The Instant New York Times Bestseller! New York Times bestselling author Andy Cohen goes from bottle service to baby bottles in a hilarious, heartwarming, and name-dropping account of the most important year of his life.
Andy Cohen has taken on the most important job of his life—father— and boy (and girl!) does he have a lot to say about it!
One of Andy Cohen’s most momentous years starts off with a hangover the morning after an epic New Year’s Eve broadcast. But Andy doesn’t have time to dwell on the drama, as his role as media mogul is now matched with the responsibilities, joys, and growing pains of parenthood.
This fast-paced, mile-a-minute look behind the scenes of living the so-called glamorous life in Manhattan now takes firm aim at life at home. With a three-year-old son, Ben, and a daughter, Lucy, born in May, stories of late-night parties are replaced by early mornings with Ben, drama at the play-ground, and the musings of a single dad trying to navigate having it all. All this is set against the backdrop of constant Housewives drama, hijinks behind the scenes at Watch What Happens Live, a revolving door of famous faces, and a worried mother (and newly minted grandmother) in St. Louis.
Buckle up, bottle up, and get ready for a laugh-out-loud and surprisingly poignant look at the ways in which family changes everything and the superficial gets very real. Watch what happens!
Andy Cohen is an American television executive, host, and author. As of 2012, he is the Executive Vice President of Development and Talent at the Bravo cable television network, a subsidiary of NBC Universal. He is also the host of the network's nightly live talk show Watch What Happens Live and the author of a memoir, Most Talkative: Stories from the Front Lines of Pop Culture. He is the first openly gay host of an American late night talk show.
A painful and almost unreadable Andy Cohen book that really doesn't work--simplistic statements about typical things his kids do mixed with bragging about them while he juggles his various work duties and the men that he beds. There's almost nothing worth publishing here about his children, who act normally while he either thinks they're geniuses or complains about parenting them. He mixes that with outlandish sexual statements, lots of inappropriate cruising and porn, leaving me feeling like based on all the trashy things he admitted happened around his small kids that Children Protective Services of New York should be called.
It should have cut most of the daddy stuff out--a simple star-studded sequel to his much better Andy Cohen Diaries would have been more interesting. And it's not a total washout. There are some good stories about celebs or the ways Cohen is over-sensitive to criticism (he gets a lot of it and it's well deserved). He also slams some things that need it, like Howard Stern's radio nonsense, Diane Sawyer's interview with Matthew Perry, and admitting White Lotus was "boring." (Yes!) But he later waffles on most of his celebrity slams by saying something nice, and most of those "stories" or opinions are undeveloped in order to dedicate more space to the boring homelife.
If you've ever had a child you'll roll your eyes at the ridiculous things he includes that try to make everyday things sound significant. (I'm paraphrasing here) "I came home and Ben asked me if I would tickle him. It just warmed my heart!" Okay, big deal. "Ben watched Sesame Street in bed with me while I played games on my phone under the covers." So you think that's good parenting? "Ben yelled when he woke up that 'the sun is up' and I had to tell him that doesn't necessarily mean we have to start our day." Way to reason with a two-year-old, dad. "I'm starting to finally watch Disney movies with Ben that I've never seen before and I LOVED Moana." Seriously? That's the one you pick as your favorite?
The problem is that Cohen mixes these unnecessary comments in with his star-studded namedropping, late night carousing, and even a few of his sexual partners (though now that he has a family he doesn't give many details of his hookups). Often a single paragraph will skip back and forth between children and very adult topics. It is unsettling to see him complain about changing diapers one minute and lust after a hot waiter or gym trainer the next.
There are also many confusing parts where Cohen assumes we know what he's writing about in his single-sentence summaries that are mixed in among the other stream-of-consciousness ramblings. We don't. It was hard to keep track of all the names he kept tossing around, and he intentionally doesn't include the last names or full names of some of his famous friends. I also had to look up a lot of things online page-by-page because I had no idea what or who he was referencing.
This book doesn't know what it wants to be--it's certainly not a parenting guide or observational humor; if anything it proves how clueless Cohen is at raising his kids. Even when he knows that too much television is bad for them he'll stick Ben in front of Sesame Street for a couple hours--has Andy never seen the research on how Sesame Street ISN'T that great for young children and that there are many other better options out there? Or that limiting your child to less one hour of television a day is the only way to keep the medium from negatively impacting them?
