Andy Williams just skims the surface of his career with very few personal details of his life or stories behind his music. Instead of giving us any insight he deflects by actually telling many more stories about others than about himself, and gives ridiculously detailed descriptions of hotel accommodations, clubs he sang in, and meals he ate instead of being vulnerable about himself.
He spends way too much time on the Kennedys (about 10% of the pages) and seems very defensive of famous friends who have gained a lot of negative publicity (Sinatra, JFK, RFK, his ex-wife who shot her lover to death). In the end the book seemed like a humble brag--where he tries to tell us how insecure he is but how many famous people he knew and how rich he got.
The early parts of the book are best, where he talks about growing up in Iowa and being pushed by his father into the music business with his brothers. His dad taught him to be a perfectionist when putting on a show, and that caused a lot of anxiety in Andy (who later in life came to hate being on stage). Even in reviewing his childhood he provides some snide negative comments about those he has a beef with, including his father. That trait runs throughout the book and reflects his Iowa Stubborn background, where proud people talk like they're kind while ignoring you or insulting you.
That's not to say the stage father isn't to blame for forcing Andy and his brothers to not play sports, move every couple years, and even cheat at school. The dad paid an older girl to do Andy's homework so he could practice his singing instead! The brothers had no life outside forced performing.
Once he gets to his career he focuses a lot on a couple of people who help catapult him to success, particularly Kay Thompson. The two are an odd pairing and her mentorship turns sexual, though he only writes one sentence about this affair with a woman old enough to be his mother. Meanwhile 20 pages are devoted to the towns they tour, places they stay, and minor daily details. Thompson seems to have single-handedly given him his career and the structure he needed to make it--but even she gets subtly slammed by Williams when he discovers she is making a lot of money off of his newfound success (he agreed to give her 50% of his income at one point). This guy holds grudges while smiling outwardly.
There are some odd errors in the text, that obviously was written by a coauthor or ghost writer. He has a little sister who is a year younger, but the first time Andy sings publicly with his brothers he says he "was five or six" and "our little sister Janey just two years old." HUH? Is she a year younger or not? He mentions knowing Doris Day in Cincinnati when she sang "Sentimental Journey," which he claims "remained Doris's theme song throughout her career." What? "Que Sera Sera" became her theme song from the 1950s on.
When he finally hits it big the book falters and over half of it is name-dropping the famous people he knew, including wasted pages on the backgrounds of many stars he has little to do with. It's weird that Williams doesn't give us any details about conversations or activities with these big names--just saying that he spent the night listening to gospel music with Elvis or playing golf with a U.S. president is not really telling us life stories. And if you're looking for any background details on how some his famous songs came to be you won't find it here--he doesn't even mention some of them nor seem to understand which ones will live on in history. For example, he focuses often on "Butterfly," which was a very early hit that many have never heard today, but pretty much ignores "The Most Wonderful Time of the Year," which will be played every holiday season for centuries.
The Kennedy section is frustrating because Williams is a Republican and although he becomes so close with Bobby Kennedy that he flies across the country with the candidate on a private jet and vacations often with the Kennedys (including with Jackie), we're supposed to believe the two never talked politics nor did Andy ever reveal his voter affiliation? It was only when Kennedy asked Andy to be a delegate for him at the convention that Williams said he was a Republican, to which Bobby simply told him to switch parties.
It is interesting to hear the inside story about what went on the night of RFK's murder but Andy's defense of the Kennedys and his claim that they were anti-Mafia are naive and historically inaccurate. There are many statements made in the book that are odd or incorrect opinions.
I love Andy Williams as a singer and had hoped for much more openness or self-awareness in this book. He does state that he regrets traveling too much for work and missing time with his kids (as most celebs do in memoirs) but in the end he places himself on a very high pedestal. While he was, to me, the greatest solo male vocalist of all time, it would have been nice to have him share more of his failings and intimate stories instead of trying to make himself look so perfect.
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