فن الخطابة

by Dale Carnegie, ديل كارنيجي

لأعوام طويلة اقترن اسم "دايل كارنيجي" بكسب الأصدقاء والتأثير بالناس. لأن كتابه "كيف تكسب الأصدقاء" هو من أشهر الكتب التي عادت عليه بشهرة دولية. لكن هذا لم يكن أول كتاب له. ففي سنة 1926، أعدَّ "دايل كارنيجي" كتاباً بعنوان "فن الخطابة" الذي ما زال يعتبر حتى يومنا هذا أحد الكتب الرئيسية في "معهد دايل كارنيجي" المشهور عالمياً. لقد بيعت ستمائة ألف نسخة من هذا الكتاب في السنوات العشر الأخير، ومليون نسخة من مجلداته. ونشر في حوالي عشرين لغة وبيعت آلاف النسخ من ترجماته المختلفة وذلك لما كان يحتويه من أفكار قيمة لحياتنا اليومية. وكذلك لما يشتمل عليه من الحكم والمقترحات التي تساعد كل إنسان على التواصل مع الناس كأفراد أو مجموعات، والتحدث إليهم بفعالية. والكتاب بشكل عام مقسم إلى اثنا عشر فصلاً عالجت العناوين التالية: الشجاعة وليدة الثقة بالنفس، إعداد الخطاب، اقرأ خطب المشاهير، تنمية الذاكرة، أهم عناصر الخطب الناجحة، تعلم فن الإلقاء، الوقفة المنبرية: حضور وثقافة وشخصية، مقدمة الخطاب، اختتام الخطاب، اجعل عباراتك واضحة وأفكارك مرتبة، أثر الاهتمام واجتذاب الانتباه، تحسين الأسلوب.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction, Communication, Personal Development, Business, Psychology, Leadership

144 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1915

About the author

Dale Carnegie was an American writer and teacher of courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books.
One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior towards them.

Reviews

[Tharindu Dissanayake · Rating 4 out of 5]

"Unsuspected treasures lie in the smallest library."

"To think, and to feel, constitute the two grand divisions of men of genius - the men of reasoning and the men of imagination."

It's been a while since I got some time to read another Carnegie book, and as always, the book ended up becoming an excellent read. May be it's the complete mastery of the subject, or the unparalleled enthusiasm toward delivering a complete reference, or the natural talent, but whatever it is, reading a book by Carnegie is an enlightening experience. Instead of the typical styles of writing of self-help books, Carnegie's writing feels vivid, dramatic and thoroughly enjoyable. It's very rarely (if not ever) I get to say this about a self-help book. The Art of Public speaking is no exception: I believe this book would be a great help for speakers of any level.

"The efficiency of a book is like that of a man, in one important respect; its attitude toward its subject is the first source of its power."

I've seen Carnegie books being labeled as being too obvious, or too simple (or shallow) by a lot of readers. The main reason for this is, most are impatient with a book like this and ends up skipping from title to title, thinking that they are already familiar with the concepts. That is a big mistake: despite the shallow looking titles, the contents are always quite complex, and the readers should be a little more patient before judging these books by the chapter titles alone. The depths to which Carnegie dives into to drive a point home are truly astounding. However, unlike most of the author's other books, this one did feel a little bit aged. It's not surprising with visual aids becoming a major component of communication, but other than that, every other principle explained here is still very applicable.

"Preparation may either be general of specific; usually in should be both. A life-time of reading, of companionship with stirring thoughts, of wrestling with the problems of life - this constitutes a general preparation of inestimable worth. Out of a well-stored mind, and - richer still - a broad experience, and - best of all - a warmly sympathetic heart, the speaker will have to draw much material that no immediate study could provide. "

"The first sign of greatness is when a man does not attempt to look and act great."

