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Infinite Self: 33 Steps to Reclaiming Your Inner Power

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242 pages, Paperback

First published October 1, 1996

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Stuart Wilde

75 books152 followers
Wilde was born in Farnham, England. He was educated at St. George’s College, Weybridge, Surrey. After his schooling he joined the English Stage Company in Sloane Square, London. A year later he opened a jeans business in Carnaby Street London, at the height of the Swinging Sixties where he enjoyed considerable commercial success.

He studied alternative religions and Taoist philosophy for five years from the age of twenty-eight, and when he was thirty-three, he emigrated to the United States of America where lived in Laguna Beach, California with his first wife Cynthia. He wrote his first book, Miracles, in 1983.

Shortly thereafter he began a career as a lecturer appearing mainly in New Thought Churches and at New Age conferences. In the 1990s he toured regularly with Deepak Chopra, Dr. Wayne Dyer and Louise Hay, appearing at venues such as the Sydney Entertainment Centre.

tuart Wilde is a prolific writer, with eighteen of his books published to date. They appear in more than fifteen foreign languages, with a total of ninety-three different books and audio works in circulation.[2]

He executive produced and was the lyricist on the music album Voice of the Feminine Spirit (1994), which sold several hundred-thousand copies. He later produced and was the lyricist on two albums of Celtic music, Voice of the Celtic Myth (1997), and Creation (1999), and wrote the book and libretto for Tim Wheater’s oratorio Heartland (1995).

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Profile Image for Jeff Maziarek.
Author 4 books25 followers
January 31, 2010
I'll always remember reading this book because I was on a plane from Chicago to Rome, and at times I would just bust out laughing and folks would stare at me. Honestly, Stuie Wilde can be really funny at times. The thing is, however, he's not for everybody because he can be awfully irreverent at times as well. To benefit from Stuie's work one has to be particularly open-minded, for he has no sacred cows. In this particular book there are numerous "gems" of wisdom, and for that reason I highly recommend it. Here's one of my favorite quotes from "Infiite Self"(which shows you his humor): “If you want to flow down the eternal river of perception toward your Infinite Self, you’ve got to let go of the branch you’re hanging on to and let the river take you. That means facing your insecurities and fears and really looking at yourself. Sometimes that can be a bit painful because what you see is piles and piles of caca—loads of it. And you say to yourself, My God, I’m grim. I’m totally assoholic. I need to join Assoholics Anonymous. I am so assoholic it’s painful. Then, once you can observe how assoholic you are, love yourself. Look in the mirror and say, Man, this is one of the world’s greatest idiots, but I love him, I love her, and I’m going to change them.”
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73 reviews6 followers
May 4, 2019
This is not the book for everyone, but I wish it would be.

Stuart Wilde was a metaphysical teacher. If you're not familiar with metaphysics, you might want to read up on it first before you dive into this book. I listened to the book on audio and Stuart did not disappoint. He was British and hilarious -- a great combo. His 33 Steps are meant as a guide to teach us that spirit/God/universe/energy is not external to us, but inside of us — part of us — and that we are all exactly the same. We are spiritual energy housed inside a physical body, with an ego/mind that wants everything its way.

