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Fifteen First Times
This book is a collection of stories about some of Kaye’s first-time experiences with life’s most natural events. Told through the intimate conversational writing we’ve come to know from this author, poignant personal steppingstones to learning moments are revealed. She encompasses the heart of each matter with sincerity and sprinkled inflections of humor.
From first kiss to first car to walking in the desert with four-inch heels, Kaye’s short coming-of-age stories take us through her awakenings and important moments of growth, often without warning. Some good and some not, life lessons are learned through trial and error, winging it, and navigating by the seat of her pants.
From first kiss to first car to walking in the desert with four-inch heels, Kaye’s short coming-of-age stories take us through her awakenings and important moments of growth, often without warning. Some good and some not, life lessons are learned through trial and error, winging it, and navigating by the seat of her pants.
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92 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 12, 2022
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About the author
D.G. Kaye
11 books146 followersD.G. Kaye is a nonfiction/memoir writer. Kaye writes about her life experiences, matters of the heart and women’s issues.
Kaye writes to inspire others. Her writing encompasses stories taken from events she encountered in her own life, and the lessons that were taken from them. Her sunny outlook on life developed from learning to overcome some of the many obstacles that challenged her. From an emotionally neglected childhood, to growing up with a narcissistic mother, leaving her with a severely deflated self-esteem, D.G. began seeking a path to rise above her issues.
When Kaye isn't writing intimate memoirs, she'll bring her natural sense of humor into her other works.
D.G. began writing when pen and paper became tools to express her pent-up emotions during a turbulent childhood. She began writing notes and cards for the people she loved and admired when she was afraid to use her own voice. She journaled about life, and her opinions on people and events. Later she began writing poetry and health articles for a Canadian magazine as her interest was piqued by natural healthcare.
D.G. began reading extensively on the subject of natural health care after encountering quite a few serious health issues. Against many odds, Kaye has overcome adversity several times throughout her life.
Kaye looks for the good and the positive in everything and believes in paying it forward.
“For every kindness, there should be kindness in return. Wouldn’t that just make the world right?”
Her Favourite Saying: "Live. Laugh. Love …and don’t forget to breathe!" is her website logo, to remind herself and others that we often forget to take a pause.
You can find D.G. on social media and her author and blog pages:
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December 16, 2022
Fifteen first times is a lovely memoir by D G Kaye. Reading it I recalled many of my first times too! In this short memoir, she mentions memories such as her diets, first kiss, colouring her hair, Christmas tree, first apartment, getting her driving licence, travel to Israel and Europe and much more. It is a personal, and relatable collection which I enjoyed.
I think it would be enjoyed by all and in particular bloggers, writers (a lot of the content is female centric such as the short section on first period!) This is a topic that needs to be spoke about openly! So hats off to D G Kaye for being so honest sharing her personal memories.
She also shares her sadness at loss of several family members, a dear friend Alba and her much loved husband.
So, at times humourous, sometimes poignant, a sneak peak into the author's life.
A recommended read.
I think it would be enjoyed by all and in particular bloggers, writers (a lot of the content is female centric such as the short section on first period!) This is a topic that needs to be spoke about openly! So hats off to D G Kaye for being so honest sharing her personal memories.
She also shares her sadness at loss of several family members, a dear friend Alba and her much loved husband.
So, at times humourous, sometimes poignant, a sneak peak into the author's life.
A recommended read.
January 4, 2023
A lovely essay style memoir, by D.G. Kaye. She shares fifteen of her poignant first experiences. Each one as touching as the next. Kaye makes herself vulnerable in sharing these very personal stories, including losing loved ones. My favorite were her stories of her trip to Europe as a teen. If you grew up in the 70's you will doubly enjoy this book. Highly recommend!
December 26, 2022
Kaye’s memoir Fifteen First Times reads like a conversation over a glass of wine with a bunch of besties. As I was reading, I could imagine the groans, laughter, and tender moments many women share in common as they navigate their teens and young adulthood—first kiss, first love, first car, a broken heart, the angst of menstruation, the first hair coloring disaster, and the first death that woke us up to the impermanence of life. Fifteen firsts.
I couldn’t relate to all of Kaye’s experiences. I never had a thing about shoes, for example, and didn’t have the privilege of travel, but I could relate very well to the journey of self-discovery, to struggles with self-esteem, and to finding a home within ourselves.
What struck me the most about Kaye’s recollections is how humor and a bold, flamboyant approach to life helped her overcome challenges and become the confident woman she is today. She ends the memoir by highlighting the importance of laughter in her life and in her relationship with her late husband. It’s a touching thread that connects her memories and heartfelt conclusion to her book of firsts. An entertaining two-hour read, highly recommended to fans of memoirs.
I couldn’t relate to all of Kaye’s experiences. I never had a thing about shoes, for example, and didn’t have the privilege of travel, but I could relate very well to the journey of self-discovery, to struggles with self-esteem, and to finding a home within ourselves.
What struck me the most about Kaye’s recollections is how humor and a bold, flamboyant approach to life helped her overcome challenges and become the confident woman she is today. She ends the memoir by highlighting the importance of laughter in her life and in her relationship with her late husband. It’s a touching thread that connects her memories and heartfelt conclusion to her book of firsts. An entertaining two-hour read, highly recommended to fans of memoirs.