[Amit Mishra · Rating 5 out of 5]

Public speaking is all about building self-confidence. If you are confident enough to face any situation life throws at you seldom you will fell the hesitation.
Dale Carnegie is a time tasted motivational writer that has portrayed the pretty picture of our fear psychology. He has talked about how to be confident in every phase of your life. Whether it's about speaking in a youth speech competition or in a business suit he has shown many fundamentals steps to build self-confidence.
It is a must-have book for everyone

[Alfred Williams · Rating 5 out of 5]

A classic book from a recognized master on the topic. A good read and foundational material for anyone looking at public speaking as a career. I bought this book at special price from here:
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Public-Spe...

[Trung Nguyen · Rating 4 out of 5]

As other Dale Carnegie' books, this book lays out important principles for effective public speaking. I have been trying to apply his suggestions in my talks and I find them very helpful.

A few notes:
- Be genuine interested in the audience: when preparing and giving a talk, I constantly remind myself to appreciate the audience who spend their time (and perhaps money) to listen to me. If the talk is 20 minutes and there are 30 of them, that's already 10 hours so I am responsible for not wasting such precious time. I put myself in their shoes and ask if I were among the audience, what do I want to get from the talk? How can I improve their life and work from my presentation?
- Converse to the audience: a talk given in a natural and conversational manner will enter the audience's mind more easily. This includes using different tones and varying the pitch.
- Do not memorize the talk: I tried memorizing the talk before, it never worked! But one could write down what he wants to convey and then naturally express the points during his speech.
- Be confident: the speaker of a work is usually most qualified to talk about that work (in research in particular). I often tell myself that I know about the subject I'm going to talk about better than most of the audience (and it turns out to be true from my experience). This makes me confident and I can give the speech as if I'm sharing my knowledge and experience with them.
- Be passionate about the topic: if the speaker sounds skeptical of his own work, he will have a hard time convincing the audience about the value of the work
- Tell them what you're going to tell them, tell them, then tell them what you have told them (outline, body, summary)
- Use visualization techniques and figurative words
- Focus on only a few key points (people have short attention span)

[Nehal Abdurhaman · Rating 3 out of 5]

لتصبح خطيبا ً جيدا ً أمام الجمهور و لتحصل على ذلك بسرعة و فعالية هناك 4 أشياء ضرورية :-
أولا ً : - أبدأ برغبة قوية
ثانيا ً :- إعرف تمامًا ما الذي ستتحدث بشأنة .
ثالثا ً :- تصرف بثقة .
( قف مٌستقيما ً و تطلع في عيون الجمهور أبدأ بالكلام بثقة و كأن الجميع يدينون لك بالمال تخيل أنك كذالك
تخيل أنهم تجمعوا ليتوسلوا تمديد مدة الدفع . فالتأثير النفسي الناتج عن ذلك سيكون مفيدا ً )
رابعًا :- تدرب , تدرب , تدرب !

~..~
( أنّ كل إنسان تقريبا ً يصاب بالخوف . لدى إقدامة على أي عمل , لكن الأمر التالي يبقى على الإنسان أن يحتفظ برابطة جأشة
و يتصرف و كأنة غير خائف , فبعد مضي الوقت يتحول الأمر من التظاهر إلى الحقيقة , و يصبح الإنسان غير خائف )

~..~
"تعلمت أن لا أتصرف مثل أي أحد و لا أتبع طريقة تفكير أحد . "
" إذا أردت أن تصبح خطيبا ً واثقا ًفإنك ستصبح خطيبا ًواثقا ًمن نفسة لكن يجب أن [ ترغب ] بذلك "
" لا تفكر بالهزيمة "
"فكّر بالنجاح تَخيل أنك تتحدث أمام الجمهور و أنت ِ تسيطر تمامًا على نفسك "
"أثمن شيء يمكن أن يكتسبه المرء من خلال التدريب على فنّ الخطابة هو الثقة المتزايدة بالنفس "
"ليقف الخطيب مَثل قمم جانفرو الثلجية التي تناطح سماء سويسرا الزرقاء "