And what about the fact that Cohen writes he's "proud of" three-year-old Ben for wanting to watch Madonna music videos?! Seriously?!
Maybe this man who made his fortune off TV simply doesn't care. He comes across as the most self-centered, immoral parent ever.
Ironically a couple of times in the book he mentions that he would never do a reality TV show about his own life or that he wants to shield his kids from the medium. Andy has seen firsthand what television can do to people and claims he doesn't want his family to turn out that way--but he rarely does a good job policing it at home.
The mixture of adult material with children around is concerning. At Ben's third Frozen-themed birthday party Cohen serves wine to the adults, including the nannies, which seems inappropriate (I've been to dozens of little children's birthday parties and never seen alcohol of any kind served). The fact that a gay single New York City elitist has no problem raising two children on the music of the Grateful Dead while daddy partakes of his weed or THC before he has a lover in for an alcoholic "nightcap" should cause major concerns in our society. But what it will end up doing is endearing him to the "average" Bravo viewers struggling with their families that don't have his money, celebrity pals or many child caretakers.
Meanwhile he defends himself against any criticism and promotes his leftist agenda on his "platform" of Watch What Happens Live (which is supposed to be an entertainment show focused on the guests, not pushing Andy Cohen's personal sexual agenda). When he gets on a rant about something like the Florida law that allows parents to have control over what's appropriate sex education for elementary children, he fails to see that not only is that also protecting liberal parents from conservative beliefs being indoctrinated but Cohen doesn't live in Florida, doesn't have a kid in that age group yet, and I highly doubt he'll be sending Ben to public school. So while he's welcome to his poorly thought-through opinion and can teach his son whatever he wants at home, he doesn't really know what he's talking about on this and other issues.
Andy calls people "lunatics" and other nasty politically incorrect names when they criticize him, such as when he supports exposing very young public schoolchildren to adult sexuality, which he mirrors in his home life. The guy has almost no appropriate boundaries beyond putting Ben to bed and threatening him to not come out of his room while daddy hosts plenty of different men into the late night. The more his well-meaning traditional parents tell him to shape the up the more rebellious he gets. How can such an unethical Deadhead come from such good parents? Isn't he getting too old to act like a drug-induced slut? Doesn't he understand he has to change in order to raise quality children?
The man's incredible amount of drug dependency is shocking, especially when the kids are around. At one point he defends his use of drugs around the kids and thinks it's a good coping mechanism as a parent! He does the same with alcohol and he's not alone--Ben's pre-school open house has wine for the adults!
He spends much of the book bitching about having to take care of kids, claiming mistreatment by the system since he is the rare "single dad," and has the audacity to say in a conversation with another rich single gay dad in the Hamptons that they work harder at parenting than straight or two-parent households! Is he nuts? Cohen sees his kids for less than an hour or two on an average day, travels the world without them, has a couple of nannies and other babysitters that really raise the children, and of course juggles three multimillion-dollar homes (yes, he bought a third during the writing of this book). For him to claim he has it worse that other parents is simply delusional. After reading this I honestly believe that Andy Cohen has serious mental health issues.
He lacks logic and intelligence when it comes to his political rants, feels he needs to demean and insult those he disagrees with loudly despite his speeches that promote "tolerance" and "diversity." In truth he's one of the most intolerant guys on TV when anything conservative/Republican/Christian comes up, and his Real Housewife shows are perfect examples of misusing women and minorities as pawns to make him lots of money.
As you read on it hits you that he over-abundantly manipulates the women in his life to achieve his self-centered goals, make him rich, and keep him from having to take full responsibility for the difficult things, including his children. It's almost to the point of abuse and unclear why all these women, from TV staff to babysitters to social friends to Real Housewives, allow Cohen to get away with the mistreatment. His drug dependency, drinking problem, porn addiction, and sleeping around with random strangers are being enabled by the females in his life, many of whom depend on him for their salaries or self-esteem.