August 16, 2023
When I read D. G. Kaye’s books, I always get the impression I’m having a conversation with the author. In her latest, Fifteen First Times, the author once again gets up close and personal.
In fifteen chapters, Debby discloses her love affair with shoes, close encounters with boys, the fright of her first menstrual period, the glory of travel and much more. Brimming with chutzpah, the author divulges also how she engineered Christmas cheer in a home where Hanukkah was respected.
The vignettes come with lessons learned, takeaways for readers: “My big European vacation taught me many lessons about life—friendship, flirting, culture, how ridiculous I must have looked wearing four-inch spikes in the desert, consequences for not obeying laws, and how much my father had spoiled me.”
Growing up with a narcissistic mother, we are thankful for the presence of dear Aunt Sherry and a devoted Dad. As expected, the book concludes with an homage to her beloved husband: “My G was the first true love of my life. He loved me through all my war wounds unconditionally. We laughed our way through hard times and shared a most beautiful life together.”
You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, but most of all you will be able to relate to Debby Gies’ coming of age memoir and conclude with the author that “hindsight gives us insight.” This brief book with a stunning cover by Unicorn Cats Publishing gets five stars.
In fifteen chapters, Debby discloses her love affair with shoes, close encounters with boys, the fright of her first menstrual period, the glory of travel and much more. Brimming with chutzpah, the author divulges also how she engineered Christmas cheer in a home where Hanukkah was respected.
The vignettes come with lessons learned, takeaways for readers: “My big European vacation taught me many lessons about life—friendship, flirting, culture, how ridiculous I must have looked wearing four-inch spikes in the desert, consequences for not obeying laws, and how much my father had spoiled me.”
Growing up with a narcissistic mother, we are thankful for the presence of dear Aunt Sherry and a devoted Dad. As expected, the book concludes with an homage to her beloved husband: “My G was the first true love of my life. He loved me through all my war wounds unconditionally. We laughed our way through hard times and shared a most beautiful life together.”
You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, but most of all you will be able to relate to Debby Gies’ coming of age memoir and conclude with the author that “hindsight gives us insight.” This brief book with a stunning cover by Unicorn Cats Publishing gets five stars.
December 21, 2022
The author has a natural conversational style of writing that draws you in as if she is talking to you personally. Her memories prompt the reader’s own experiences at similar ages, and raises a smile or two at the similarities between girls of a certain age, however many thousands of miles they live apart.
This is particularly true in this collection of stories as Kaye shares episodes from her childhood such as playing in her mother’s stiletto shoes which would fuel a lifetime’s love of footwear, a first kiss, and taking that first puff of a parent’s discarded cigarette.
With the smiles comes the tears, as we identify the moments of loneliness and isolation as a girl becomes a woman without the support needed from a mother, a dysfunctional family life, and the loss of a much loved friend who shared the formative years between teens and late twenties.
At the end of the collection is a wonderful tribute to her late husband, who made her laugh every day and was the first and last love of her life.
D.G. Kaye writes with poignancy but also great humour, which makes these first times all the more delightful and memorable. The experiences are not just relevant to girls growing up, as many are relateable to boys and young men coping with the cultural and social expectations of the day, and finding their way in life and relationships. Take a walk down the memory lane of your own life in very good company. Highly recommended.
This is particularly true in this collection of stories as Kaye shares episodes from her childhood such as playing in her mother’s stiletto shoes which would fuel a lifetime’s love of footwear, a first kiss, and taking that first puff of a parent’s discarded cigarette.
With the smiles comes the tears, as we identify the moments of loneliness and isolation as a girl becomes a woman without the support needed from a mother, a dysfunctional family life, and the loss of a much loved friend who shared the formative years between teens and late twenties.
At the end of the collection is a wonderful tribute to her late husband, who made her laugh every day and was the first and last love of her life.
D.G. Kaye writes with poignancy but also great humour, which makes these first times all the more delightful and memorable. The experiences are not just relevant to girls growing up, as many are relateable to boys and young men coping with the cultural and social expectations of the day, and finding their way in life and relationships. Take a walk down the memory lane of your own life in very good company. Highly recommended.
December 13, 2022
This book is a collection of stories about some of Kaye’s first-time experiences with life’s most natural events. Told through the intimate conversational writing we’ve come to know from this author, poignant personal steppingstones to learning moments are revealed. She encompasses the heart of each matter with sincerity and sprinkled inflections of humor.
From first kiss to first car to walking in the desert with four-inch heels, Kaye’s short coming-of-age stories take us through her awakenings and important moments of growth, often without warning. Some good and some not, life lessons are learned through trial and error, winging it, and navigating by the seat of her pants.
From first kiss to first car to walking in the desert with four-inch heels, Kaye’s short coming-of-age stories take us through her awakenings and important moments of growth, often without warning. Some good and some not, life lessons are learned through trial and error, winging it, and navigating by the seat of her pants.
December 31, 2022
This recollection of fifteen events in the author's life that shaped her entire future is an entertaining and relatable memoir.