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لا بأس به .. عندما أقارنه بكتاب طارق السويدان فن الإلقاء الرائع
الكتاب يحتاج إلى التنظيم و التنسيق بعض الشيء
أبرز ما ميزه كثرة الأمثلة =)

شكرا صديقتي سارة على الإعارة

[Mohammad Drweesh · Rating 5 out of 5]

يقول ديل كارينجي: "أن تقديم قواعد عامة تناسب جميع المناسبات في هذا الكتاب مستحيل، فالأمر يعود للزمان والمكان والانسان نفسه"
لكنني أراه من خير من كتب في هذا الموضوع
حيث حوى كتابه الرائع الخطوات العامة والهامة لفن الخطابة ومزجه بقصص واقعية
لم يكتف ديل كارينجي بذلك وحسب إنما اختتم كتابه بالفصل الأخير بأمثلة من من الحياة العملية تحفز الإنسان وتوطن فيه على أن ليس هناك ثمة شيء يسمى مستحيل.
رتب الكاتب كتابه على شكل فصلول.

[Ashrakat Rady · Rating 5 out of 5]

Since I had been a memmber in an organisation which meant by making projects and in the end of each year there is a competition to choose the most effective project, I noticed how the presentation was a great part of this process it is every team responsibility to show how great they achieved, I was in love with this moment when the oraganizers say "Now, you can begin your presentation"
Because of that I tried a lot to learn about public speaking techniques, through reading, MOOCs, and practical workshops, but something went wrong. My self confidence went down and down every single time..but this boos really was what I was looking for, it is not the book which gives you a fake hope, it gave me a practical solutions, and draw a plan into my head, now I know the skills which I am going to work on, and I have a hope, a hope associated with facts.
I know I can make it, I have the potentials to be a great speaker, all I need know is to practice and develeop them.
The guidelines I am going to make:
1) I made a folder in my labtob, and I am going to make a files, each file has a title to a subject I am interested in, and I will take notes under each title, these notes can be quotes from films and books, can be a personal experience, or just an idea rised up in my mind.
2)I will read the poems I love loudly to practice how to pronounce every single sintence with taking my breath and notice how my tone of voice changes, and finally to express my feelings smoothly.
3)I will watch the great speeches in the history and analyse them, the cratical thinking will strengthen my skills.
4)I will keep reading and take MOOCs in public speaking to learn more and improve this plan.
5)after some months I will reread my files and set the subjects on my mind and I will start to practice them in front of mirror, then in front of my friends finally in front of a strangers.
Wish you all to be a great speakers, and to express your thoughts easily, the world need to know as and our visions reserves this, I believe.

[Farhan Khalid · Rating 4 out of 5]

Spiders, heights, public speaking. Everyone has their own phobias

Speaking in public is a matter of practice

Believe in the subject you’re presenting

You learn to swim by swimming

The only way to become a skilled speaker is by giving speeches

There are three techniques to help you to do that

1. Forget feelings of self-consciousness by becoming absorbed by the subject

2. Have something to say. Memorize at least the first few lines of your speech as a starting point

3. Expect success

Just like in music, monotony is the enemy

The first key to giving a dynamic speech is to use emphasis (changing pitch)

The second and third key techniques are changing pace and pausing

You must become what you’re speaking. Transform yourself into your subject

Eliminate all unnecessary gestures. Make sure they match your message

Your expression should show your enthusiasm and spirit

A strong speaking voice requires good health

Work on improving your memory so that you can speak naturally and in a conversational

Memory system is based on these three laws

1. Start by getting a deep and vivid impression of the thing you want to remember

2. Anything can be memorized if it is repeated often enough

3. The only way to remember something is to associate it with something else

To ignite the hearts and minds of your listeners, you have to arrange the audience in a way to do so