And for anyone that thinks his TV shows or lifestyle choices are progress for women or minorities, I'd love to sit down and explain how to use critical thinking skills to analyze his media. Everyone seems to overlook all the signs of the abuse because of his cutesy, self-effacing gay persona, but Nene Leakes was one of the rare ones to use her head and make public what was really going on when she filed that lawsuit (later withdrawn). I could go through every page he wrote to push back on his warped thinking and choices that make him feel good but hurt others. Consider what that mindset and influence is doing to his kids.
The subtitle of the book is "The Year I Grew Up," but in truth he's still that wild, raunchy kid at heart whose own young children might have more common sense than he does. Can't wait for Cohen's book imprimatur to publish "The Benny Diaries," which is certain to be more mature, sophisticated, and well written than this.
As a reader, I was pleasantly surprised by the depth and authenticity that Cohen brings to his storytelling. From the very beginning, Cohen's candidness drew me in. The link to the audiobook can be found here The Daddy Diaries: The Year I Grew Up. His willingness to share the highs and lows of his personal journey into parenthood made the book relatable and incredibly engaging. I felt like I was right there with him, navigating the challenges and celebrating the triumphs.
What truly sets this memoir apart is Cohen's unique voice. He weaves humor and vulnerability seamlessly, creating a narrative that is both heartwarming and genuinely funny. I found myself laughing out loud at his witty observations and nodding in agreement at the raw, emotional moments.
Cohen's growth throughout the year is palpable. "The Daddy Diaries" is not just a chronicle of his experiences as a single father; it's a testament to personal transformation. His reflections on the lessons learned and the self-discovery that comes with parenthood resonated with me on a profound level.
The exploration of the father-son relationship is beautifully portrayed. Cohen's love for his son shines through every page, and it's heartening to witness the bond that develops between them. The book is a celebration of the messy, imperfect, and incredibly rewarding journey of being a parent.
Beyond the personal anecdotes, Cohen touches on broader topics such as modern family dynamics, societal expectations, and the evolving definition of fatherhood. It adds a layer of depth to the narrative, making it not just a memoir but a reflection on the changing landscape of family life.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (4/5, Nonfiction) I had a lot of fun reading this dishy diary! I am an Andy Cohen fan, which I think is critical for enjoying this book. Modeled after the Warhol Diaries, this book captures 365 days in Andy's life starting on Jan 1, 2022. Maybe a bit repetitive at times (who can blame him! 365 days, you're bound to have repeats!), but I still had a ball gobbling up this story. I wouldn't go into this book if you're purely looking for some behind-the-scenes scoop on The Housewives (although there is some of that); if that is what you're going for, I'd recommend Not All Diamonds and Rosé by Dave Quinn. Andy has a fabulously big life filled with endless celebrity encounters, meals at the hottest NYC restaurants, and a demanding yet glamorous work life. What surprised me most about this book was how parenting humbles EVERYONE. Sure, he's hosting New Year's Eve, but he's also googling sleep training tips for his 5-month-old daughter. I found it so fun and relatable. I thought getting a first-hand account of his day-to-day was a total treat. I find him likable, self-deprecating, and very funny. I had a great time reading this story.
Things I want to do since reading this book: 1. Install a disco ball somewhere in my house. 2. Host more nightcaps! Why are my friends not stopping over regularly to close out the night with a drink? Is it because I live in the suburbs? Is it because we all have kids? Who knows, but I am going to RECTIFY THIS. 3. Keep my own diary. I love the format of these diary entries (short and funny vs. long and angsty), so I am going to try to keep my own little diary! I started yesterday because I thought, what's a better day to start than the first day of my 31st year!? This will probably last 3 days, and then I will completely forget about it.
On Wednesday night, Andy said on his Instagram that the Negroni is the chic drink of the moment, so of course, we are pairing this book with a Negroni. We’re doing an Aperol Negroni in honor of summer! Swipe for the recipe! Cheers!
What did I read? But more importantly, why couldn’t I stop reading it? I’m so confused. To be fair I’m coming in cold - I’ve never read any of his other books, I am not a Bravo aficionado, I know Andy Cohen only from his NYE hosting and have no previous biases for or against him. I grabbed the book because the cover was cute and I usually love biographical books by funny parents. Wow was I in for a shift in gear.