We've all had those first moments of an experience we could never forget. In a personal and conversational style of writing, Ms. Kaye shares fifteen of her firsts, from a fascination with shoes to getting her period, her first car, heartbreak, apartment, learning to drive and to her first experience with grief.
When we are kids, we have so many questions and search for answers. And while this author had an insatiable curiosity, sadly, she had no one in which to confide when she first got her period, and she had no idea what was happening to her. Thank goodness we have come forward in a time where these things are more openly talked about. I love the humor the author interjected into the stories, and many made me chuckle. The last entry in the book gripped my heart as she shared the loss of her husband, her one true love. The anguish comes across in her words. I highly recommend this personal memoir to women of all ages. There is a sprinkling of sage advice that would benefit younger women, and a feeling of camaraderie older women can experience when reading this book.
We've all had those first moments of an experience we could never forget. In a personal and conversational style of writing, Ms. Kaye shares fifteen of her firsts, from a fascination with shoes to getting her period, her first car, heartbreak, apartment, learning to drive and to her first experience with grief.
When we are kids, we have so many questions and search for answers. And while this author had an insatiable curiosity, sadly, she had no one in which to confide when she first got her period, and she had no idea what was happening to her. Thank goodness we have come forward in a time where these things are more openly talked about. I love the humor the author interjected into the stories, and many made me chuckle. The last entry in the book gripped my heart as she shared the loss of her husband, her one true love. The anguish comes across in her words. I highly recommend this personal memoir to women of all ages. There is a sprinkling of sage advice that would benefit younger women, and a feeling of camaraderie older women can experience when reading this book.
December 16, 2022
“Fifteen First Times” is a group of personal stories told in a humorous yet perceptive manner. It felt like I was sitting with Ms. Kaye having a cup of tea while she shared some of her life stories. I found it easy to relate to a first kiss, first heartbreak, or first-time driving. It got me reflecting on many of my firsts and how I navigated life after. The author’s strength, fashion sense, and humor shined through the words, painting a picture of her moments. This is a book of youthful reflections and what we can learn from all our firsts. There was also a loving dedication to her departed husband that touched my soul. This is a beautiful collection of coming-of-age stories I can easily recommend.
July 31, 2025
One of the most bubbly, enjoyable, heart-warming books I read in a long time :)
Fifteen First Times, by D.G. Kaye, is a bright, soul-baring collection of personal essays that takes readers through the defining "firsts" of her young adulthood. From the giddy magic of a first kiss to the aching sting of a first broken heart, from the comedy of a first driving lesson to the glamour (and sore feet) of For the Love of Shoes, each chapter reveals not just a coming-of-age moment, but a snapshot of the author's fearless, funny, and fiercely human soul. Something I could totally relate to.
These short musings, written in Kaye's distinctive conversational voice—warm, intimate, and frequently hilarious (and if you follow Kaye's blog you know what I mean)—transport you into her memories as if you were sitting across from her, coffee in hand. She has a flair for writing with emotional clarity, frequently combining sensitivity and humor in a way that feels truly authentic. I loved it.
One noteworthy chapter is First Big European Vacation, for its cinematic sweep and fascinating personalities. Who can forget Joseph, the flirtatious Israeli bus driver who proclaims his love in a language she doesn't understand? Or Ricardo, the Italian Adonis whose charm and gallantry instill confidence in young Kaye that she didn't realize she needed? These travel episodes read like a personal journey, with a teenage girl negotiating new locations, unstated norms, language obstacles, and her own self-image, all while wearing four inch heels (memories!).
If there’s one recurring theme throughout Fifteen First Times, it’s that self-discovery isn’t always tidy or planned. Life lessons are earned through trial and error, impulsive choices, and the occasional splash of kibbutz water at 5 a.m. Yet Kaye embraces every awkward turn and misstep with grace, always finding meaning in the mess.
Whether you’re drawn to tales of young love, cultural misadventures, or the universal fumblings of adolescence, this collection is a heartfelt tribute to the unpredictable beauty of firsts. A charming read for anyone who remembers the rollercoaster ride of growing up—or is still on it.
Favorite chapters:
💋 First Kiss
👠 For the Love of Shoes
🇪🇺 First Big European Vacation
🎄 First Real Christmas Tree
🚗 First Driving Lesson
Kaye's anecdotes remind us that our early missteps and accomplishments mold us in ways we don't often realize at the time. Sometimes all it takes is a stranger's kiss—or a prank with a bucket of water—to remind us that we are alive.
A must read! :)
(Enjoyed with Kindle Unlimited)
Fifteen First Times, by D.G. Kaye, is a bright, soul-baring collection of personal essays that takes readers through the defining "firsts" of her young adulthood. From the giddy magic of a first kiss to the aching sting of a first broken heart, from the comedy of a first driving lesson to the glamour (and sore feet) of For the Love of Shoes, each chapter reveals not just a coming-of-age moment, but a snapshot of the author's fearless, funny, and fiercely human soul. Something I could totally relate to.