Acknowledge their needs, fears, and aspirations

Arouse your audience's curiosity

Tell a story, or ask a question. Keep their interest by appealing to their interests

To be an effective speaker, you have to be capable of building an argument as well as tearing one down

Use the power of the imagination when delivering a speech

Public speaking is a kind of poetry

Start with a plan. Here are examples

1. The action seeker

State your facts

Argue from them

Appeal for action

2. Show that something is wrong

Show problem

Show how to remedy it

Ask for involvement

3. The educator

Gain the audience’s interest and attention

State facts and educate the audience about the merits of your proposition

Appeal to the motives that will make the audience act

Build up to some kind of climax

Be well rested

Avoid a heavy meal right before speaking

Look well groomed

Smile!

Pay some attention to the physical location where you will be speaking

Crowd the audience together

Keep the air fresh

Light up your face

Resist the temptation to twiddle your thumbs, fuss with your clothes, or play with a pen and paper

Don’t crowd out your space distractions

Avoid guests on the platform

Seat your audience, if possible

[Ali Sallam]

حتى في الحديث اليومي مع الناس

ولمن يريد إلقاء خطبة أو قصيدة

مهارات للتأثير في الناس


طريقة القاء الكلام تؤثر في الناس أكثر من الكلام نفسه


********** بعض الأسرار **********



-شدد على الكلمات المهمة و أخفض الغير مهمة .

-كن إنسانا,تحدث بأسلوبك.

-كن طبيعيا ، وابتسم أثناء التحدث .

-غيّر طبقات صوتك.فهي متموجة.
لا تتحدث أبدا بنبرة صوت واحدة وثابته حتي لا تدفع من يسمعك للملل

-غيّر معدل سرعة صوتك.

-توقف قبل و بعد الأفكار المهمة.

-أنظر إلى أحد الحاضرين من الخلف مثلا و تحدث معه و كأنه لا يوجد غيره في القاعة.


-لا تأكل وجبة دسمة قبل الخطبة,كل قليلا.تناول المشروبات,أخلد للراحة.

-(أهم شي في فن الخطابة هو الإنسان)قف منتصبا !!


حين تتحدث بنشاط وحيوية واهتمام تجذب الاهتمام
حين تتحدث بهدوء شديد تدفع للملل

استنشق نفسا عميقا وابق صدرك عاليا

اذا كانت هناك ضجة توقف حتى تزول

ابدأ كلامك بسؤال أو كلمة تجذب الانتباه

انهي كلامك بنكته مرحه او بمقطع شعري له علاقه بالموضوع

لخص أفكارك باختصار وأعد النقاط باختصار حتى تستمر في جذب الانتباه


قال هوارس :
لا تبحث عن الكلمات ، ولكن ابحث عن الفكرة ، وقتها تأتي الكلمات دون أن تذهب إليها

ويقول المثل الصيني :
من لا يبتسم لا يمكن أن يفتح متجرا

لا تفكر في الهزيمة ولكن فكر في الفوز
تدرب تدرب تدرب
المثابره هي التي تؤدي للنجاح
الق الكلام أمام نفسك وردده بصوت عالي
والقه أمام أصدقائك
كلما أحسست بالخوف انظر لنفسك أنك أهم من كل الذين ينظرون إليك ، وقتها سيذهب الشعور بالخوف والارتباك

[Reemi Reader · Rating 3 out of 5]

فَن الخطابة لـِ ديل كارنجي

كتاب لطيف و مسلي , يتحدث عن النقاط الرئيسية التي يمكن أن تجعل من الخطاب ناجحاً , ويحذر من تصرفات بعض
المحاضرين التي قد تجعل من يستمعون إلى الخطاب يتوقون لانتهائه .

هو تجربتي الثانية مع ديل كارنيجي وقد استمعت إليه ككتاب صوتي

[Ammar Madan · Rating 2 out of 5]

يعتبر هذا الكتب والمؤلف من الشخصات الأولى في هذا المجال بل مجال التعامل مع البشر ..

