In Pursuit of the One: A Single's Guide to Lasting Love

by Tolulope Oludapo

Everyone is expected to learn how to be better at everything but love. We are all supposed to be automatic experts when it comes to loving and choosing our partners. But what if that needs to be learned too? These questions and more are what this book seeks to answer. In Pursuit of The One, you will find relatable stories and experiences shared by the author, to show you that you don't have to guess your way to finding the right partner for you. Additionally, you will find exercises and tools to help you challenge your preconceived notions and limiting beliefs, and embrace long-lasting love. These tools will also highlight areas in your personal life that require attention and prepare you to be a partner anyone will be blessed to have. You don't have to guess your way or learn from your experience. You don’t have to make multiple mistakes, gambling through relationships with the hope of finally getting it right. You can, by wisdom, navigate this very important aspect of your life with certainty and clarity. You can know how to improve and position yourself to get the attention of the kind of people you desire. You can have a clear understanding of yourself and know how to see through other people.

In Pursuit of The One by Tolulope Oludapo is the ultimate guide you need to find lasting love.

Genres: Love

324 pages, Paperback

Published November 17, 2022

About the author

Tolulope Oludapo is driven by the endless possibilities of the media to influence lives, cultures, and human behaviour. As a storyteller, Tolulope addresses audiences all over the continent, sharing stories and life lessons learned from his relationship mistakes, and offering the clarity, consciousness, and confidence needed to get it right the first time.


When he's not teaching or ideating and creating content strategies, he is wholeheartedly loving his wife: Oyindamola, and hosting a regular YouTube show alongside her, where they share their stories, and show people how to love in a way that is godly and fulfilling.

Reviews

[Victoria Iyakoregha · Rating 5 out of 5]

I reached the last page of this book, and one thing imprinted in my heart from this book is to not settle for less.

Another thing is that “when it comes to love and pursuing the one, you are never wrong for being a bit more patient."

“Patience will help you stay satisfied with nothing rather than settle for what is less than the best.”

I agree with the writer of The Forward. This is more than a book; it is more of a resource that's indeed packed with a wealth of insight. This was a read worth every minute, and it’s something I'll be returning to time after time.