Gingered: A Memoir

by Ryan G. Murphy

With his debut book, Gingered, redhead Ryan G. Murphy brings readers on a hilarious and heartwarming journey featuring true short stories spanning nearly 40 years - from his earliest memory (auditioning for a 1980's soap opera), to being initiated into a notorious New York City gang (The Hoods), to being on the lam from the FBI. Gingered is for anyone who has ever felt insecure and for everyone who has experienced the magic of learning to laugh at themselves. Praise for "Gingered."

"A born humorist, Ryan Murphy finds comedy in the universal experiences that bind us. Gingered is at once laugh-until-you-cry hilarious, achingly human, packed with nostalgia, and full of life. I cannot recommend this book enough—these stories demand to be read aloud and shared with others."

- Lindsay Newton, Editor & Publishing Consultant

“Genuine humor is untouchable and Ryan can’t be touched. His debut book hits the center of the bullseye. I’m certain you’ll absolutely love how enjoyable these stories are.”

- Logan Gelbrich, author of Going A Logical Justification for Pursuing Your Dreams

"Murph has opened the vault to his life, revealing a treasure of hilarity, heart, and hope. The laugh-out-loud moments brought me to tears. He makes ordinary, extraordinary. This is a must read!"

- Sue Salvemini, author of the bestselling Leadership by Choice

"Ryan takes the reader right back to the angst, the awkwardness, and everything that goes with being in the tween stage of life. It's funny and painful all at once."

- Author Darcy Nybo, on Ryan's award-winning short story, Roller Magic

“I can assure you that Murph has never been wanted by the FBI, despite what one of his hilarious stories within this book will try to get you to believe.”

- Eric O’Neill, former FBI field operative and author of the bestseller, Gray Day

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Genres: Memoir, Nonfiction

Kindle Edition

Published December 16, 2022

Reviews

[Lynn Moore · Rating 5 out of 5]

In my experience today, it seems a "comedy" description for a movie or book should be loosely taken. People want and need laughter in a world full of fear and uncertainty therefore marketers 'sell' with the 'comedy' label. My disappointments have been a great many. But not this time, thanks to Ryan Murphy!

There is not a page wherein I didn't snicker, giggle, widely smile, guffaw or laugh so hard the tears in my eyes blocked the words on the page and I peed my pants (4 times!). Murphy definitely deserves the title "humorist".

Anecdotes from Murphy's life form the chapters rich with self-deprecating hilarity. His pre-school years find his cuteness as a redhead toddler the subject of numerous framed photos on the walls of his parent's home plus an audition for possible fame on TV. However, his life flips upside down when he enters school and becomes mercilessly teased with names such as Dorito Head and Little Orphan Annie along with certain jokes at his expense all pertaining to his Carrot Top.

As real life is never all just a walk in merriment, Murphy sprinkles a bit of pathos in some chapters thus we can empathize with him as an ordinary human. His writing with both humour and heartache is excellent.

The book is a short read with chapters on the short side and this suited me, as a reader, well. It was just enough to leave us wanting more and given how the book ended I'm sure there will be plenty more material for which we can all relate. I think I'll stock up on some new underwear.

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Meg · Rating 5 out of 5]

Gingered is a humorous and heart string tugging nostalgia walk through the life of Ryan G. Murphy. One chapter you are giggling about the awkwardness that is life and the next you have to grab a tissue. This book flowed wonderfully from chapter to chapter but I would have loved to see some pictures in there to cement the stories into my head. Overall it was a lovely walk through the authors life and I thoroughly enjoyed my time reading it. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Lisbeth Ivies · Rating 5 out of 5]

I wasn't sure about reading this one based on just the blurb, but something made me at least open up the excerpt and take a look. By the end of the first page, I had already decided I needed to read this.

The humor is what initially drew me in, but that's not all this book has to offer either. Be prepared to run a gamut of different emotions. Looking at it objectively, the author's life might be considered more 'normal' than what most would think of for a memoir. But it's the lens Murphy makes us look through that truly made this book such a joy to read. Well, that and the near flawless writing.

[Mandy Croning · Rating 5 out of 5]

The voice over from The wonder Years meets the tone and wit of David Sedaris. Comical and relatable childhood stories capped off with adult anecdotes. Whether you are gingered or not, you won't be seeing 'red', because this is hysterically funny.