فيه العديد من النصائح المذهلة والمميزة والتي تعتبر من القواعد الأساسية والرئدة .

[Sotiris Makrygiannis · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the first time that im reading about Public Speaking and will say that this book, despite that is old, is fantastic. It breaks down Public speaking to specific items that anyone could practise and gives a lot of advice, tips on how to do it.

If you are interested on the free audio book version, can be found here:
https://librivox.org/the-art-of-publi...

For sure, will be reading more about the subject and also hear this book again, especially the first 10 chapters.

[Fawzi AlMahdi · Rating 4 out of 5]

كتاب رائع، سلس وبسيط، ملىء بالأمثلة والقصص التي توضح ما يرمي إليه الكاتب..

يأخذ بيدك خطوة بخطوة لتكون خطيبا خطيباً بارعاً مؤثراً في الآخرين...

[Tony Wang · Rating 5 out of 5]

Do you always feel worried to talk with girl? Do you still feel doubtful about how to make public speech? Speaking is an art,if we can use it properly,then we can benefit from it.Want to know how to make yourself be good at speaking? Read this book- The art of public speaking as soon as possible. Unlike previous works on speech, speech patterns described in this book, the integration of public oratory, salesmanship, psychology and business negotiation skills to guide people on how to overcome fear, build self-confidence, in accord with nature to play to their potential intelligence , on various occasions issued the appropriate conversation to gain success in life and business on.Because this is a self-help and self-education book.I don’t think it’s a suspenseful and dramatic. I think do well on introduce public speaking from many facts.Such as talk to friends;make public speech;talk to stranger,etc.This book involve almost all speaking situation that we can meet in our life.I suggest author should add specific sentences that we can say to others to make them happy.Everybody hope can get other’s praise. This book does help us deal with many speaking situations in our life.Although a people who not good at conversation,can improve the skill of talking with others by this book.It’s really a compelling and page-turner book. In my opinion,I think the potential audience might be the people feel hard to talk with others and people always make others mad by themselves bad speaking.I think the people who like reading Carnegie’s book and wish can improving themselves speaking skill would like this book. To sum up,this is a great book that can make our feel better when we talking with other in our life.I recommend people to read this book for improving speaking skill.

[AchiMsd · Rating 3 out of 5]

Am apreciat cu 3 ⭐️ pentru ca e usor de parcurs; altfel.. mai mult de 2 nu aveam pe ‘stoc’.

Cartea a inceput interesant si aproape ca a avut si esenta; esenta a inceput sa se contureze la capitolul 11; unde, autorul, a mai renuntat la a mai servi gogosi si limonada si a spus lucrurile verde-n fata.
Este de apreciat faptul ca, cartea, a fost scrisa in 1926, iar informatiile inca mai reverbereaza, in veridicitate, si astazi.

Tema cartii, vorbitul in public, este un subiect care ne atinge intr-o zona sensibila pe toti.. mai mult sau mai putin. In ciuda faptului ca nu pot sa afirm ca, autorul, mi-a oferit pe teva o reteta care sa ingenuncheze toate secretele oratoriei; cartea este destul de utila pentru a-ti forma bazele in aceasta directie.

Dale Carnagie (mare fan al lui Lincoln - oricine citeste cartea asta isi va da seama) consolideaza prin tehnici urmate de exemple: mentalitatea, atititudinea, pregatirea si expunerea in fata publicului.. a unui orator de succes.

Am sa recomand aceasta carte celor care vor sa inceapa.. sa vorbeasca in public; iar celorlalti: Secretele Succesului - Dale Carnagie (una dintre cele mai bine vandute carti motivationale ale tuturor timpurilor) 🤓

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[Mohammed omran · Rating 3 out of 5]

يقول الفوهرر النازي أدولف هتلر: إن معظم الكلمات التي غيّرت عالمنا لم تُحدثها الكلمة المكتوبة بل الكلمة المنطوقة. وهذا صحيح قطعاً، فلم يكن لهذا السفاح الذي أباد الملايين آلاف الأتباع الذين كانوا يأتمرون بأمره بدون أي اعتراض لو أنه كان يرسل إليهم الكتب والبرقيّات!!

