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The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation
In 2000–2001, Michael Jackson sat down with his close friend and spiritual guide, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, to record what turned out to be the most intimate and revealing conversations of his life. It was Michael’s wish to bare his soul and unburden himself to a public that he knew was deeply suspicious of him. The resulting thirty hours are the basis of The Michael Jackson Tapes. There has never been, and never will be, anything like them. In these searingly honest conversations, Michael exposes his emotional pain and profound loneliness, his longing to be loved, and the emptiness of his fame. You discover why he was suspicious of women and how only children provided the innocence for which he so desperately longed. In his own words, he takes us into the jarring moments of his childhood and speaks of the measures he took to try and heal. He divulges how he came to be alienated from his strong religious anchor and describes his views on the nature of faith. Michael brings us into his tortured yet loving relationship with his siblings. He opens up about his father and his yearning for a time when they might finally reconcile. He talks about his most personal friendships and shares with us his terror of growing old. Despite his unprecedented fame and recent death, there remain unanswered questions about his life. The answers, presented here in The Michael Jackson Tapes, will both intrigue and move you. You will be surprised, riveted, and troubled as you peer into the soul of a tragic icon whose life is an American morality tale and whose flame was extinguished much too early.
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First published January 1, 2009
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Shmuley Boteach
47 books70 followersRabbi Shmuley Boteach, named by Talkers Magazine as one of the 100 most important radio hosts in America, is a nationally syndicated talk show host, the international best-selling author of 15 books, and an acclaimed syndicated columnist.
A winner of the London Times highly prestigious "Preacher of the Year" award, Rabbi Shmuley has lectured and appeared in print, radio, and TV all over the globe. His radio show, "Rabbi Shmuley's Passion," airs daily on Bonneville Broadcasting in afternoon drive-time.
He is the author of a number of books, including "Kosher Sex: A Recipe for Passion and Intimacy," "Dating Secrets of the Ten Commandments," "Why Can't I Fall in Love," "Judaism for Everyone: Renewing your Life through the Vibrant Lessons of the Jewish Faith," and most recently, "Hating Women: America's Hostile Campaign Against the Fairer Sex." A winner of the annual "preacher of the year" contest sponsored by the Times of London, he was formerly rabbi of Oxford University.
Shmuley—he is known universally by his first name, has marketed himself as a rabbi to the stars and an expert on Jewish attitudes toward relationships and marriage. ("Dr. Ruth with a yarmulke," the Washington Post called him.)
A winner of the London Times highly prestigious "Preacher of the Year" award, Rabbi Shmuley has lectured and appeared in print, radio, and TV all over the globe. His radio show, "Rabbi Shmuley's Passion," airs daily on Bonneville Broadcasting in afternoon drive-time.
He is the author of a number of books, including "Kosher Sex: A Recipe for Passion and Intimacy," "Dating Secrets of the Ten Commandments," "Why Can't I Fall in Love," "Judaism for Everyone: Renewing your Life through the Vibrant Lessons of the Jewish Faith," and most recently, "Hating Women: America's Hostile Campaign Against the Fairer Sex." A winner of the annual "preacher of the year" contest sponsored by the Times of London, he was formerly rabbi of Oxford University.
Shmuley—he is known universally by his first name, has marketed himself as a rabbi to the stars and an expert on Jewish attitudes toward relationships and marriage. ("Dr. Ruth with a yarmulke," the Washington Post called him.)
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October 8, 2009
While there wasn’t much new information for Jackson fans in this book, the presentation was different. At times, it was easy to trick yourself into thinking you were there having a conversation with Michael yourself.
It was interesting to see the two distinct sides of Michael Jackson in his own words- that's what really sticks out to me...but then again, Boteach seemed to focus in on that pretty hard, so that could be why.
The book makes me angry, because despite the author’s constant explaining, I still don't understand how someone who was allegedly so close to Michael could just turn their back on him, even when Michael tried to get Boteach back in his life a couple of times after they stopped talking. I'm in no position to judge Rabbi Boteach, but he came across as lazy and self-righteous as opposed to someone who was genuinely worried about getting caught up in Michael's lifestyle. What's the point in having a strong belief system, and in having these incredibly strong, grounded friends around you if you're not willing to use those resources to help someone less fortunate?
