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In My Own Words... My Real Reality
It's been said you never really know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. I've been through a lot this past year, from the social media petty parties to admitting my mom into a psyche ward. In My Own Words I offer my truths without filters, ad-libs or edits. I share my struggle with what seemed an unforgiving storm of tests of my faith. I had an up close and personal pass to the private suffering from the public humiliation of the man I loved. With the full dissolution of my marriage ranging from a bi-coastal separation, to an amicable divorce. It seemed all too unreal to hear the words “something terrible has happened to your brothers”. Losing them both at once, at a time when we were just starting to become closer seemed so unfair; it all seemed so unfair! Then I would put my grief on hold to plan their funeral. How was I to remain strong and keep pushing? I had to, there was no other option; my daughter was watching. She's my motivation, she's what's keeps me going. So with God, prayer, and faith; I just kept moving.
120 pages, Paperback
Published January 1, 2016
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March 20, 2018
First off I love Toya! But I could've passed on this book. It was simple I finished it in one day because it was so short and the information in it was nothing new or exciting. Like I said as a person she is dope but this book was just like ok.
October 25, 2016
good read
I wouldve given it more stars, but there were alot of typos. Overall it was a good read, I learned alot about her that I didnt know
I wouldve given it more stars, but there were alot of typos. Overall it was a good read, I learned alot about her that I didnt know
August 24, 2021
The book was a good read. Mickey was just bad for you. He beat and abused K Michelle, I'm related to her. Nobody, believed her, but she suit him and won. On Iyanla show he blamed you. How? Because, he was a fraud. We believe in people, because we love them, but it doesn't mean they're right for us. Refined and Reign are beauties. Thanks, for being transparent and keeping it real. I'm awaiting your next release.
Definitely, a great read. I will share it for others to purchase and share to others. Enjoy, you will love it!
Definitely, a great read. I will share it for others to purchase and share to others. Enjoy, you will love it!
February 8, 2023
a must read
My real reality is very emotionally raw and understanding I love how Toya wrote from her heart and shared her experiences this is definitely a game changer some ladies can learn from this book and know we all have struggles but it’s how you choose to correct your faults learn to forgive and move on with your life to be a better version of yourself I’ll definitely recommend this book to others to read you won’t be disappointed
My real reality is very emotionally raw and understanding I love how Toya wrote from her heart and shared her experiences this is definitely a game changer some ladies can learn from this book and know we all have struggles but it’s how you choose to correct your faults learn to forgive and move on with your life to be a better version of yourself I’ll definitely recommend this book to others to read you won’t be disappointed
September 25, 2017
I really enjoyed reading this book
This was a very good book. I learned a lot and was very inspired by some of the things that were in this book. Keep your head up Toya. You doing good from what I read you been through. Very good read for anyone looking for a story that you can really relate to.
This was a very good book. I learned a lot and was very inspired by some of the things that were in this book. Keep your head up Toya. You doing good from what I read you been through. Very good read for anyone looking for a story that you can really relate to.
September 22, 2019
Exquisitely written couldn't put it down
This book is a real game changer. Toya is honest and intellectual and inspiring. Toya is truly a phenomenal woman a great example of how to be a great woman, wife, and mother. A real role model for all women of all ages. Great book read it in two days
This book is a real game changer. Toya is honest and intellectual and inspiring. Toya is truly a phenomenal woman a great example of how to be a great woman, wife, and mother. A real role model for all women of all ages. Great book read it in two days
March 6, 2018
Amazing Read
This book was well worth purchasing and reading. I read it n 3 hours I lived it from beginning to end. I cried laughed related so much with Toya. She inspired me and helped put the fire back under me to continue to believe in myself. Thank you Toya!!!!
This book was well worth purchasing and reading. I read it n 3 hours I lived it from beginning to end. I cried laughed related so much with Toya. She inspired me and helped put the fire back under me to continue to believe in myself. Thank you Toya!!!!
October 28, 2018
Inspiring !!!
I learned from this book that it's okay not to be perfect, but to fully learn from my mistakes. And to know that everything isn't for everybody and vice versa. Thank you for this book Toya, from a young girl trying to figure the growing up thing all out.
I learned from this book that it's okay not to be perfect, but to fully learn from my mistakes. And to know that everything isn't for everybody and vice versa. Thank you for this book Toya, from a young girl trying to figure the growing up thing all out.
November 15, 2019
Encouraging
It was it nice experience to hear Toya's life from her. She has dealt with some adversity, but she continues to motivate herself to do better. The book needed to be edited better, but you could still understand the story.
It was it nice experience to hear Toya's life from her. She has dealt with some adversity, but she continues to motivate herself to do better. The book needed to be edited better, but you could still understand the story.
December 23, 2019
I enjoyed it
It was an easy and interesting read and really short so it kind of jumped around quick . Overall I enjoyed the story and some of the inspirational vibes I got from it !
It was an easy and interesting read and really short so it kind of jumped around quick . Overall I enjoyed the story and some of the inspirational vibes I got from it !
September 12, 2020
Peace
I love that you are willing to tell your story. Some people have issues being true to there life before and during fame.. Thank you for letting the world know that you're a real person with real life shut going on.