This is a day by day diary of Cohen’s life in 2022 where he writes down the most noteworthy events of the day and his thoughts about it. There’s some reporting, some gossip, some introspection.
I wasn’t expecting this layout and I didn’t relate to much of the material in here. I didn’t know half the people and his parent tidbits were nothing new to any parent out there. Both his whining and his glowing about being a parent felt performative and there was no real insight or even humor about that part of his life. However, I couldn’t get myself to stop reading and just put it away either and I honestly can’t tell you why. It’s not a riveting read but by the end I think I just liked him more as a person enough to want to know how his year ended? Maybe? I don’t know. So 2.5 rounded up to 3.
Andy Cohen certainly had to grow up and FAST in this comical continuation of his diary series! With one toddler, Ben, he seemed to be able to handle most of his many jobs and friends and parties, but when his second child Lucy was born via surrogate, making two children under 3, on top of building his dream house in the Hamptons, renovating his apartment, working on his Watch What Happens Live show, Sirius Radio show, hosting New Year’s Eve on CNN with bestie Anderson Cooper, and dealing with temperamental housewives, well, I’m exhausted from just writing the above!
It was his year of reflection, informing the reader he realized he had overshared in his previous diary and promised his friends he would do better. This, I was not too happy about, but he does sometimes give clues as to whose name he is NOT dropping. He also begins to understand that being a single parent, even with all the help he has can be exhausting. Being a single gay dad with a son in preschool can also be a bit lonely.
The diary is a day by day of his non-stop life. His days include Teresa drama, The Housewives of Beverly Hills reunion drama, buying a toddler bed for Ben who takes full advantage of not being in a crib anymore and Cohen trying (begging) him to please stay in his room when he wakes up! And planning a Thanksgiving dinner in which his mother feels is more a party for his friends.
He relents about his parents, especially his mother and how no matter what he does she’s not happy. He tells a very funny story about getting his father a winter coat, which his father is perplexed at, and Andy having to tell him it’s because you live in St. Louis and it’s cold in the winter? But he also knows they are proud of him as they all gather to see him get his star on The Walk of Fame in Hollywood.
The name droppings are everything! We have SJP of course, Amy Sedaris, John Hickey, Anderson Cooper and John Mayer. So many more! Some who drop in for “night nightcaps” which is a thing in his world, but perhaps not in too many other places?
How he juggles it all is amazingly exhausting! But organized. Although he still goes out sometimes after shooting Watch What Happens, it is not as regular, and he certainly cannot stay out very late. Especially with Ben in that stupid toddler bed!
He charts for us his progress, and failures at trying to lose the extra weight he put on during Covid because he’s too cheap to go buy new clothes! And by the way, his favorite food is French Onion Soup which makes an appearance sometimes more than some celebrities!
But, all in all, for anyone who enjoys Andy Cohen and I do find him very funny in the I think of him as a friend in my head kind of way, you will certainly enjoy his latest amusing, sarcastic, embarrassing and warm stories.
Fun name dropping but a little dramatic for someone who has 2 full time nannies and an overnight nurse for 6 months to talk about how hard parenting is.
He still seemed to go out most nights and go away without the kids more often than not. Not the winner I was hoping for. Definitely didn’t do a good job convincing me to have kids…
I listened to this on audible; it was so delightful! Andy’s life is so full and lively. I loved hearing Bravo gossip and the stories about his kids. Can’t wait to go back and listen to his old books!
As a devoted Bravo fanatic, I honestly didn’t think there was any chance I could adore Andy Cohen more than I already did. This book changed my mind. When answering that age old question, “What person would you want to have dinner with if you could, dead or alive?”, this book solidified my answer. A true legend.
I am a Bravoholic, and this was a completely brainless listen. I expected slightly more depth given the title including “the year I grew up”, but this was extremely shallow. Still spends his nights eating edibles and doing drugs. Not much going on and not enough juicy housewives gossip to increase the rating on this for me, unfortunately.
Feels like you’re hanging out with your best friend hearing their stories. Loved hearing about his son being that mine is the same age now that his was at the time of the book. If you’re an Andy fan you’ll get it and if not, you wont like it.