These short musings, written in Kaye's distinctive conversational voice—warm, intimate, and frequently hilarious (and if you follow Kaye's blog you know what I mean)—transport you into her memories as if you were sitting across from her, coffee in hand. She has a flair for writing with emotional clarity, frequently combining sensitivity and humor in a way that feels truly authentic. I loved it.
One noteworthy chapter is First Big European Vacation, for its cinematic sweep and fascinating personalities. Who can forget Joseph, the flirtatious Israeli bus driver who proclaims his love in a language she doesn't understand? Or Ricardo, the Italian Adonis whose charm and gallantry instill confidence in young Kaye that she didn't realize she needed? These travel episodes read like a personal journey, with a teenage girl negotiating new locations, unstated norms, language obstacles, and her own self-image, all while wearing four inch heels (memories!).
If there’s one recurring theme throughout Fifteen First Times, it’s that self-discovery isn’t always tidy or planned. Life lessons are earned through trial and error, impulsive choices, and the occasional splash of kibbutz water at 5 a.m. Yet Kaye embraces every awkward turn and misstep with grace, always finding meaning in the mess.
Whether you’re drawn to tales of young love, cultural misadventures, or the universal fumblings of adolescence, this collection is a heartfelt tribute to the unpredictable beauty of firsts. A charming read for anyone who remembers the rollercoaster ride of growing up—or is still on it.
Favorite chapters:
💋 First Kiss
👠 For the Love of Shoes
🇪🇺 First Big European Vacation
🎄 First Real Christmas Tree
🚗 First Driving Lesson
Kaye's anecdotes remind us that our early missteps and accomplishments mold us in ways we don't often realize at the time. Sometimes all it takes is a stranger's kiss—or a prank with a bucket of water—to remind us that we are alive.
A must read! :)
(Enjoyed with Kindle Unlimited)
February 23, 2024
I just finished Fifteen First Times by author D.G.Kaye and wow, did I have an emotional trip down memory lane. She so plainly yet beautifully bares her soul. This is a collection of nonfiction stories about the first fifteen milestone or life changing events in her early life. These are experiences that changed perceptions, attitudes, opinions, or were life lessons learned. Kaye pledges “unabashed honesty,” and she truly delivers. These life-altering experiences are candid, emotionally raw, heartbreaking, and humorous. I loved that she felt comfortable exposing her insecurities, owning up to her mistakes, sharing her triumphs, and laughing at herself. We have all experienced similar events in different ways, but Kaye seems to give us permission to own up to these awkward situations and realize that in our youth we’ve all experienced insecurities and difficulties in finding ourselves. I felt like I was having a conversation with an old friend who I shared confidences with. With each story I read, I mentally relived my similar experience, relating to hers in so many ways. I laughed, cried, cringed, and cheered.
It is hard to say which were my favorites because they were all wonderful. First Kiss stands out because it so eloquently conveys the difference between the storybook kiss we romanticize from books and TV as pre-teen children, and the reality of a sweaty ten-year-old boy sticking his tongue down your throat. It reminded me of my first kiss at ten when my family spent the summer in Silverton, Colorado. I got kissed in a coal shed while playing post office. Not at all what I expected. First Broken Heart, My First Apartment, and First and Last Love are also amazing. I did love My First Christmas tree because it brought to life how confusing it is for a child to live in a country where their family’s beliefs are different from the norm. From Blond to Wrong was hysterical. Been there done that.
It was so gracious of Kaye to share such personal stories. I love her quote, “When we are young, we’re more curious than cautious, and as we age, our accrued wisdom becomes our guide to future choices we make.” These stories are the formulation of the talented, self-confident woman she has obviously become. It was brave for her to share these intimate experiences. As she says, “If we don’t learn and grow, we’re forced to repeat the lessons until we do.” I think everyone can relate to these stories, and I highly recommend you take this journey with Kaye.
It is hard to say which were my favorites because they were all wonderful. First Kiss stands out because it so eloquently conveys the difference between the storybook kiss we romanticize from books and TV as pre-teen children, and the reality of a sweaty ten-year-old boy sticking his tongue down your throat. It reminded me of my first kiss at ten when my family spent the summer in Silverton, Colorado. I got kissed in a coal shed while playing post office. Not at all what I expected. First Broken Heart, My First Apartment, and First and Last Love are also amazing. I did love My First Christmas tree because it brought to life how confusing it is for a child to live in a country where their family’s beliefs are different from the norm. From Blond to Wrong was hysterical. Been there done that.
It was so gracious of Kaye to share such personal stories. I love her quote, “When we are young, we’re more curious than cautious, and as we age, our accrued wisdom becomes our guide to future choices we make.” These stories are the formulation of the talented, self-confident woman she has obviously become. It was brave for her to share these intimate experiences. As she says, “If we don’t learn and grow, we’re forced to repeat the lessons until we do.” I think everyone can relate to these stories, and I highly recommend you take this journey with Kaye.
January 6, 2023
I received a free copy of this book from the author in return for an honest review.
In this short but candid book the author D.G Kaye shares fifteen of her first times with us; from her first diet to her first menstrual period, her first high heels, her first love, and her first cigarette to name but a few. We also find out what happened when she decided to dye her hair red for the first time.
