Yes, it's true--girls just wanna have fun. And there's plenty of sexy fun to be had with the straight talk and practical advice offered here. With wit, warmth, and good humor, the pathway to great sex is revealed, including the best positions for achieving multiple orgasms, stimulating your sexual confidence, and teaching your partner how to please you. You'll find out how to train your sexual muscles and hit the G-spot, A-spot, and other erogenous zones, get tips for keeping your sex life fresh and exciting, and read sensual tales from real women who have learned the secrets of sizzling sex. For those women who have never experienced an orgasm, help is on the way with expert guidance on breaking through the physical and psychological barriers that hold you back, as well as help in choosing and using vibrators and other toys and making your sexual fantasies come true.
I hate when an overall decent book includes just a few lines that ruin the whole thing, and in this one there were three things I couldn't get past.
One was the multiple mentions of rape fantasies or even bestial fantasies that crossed the line from "fantasize about what turns you on" into unethical and unhealthy. Another was a dismissal of concern in the FAQs about vaginismus and tension as being "rare and unlikely" instead of addressing a huge barrier to female sexuality and climax: trauma.
And finally, the kicker, in the first chapter, "Getting in the Mood", she says "It's impossible to be suicidal if you've had a manicure. Forget basket weaving - I'd give manic depressives an eyelash curler and a lipstick." I can't think of a more atrociously dismissive, invalidating, cruel, and flat out WRONG thing to say about mental health and confidence in the context of sex. This author needs a lesson or two on mental health before she should be giving advice to anyone.
In an otherwise decent book, this callousness on the part of the author, editor, and ultimately, publisher, has me unwilling to give it a good rating or recommend it at all. Simon & Schuster should be embarrassed to have okayed a book with such disastrous comments on mental health.