I’m going to share my thoughts for the series overall in bullet points:
* In these books we find represented a faith that is both profoundly simple and astonishingly nourishing to the soul.
* The Baxters represent the ideal - not in that a single one of them is without flaw or imperfection - but in that they show us what can happen in a family when God is given the highest place.
* Every member of the Baxter family is afforded their humanity. They doubt God. They question Him. Sometimes they turn from Him and each other along the way. They slip up, go against their convictions and virtues.
* Luke and Ashley have come to mean the most to me; perhaps because I see much of myself in their story. While Ashley suffers trauma as a result of her rebellion, Luke makes a series of bad choices as a result of, what he later recognizes, a shallow and self-righteous faith. In both of them, I see a three year portion of my own story during my early college years.
* Lori Callahan is perhaps the most striking side character. She never does find redemption in these books - after all, not all do. But in her we see how so often the waywardness of our hearts is a result of influence. Luke is seduced away from his family, his faith, and his bright future not because of Lori herself - his feelings for her were always little more than ambivalent - but because he had opened his ear to her in a season of vulnerability after tragedy and he allowed a negative voice to speak into his life. I can pinpoint many places in my life and in the lives of those I love where this has happened. Lori exists as a reminder of how important it is to be careful who we allow to speak into our lives. Lori was just as lost and lonely as Luke, and she certainly is no villain, but what happened was they began to commiserate in their skepticism and cynicism, their anger and their heartbreak. What’s the saying? “Misery loves company.”
* The loss of Elizabeth in the final book wrecked me. The way Kingsbury writes has you not only caring deeply for these characters but almost immersing yourself in their lives.
* This series’ focus on family cannot be stated enough. Family is at the center of this story, and God is at the center of this family. Coming from a Christian home - and going through a “black sheep” phase in my own life, facing medical crises with members of my immediate family, and dealing with negative relationships in church circles - I can attest to the fact that this series is realistic. Many critics might say it’s cheesy or cliche, but I don’t get that feeling at all. Why is it cheesy? Because Christian characters consult the Word of God for counsel? Why is it cliche? Because timeless, spiritual truths are explored?
* In many ways, the experiences of the central characters almost feel parabolic. We watch as the Baxters go through tragedy after tragedy, triumph after triumph, loss after loss, and miracle after miracle. Since this is a work of fiction, every event serves a purpose. Every character’s decisions illustrate not just a biblical truth, but a real-world truth. The only people for whom books like this would seem cliche are those who feel that this earthly realm is more real than the heavenly realm and thus seek to solve problems with earthly solutions.
* I also appreciated the way these books depicted prayer - it was very relational. Characters having conversations with God and many times hearing that “still small voice” answer in response. I find it personally challenging for me as so often I spend so much time praying that I forget to sit in the quiet and listen.
* Most of all, these books unlocked places in my heart that I didn’t know existed. Watching characters fall in love, resist love, learn to love, run from love, and open themselves up to love unlocked a longing in myself to have that one day. And even helped me to realize how experienced and tragedies and failures in my own past have caused me to run from love or fear love myself.
* These books were deeply impactful and profoundly memorable, and I will be continuing with the spin-off series.