Reading through the pages, I was astounded that the author had never had any education from her mother as regards menstruation, and had bravely soldiered through the first three periods wondering what on earth was happening to her body. It was also sad how others perceived her as overweight, causing her to undertake diet after diet to achieve the ever-elusive size 6. I cheered her on though, when finally she moved into her own apartment for the first time and began to grow away from her mother’s influence.
D.G Kaye’s extrovert personality shines through the pages and obviously aided her in making new friends and forging an active social life in her twenties, but it would also be the first time she came face-to-face with the death of one of her friends rather than the passing of older relatives.
The above life trials (and more) have imbued the author with a kind of innate wisdom. She has no regrets, but through trial and error she now has the knowledge to favour a lifetime of healthy eating rather than a crash diet. She knows of the joy and pain of loving, and how death can claim the young as well as the old. She realises how addictive cigarettes can be. She has lived through all the experiences she has written about, has learned from them, and has important knowledge to pass down to a younger generation. However… will they listen?
I give this recommended read 5 stars.
In this short but candid book the author D.G Kaye shares fifteen of her first times with us; from her first diet to her first menstrual period, her first high heels, her first love, and her first cigarette to name but a few. We also find out what happened when she decided to dye her hair red for the first time.
Reading through the pages, I was astounded that the author had never had any education from her mother as regards menstruation, and had bravely soldiered through the first three periods wondering what on earth was happening to her body. It was also sad how others perceived her as overweight, causing her to undertake diet after diet to achieve the ever-elusive size 6. I cheered her on though, when finally she moved into her own apartment for the first time and began to grow away from her mother’s influence.
D.G Kaye’s extrovert personality shines through the pages and obviously aided her in making new friends and forging an active social life in her twenties, but it would also be the first time she came face-to-face with the death of one of her friends rather than the passing of older relatives.
The above life trials (and more) have imbued the author with a kind of innate wisdom. She has no regrets, but through trial and error she now has the knowledge to favour a lifetime of healthy eating rather than a crash diet. She knows of the joy and pain of loving, and how death can claim the young as well as the old. She realises how addictive cigarettes can be. She has lived through all the experiences she has written about, has learned from them, and has important knowledge to pass down to a younger generation. However… will they listen?
I give this recommended read 5 stars.
January 1, 2023
In her opening thoughts, Ms Kaye writes “We live, we write, we experience, we become, and we overcome.” It’s this acceptance of what life throws at us, and using it as a way to move forwards, that gave me huge respect for the author. Her candour, her vivid recollections of these first landmarks in her life, and her bubbly nature offset with a deprecating humour, all contribute to the magic, poignancy and heartbreak of these revelations.
The book is written in a conversational style that brought the experiences closer to home for me. Her first kiss (“Yuck!”) and her first broken heart were so natural and relatable, and I could picture them so clearly, sympathizing with her sadness whilst smiling at her recollections. The story of her first period, though, was shocking. As she says, she was “sheltered and uninformed” and dealt with the worry and practical problems on her own until others realized what was going on. Her mother’s brutal humiliation was painful to read about.
There’s a wit and wisdom about all of these pieces. During her time on a kibbutz, she refers to herself as ‘a spoiled brat’ but her good-natured responses and ability to laugh at herself completely took the sting out of the situation and earned my admiration.
The last ‘time’ is entitled When Friends Die and was the most poignant and moving of these for me. She writes “Death doesn’t bypass the kindhearted”. There is a tribute to her beloved husband who died recently and I found it incredibly touching.
In the epilogue she concludes that we have to experience these things for ourselves and that they provide the ‘compass’ for life. Without these incidents we would never learn or have anything for comparison.
I think it’s inevitable that we remember our own encounters when we read this book and this does add to the overall appeal of the book for me. It made me reflect on my own life whilst providing an entertaining, humorous and emotional read.
The book is written in a conversational style that brought the experiences closer to home for me. Her first kiss (“Yuck!”) and her first broken heart were so natural and relatable, and I could picture them so clearly, sympathizing with her sadness whilst smiling at her recollections. The story of her first period, though, was shocking. As she says, she was “sheltered and uninformed” and dealt with the worry and practical problems on her own until others realized what was going on. Her mother’s brutal humiliation was painful to read about.
There’s a wit and wisdom about all of these pieces. During her time on a kibbutz, she refers to herself as ‘a spoiled brat’ but her good-natured responses and ability to laugh at herself completely took the sting out of the situation and earned my admiration.
The last ‘time’ is entitled When Friends Die and was the most poignant and moving of these for me. She writes “Death doesn’t bypass the kindhearted”. There is a tribute to her beloved husband who died recently and I found it incredibly touching.
In the epilogue she concludes that we have to experience these things for ourselves and that they provide the ‘compass’ for life. Without these incidents we would never learn or have anything for comparison.
I think it’s inevitable that we remember our own encounters when we read this book and this does add to the overall appeal of the book for me. It made me reflect on my own life whilst providing an entertaining, humorous and emotional read.