بل إن كلماته المنطوقة، وخطاباته الحماسيّة هي التي ألهبت في نفوسهم الرغبة الجامحة في الطاعة المطلقة له.

وهنا تبرز أهميّة كتاب ديل كارنيجي فنّ الخطابة. الكتاب سيعلمك كيف تقف أمام الناس وتتخلص من التشتت والرهاب الذي يُقال أن معظم البشر يخافونه ويفضلون الموت بدلاً منه!

لكنّ الأمر طبيعي، فمارك توين – الساخر والكاتب الأمريكي – قال إنه أحس بالقطن يحشو فمه عندما قام بإلقاء أول خطبة في حياته، ومحمد القحطاني – بطل العالم في الإلقاء لعام 2015 – كان يتعثر في الكلام كثيراً في صغره!

الأمر طبيعي جداً إذاً، ومع هذا الكتاب الذي سيصقل من مهاراتك الكلاميّة بشكل كبير، سيصبح التحدث أمام حشد ضخم من الناس أمراً عاديّاً بالنسبة لك.

[Desiree Finkbeiner · Rating 3 out of 5]

Most everything in this book is a review of what you learn in college speech class- though these methods are common sense to some of us, this would be a good book for someone who really just needs LOTS of practice. MANY speeches are offered in this book with tips on how to best recite them, but it's really more of a workbook than an informative read. I lost interest many times b/c it was just review information and long winded speeches and poetry from other authors given as examples for the reader to practice to. I would recommend this to anyone who's been told they do not have very good speaking skills. But for a well-seasoned public speaker, this will not be the most exciting read and you may be better off devoting your reading time to other areas.

[Ed Barton · Rating 3 out of 5]

Classic and Dated

This is a classic book, filled with oratory from 100 years ago. The advice is timeless but the book isn’t. There are lots of choices out there, and this isn’t your best choice. Want to read some lost great speeches? You got them here. Want to speak better? Look elsewhere.

[Candleflame23 · Rating 4 out of 5]

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لطالما كانت الخطابة وسيلة تأثير مباشرة ومهمة فكم
من خطبة أشعلت ثورة وكم من خطبة أطفأت فتيل
حرب .

في هذا الكتاب يعرض الكاتب الشهير "دايل كارنيجي"
أفكاره حول فن الخطاب ويعتبر الكتاب أحد أهم الكتب التي تُدرس في معهده بفروع منتشرة حول العالم .

الكتاب مُقسم إلى اثنا عشر فصلاً تناولت الأفكار التالية:
الشجاعة وليدة الثقة بالنفس، إعداد الخطاب، اقرأ
خطب المشاهير، تنمية الذاكرة، أهم عناصر الخطب
الناجحة، تعلم فن الإلقاء، الوقفة المنبرية: حضور وثقافة
وشخصية، مقدمة الخطاب، اختتام الخطاب، اجعل
عباراتك واضحة وأفكارك مرتبة، أثر الاهتمام واجتذاب
الانتباه، تحسين الأسلوب.


كتاب مهم يخدم الخطباء بشكل أكبر من غيرهم .

ماذا بعد القراءة ؟

ففاقدُ الفهمِ لا يُفهِّمُ ، وفاقد الشيءِ لا يعطيهِ !

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[Mădălina Spivacencu · Rating 5 out of 5]

Având în vedere că aveam ✨cât de cât✨o experiență în domeniul oratoriei, lecturarea cărții mi-a pus în nas următorul obiectiv: “exersarea a unui discurs eficient și captivant”. Tehnicile din anii ‘30 rămân până la momentul de față actuale și necesare pentru obținerea unui scop de a vorbi cursiv în fața unui public. Carnegie rămâne autorul care va stârni noi interese prin dezvoltarea încrederii în sine și încrederii din partea celor din jurul tău!