Didn't Boteach have enough genuine friends surrounding him that if he had started to get sucked into Jackson's world, they could bring him back down to earth? Again, it just comes off like he was willing to try, up until the point where his self-control and morals were tested just the slightest bit. That, or it sounds to me like he might have just been hurt by the way he was treated by Michael. No one could blame him for walking away because Michael hurt him- afterall, they had once been so close and then Michael began distancing himself from Boteach & his causes. But then why didn't he go back to Michael when he reached out?
I got the impression that Michael was constantly reaching out to other people for help- basically screaming at them, but no one ever noticed or took him seriously. He was Michael Jackson- in his mind he couldn't admit that he needed help...but it really hit me when they were talking about Hitler. Boteach kept drilling into Michael's head that Hitler was too far gone to be saved- that no one could have done anything to help him. But Michael stood his ground, and kept insisting that all he needed was someone to talk to, someone to genuinely listen to him and try to help him understand where things went wrong.
And I realized that that was all Michael ever needed. Maybe hindsight is twenty-twenty, maybe you start looking for things once you know the outcome, but it really came off to me like he was begging Shmuley to not give up on him. Michael kept insisting that Hitler wasn't too far gone, because he wanted to believe that he wasn't too far gone either. He wanted to persuade Boteach to think that anyone can be saved at any point if you just try hard enough.
And in my opinion...no one tried hard enough.
Michael knew he was hard to live with- he admitted it many times in this very book! He all but told people it would be hell to try to get through to him- but he kept insisting that no one is ever too far gone. That sounds like nothing short of a cry for help. "It will be nearly impossible- but I'll never be too far gone- if you try hard enough, I'll come around. Don't give up on me."
All of that aside, I do believe Shmuley Boteach is a good man, and he had admirable intentions during his friendship with Michael. He's a wonderful poetic writer- he definitely has a way with words.
Great book, quick read, interesting insights…but it definitely leaves you feeling a bit depressed. It leaves you wanting more. It leaves you wanting the real thing- the real conversation between you and Michael. Michael Jackson was a profoundly intelligent man- deeply spiritual, and surprisingly philosophical, add in his tortured soul and incredible heart for others…a conversation with someone like that would have been interesting, to say the least! It's a conversation I envy.
It was interesting to see the two distinct sides of Michael Jackson in his own words- that's what really sticks out to me...but then again, Boteach seemed to focus in on that pretty hard, so that could be why.
The book makes me angry, because despite the author’s constant explaining, I still don't understand how someone who was allegedly so close to Michael could just turn their back on him, even when Michael tried to get Boteach back in his life a couple of times after they stopped talking. I'm in no position to judge Rabbi Boteach, but he came across as lazy and self-righteous as opposed to someone who was genuinely worried about getting caught up in Michael's lifestyle. What's the point in having a strong belief system, and in having these incredibly strong, grounded friends around you if you're not willing to use those resources to help someone less fortunate?
Didn't Boteach have enough genuine friends surrounding him that if he had started to get sucked into Jackson's world, they could bring him back down to earth? Again, it just comes off like he was willing to try, up until the point where his self-control and morals were tested just the slightest bit. That, or it sounds to me like he might have just been hurt by the way he was treated by Michael. No one could blame him for walking away because Michael hurt him- afterall, they had once been so close and then Michael began distancing himself from Boteach & his causes. But then why didn't he go back to Michael when he reached out?
I got the impression that Michael was constantly reaching out to other people for help- basically screaming at them, but no one ever noticed or took him seriously. He was Michael Jackson- in his mind he couldn't admit that he needed help...but it really hit me when they were talking about Hitler. Boteach kept drilling into Michael's head that Hitler was too far gone to be saved- that no one could have done anything to help him. But Michael stood his ground, and kept insisting that all he needed was someone to talk to, someone to genuinely listen to him and try to help him understand where things went wrong.
And I realized that that was all Michael ever needed. Maybe hindsight is twenty-twenty, maybe you start looking for things once you know the outcome, but it really came off to me like he was begging Shmuley to not give up on him. Michael kept insisting that Hitler wasn't too far gone, because he wanted to believe that he wasn't too far gone either. He wanted to persuade Boteach to think that anyone can be saved at any point if you just try hard enough.
And in my opinion...no one tried hard enough.