January 30, 2023
'Fifteen first times’ by author D.G. Kaye is a light, heartwarming read that will leave you reminiscing your own fifteen first times, sweet events you may have forgotten along the way as life took over and bitter ones that hurt you so much, that you buried deep inside of you- basically, all the experiences that made you into the person you currently are.
The 92-page book is like I said, a quick, easy read. The honesty and simplicity with which D.G. Kaye shares her story is both refreshing and endearing. Whether it be her first kiss, her first love, her first time behind the steering wheel, her first driving accident, her first Christmas tree or her first experience with losing a friend, the author bares it all in a way that touches the right cord.
Who is this book for?
There are a lot of takeaways in this book. Like they say, ‘Why make the mistake when you can learn the lesson from someone else’s?’ This book is just that- read it, learn from the author’s experiences and either make the same mistake with wisdom or avoid making it.
This book is for girls – sixteen and older.
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The 92-page book is like I said, a quick, easy read. The honesty and simplicity with which D.G. Kaye shares her story is both refreshing and endearing. Whether it be her first kiss, her first love, her first time behind the steering wheel, her first driving accident, her first Christmas tree or her first experience with losing a friend, the author bares it all in a way that touches the right cord.
Who is this book for?
There are a lot of takeaways in this book. Like they say, ‘Why make the mistake when you can learn the lesson from someone else’s?’ This book is just that- read it, learn from the author’s experiences and either make the same mistake with wisdom or avoid making it.
This book is for girls – sixteen and older.
To read the rest of the review, you can click here
https://smithavpennings.com/2023/01/1...
July 26, 2023
4.5*
I so enjoyed reading these snapshots of D. G. Kaye's life, growing up in the 1960s, 70s and 80s - partly because I discovered that she is just two months older than me, so it's a world I know about ... mostly!*
I love the conversational aspect of the essays; the way Kaye writes is so readable, so down-to earth that it's like she's talking just to you, from the first kiss to the first love, to the first car and apartment, and, more seriously, the first bereavement of someone her own age. This one was so heartrending that I found myself missing Alba too, a woman I know only from this one short story.
I think the piece that made me smile and nod the most was the 'first diet' - years of yo-yo dieting and obsession with what is put in one's mouth, the bane of many a young (and not so young) woman's life. The daft things you try to lose weight. Definitely a generational thing; I remember my mother (born in the 1920s) telling me that when she was a young woman, you were just the shape you were, and you didn't give it a great deal of thought. Before advertising got serious!
Anyway, this is great, definitely recommend it to anyone. It's not that long; you could probably read it in a couple of afternoons. Ideal for a nice bit of holiday reading, too :)
I so enjoyed reading these snapshots of D. G. Kaye's life, growing up in the 1960s, 70s and 80s - partly because I discovered that she is just two months older than me, so it's a world I know about ... mostly!*
I love the conversational aspect of the essays; the way Kaye writes is so readable, so down-to earth that it's like she's talking just to you, from the first kiss to the first love, to the first car and apartment, and, more seriously, the first bereavement of someone her own age. This one was so heartrending that I found myself missing Alba too, a woman I know only from this one short story.
I think the piece that made me smile and nod the most was the 'first diet' - years of yo-yo dieting and obsession with what is put in one's mouth, the bane of many a young (and not so young) woman's life. The daft things you try to lose weight. Definitely a generational thing; I remember my mother (born in the 1920s) telling me that when she was a young woman, you were just the shape you were, and you didn't give it a great deal of thought. Before advertising got serious!
Anyway, this is great, definitely recommend it to anyone. It's not that long; you could probably read it in a couple of afternoons. Ideal for a nice bit of holiday reading, too :)
July 30, 2023
Fifteen First Times is a memoir of fifteen significant moments in the author's life. It is a very entertaining book as most of the experiences are fairly universal for women so I could easily relate to the author's emotions, anxieties, and joys. It was enlightening to read about the same experiences I had in the author's different environment and lifestyle. Such experiences are so huge and often devastating when they occur, but when we look back on them, they really weren't that awful after all. Hindsight definitely helps in life.
My favourite story was when the author had a small accident in her father's car as a result of a defiant response to her grandfather's spoken and non-verbal critisism of her driving. I had a similar experience but I did a lot more damage to my mom's car and I've also never forgotten it. I got such a horrible shock at the time.
The author's experiences travelling as a young woman were intriguing for me. I was quite sheltered by my father and never did anything like she describes. It certainly helped her achieve independence and learn some important life lessons.
Fifteen First Times is a wonderful way to remember the highlights of young life from a humorous and witty perspective.
My favourite story was when the author had a small accident in her father's car as a result of a defiant response to her grandfather's spoken and non-verbal critisism of her driving. I had a similar experience but I did a lot more damage to my mom's car and I've also never forgotten it. I got such a horrible shock at the time.
The author's experiences travelling as a young woman were intriguing for me. I was quite sheltered by my father and never did anything like she describes. It certainly helped her achieve independence and learn some important life lessons.
Fifteen First Times is a wonderful way to remember the highlights of young life from a humorous and witty perspective.
February 8, 2023
‘Fifteen First Times’ fully describes this short, entertaining read in D G Kaye’s inimitable open and honest style – no subject is too difficult to approach or describe.