I've been studying this stuff for about 8 years now -- everything from Buddhism to Taoism to the Law of Attraction. I can honestly say (after listening to this book 4 times) that it is life-transforming. If we can see that we are all on one quest to fulfill our individual and even group destinies (and btw, we shape our destinies as we go along), we might begin to help one another more. As Ram Dass said, "We're all going to the same place, and we're all on a path. Sometimes our paths converge. Sometimes they separate, and we can hardly see each other, much less hear each other. But on the good days, we're walking on the same path, close together, and we're walking each other home."
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716 reviews337 followers
September 22, 2018
If you have read Daoist (Taoist) philosophies before and wanted a bit of a take on how this might be moved into a more modern world I think Stuart Wilde has a strong and fascinating vantage point on how he feels this should be done. Is this what I would want for my life personally? Not entirely nor do I think this approach to life works for many of us but it is a fascinating vantage point and peaked my interest in the author and his life choices.
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10 reviews
June 13, 2012
This was the first of many Stuart Wilde books I would read over the years. Stuart is a gifted writer and as he has progressed spiritually from a self help speaker to a shaman and urban mystic his writing has shifted tremendously. I am always amazed
by his theories, discoveries, etc..
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155 reviews22 followers
May 9, 2023
Hands down one of the best books I have ever read. I never expected to laugh out loud at a book as much as this book made me laugh!! Stuie is sooo bonkers and silly. I feel that the only way anyone can go into depth about topics as profound as the topics discussed in this book- is by not being serious. The chapters are short, efficient, and clear. The tone is REAL and hilarious. The subject matter = the gems of life. I was also sick while reading this book and it helped me feel so much better and led me to so many profound realizations and epiphanies in my life. He provides so many helpful exercises and perspectives. I’ll be taking notes on this book forever. Thank you Stuie you silly old bird
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4 reviews
February 8, 2021
Wonderfully written for the average man to increase his potential and connection to the spiritual
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166 reviews18 followers
December 16, 2014
This was my first of Mr. Wilde's inspirational books and while there are quite a few more for me I'm still left with the feeling he left us too early (he died last year from a heart attack).

The ideas, one main one delivered didactically through 32 others, is expressed in a conversational, almost rambling, style - sometimes poignant, sometimes unexpected, sometimes repetitively - but always with conviction and a sense of the genuine.

I can't hope to even attempt a synopsis of that - easy enough to find on your own.

A book worth of multiple reads. Well suited as an book/audiobook companion as sometimes it needs to be the focus of attention and introspection, and at others is served well by being a backdrop to doing and reactionary thinking.

He kept good company, often touring with Deepak Chopra, Dr. Wayne Dyer and Louise Hay - if these names mean anything to you then you won't hesitate to read more of Stuart Wilde. Then again, if you've heard their voices, you've likely heard his.
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Author 1 book2 followers
January 25, 2017
I've read this book a few times, but most recently listened to the audio read by Stuart Wilde. While some of the 33 steps are common ideas found elsewhere in other philosophies (Step 13 Acceptance/ Step 14 Judge Nothing) Mr. Wilde is a completely original thinker and this isn't your average new age book.

What I liked: Each step is quite simple to understand yet it is very in depth as a whole. I really enjoyed the audio read by the author, he is genuinely funny! While the concepts are serious they are not somber and I found myself laughing out loud in my car. This book is a blend of entertaining and educational.

What I didn't like: This is one of my favourite Stuart Wilde books and I really truly love it, warts and all.

I give this book a 5 out of 5 star rating.
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35 reviews1 follower
September 9, 2019
Amazing book. The authors humour is hilarious and also very true, reflects the reality. Loved each chapter. It is a practice book. I believe i will read it again and again, trying to incorporate it in my life.
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July 7, 2010
33 steps to reclaiming your infinite power.

FEEL and grow rich. I haven't actually read this book. I've listened to the audio book version, as read by Stuart, more times than I can remember. Stuart is a funny man and has a lot of great advice. Build your own philosophy.
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8 reviews2 followers
September 25, 2012
I have read the 33 steps and also listened to it several times on audio and even applying just some of Stuart's insights is a life-changing experience. Like every Wilde book, "Infinite Self" is as easy to understand as having a chat with a friend.
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Author 8 books90 followers
June 15, 2016
This is by far Stuart Wilde at his best. His synthesis of many Eastern traditions is evident in this work. For anyone new to Taoist thought especially, this is a good read. It is sad that Stuart has left this world but his work will live on.
Author 6 books1 follower
June 10, 2018
An interesting look at the route to your true self

I enjoyed this book. I probably need to re-read to fully appreciate the steps, but it's a great and humorous look at modern day life.
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2 reviews5 followers
May 28, 2013
If you don't just read this book, but live this book, your life will become a joyful miracle everyday. This book changed my life.
15 reviews1 follower
September 24, 2015
A must read ! If you need to change something in your life
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Author 19 books10 followers
March 11, 2019
One of my favorites. I prefer the audio from Nightingale Conent. Stu is an absolute hoot to listen to. You will laugh your way to bliss.
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541 reviews17 followers
January 6, 2023
A book that changed my life and one that I will recommend.

