This novel by British writer Carole Mathews was first published in 2001 and takes place in London. Ali Kingston, an assistant to an interior designer, is pushing forty and has settled into the life of a working mother. She and her husband Ed, a videographer, have three children: Tanya fifteen, Thomas twelve and Elliott four. The couple have been in a marriage that is now in a comfortable rut and far from exciting, but worked until an event rocked its already shaky foundations.
Ali, feeling especially bored and listless one day, takes an early lunch at a café where she notices a young man drawing her portrait. After talking with him, she learns his name is Christian and he gives her the drawing of her he has just completed. Shortly after, Ali leaves but is drawn back when she thinks about the encounter and feels something stir within her; it is the most excitement she has felt in a long time. Later in the week she returns to the café and learns Christian has been watching for her return. Although Christian is about the same age as her teenage daughter, he convinces Ali to spend the day with him and later the two go to bed.
For Ali, this is just a “major indiscretion”, but when she returns home, Ed is angry and demands to know where she has been all day. After admitting she has spent the day with another man, Ed equates her fling with a major affair, becomes furious and kicks her out of the house with little discussion. Ali returns to Christian who welcomes her into his Notting Hill love nest with open arms.
Ali begins to develop strong feelings for Christian and is enjoying her new exciting sex life, all the while wondering how she will ever introduce her children to this young man who could easily be her teenage daughter’s boyfriend rather than her own. Meanwhile Christian is not sure what to do with the children or how to interact with them.
Ed reacts by beginning affairs with women much younger than himself who are anxious to console him. Meanwhile, in the background, trying to sort out this mess and bring the couple back together, are the children, family friends, Ali’s sister and Ed’s brother. Amid all the questions this problem has raised are important ones about the future. Will Ali and Ed be able to remain parents to their children if they are no longer together? If not, is Christian mature enough to assume the responsibility of parenting three young children and does he have any idea of what that means?
None of the characters in this evolving drama are likable. Ali is selfish and self-centered, Ed obsessed with his career and Christian just a careless young man sauntering through life. The three children present some unrealistic dialogue with the youngest essentially still a preschooler, speaking in fully formed sentences on subjects that are just not part of the experience of children that age.
This is a light, funny read, a relationship drama which at times becomes annoying, but also has a few insightful moments. It points out the realities of parenthood, the cost of stubbornness and the need to develop effective communication skills to make a relationship work.