As with some other reviewers, there were several experiences I didn’t relate to, but found Kaye’s explanations of them engaging and sometimes eye-opening. The one that amused me most was ‘From Blonde to Wrong’. I began experimenting with dying my own hair quite early in my teens, and also chose to go red – a colour that both my cousins have by nature, and I coveted. Unlike Kaye, my first foray into hair colouring was using henna, and I was pleased with the results, so I have continued to dye my own hair, and the only time I ever got it done at a salon was the one time it turned out so dark it was almost black and I hated it – just as happened to Kaye with her first home effort!
No matter how painful the memories of some of these ‘firsts’, Kaye does not shy away from sharing the depths of feelings she experienced, and still manages to highlight the humour that characterises her welcome positive approach to life. I’m sure everyone will find some ‘firsts’ applicable to them – well worth the read.
As with some other reviewers, there were several experiences I didn’t relate to, but found Kaye’s explanations of them engaging and sometimes eye-opening. The one that amused me most was ‘From Blonde to Wrong’. I began experimenting with dying my own hair quite early in my teens, and also chose to go red – a colour that both my cousins have by nature, and I coveted. Unlike Kaye, my first foray into hair colouring was using henna, and I was pleased with the results, so I have continued to dye my own hair, and the only time I ever got it done at a salon was the one time it turned out so dark it was almost black and I hated it – just as happened to Kaye with her first home effort!
No matter how painful the memories of some of these ‘firsts’, Kaye does not shy away from sharing the depths of feelings she experienced, and still manages to highlight the humour that characterises her welcome positive approach to life. I’m sure everyone will find some ‘firsts’ applicable to them – well worth the read.
March 22, 2023
I loved D.G. Kaye’s new book and it even exceeded my high expectations. I’ve enjoyed books by this author before – she has a great talent for writing highly entertaining stories. This is a heart-warming collection of fifteen stories about significant firsts in her life, mainly from her early years. Kaye regarded these as “her compass for life, setting up the direction for whom and how I’d become me.”
Every story was so easy to relate to and touched a chord with me, bringing back memories of my own life. They all tugged at the heart-strings and were told with a great deal of humour and common sense, showing a wonderful zest for life. The author is not afraid to shy away from some very difficult subjects, such as her first, very traumatic experiences with menstruation.
I enjoyed all of the stories, but my special favourites were:
Crazy Diets
My First Kiss – Yuck!
First Broken Heart
My First Apartment.
Most touching of all was the final story – a heartbreaking tribute to her beloved husband.
This was a joy to read, and I give it a resounding five stars.
Every story was so easy to relate to and touched a chord with me, bringing back memories of my own life. They all tugged at the heart-strings and were told with a great deal of humour and common sense, showing a wonderful zest for life. The author is not afraid to shy away from some very difficult subjects, such as her first, very traumatic experiences with menstruation.
I enjoyed all of the stories, but my special favourites were:
Crazy Diets
My First Kiss – Yuck!
First Broken Heart
My First Apartment.
Most touching of all was the final story – a heartbreaking tribute to her beloved husband.
This was a joy to read, and I give it a resounding five stars.
February 2, 2023
Fifteen First Times was such a comfortable and almost conversational read that I cranked it out in one setting. While a few of the memorable firsts involved topics that pertained more to women (period, menopause, shoes), there were plenty of other subjects that involved either gender. Written in her usual honest style with moments of sadness and humor embedded, Kaye will connect with most readers. While reading about a young woman finding her way, I found myself reminiscing about my first kiss, car, heartbreak, cigarette, and many other subjects.
Most subjects were pretty light until the author shared some poignant and touching memories about experiencing the death of a close friend and then, later, her husband. Those chapters will stay with me the most as Kaye openly shares her private thoughts. I felt like I was listening in on a phone call with someone sharing their feelings with a close friend.
Most subjects were pretty light until the author shared some poignant and touching memories about experiencing the death of a close friend and then, later, her husband. Those chapters will stay with me the most as Kaye openly shares her private thoughts. I felt like I was listening in on a phone call with someone sharing their feelings with a close friend.
March 8, 2023
An Enchanting Tour of Life
I might be in my sixth decade of life, but DG Kaye’s memoir, Fifteen First Times, brings me blissfully back in time as if I were reliving my youth. She includes tender moments, budding independence, and painful firsts. I felt as if I were sitting across the couch from Kaye, sipping crisp white wine and exchanging stories of our beloved but challenging past.
She draws you in with our commonalities as women, from our first love to menstruation, a hysterical shoe obsession, bad hair decisions, first apartments, and broken hearts. As I read through each story, I laughed, cried, and empathized with Kaye’s Fifteen Firsts. It is a bold, funny, and touching read about life's endearing moments. An enchanting novel for fans of delightful memoirs.
May 19, 2023
A Collection of Indelible Firsts
My First Car
I share many memories of my first times with Debby and the most memorable for me, was my first car and learning to drive it. This was my first taste of independence and I loved every minute of being behind the wheel.
For The love of Shoes
Shoes struck a different note with me, however, as being tall, I apparently have rather large feet. Finding shoes that fit has always been a nightmare for me.