[Kate Mountcastle]

I don’t give star ratings to memoirs - it feels too much like rating a person’s life on a scale of 1-5. But this book was delightful. A consistently funny, often poignant, and genuinely heartfelt love letter to growing up through the end of the 20th century, this book is comprised of a series of anecdotes from the author’s life as a ginger. To be fair, Murphy’s ginger-ness isn’t actually that central of a feature in his story, especially once he moves into adulthood, but it does feature in one or two of the more memorable moments of the book, including a ginger Afro holding a whole classroom’s worth of pens, pencils and other stationary items. The book includes stories about Murphy’s time as an altar boy, being confused for the other Ryan Murphy (of Glee fame), and a war on house flies. Some of its most significant moments, though, were those that explored Murphy’s relationships with the people around him; how those people made him who he is today, and the impact he has also had on their lives. He writes with earnest love of his parents, grandparents (and a larger-than-life step grandparent), his wife, and many others, and in many ways this book is an homage to all of those people, who you really do feel you come to know as a reader throughout the book.


A slice of life memoir that anyone will be able to enjoy!

[Tina Baker · Rating 5 out of 5]

I often find books that are spruiked as funny tend not to be that amusing, as they often focus on a situation or lifestyle few of us can relate to.

I’m glad to say that Gingered is totally relatable which makes it absolutely hilarious. There were times when my partner came to check on me because I was crying with laughter. I think what Murphy does best is find the humour in everyday situations; the kind of situations which are meaningful for us all. Nor is he trying to portray himself as anything but a well-meaning, clumsy fool, someone who exists in all of us. In particular, Murphy captures the gauche nature of children and teens really well and how, even when we’re adulting, this awkwardness is still there waiting to prick any hubris we may feel as we finally achieve something grown up.

Told as a series of short stories, each chapter paints a (usually excruciating) moment in Murphy’s life with vivid colour and hilarious description. There are also moments of pathos, which are depicted with genuine warmth and feeling.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author via Voracious Readers Only and for that I am eternally grateful!

[Amanda Kaiser · Rating 4 out of 5]

Gingered: A Memoir covers the first forty years of Ryan Murphy’s life. He hooked me in chapter four with his hilarious portrayal of his grandfather and his grandfather’s unique entrepreneurial ventures. From that chapter on, Murphy finds his rhythm with a slow build up in each chapter to an expected punch line that has you howling with laughter. A Boy Scout syrup fight (when Murphy kindly chooses to defend himself with Aunt Jemima instead of his pocketknife) to rescuing his girlfriend from a dumpster filled with ice water during a Tough Mudder race, Murphy has had his share of comical experiences. His penchant for humor is obvious in his writing, but it is coupled with a vulnerability that lets readers in. By the end of the memoir, readers have been along for the ride of him getting to know his grandfather as the overgrown child who becomes Ryan’s closest friend, as well as his initial hesitancy dating yet another Pam to their starting a life together and eventually trying to grow their family. A fun read that is deeper than the initial premise may suggest.

[Marcia Vida · Rating 5 out of 5]

Being an only child can sometimes be really challenging. Due to the fact that I went through a similar situation, I totally understand what the author was going through.

Ryan G. Murphy describes the story of his life with perfect precision and humor. In the early years of his life, he caught the attention of a lot of people for his red and curly hair. There is no doubt that he looked like an angel considering he was impossible not to say something sweet towards him.

It was his audition for a soap opera called Ryan's Hope that made me laugh out loud. Although he had no experience as a child actor, he didn't like the casting director. In an attempt to get his smile, she tried many resources without success. Her worst moment was when she tickled his belly, which got a bad reaction from him. Occasionally, children are sensitive.

Hence, this book is brilliant and kept me turning the pages. Having read the story, I wonder what his parents thought of it.

Definitely worth a shot.

[Marilyn Watson · Rating 5 out of 5]

"GINGERED" by Ryan G. Murphy is a delightful memoir which gave me some hearty laughs (even while sitting in the dentist's waiting room!). It also has some very sad moments but the author manages to inject it with humour, looking at incidents with a different perspective, enabling us to see the funny side, or maybe even teaching us a few things a along the way. The writer has an excellent writing style, flowing easily, encouraging one to read more, very interested to find out the next hilarious adventure or misadventure as the case may be. We (the readers) rejoice when good things happen and empathise too when we read of the not so cheerful events. I would heartily recommend this book - I can't imagine as anyone not thoroughly enjoying it! I'm very grateful to VORACIOUS READERS ONLY and to the author, Ryan G. Murphy, for giving me the opportunity to read it, for an honest review.

