a review from a lover so don't take it seriously. during the second reading, I felt like my heart was beating so fast as If I was in a race.. when it comes to me, it's not an ordinary book. I started reading it for the first time when I was 19. my life was in a mess. suddenly I found a bunch of books, then the instability hid away, and everything turned to be in order again. So, I wanted more of such books and less of everything in the world. Moreover, if you left a meeting with the feeling that you could have done better, you still have the knowledge, the ability to think and you are fully aware of the consequences of not saying certain things, but it still sucks. it hurts so much not to be that productive guy!. if you have some troubles using communication skills or you are a little bit shy. read this book. if you are supposed to give a speech or presentation you need to read this book.