First and Last Love
Although I share many of Debby's Fifteen First Times, I never did find the love of my life, although there were plenty of almosts. I am envious of the love she shared with G and very sad that she must mourn him with every single day…
This intriguing book is so many of our lives in a nutshell…
My First Car
I share many memories of my first times with Debby and the most memorable for me, was my first car and learning to drive it. This was my first taste of independence and I loved every minute of being behind the wheel.
For The love of Shoes
Shoes struck a different note with me, however, as being tall, I apparently have rather large feet. Finding shoes that fit has always been a nightmare for me.
First and Last Love
Although I share many of Debby's Fifteen First Times, I never did find the love of my life, although there were plenty of almosts. I am envious of the love she shared with G and very sad that she must mourn him with every single day…
This intriguing book is so many of our lives in a nutshell…
August 25, 2023
Been there and done that—in part. No high heels, other feminine fashion choices and some non-applicable puberty issues. On the other hand—I did get a first car (used), helped by an uncle who loaned me the money—interest free. I remember it well. My parents were gone by then so no new one for me. I recall starting smoking, menthols too, like Debby. Gave them up long ago. Moving from one apartment to another and more as finances or circumstances made necessary.
She detailed much more of her life in previous books, as I did in the major memoir I did some time ago. This is a book that should grab almost anyone about the passages of life one travels through from childhood into becoming an adult on one's own. It will bring back memories to most readers.
She detailed much more of her life in previous books, as I did in the major memoir I did some time ago. This is a book that should grab almost anyone about the passages of life one travels through from childhood into becoming an adult on one's own. It will bring back memories to most readers.
August 4, 2023
An easy-to-read and easy-to-relate-to book about first times. (Well, maybe not ALL, but many!) She was spoiled by her father and I don't like to use hate but let's just say her mother was not easy and leave it at that. To not prepare a girl for various changes in her life is cruel. Unfortunately, friends did not fill in some of the gaps either. (Mind you that is kind of hard when you don't share with them out of lack of confidence.)
Many of her firsts brought a smile to my face and I felt for her last "first" because I definitely know of what she spoke.
Many of her firsts brought a smile to my face and I felt for her last "first" because I definitely know of what she spoke.
June 5, 2024
Fifteen First Times by D.G. Kaye is an engaging collection of personal stories that delve into the author's memorable first-time experiences. With a blend of sincerity and humor, Kaye takes readers through her life's pivotal moments, from her first kiss to driving her first car and even navigating a desert in high heels. Each story captures the essence of personal growth and life lessons learned through trial and error. This memoir offers a heartfelt and relatable glimpse into the author's journey of self-discovery
December 26, 2022
‘Fifteen First Times’ is a collection of interesting anecdotes from the teenage years of D.G.Kaye. From crazy diets that she tried to follow to the love of shoes and her first kiss, all find a mention in a witty style, as Bobby “planted a big wet kiss… and it was no regular kiss…yuck!” I smiled at the reaction of a nine year old girl who obviously knew nothing about it.
The candor of Kaye is admirable! She shares her stressful moments of becoming a woman in a brilliant manner, trying to figure out what could have caused “the mini bloodbath” between her legs but couldn't dare to approach her mother, as she was far from “an average mamma” who never cared to explain that there was no need to feel embarrassed about this natural phenomenon.
Kaye’s resilience and independent spirit shines through her words. She grew up into a fine woman despite her dysfunctional family and heartbreaks. Her love for her father and their bonding exemplifies how a child learns to understand life. The book touches upon various emotions and ends with a loving tribute to her late husband. I finished reading it in one sitting and loved the way Kaye shares the stories of her growing up.
The candor of Kaye is admirable! She shares her stressful moments of becoming a woman in a brilliant manner, trying to figure out what could have caused “the mini bloodbath” between her legs but couldn't dare to approach her mother, as she was far from “an average mamma” who never cared to explain that there was no need to feel embarrassed about this natural phenomenon.
Kaye’s resilience and independent spirit shines through her words. She grew up into a fine woman despite her dysfunctional family and heartbreaks. Her love for her father and their bonding exemplifies how a child learns to understand life. The book touches upon various emotions and ends with a loving tribute to her late husband. I finished reading it in one sitting and loved the way Kaye shares the stories of her growing up.
April 26, 2023
We have all had our firsts in life; first kiss, first love, first death etc. These events are typically unforgettable and shape who we are. This easy-to-read, relatable collection of short stories brings our own firsts to mind. Reading a book written by D.G. Kaye is like having a chat with a good friend, reminiscing about the past and sharing tears and laughter. I enjoyed reading about the author's European trip as a naive and enthusiastic teenager, her excitement of moving into her own place and the horror of a hair-dying disaster! An enjoyable read along with a loving tribute to her dear husband.
December 22, 2022
D.G. Kaye’s latest book is a short read, packed with wisdom, laughter, and a few tears. Reflecting upon fifteen “firsts”, she shares how life choices helped shape the woman she became. I thoroughly enjoyed her glimpses and thought about my own. It helped me see how the most insignificant encounter or situation can have lasting impact. We’ll done!
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