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Behind Women & Men Thinking
Pria dan wanita, rasa-rasanya berada di dunia yang berbeda. Ibaratnya nih ya pria dari Mars, sedangkan wanita dari Venus. Dianggap selalu berbeda dari segi gender, pemikiran, hingga tingkah laku, membuat pria dan wanita memiliki kesulitan untuk memahami masing-masing. Banyak sekali pertanyaan yang ingin dilontarkan oleh pria dan wanita, terutama saat mempertanyakan sikap yang tidak sesuai ekspektasi.
Tepat banget nih, karena pria dan wanita saling penasaran dengan dunianya masing-masing maka buku ini akan membahas tentang apa yang pria maupun wanita pikir-kan dan mengapa sikap dan tindakan bisa berbeda satu sama lain. Dalam buku ini, juga ada beberapa tips menarik, lho, yang tentunya akan membantu kalian untuk saling mengenal lebih dalam. Jadi, dengan membaca buku ini, kalian akan paham apa yang harus dilakukan. Tidak hanya untuk memahami lawan jenis, tetapi bisa juga membantumu memahami diri sendiri.
Tepat banget nih, karena pria dan wanita saling penasaran dengan dunianya masing-masing maka buku ini akan membahas tentang apa yang pria maupun wanita pikir-kan dan mengapa sikap dan tindakan bisa berbeda satu sama lain. Dalam buku ini, juga ada beberapa tips menarik, lho, yang tentunya akan membantu kalian untuk saling mengenal lebih dalam. Jadi, dengan membaca buku ini, kalian akan paham apa yang harus dilakukan. Tidak hanya untuk memahami lawan jenis, tetapi bisa juga membantumu memahami diri sendiri.
292 pages, Paperback
Published January 1, 2022
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February 20, 2024
I'm trying so hard to love this book, but I can't.
I feel like there are too many characteristics explained in this book that are too stereotypical or generalized for each gender which (obviously) isn't 100% true. The writer sees men and women through a traditional lens and fails to recognize others who don't fit into that category.
There are some points in this book that I think could be harmful in trying to understand men and women. For example, on page 40, the writer wrote:
"...Entah kenapa wanita merasa tertantang ketika bersaing dengan wanita lainnya. Ia tidak mau kalah dengan wanita lainnya..."
As a woman myself, I disagree with this paragraph. The writer wrote this without any grounds of facts or research to back it up and just based on an assumption about women.
On page 28, the writer views men who are being vulnerable with how they feel as "cengeng". She wrote:
"...Pria harus lebih berani mengekspresikan perasaanya. Tak apa-apa terlihat cengeng..."
I could go on explaining each point in this book, but you get the idea.
The topic itself is interesting. This book could improve with more thorough research. And with this kind of topic, I think it is better to have fewer points written based on assumptions or stereotypes, and more on facts.
I feel like there are too many characteristics explained in this book that are too stereotypical or generalized for each gender which (obviously) isn't 100% true. The writer sees men and women through a traditional lens and fails to recognize others who don't fit into that category.
There are some points in this book that I think could be harmful in trying to understand men and women. For example, on page 40, the writer wrote:
"...Entah kenapa wanita merasa tertantang ketika bersaing dengan wanita lainnya. Ia tidak mau kalah dengan wanita lainnya..."
As a woman myself, I disagree with this paragraph. The writer wrote this without any grounds of facts or research to back it up and just based on an assumption about women.
On page 28, the writer views men who are being vulnerable with how they feel as "cengeng". She wrote:
"...Pria harus lebih berani mengekspresikan perasaanya. Tak apa-apa terlihat cengeng..."
I could go on explaining each point in this book, but you get the idea.
The topic itself is interesting. This book could improve with more thorough research. And with this kind of topic, I think it is better to have fewer points written based on assumptions or stereotypes, and more on facts.
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