I enjoyed Out on a Limb and thought I'd try this one, as it is next in the publication order.
Where Out on a Limb is about a personal struggle to find Truth, Dancing in the Light is Shirley trying to maintain a grasp on what she thinks that Truth is. It's filled with the struggle of convincing herself that her experiences and feelings mean something.
Many times I was just saddened by Shirley's gullibility - I understand that this auto-bio takes place during the Pop New Age era of the late 80's and early 90's when people/groups were exploring new ideas - but Shirley at this time seems to be burdened with the weight of her discoveries, trying to force them into being real. I'm sure that much of her philosophy has been ratified since this book, but some of it is still difficult to read. Her Ramtha experience is just one that is hard to get through...as is her attempt to make every relationship a past life connection.
Her conversations in this book, with family and friends, are a bit like the airplane conversation with the dude in the set next to you who has a theory on everything and you're too polite to end the conversation. What's worse is that Shirley tries to convince everyone around her that her explanations are what's true - she has seen the light and everything must fit her experience.
When her family treats he mother like sh*t it's not because everyone's in a nasty mood, it's because the mother chose this life to be hard and wanted her family to take advantage of her. Her father doesn't respect anyone because he chose to live the life of an arrogant ape this time around....it all gets very sad and the excuses get worse and worse as the book goes on.