[Lee Cottam · Rating 4 out of 5]

Red heads receive a lot of bad press and they are often teased and taunted at school. How fantastic to see someone take ownership of their red hair and turn it into a funny and engaging book.
Ryan Murphy has written a wonderful memoir full of wry humour about growing up as a ginger haired person. He talks about incidents at school, in the playground, at church and the pain of being just that little bit different but he always uses humour and witty language.
I really enjoyed this story. I spent most of my time reading it with a smile on my lips.
Just to add something. Red heads may be teased world wide but they have some amazing festivals to celebrate their flaming locks. From the Irish Redhead Convention to Red Love in France to the Night of the Walking Red, I embrace this concept when it comes to hair colour. Long live Diversity!
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[Donna · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved this! It is an open and honest book about the life of Ryan Murphy. It covered stories from his life and about people that meant so much to him. Beautiful descriptions, with lots of moments that I, and I am sure, other readers find relatable. It is these stories that made me laugh out loud. The observational take on them had me nodding in agreement and made the stories even funnier. The beautiful description of senior-citizen wedding being a reminder of “love has no age limit and that second chances in life are real” just hit the soft spot of the heart. Follow this with the best quote from Pam about the honorary key to the city…”we already have enough keys” this had me chuckling all evening. Thank you Ryan for sharing so openly your experiences and wishing you and your family all the best for the future.

[Reza Mohammadhassan · Rating 4 out of 5]

"Gingered. A Memoir" by Ryan G. Murphy is a humorous and heartfelt journey through the author's life as a redhead. The memoir is a collection of short stories that highlight the ups and downs of growing up with a distinctive appearance. Murphy's comedic talent shines through as he navigates childhood experiences, schoolyard challenges, and family dynamics with wit and charm.

The book begins with tales of Murphy's early childhood, where his unique hair color garners both adoration and unwanted attention. His humor is evident as he recounts attempts to change his red hair and his mother's efforts to preserve it. The narrative is filled with nostalgic references and relatable moments that evoke laughter and empathy. Murphy's ability to find humor in the ordinary and his candid reflections on personal insecurities make this memoir engaging and relatable. The praise from various authors and editors underscores the memoir's appeal and Murphy's storytelling prowess.

Overall, "Gingered. A Memoir" is a delightful read that combines humor, heart, and nostalgia, making it a must-read for anyone who enjoys well-crafted, laugh-out-loud stories.

[Christine Weald · Rating 5 out of 5]

True accounts of the author’s life growing up as a red headed boy then man. The story is humorous but also illuminating to the sensitivities and insecurities of this condition. He describes his frustrations over people doting over his ginger curly locks and how one day he has had enough and decides to do something.

Studies of children with this gene producing red hair show they often receive negative treatment which leads to lowered self-esteem, feeling different, and being cognizant of being the center of attention. The author describes many of these findings in his various accounts of growing up.

The book reads well, taking you though his life’s journey. It can be read a piece at a time without losing the thread.

I leave this review voluntarily.

[Andrea · Rating 5 out of 5]

Omg! I found this book by accident and it was such a happy accident! This book had me hysterical from start to finish. The book takes place in Staten Island, New York for the most part and it brought back so many childhood memories. Murphy talks about going to Blockbuster video and video giant, and I can recall going there every week with my mother and sister to pick out our videos. I also recall people selling bootleg videos just like his grandpa. The author and I are the same age, and it was like reliving my own Staten Island experience…. I recommend reading this book, especially if you are from the New York City area. I will recommend this book to everyone that I know who is from Staten Island.

[Felina Pittman · Rating 3 out of 5]

Gingered is a collection of short narratives depicting the childhood, adolescent and adult life experiences of the author. Ginger in the urban dictionary means one who has coloured hair ranging in shades from red to strawberry blonde so the title is in reference to the color of the writer's hair which has earned him notoriety and fame in his early life. Some of the stories were hit or miss but my general opinion is the anecdotes were full of hilarious instances that could tickle your funny bone, relatable coming of age encounters and stirring and touching moments especially with his grandfather, his best friend. If the reader is in search of quick & easy to read memoir peppered and littered with good earthy humor here and there, then this is the book for you!

[Joelle Gibson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is an absolute gem. From the very first page, I was hooked by Murphy’s incredible storytelling and sharp, witty prose. He’s a gifted writer, effortlessly drawing you into a world that’s as heartfelt as it is hilarious. I loved how nostalgic it was as well, if you grew up in the 80s/90s you will appreciate the stories in this book.

Gingered had me laughing until I cried, and then crying until I laughed. It’s rare to find a book that balances humor and emotion so beautifully, but Gingered does it with grace and authenticity. If you’re looking for a read that will move you, entertain you, and stay with you long after the final page, this is it.

[Becky M. · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was refreshing memoir that made me laugh out loud at times and get a little teary eyed at others. At first I thought I was reading a memoir on “THE” Ryan Murphy, you know the one he made Glee and AHS…instead I got to dive into the life of a ginger with one good sense of humor. At first I was like who is this guy and why is he worthy of having a memoir? Don’t let that discourage you! The book is full of funny, relatable stories, with each story being a little treat you get to enjoy as the author experiences life. Definitely recommend!

[Christopher Arrigali · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this! This was a really fast read - a collection of anecdotes totaling just over 200 pages. I would have finished it faster had I not been interrupted by a long weekend away.

