CW: bully, racism, infidelity
Me: 😭😭😭😭😭😭
This book is great, I highly recommend. I'm, like, literally 99.8% Jewish so I don't have anything CLOSE to another heritage to explore, but I'm so excited for what this book might say about the state of publishing. This is the heart of We Need Diverse Books and I'm so, so happy it exists.
Sometimes it can be much more difficult to review a book you loved than a book you hated, which is how I've been feeling since I finished this one.
I did read a review where someone pointed out that Mia's parents acted somewhat unrealistically, but I didn't mind it, since this story is told through the eyes of a 12/13-year-old. And, really, were any of us the most reasonable at that age? I could definitely see how Mia's age and experience could color how she reads and responds to her mother's words. While this story is certainly not presented with an unreliable narrator, I think taking her age and the expected readers' ages into accounts, it's not necessarily unreasonable.
The following review was published in my synagogue bulletin:
Mia's parents divorced when she was three and she hasn't seen her father in years. She lives in California with her Jewish mother and step-father, while her father lives in Oklahoma. Mia attends a Jewish school, is involved in the Jewish community, and has the rabbi over for Shabbat dinner. But her father isn't Jewish - he's a Muscogee American Indian. Desperate to learn more about her heritage, Mia uses her Bat Mitzvah money to travel across the country in search of her roots.
This graphic novel is about joy - the joy of discovery, the joy of personal identity. I found myself grinning all the way through this story as Mia experienced the happiness of finding her heritage and finding how all the parts of herself fit together into a whole. This story also covers the importance of acceptance and downfalls of expectation of homogeny in the Ashkenazi communities of America. Jews come from all backgrounds and may not have just one heritage to be proud of.