[Sarah Vaseei · Rating 3 out of 5]

نمیشه گفت همه نکاتش نغز و بدیع بود اما اگر به زمان انتشار (۱۹۶۲ م.) و فضایی که این موارد مطرح شده توجه کنیم، می‌بینیم گنجینه‌ی ارشمندی ارائه شده‌. اگر بخوام به کسی پیشنهاد بدم این کتاب رو، میگم صرفا عناوین رو بخونه و اگر نیاز بود به جزئیات توجه کنه.

[Edxfvl · Rating 1 out of 5]

Diciamo che poteva essere sicuramente più utile :(

[Dumitru Moraru · Rating 4 out of 5]

Sunt o fire mai retrasă, introvert, așa că multe sfaturi de aici pentru mine sunt provocatoare, chiar dacă pentru unii pare banal, simplu. Încă mai am frica de a vorbi în public, nu cumva să fac gafe sau să spun vreo prostie. Dacă o să râdă cineva de mine sau nu o să vrea să asculte? Problema nu numai la mine, dar și la mulți e că punem mare preț pe ceea ce cred alții despre noi. Ne facem tot felul de scenarii groaznice unde o dăm în bară, murim de rușine, suntem uzi leoarcă. În realitate lucrurile merg mai bine. Ok, poate nu așa cum dorim, dar pentru asta e nevoie de practică. Multă practică - asta e cheia!
Dale Carnegie oferă sfaturi cum să comunicăm eficient și convingător în diferite împrejurări, cum să avem mai multă încredere în noi înșine, să nu ne pierdem în fața publicului, să ne gestionăm emoțiile și gândurile. Oamenii sunt preocupați de viețile lor, chiar dacă faci o gafă și cineva râde/zâmbește, peste un timp va uita. Nu are rost să te stresezi, unii chiar râd de propriile greșeli. Mulți oratori celebri în tinerețe aveau dificultăți de dicție. O metodă este să te prefaci curajos și să apuci taurul de coarne, chiar dacă nu ai curaj. S-ar putea să fie un eșec, dar nu trebuie de dat mâinile jos. Prin practică capeți experiență, mai mult curaj și încredere în sine. Și trebuie să știi ce vrei să spui. O greșeală mare e că așteptăm să avem încredere în sine și apoi trecem la acțiune.

[Layal · Rating 4 out of 5]

"كونوا واضحين! كونوا واضحين! "
الرسالة التي تختصر نوعا ما فكرة الكتاب ، لا شك هناك اسهاب بذكر الامثلة يسبب بعض الملل احيانا ، و لكن الكاتب نجح في تسليط الضوء على اهم قواعد و شروط فن الخطابة ، التي كما يؤكد الكاتب نفسه ، لا يمكن تعليمها و تعميمها بكل الظروف المكانية و الزمنية ، لكونها مرتبطة ارتباطا وثيقا بالانسان ، بثقته بنفسه و تغلبه على الخوف، برغبته بتقديم الأفضل لاقناع الحاضرين بالاصغاء اليه، بطريقة الالقاء و الأسلوب مع قوة اللغة ، بمدى فهمه لموضوع خطابه و تحضيره و اطلاعه ، بالاضافة لمظهره العام ، ايماءات اليد، التعليقات المرحة التي يجب انتقاء تمريرها بذكاء و اتزان .. و الاهم كيف يبدأ و كيف يختم بطريقة مؤثرة جاذبة للانتباه ، مع التركيز على العنصر الاهم ، الوقت، وقت الالقاء ...
كتاب جميل انصح بقراءته و الاستفادة منه

[أيمن قاسمي · Rating 4 out of 5]

