If you think you’re going to pick up this book and stop putting your foot in your mouth, think again. We are all about to make mistakes. We are about to make more mistakes than before. Don’t worry, Suzy will be there with you, telling you about times when she got it wrong; we are all in this together.
You know that person in your office who you wish success for but don’t understand fully or know anything about outside of work? You don’t share a common [fill in the blank: ethnicity, religion, upbringing, disability, sexual orientation], and you’re not sure how to reach out. Chances are you’re not inviting them out for coffee, hesitating before you give constructive feedback at work for fear of how it will be received, not chatting with them about their weekend, not connecting on a human level. Chances are you are holding them back by being nice but standoffish.
Well, that is all that is about to change – you are about to put yourself out there, get it wrong sometimes, get it right sometimes, but engage fully and personally. It will be hard and take conscious effort, but it will bring more richness into your life, more dynamic engagement at work, and in 6 months, you’ll wonder what was so hard.
That is until the next time you need to cross that divide and reach out to the next person or situation that is not in your comfort zone.