What my 👂 heard 👇

The ego always leans toward dysfunction
I want to go beyond where I find myself
By this t-shirt for someone you don't like
It may take him 5 years to become less assaholic
It's much too yawnsome
Expand your heart
Fear is a manifestation of the ego
Once you accept Infinity as an idea you'll power begins to grow
I'm trying to get you to stop struggling against yourself
Don't buy the emotion buy the solution
A door opened up inside of you
That's a lot of snobbery
In the discipline of meditation you liberate yourself
Become immaculate be honorable
If anything comes into your mind negative pounce on it quickly and change the subject
Subjugate your ego long enough to sell whatever it is you're selling
Teach people and build them up
The infinite self cannot be insecure
The tallest tree is the first one to get cut down
Stop pushing your feeling into things
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255 reviews26 followers
June 30, 2019
If you like your spirituality on the hurry up, Stui is your guy. Read his old stuff though. I think he lost the plot at some point and his new material is just weird. He took too many drugs or something I think and may have developed schizophrenia. There is an incongruence between the new and old writings. Stick with the old. Old Stui said that if your livelihood is in this spirituality stuff, you should take a break from it every year otherwise you end up rocket man. I think he forgot to take his own advice at some point.

This is one of his better books. Before he went fruit loop.

God bless his little cotton socks. RIP Stewie.
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December 27, 2024
Consciousness is the Aluna that greatly divides the fortune behind the curtain. But tell me master Metaphysicist who has the power to raise the curtain upon the Sea of darkness? The psychic chain will interlock while the star continues on the path of mysyerious dimensional space where if we move through the speed of life then just maybe we can catch a ride on the rainbow bridge and have the great oppurtunity to live for a moment where everything is tuned in and adjusted to specified frequencies where we Wizards thrive. The ride there on the bridge is where the mind has the unique oppurtunity to truly rest in eternity. Healing is everything when the fear of death is our great enemy. Enjoy
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18 reviews1 follower
February 13, 2021
Good at the right time

I feel this book has the most value when read at the right time. I had started it at a time when everything was flowers and rainbows, and ended up not finishing it (less than half).. it sort of got pushed to the back burner by other books/ lack of interest. I picked it back up at a later time where I was in need of guidance, and it served as a beautiful tool. There are a lot of gems packed between these pages, and I will absolutely be revisiting it again at another time.
4 reviews
January 26, 2020
Excellent and inspiring

Really well written,with some inspiration exercises and original philosophies. Fascinating reading. Great for those seeking meaning and an appreciation of life and how to approach it outside of the ego.
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240 reviews11 followers
May 4, 2020
A friend bought this for me and it has helped me a lot in feeling like I am doing the right steps to improve my present state of mind. Nothing is revolutionary but it’s the accumulation of all these small steps in disciplined daily living that often manifest in personal fulfillment.
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8 reviews1 follower
August 19, 2022
I listened to this on Audible, and Stuart Wilde was the reader. He tells the stories so well and I love his teachings. I often put this on when I go to bed so I can have Stuart teach me subconsciously. That said - if you are a reader and interested in this genre, don't miss this jewel!
Author 3 books2 followers
May 6, 2019
He is the absolute best. Hours of inspiration. Audio s avail on youtube, great listen!
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August 29, 2019
What a book and author! Insightful, practical and humorous!!!
I love his metaphysical perspective!
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