I love that you are willing to tell your story. Some people have issues being true to there life before and during fame.. Thank you for letting the world know that you're a real person with real life shut going on.
January 7, 2021
Good
The book was very short.. but overall it was a good read. Great job Toya! It’s crazy that I’m reading this so late and I follow you on social media! Congrats on your new man and new kid 😍❤️
The book was very short.. but overall it was a good read. Great job Toya! It’s crazy that I’m reading this so late and I follow you on social media! Congrats on your new man and new kid 😍❤️
November 15, 2017
Great book!
You did a wonderful job Toya! Never give upon baby girl!! You doing everything right!! Love peace and blessing .
You did a wonderful job Toya! Never give upon baby girl!! You doing everything right!! Love peace and blessing .
December 22, 2017
Awesome book!
This book is well written and proves that trials and tribulations only make you stronger. The reward for work well done is the opportunity to do more.
This book is well written and proves that trials and tribulations only make you stronger. The reward for work well done is the opportunity to do more.
February 24, 2018
Inspirational
I have enjoyed all Toya books thus far. She is so inspirational and bring so much passion to everything she does.
I have enjoyed all Toya books thus far. She is so inspirational and bring so much passion to everything she does.
December 29, 2018
Very hard to get through. The writing was pretty juvenile.
March 22, 2020
So proud
I really love how strong she is . She been through a lot in her past. She make see if she can do I can too.
I really love how strong she is . She been through a lot in her past. She make see if she can do I can too.
September 7, 2020
More
I was yearning for more, than it was over just like that. Ugh. We Need more books from Toya. ....
I was yearning for more, than it was over just like that. Ugh. We Need more books from Toya. ....
February 27, 2021
Great book! Love the transparency and strength resilience. Appreciate authenticity Toya brings in this book.💙
September 27, 2022
I enjoyed getting to know a little bit about Toya Johnson. Thankful that she was so willing to share herself with us.
January 31, 2024
In this quick read, @toyajohnson gives her readers a glimpse into her life…in her own words. She addresses the death of her brothers; her mother's battle with drugs; life before,during and after Lil Wayne; being a mom, and the behind the scenes truth of her second marriage…on and off the television screen.
I can't believe it took me this long to read this book, and I'm looking forward to reading her other books.
I can't believe it took me this long to read this book, and I'm looking forward to reading her other books.
March 7, 2022
Great
This book was very motivational. The first book I owned as a teenager was “Priceless Inspirations”. From her first book to this one, you can really see growth in her as a person and an author. Not only did she help me get through some of the toughest times in my adolescence years, moving back and forth from family member to family member, but she also provided motivation and inspiration to keep going and never give despite any obstacle, hater, or “friend. Definitely worth reading, if you’re a person that’s been through something and is trying to persevere and succeed. 💕
This book was very motivational. The first book I owned as a teenager was “Priceless Inspirations”. From her first book to this one, you can really see growth in her as a person and an author. Not only did she help me get through some of the toughest times in my adolescence years, moving back and forth from family member to family member, but she also provided motivation and inspiration to keep going and never give despite any obstacle, hater, or “friend. Definitely worth reading, if you’re a person that’s been through something and is trying to persevere and succeed. 💕
November 13, 2016
Damage control
This book in the beginning was too much about what she wanted to repair that was in the media about her (image) and second marriage. I got it in the first two pages about how good of a person she is. She repeated it so many times about how much of a a good friend she is. (I have no doubt she is.) I felt bad that her family thought she was to take care of them forever and she lost her family to tragedy that is sad. I gave a three because most of her story was already played out in the media.
This book in the beginning was too much about what she wanted to repair that was in the media about her (image) and second marriage. I got it in the first two pages about how good of a person she is. She repeated it so many times about how much of a a good friend she is. (I have no doubt she is.) I felt bad that her family thought she was to take care of them forever and she lost her family to tragedy that is sad. I gave a three because most of her story was already played out in the media.
October 24, 2016
Inspired!!!
I gave this book five stars because Toya put her highs and lows out there and
it takes a real woman to do such. She isn't afraid to fail and finds lessons in the good and bad times. Toya is an excellent mother and I'm sure a great friend and she gives me hope that it's never to late to know better, then do better. Great Read!!!!!!
I gave this book five stars because Toya put her highs and lows out there and
it takes a real woman to do such. She isn't afraid to fail and finds lessons in the good and bad times. Toya is an excellent mother and I'm sure a great friend and she gives me hope that it's never to late to know better, then do better. Great Read!!!!!!
October 14, 2016
FACTS
AWESOME!!! AS REAL AS IT GET YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HER SHE IS A STRONG INTELLIGENT YOUNG LADY. DON'T HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME.
AWESOME!!! AS REAL AS IT GET YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HER SHE IS A STRONG INTELLIGENT YOUNG LADY. DON'T HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME.
December 23, 2016
Awesome
I loved every minute of this book. I'm glad you decided to step out on faith to get your own publishing company.
I loved every minute of this book. I'm glad you decided to step out on faith to get your own publishing company.
January 28, 2017
Love it
Really good book, definitely going to recommended it to family and friend. Great job Toys. Keep striving, we need more strong women like you.
Really good book, definitely going to recommended it to family and friend. Great job Toys. Keep striving, we need more strong women like you.
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