Stop Blaming, Start Loving!: A Solution-Oriented Approach to Improving Your Relationship

by Patricia Hudson O'Hanlon, Bill O'Hanlon

Here is a fresh, new approach to relationships. It goes beyond analyzing relationships to changing them, even if one partner isn't interested. Using a solution-oriented approach, the authors show readers how to:



break free of old patterns in days or weeks, not months or years
quickly and easily solve relationship problems
improve their sex life
increase feelings of love and closeness
get over past hurts.
Since making the shift from analyzing the past to plotting the future is not easy, Bill O'Hanlon and Pat Hudson summarize key points and action steps for each change. They share the stories of their friends and therapy clients who have stopped blaming and started loving, inspiring their readers to be creative as they transform today's dreams of more romance and happiness into tomorrow's reality.

184 pages, Paperback

First published July 2, 1996

Reviews

[Akarsh Jain · Rating 4 out of 5]

Also known as "How to not be an asshole and better communicate with people important to you". Most suggestions of the book apply to all relationships including friendships and relatives as well.