far as Reese's stories go!
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2,247 reviews
December 27, 2022
This author delivers another nuanced and heartfelt romance. I see why they continuously top the trans romance charts on Kindle. This book is just a step down from All Tied Up, which is their best work in my opinion. In fact, what endears me to this book so much is the appearance of that trio from All Tied Up.

Naftali and David are both super sweet on their own, but together make for a strong couple. I liked how they helped each other accept themselves. They simply made each other stronger and a better partner. Naftali and David both dealt with negative self-talk that was relatable to me. I wanted them to grow, and it felt realistic in the timeframe of the story. Nothing was rushed or forced. The romance is truly organic.

The trans rep is well done, as always. It always feels like that is handled with care. It just is, it's not used for shock value or to check off a box for inclusion. Every character is well developed and authentic.

This is the best book of the series so far. Give this a read even if you're not feeling the other stories. It's worth seeking out.
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1,332 reviews15 followers
January 4, 2023
This is the softest kinky book I've ever read. It's romantic, heavy on communication and negotiating consent, and not as sexy as I would have expected for a book that is 90% kink. It's definitely sexy, but since it's about a baby Dom finding his feet and exploring the ways he wants to be a Daddy, with a total golden retriever of a sub with lots of experience, it’s as much about learning and being comfortable with kink, as it is actual sex.

The representation is off the charts here, and so lovingly and authentically drawn it makes the story deeper and more fulfilling. Sometimes it feels like authors are checking a box, but I never got that feeling here. Both men are trans, and they have very different relationships with their bodies. They are both neurodiverse; David is autistic, Naftali probably has ADHD. Naftali is Jewish, and is deeply connected to his faith. David has a stutter, and they have both come out of relationships with people who didn't accept them they deserved. They are so careful with each other, and as they open up during their kinky vacation, I know that the author is writing kink correctly, not just for a thrill like some authors. This is a fantastic place to start if you are new to kink, want it portrayed more realistically, or want to read more romance with trans characters.
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9,136 reviews521 followers
December 27, 2022
A Joyfully Jay review.

4.25 stars


A Daddy for Kinkmas is part of the latest season of the Naughty or Nice multi-author collection. These books are meant to stand alone and you can easily jump into this story without any of the others. That said, the men from Morrison’s All Tied Up do appear here, as they own the lodge Naftali and David visit, and they have a small (and kinky) side role. So if you have read that book, you may enjoy seeing the men again here (they also appear in Morrison’s Pretty ‘n Peak). This is a long story, about 450 pages, and I will admit that I wondered if the book would drag a little given that it is a straight contemporary, versus something that needs a lot of world building to develop. But I am happy to say that this one really kept my attention and I tore through it much faster than I expected.

Morrison does a great job really developing David and Naftali as characters and making them rich and interesting men.

Read Jay’s review in its entirety here.
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573 reviews10 followers
December 27, 2022
This is my first time reading a book by Reese Morrison and they are a great author. David is certain he's a Dom, never getting to act on his fantasies he goes to a rope demonstration. There he learns some bandage techniques, more conformation that he's a Dom and he meets Naftali. Naftali is the teacher for the class and he's also a sub who is trying to heal from a toxic ex-boyfriend. He is instantly attracted to David's dominance. Not wanting to go alone David is looking for a companion to go with him to his parents anniversary party, so he asks Naftali. For me the book didn't get good until David and Naftali got to their getaway destination. The time they spend together is so steamy, heartwarming and sometimes funny. Naftali shows David that he's an excellent Dom he just needs confidence. David shows Naftali that he needs a daddy to pamper, support, and dominate him. Can these two form a relationship that will last in the real world? After meeting Neil, Jamie and Sebastian I'm off to read All Tied Up!!!

"He was definitely into this Daddy thing. Hands down. Ten out of ten. Would sub again." 😂

I am leaving my honest review for a complimentary copy of this book via the author.
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5 reviews
December 23, 2022
This was one of the most beautiful and authentic romance novels I have ever read.
David and Naftali's growing relationship is beautiful. The author does a fantastic job showing how an interfaith relationship should work, with respect, interest, and care. I love that both characters are kinky, queer, trans, and neurodivergent.