I am listening to an audible book written by Andy Cohen, and I have no idea who he is so maybe you can help me to fill me in on who this guy is?
Certainly! Andy Cohen is a well-known American television personality, producer, and author. He gained popularity as the host of the late-night talk show "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen" on Bravo. He is also the executive producer of the popular reality TV franchise "The Real Housewives" series. Cohen is known for his charismatic and engaging interview style, as well as his ability to create entertaining and dramatic television content. In addition to his television work, he has written several books, including his memoir "Most Talkative" and "Superficial: More Adventures from the Andy Cohen Diaries." He is considered a significant figure in the world of reality television and has made a significant impact on the industry.
And he is gay and has may be a couple of kids via a surrogate?
Yes, that's correct. Andy Cohen is openly gay and has become a prominent LGBTQ+ figure in the media. In February 2019, he announced the birth of his son, Benjamin Allen Cohen, who was born via a surrogate. Cohen is known for sharing his experiences as a father and the joy he finds in raising his child. His candidness about his journey to parenthood has resonated with many people and has helped promote conversations around surrogacy and LGBTQ+ parenting.
I hardly have any DNF books. Did not finish but this book just did not appeal to me. I am pretty sure that I am not homophobic, but I am apparently not tuned in to gay celebrities with a story such as this fellow.
3.5⭐️. This was a super easy listen, especially if you love Andy, Bravo and/or hearing about random celebs. Definitely made me giggle a couple times! I don’t know that I would’ve loved reading it, but it was great to listen to while multitasking.
4 stars and funny, just like his previous books! I think this diary format and little tidbit sharing is a great way to write a little celeb story - plus he has such funny little stories about nothing...but will resonate because so many of us have everyday one liners and people in our lives, and wow moments that aren't a huge deal in the grand scheme - they are just funny or a bit poignant! I love when he throws in stuff about his parents and obviously the audio is the best route because he narrates it and it makes it 50x more personal with all his voices! If you don't watch bravo, his show or housewives I don't know why you would read this.
I don’t know what I was expecting as I had not read his previous books, but absolutely loved this behind the scenes look into Andy’s life with a new baby, another young child, house renovations, and his uncensored thoughts and feels about all things Bravo.
So I wouldn’t choose to read cohen’s books but they appear near me…so I do.
There not much here. A bit like Alan Rickman’s diary in that the work is a litany of the famous, the food, and the cat fights.
I question why Cohen needed to surrogate a second child when as a single parent who works a ton, and socializes a ton his free time is heavily circumscribed.
Probably the only revealing moment is when Cohen is MCing some event and he recognizes one casually insensitive racial remark and he’s done…what a sad commentary on the state of American society.
I love Andy’s diaries. A good reminder that so much fun (and funny) can be found in the monotony of the every day. Dragged a little at times and I loved his last diary so much that this was never going to live up to that. A very different look at his life with kids now and an enjoyable reminder that his besties are Anderson cooper and SJP.
I liked the style of the book and Andy’s narration, but it was a little boring. There’s a few interesting tidbits about Housewives, the shows, and other celebs, but there’s a lot of boring every day stuff.
I didn't want it to end! I thought The Daddy Diaries was fun, engaging, and even inspiring - Andy relays very little shame about his "LiFeSTyle": rich, single gay dad, who works hard and plays harder. Andy is a pioneer, ignoring a lot of of heteronormative expectations as he walks on: living and parenting his way, and I love that.
As a Bravo and Andy Cohen fan, I absolutely loved this book. I think part of the reason why I loved it so much was because I listened to it as an audiobook. Andy narrates the audiobook version, and it was delightful. The entire time I was listening, I felt like I was peeking into his head and into his life. I loved hearing BTS details of the Housewives and his work at Bravo. One of the aspects I enjoyed the most was hearing how Andy views the rumor mill and news cycle. I recommend this to any Bravo or pop culture fan. If I had read the book instead of listened, I probably would’ve only given it ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️. Non-fiction might be better consumed by audio for me!
I struggled to get through this, only because I kept finding better books. Which is horrible to say. However, I did really enjoy the format of this book and think it was a really digestible memoir. Also enjoyed learning extra Bravo tea.