Recently I confided to my husband that I was feeling lost and aimless and I didn’t know how to change it. My kids are 20 somethings now, needing me less and less. I’d happily given up a career, that paid the bills but did little else, to raise my three babies. 25 years later I now have a “career” that’s happily giving me up, so when I came across “The Life List”, it gently beckoned and whispered “you need me”.
Kate is an engaging, funny and insightful writer. All your emotions will be tugged as you read her heartbreaking story of love and loss, and the life she’s rebuilding from the ashes of grief. But this book isn’t really about that. It’s about recognising that there shouldn’t come a time in your life when you feel like you haven’t put yourself first in a really long time. That life shouldn’t feel like it might be slipping by a little too quickly and that it shouldn’t take a catastrophic event to feel like it’s ok to demand time for your wants and needs.
Eagerly devouring page after page, I started feeling inspired but then doubts started to gnaw at me. How do I start? Can I afford time and money? Are these things I want silly? Frivolous? Doable? As women, we really are conditioned to put others first! Kate takes each of these doubts and shows you how to turn them around and work towards “I can do this, I will do this”. This book provides a template for getting started and making a plan, how to identify and neutralise the negatives. It will not only encourage you to dream silly, dream small, dream big and dream impossible, it shows you how to achieve each and every one in a practical way. More importantly, it will empower you to finally put yourself first and be ok with it. It’s your time, it’s your life!
I highly recommend this book if you’re in a rut, wanting more from life and needing a guide to help and push you to just do it and feel great about it. I can’t wait to use Kate’s template to design my own life list, and be brave enough to cross every item off it!