David is a new Dom and Naftali an experienced sub. As someone who is kinky, queer, trans/nonbinary and neurodivergent I felt so seen reading this book. The struggles and insecurities both David and Naftali go through are so real and authentic. I love the way they connect and take care of each other. Their slow romance is beautiful to watch as it unfolds. And the heat between them is 🔥🔥🔥. I love how the author was able to show how active consent and checking in with your partner can be sexy! They do a fantastic job bringing these characters and their story to life and I cannot recommend this book enough.
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1,744 reviews89 followers
December 27, 2022
A Daddy for Kinkmas is a great fun read with so many interesting twists and turns - not one, but two trans characters at different places in their kink journeys, both neurodivergent, both with interesting holiday traditions... and a trip to the mountains!

I absolutely adored both Neftali and David and the way they contrasted and also how they fit together.... like any kink relationship some things happen faster than vanilla ones, but with this story there were still some interesting boundaries to explore and lots of chances to just talk to each other and it was beautiful!

I also love how they were able to blend their lives so that their neurodivergences became strengths to help each other and to create dimension within the relationship... a beautiful holiday story and a great Christmukkuh!

Like the other Kinkmas books, A Daddy for Kinkmas is a standalone story based in the Cuff'd world - Naughty or Nice Season 3
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3,492 reviews26 followers
December 28, 2022
David is a trans who is just getting comfortable with his body and his sexual needs. He is very attracted to being a Dom and likes the idea of rope play but is uncomfortable with experimenting with someone he doesn't trust. His ex left him after years of being together so he has no one he trust this much. He does like doing his research so he signs up for a bondage/rope class at the center. Naftali is the instructor and is a trans like David. Naftali's confidence gives David the courage to try new things.

Naftali loves being a sub and being tied up. He enjoys doing scenes with Doms who dominate him for a limited amount of time. He doesn't want a relationship though. He hates be tied down by rules and expectations. However when he meets David, he starts to see a new side to himself. David's care and consideration makes him want to be spoiled and taken care off. Maybe he doesn't want a Dom as much as he wants a Daddy.
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637 reviews2 followers
January 11, 2023
David is a Daddy Dom without much experience and Naftali is a sub who feels like he is not good enough to be a full-time sub, so he sticks with hook-ups. The two meet at a BDSM demonstration and feel an instant attraction. Despite their differences and issues, or maybe because of them, they have a great connection and help each other overcome obstacles and accept themselves and each other just as they are.

I really liked this book. It was well-written and provided plenty of backstory and explanations to help get an idea of the problems and characteristics that each one the characters faced. It was beautiful to see their relationship develop and the way that they treated each other with love and respect was amazing. The author dealt with the issues genuinely and with authenticity. I highly recommend this book and this author.

I received an ARC of this book and am voluntarily leaving a review.
527 reviews
December 17, 2022
I adore Reese Morrison's writing & characters. This particular story was no exception! David and Naftali were magical, beautiful together. All the warm & fuzzies, all the feels, good and not so great, felt throughout the book. My heart went out to both MCs, both guys, for all they'd gone through before meeting & getting together, & all the discovery, learning, healing & overcoming internal AND external roadblocks. I can't gush about this fully-fleshed-out love story enough. The characters broke your heart, enraptured, enamored, and entranced the reader pulled you deep into the tale & wouldn't let go til the more than satisfying HEA. The incorporation of learning about new things/faiths, rituals, customs, interesting takes on well-known Biblical stories - this one's a definite MUST-READ and one I will revisit in the future. So SO good!
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539 reviews4 followers
December 26, 2022
I say this after every book and I mean it every time: I really loved this story, particularly the main couple. Reese writes these characters in such a romantic way in how they find people that love each other's quirks and make not only the best of their shortcomings but turn them into strengths and that was particularly obvious in this book in which a character with autism falls for a character with ADHD and they perfectly complement each other personality wise and never push the other to be different in any way, they communicate and pick whatever path is better for them.
I also loved that my favourite trio from "All Tied Up" showed up and made what was already a great story even better for me.
I'm so happy I got to read this book and I can't recommend it enough.
Thank you to the author for this DRC.
1,034 reviews20 followers
December 20, 2022
A sweet, low-angst romance with two very complex and nuanced MCs. David and Naftali’s personalities, idiosyncracies, and values are well written. Representation-wise this is also a great read. The writing is very balanced and sensitive, though the pacing slows a little sometimes. David and Naftali grow closer mostly through their exploration of mutual kinks and a daddy/boy dynamic. They are very aware of their own wants and challenges and also very attentive and respectful of each other’s boundaries and needs. David is easily my favorite. I felt the relationship was sometimes a bit unbalanced, even taking into account their dynamic. I was not entirely swept away by the romance. I’d have liked a little more angst and emotional intensity. It was almost too sweet and reasonable for me.
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