Michael knew he was hard to live with- he admitted it many times in this very book! He all but told people it would be hell to try to get through to him- but he kept insisting that no one is ever too far gone. That sounds like nothing short of a cry for help. "It will be nearly impossible- but I'll never be too far gone- if you try hard enough, I'll come around. Don't give up on me."
All of that aside, I do believe Shmuley Boteach is a good man, and he had admirable intentions during his friendship with Michael. He's a wonderful poetic writer- he definitely has a way with words.
Great book, quick read, interesting insights…but it definitely leaves you feeling a bit depressed. It leaves you wanting more. It leaves you wanting the real thing- the real conversation between you and Michael. Michael Jackson was a profoundly intelligent man- deeply spiritual, and surprisingly philosophical, add in his tortured soul and incredible heart for others…a conversation with someone like that would have been interesting, to say the least! It's a conversation I envy.
February 9, 2012
I read this book as a library loan. I refused to put money into the hands of Shmuley, who clearly sold out his friend. After skimming the Rabbi's initial purports, I entirely skipped all further commentary from Shmuley, and read only MJ's words.
When I thought it was impossible to love Michael more, I discovered yet more love and admiration for the man. There is a wealth of spiritual revelation in the book. The reader is allowed into Michael's theology. MJ is ever the gentle spirit, exploring love and connectivity, questioning dogma, honoring traditions. What a gift he gave in revealing this corner of his inner world to the ungrateful and judgemental Shmuley. Shame on the Rabbi for all his ugly words.
In a sense, the book stands as an example to us all. Unintentionally, Shmuley sets himself up as the shallow soul, a shining example of what to avoid in how we ourselves behave. Michael, as always, provides a loving and reflective contrast to the evils of the world.
When I thought it was impossible to love Michael more, I discovered yet more love and admiration for the man. There is a wealth of spiritual revelation in the book. The reader is allowed into Michael's theology. MJ is ever the gentle spirit, exploring love and connectivity, questioning dogma, honoring traditions. What a gift he gave in revealing this corner of his inner world to the ungrateful and judgemental Shmuley. Shame on the Rabbi for all his ugly words.
In a sense, the book stands as an example to us all. Unintentionally, Shmuley sets himself up as the shallow soul, a shining example of what to avoid in how we ourselves behave. Michael, as always, provides a loving and reflective contrast to the evils of the world.
October 12, 2009
I did not really like this book at all. I didn't like the author. Many things made me angry at this book but I kept reading. For one I did not think the memorial service was absurd. I thought it was touching. He needs to realize Michael was a superstar and had many, many fans. This Rabbi says Michael did some questionable and even criminal activities. I don't really know what he was trying to say here. Was he trying to say Michael was guilty of something that he was found innocent of or about the misuse of the prescription medication? I found it very sad that Michael's own parents would not wish him a Happy Birthday. All Michael ever wanted was someone to love him and his parents could not even do that. I felt this Rabbi was condemning others for using Michael when I feel he did the same thing. When Michael didn't do what he wanted he pulled away. If he was a true friend to Michael he would have never given up on him!! This Rabbi is not God but he talks about the many sins of Michael. Like how Michael spent his money lavishly. He did no surprise but Hello other Celebs do that too!! So He got people to hold his umbrella big deal other stars do that too. The Jehovah's Witness also did Michael wrong by telling him Thriller was Demonic & part of the occult. Even religion failed Michael when he needed them. One of the reasons why I can't stand this book is the Rabbi touts his own books almost every other page!! The Rabbi talks about Michael's arrogance but to me he was the arrogant one!! M.J. plainly says his gift comes from god and he is not Michelango then the rabbi says M.J. was comparing himself to him!! NO he was not!!This Rabbi needs to practice what he loves to preach! This Rabbi did not understand that Michael was a superstar. He had fans. Could he help they screamed for him? Followed him Everywhere? The Rabbi wanted him to be someone other than what he was. He had been a star from age 5. Michael wanted to be a star and do good. He could do both. The only good points in this book were the lessons from Michael about we must start listening to our children, give them attention, & think how other people feel. Be compassionate! I thought this book was about Michael not the Rabbi's brainwashing and cockiness. I will not read another book from this man!!!He claims to be so religious but all he does is judge. Instead of being so judgemental how about being someone's friend when they clearly needed one.