Ryan has a great talent for writing about personal and poignant moments in his life with candor and much humor. I laughed out loud many times throughout this book and could really relate to a lot of his experiences. His relationship with his grandfather, Gramps, was especially heartwarming.

Life is full of moments like these. I can’t recommend this enough.

[Emily Phelps · Rating 4 out of 5]

4.5 stars.

Right from the start Ryan grabbed my attention. He is a great storyteller and is so very relatable. Even not being a ginger, this memoir invokes a lot of memories of being different as a child and young teen.What he shared about his family and the relationships he had with different family members was entertaining. His relationship with his grandfather was the most heartwarming- “GRAMPS.” I would recommend this book for anybody who wants a light, fun, and easy read.

I was given a copy through Voracious Readers Only.

[Jessica · Rating 4 out of 5]

(I received a complimentary review copy of this book from the author via Voracious Readers Only)

These stories were well-written and easy to read, and I appreciated the chronological order. As a redhead I could relate to some of the stories very well (especially the one about going to the beach), but even the stories I couldn't relate to were entertaining and humorous or heart-warming. I just wish that some of the stories were a bit longer!

[Chris GW · Rating 5 out of 5]

I found this book through Voracious Readers. I probably wouldn’t have come across it otherwise.

This was pure delight. There are some hilarious anecdotes that really did cause me to laugh out loud. The pens story in particular, and accounts of being an altar boy.

There were sadder moments - involving individuals that you get to know earlier in the book. However, these sad moments were wonderfully written.

I hope that there is a sequel.

[Martin Edwards · Rating 5 out of 5]

Review copy from Voracious Readers. A memoir of a life with the BEST colour of hair! Lots of laugh out loud moments, and a few tear jerking moments too..... I don't think ive read an autobiography of someone I'd never heard of before. This was good because I had no preconceptions. Would Ryan turn out to be a hero or a villain? Well, you'll need to read it to find out! Easy to read and an honour to be welcomed into the Murphy family, even for a short time.

[Trisha Asher · Rating 4 out of 5]

LOL moments

This was a great flash to the past. Reminiscing about some past time classic topics like burning movies and Tae Bo. His writing really brings it all back like it was yesterday and is good at putting you in the moment. You can remember growing up feeling some of these same feelings and doing some of these great fads…tae bo…haven’t thought about that in years!! Nice casual read that I looked forward to everyday to put a smile on my face.

[LOVEROFBOOKS · Rating 5 out of 5]

4.5 stars rounded up...

This book made me laugh more than the last few David Sedaris books I've read, and the recent one from Danny Pellegrino. I hope he writes more books, but keeps the vulgarity down.

I don't like so many curse words in my books, but he made me laugh so often that I can only deduct a half star for those moments.

I loved hearing about his growing up years, his tight knit family and his troubles as a red head. He's a great storyteller, so I loved it!

[Ashley · Rating 4 out of 5]

I thought this was both hilarious and heartwarming! There were definitely quite a few moments where I laughed out loud. I really related to the 90s references, even though I think I'm a few years younger than the author. The stories with Gramps were really sweet. I think I maybe just felt a disconnect between some of the stories that were more mischievous and funny in comparison to the sweet Gramps stories. I overall really enjoyed this and will recommend it! I received an advance review copy for free and I'm leaving this review voluntarily.

[Rachael Maag · Rating 4 out of 5]

I quite enjoyed reading Gingered. Ryan Murphey has the ability to take normal, everyday experiences and infuse humor. There were some stories that had me literally laughing out loud-belly laughs, not just a soft chuckle. I also appreciate that he addressed the fact that he has the same name as a well known producer. I loved getting insight into his life, and the humor he shared.

[Coleen · Rating 4 out of 5]

I received this book months ago through voracious readers only in exchange for an objective review and am glad I finally made time to read it. It was a perfect summer read in that each chapter is a story unto itself so easy reading for picking up and putting down. The stories were sweet, funny, whimsical and overall really enjoyable.

[Pamela · Rating 4 out of 5]

As a redhead myself, I just had to read this book. I definitely could relate to many things Ryan wrote about and actually found myself laughing out loud to so many of his stories. If you need a laugh, just read this book.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author via Voracious Readers Only.

[Bronwyn Delaney · Rating 4 out of 5]

A very pleasant read. If you were ever one of the last picked for a team, endured pretending to be fine if not involved with the popular group, then a lot of Ryan's memoirs will resonate with you.
Written from real experience but in a way that just takes you on a life story often filled with wit, sadness, anger but always from the heart.

[Petula Naylor · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved reading this book. He writes with such honesty. I felt he was a friend. It made me smile, laugh and cry. Very humorous, but also made me feel angry at injustices, and sad. I read the book through quickly because l found it so captivating and hard to put down. Could have read more. I love the way he writes.