Relationshit:How to Get Clean When She Does You Dirty

by Shareef Jaudon

You thought men were the only ones doing dirt? PLEASE! Men are amateures when it comes to playin dirty. Now don't get salty ladies! Most women are genuine. But in the shadows exist some cold hearted females. What happens to a man when he's been dogged? What's he really thinking? This book gives you a behind the scenes look into the process men experience after the end of a relationshit. I'ma give it to ya straight with no chaser! it's raw and uncut! I can speak on the subject. I was informed of my wife's new boyfriend by our two children, aint that a bitch!? To all the good women out there who love hard and keep it real, don't stop! The world needs virtuous women like you. Finding a good man is hard. Meeting one who has been hurt by a shady female, makes your job harder than it has to be. To the dirty women out there; no that life gives you lessons to raise your level of understanding, and the day will come when you learn that karma is the real bitch!

80 pages, Kindle Edition

First published January 1, 2009

Reviews

[Leona Romich · Rating 5 out of 5]

RELATIONSHIT by Shareef Jaudon

Raw…With No Chaser

RELATIONSHIT by Shareef Jaudon is the authors’ reflection of his past relationships, especially that of his ex-wife and how it turned into a relationshit. Based off of true events, the author shares some of his deepest feelings into how men really feel when they are hurt and confused when a woman does them wrong.

The author’s definition of a relationshit is: All the emotionally draining, financially depleting, physically exhausting bullshit that occurs before, during or after you “couple up “ with someone.

Mr. Jaudon makes a point early on to point out that “women can be just as bad as men.” He also states that he feels “that women are even better at doing dirt than men are.” What do you think…true or false?

Mr. Jaudon wrote this book for men that have been in a relationshit, you know the woman that did the man dirty and hurt him in some way. He also wrote it for all the good women, (yes, Mr. Jaudon does believe there are good women still out there). He just wanted to make the point that there are also dirty women out there too. Mr. Jaudon wanted other men to see that just because they have been done wrong…it is time to move on and he shares some manly advice on how to do so.

Although the book is very short, he made a point to touch on some very deep subjects. I think in reading this book it can also be an eye opener for women too. I think this was tastefully written and I loved the rawness of it. Definitely a good book that would make for a great discussion.

Reviewed by Leona
StreetLitClique
www.streetlitclique.ning.com

[Sistar Tea · Rating 5 out of 5]

Women do dirt too!

I really enjoyed reading this true/motivational story. While reading I felt his pain. I was appreciative of the raw talk. Mr. Jaudon gives it to us straight with no chaser, while at the same time not taking his anger out on all women. I know the target is men who have been hurt; I found that ALL who have had a failed relationship due to cheating could benefit from this story. The lists and advice given on how to move on are universal and extremely useful. I am sure that this may get under someone’s skin; male or female and if it does, I would gather to say it would be because they have been exposed.

Mr. Jaudon is very open and candid about his failed marriage. His wife has done the ultimate sin, she committed adultery, and worse involved the children. I am impressed by how truthful this book is. I know the wife messed up but Author Shareef is admitting that he also did his dirt, which I find is not the normal these days; everyone wants to shift the blame.

I believe this book is quick, precise, and full of great information. I recommend this book to all dealing with a broken heart. It is small in page count but it is truly an excellent read and I was not disappointed - even learned a few things. I will be on the lookout from this new up and coming rising author.

SiStar Tea
ARC Book Club Inc.
5 star rating

[African Americans on the Move Book Club · Rating 2 out of 5]

We all react differently to trauma and setbacks. In Shareef Jaudon’s case, he has decided to put his personal pain and experience in book form. Relationshit: How to Get Clean When She Does You Dirty attempts to put perspective on how to react when a relationship goes horribly wrong. Jaudon’s conversational tone is partly confessional and partly self-taught therapist which makes for easy quick reading. He must be applauded for his willingness to put so much of his personal life on display. Unfortunately the book is marred by numerous grammatical errors and not enough insight into its subject matter. Jaudon intentionally made this work short but sweet, but when dealing with such sensitive issues, it may be useful to have something more substantial at hand. His personal experience is definitely valid in discussing what he dubs as a relationshit (“all the emotionally draining, financially depleting physically exhausting bullshit that occurs before, during or after you ‘couple up’ someone”) and he does a relatively good job in not reducing himself to producing a woman-hating rant. Jaudon sincerely has good intentions even if the execution seems rather poor and hurried.

TaKeshia Brooks
AAMBC Reviewer

[Nardsbaby Reader · Rating 4 out of 5]

A How to Guide…

RELATIONSHIT by Shareef Jaudon explores the ‘what to and not to do’ if you’re a man involved in a bitter break up. It’s funny; it’s the same list women use when they’re on the receiving end of the done dirty list. I do find it commendable that he acknowledges GOD was instrumental as well as his friendships.

A quick and easy read, I would strongly suggest more structure. In some cases I’m not sure if he’s talking about his past break up or the current one. There are also issues with editing. Hopefully RELATIONSHIT will help men and women alike, when they‘re dissolving a relationshit.

Now with that said, Shareef, you admittedly slept with your wife, who’d done you dirty, knowing that she was involved. Isn’t that basically doing the same thing all over again? Just asking.

[Mattie · Rating 4 out of 5]

I was quite surprised by this book. I expected the author to bash women as a result of his experience with a bad breakup. Instead he gives a candid view of the 'sh**' that went down during his relationship and his feelings and experiences in the midst of the breakup of his marriage. It goes without saying that the author was hurt but did not allow the pain to scar him and bad mouth women. He offers sound advice on how deal with and recover from a breakup. Although this book is geared toward men, the info provided can be applied equally by both men and women.

[paula shirley · Rating 5 out of 5]

My fall back

this book was very inspirational for. had a embarrassing horrible breakup and all the things I was and still is experiencing I refer back to this book to help me deal with my emotions. I love this book it's my road map to get bAck in the swing of things

[Melissa · Rating 2 out of 5]

It was really common sense but everyone dont have that