This month I read Father Greg and the Homeboys: The Extraordinary Journey of Father Greg Boyle and His Work with the Latino Gangs of East L.A. by Celeste Fremon. It is a biography of a white, middle-aged, Jesuit Priest who is assigned to a church in a neighborhood of East L.A. that has something like eight different gangs in one square mile. ‘G’, as the boys like to call him, worked to befriend all of the boys, despite gang affiliation, help them get jobs and help them get out of the gangs. G uses what he calls ‘radical empathy’ to help the boys. He does not judge them or reprimand or look down on them for being in a gang, he understands them and acts as the father that most never had, one that is always there for them and loves them no matter what. This, you come to realize, it something that these boys have never had and the one thing they want and need the most.
What affected me the most about this book was that Father Greg was never a gang member, did not grow up in East L.A., and had almost none of the problems that these boys face everyday. Despite this, he was able to connect with them, get through to them and help them. This makes me think of my own service and the clients that I help everyday. I don’t have children, I have a job and I am living in my native country speaking my native language. However, this book gave an example of how one can connect and help people who are radically different than oneself. This will help me with my students if I practice my own version of ‘radical empathy.’