طيلة هذا الكتاب يطلعنا الكاتب من أجل النجاح في هذا الفن على أهم الوسائل
على المرء أن يقرأ و يتعلم كثيرا و أن يلم بالموضوع الذي سيخطب بخصوصه
أهمية الأسلوب
عدم الإطالة
أهمية التكرار لكن بألفاظ مختلفة
حدث الناس بما يودون سماعه
أهمية تقارب الجمهور من بعضه البعض
الإضاءة
حس الفكاهة
كما أن الكاتب يتحفنا بعديد القصص العظيمة في هذا الصدد
بالتأكيد لن يجعل منك هذا الكتاب خطيبا ممتازا بمجرد قراءته
لكنه حتما سيقدم لك عونا كثيرا

[محمد الهاشمي المرابت · Rating 2 out of 5]

لا أحب الكتب المليئة بالحشو، إذ إن الأفكار المفيدة في الكتاب يمكن تلخيصها في خمس أو ست صفحات فقط
ثم إني أقترح على المؤلف تغيير اسم الكتاب إلى "فن الخطابة عند الرئيس لينكون" ؛
نجمتا التقييم من أجل الأفكار -رغم ندرتها- التي استفدتها من الكتاب

[Moe · Rating 1 out of 5]

(5) Not that helpful and boring.

[Emma · Rating 3 out of 5]

"The Art of Public Speaking" by Dale Carnegie offers a solid foundation for those looking to improve their public speaking abilities. Carnegie's approach is practical and straightforward, making it accessible for readers of various backgrounds. He provides a good mix of theory and actionable advice, such as the importance of organizing your speech and the need for genuine enthusiasm when addressing an audience. While the book provides valuable insights, it occasionally lacks the depth and nuance found in some more contemporary public speaking guides. In terms of style, Carnegie's writing, though clear and informative, may come across as a bit dated to modern readers. Furthermore, the cross-curricular connections are not as explicitly highlighted as they could be, making it less versatile for academic applications. In summary, "The Art of Public Speaking" is a worthwhile read for those seeking a fundamental understanding of public speaking. It offers a decent foundation, though it may not be the most exciting or in-depth resource available. I would rate it as a solid three out of five stars. It's a good starting point for beginners, but those looking for more advanced or modern techniques may want to supplement their reading with other resources.

[Geneste Lola · Rating 2 out of 5]

Nul 8 balles de gaspillés.

Le livre ne répond pas au titre puisqu'il n'y a aucun conseil pour réellement s'exercer à parler en public, aucun conseil de voix, de respiration ou encore pour se défaire du stress et avoir confiance en soi. Le livre aurait du s'appeler comment structurer un oral plus que comment parler en public.

En plus, il y a trop d'égo dans cette personne qui raconte oh comment il a aidé des centaines de personnes et oh combien sa méthode a changé des vies sans expliquer en 245 pages quelle est sa méthode à part foutre des anecdotes personnelles dans nos discours ou encore être naturel et avoir confiance en soi sans expliquer comment atteindre ces objectifs. Le livre n'est que l'éloge de son égo et la critique de mauvais orateurs selon lui, il n'y a aucun conseil.

Le mec a quand même sorti un ivre comment se faire des amis, c'est pour dire l'égo du gars.

Ne le lisez pas c'est une perte de temps. Et ne faites pas mon erreur, ne l'achetez pas.

[Michael Cook · Rating 5 out of 5]

A relevant public speaking tool

Amazon Classics edition. Although first published in 1956, this book is still relevant and useful as a practical guide. If you read his 1936 bestseller “How to Win Friends and Influence People” you will be familiar with the Dale Carnegie. He was a self-made man (not related to the wealthy family that shares his name). Through thirty-one chapters and four appendixes, Carnegie and Esenwein provide a practical and progressive way to improve one’s public speaking. The Amazon Classics edition on Kindle has a bonus audio file.