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July 9, 2013Don't trust this man. He not only published tapes of private confessionals, but he stole from Michael's charity Heal the Kids. He interjects his personal optinion and hateful remarks into everything. It was painful to get though. If you really want to read it, go on Jetzi and read the version without Shumley's comments.
June 21, 2012
I happened upon some Michael Jackson books that were on sale recently, so this is the reason that I have read 3 books on the King of Pop this year. Let me start off this review by saying that I went into it knowing full well that this was probably going to be kind of depressing. I mean, the title says 'A TRAGIC Icon Reveals his Soul in Intimate Conversation.' It is stated by Rabbi Boteach that Michael wished this book to be published at some point (that point was never really clarified) to reveal his true thoughts and feelings to the world - something that I think we all wished he would have done a little bit more of. So I got the feeling that Michael Jackson would have been extremely unhappy with the way that the Rabbi put this book together. It was meant to be a positive book that outlined his "true character," so to speak, but it consisted of the Rabbi lecturing his readers throughout the entire book about how tragic Michael was, how contradictory he was, how arrogant he was, and - over and over again - how he had totally and completely wasted his life.
Now I think we all know that Michael Jackson was dealing with the some major problems. That's kind of obvious. But no, his life was certainly NOT wasted. He gave the world a gift of unparalleled music and dance. He also did a lot of philanthropic good around the globe. True, he became lost in the slough of super-nova levels of celebrity and his reasoning for some things is atrocious - but can you blame him? Michael Jackson was surrounded on every side by yes men (and women!) and there was absolutely nobody in the King of Pop's world with the power to step up, take him by the hand and guide him back to reality and happiness without fear of him immediately cutting them out of his life. Michael was a musical genius who was taken prisoner by a level of fame that very, very people have ever experienced - far beyond Britney Spears or Justin Timberlake or Usher or Beyonce. Reading the book was kind of terrifying if you look at it the way that the Rabbi paints it. I think the best thing to do is simply take away the positive things that Michael did and leave it at that. Forget the crap and just enjoy the beautiful music and love that the King of Pop gave the world without getting nitpicky about it. I can do that. Maybe the Rabbi will learn to do it, too.
Now I think we all know that Michael Jackson was dealing with the some major problems. That's kind of obvious. But no, his life was certainly NOT wasted. He gave the world a gift of unparalleled music and dance. He also did a lot of philanthropic good around the globe. True, he became lost in the slough of super-nova levels of celebrity and his reasoning for some things is atrocious - but can you blame him? Michael Jackson was surrounded on every side by yes men (and women!) and there was absolutely nobody in the King of Pop's world with the power to step up, take him by the hand and guide him back to reality and happiness without fear of him immediately cutting them out of his life. Michael was a musical genius who was taken prisoner by a level of fame that very, very people have ever experienced - far beyond Britney Spears or Justin Timberlake or Usher or Beyonce. Reading the book was kind of terrifying if you look at it the way that the Rabbi paints it. I think the best thing to do is simply take away the positive things that Michael did and leave it at that. Forget the crap and just enjoy the beautiful music and love that the King of Pop gave the world without getting nitpicky about it. I can do that. Maybe the Rabbi will learn to do it, too.
November 4, 2013
He was a genius when it came to music and entertainment, but he was also human, like we all are. Unfortunately for him, Michael Jackson didn’t have the privacy or the space to work on his flaws and subsequently to grow with each lesson learned. Throughout the years, we have seen and read countless interviews that spoke of Michael’s kindness and caring. Watching This Is It, we saw how kind and gentle he was with those who worked with him, even when under intense stress, never treating them as inferiors but rather as collaborators.
This book can serve multiple purposes. For those who are avid tabloid readers, this book will definitely be a rich source of information you will be able to inject in future conversations about Michael Jackson. For intense fans, this book is an amazing look into who their idol was.
But for those of us who are concerned with the bigger picture of how a fairy tale can go so wrong, this book provides us with great insight into the relationship between an entertainer and his public, and how the two can feed each other negatively until both collapse.
Michael Jackson collapsed in an obvious way; and, upon reflection, it’s easy to see how the American and Canadian cultures have also collapsed. When more teenagers know about the relationship status of their favourite actors and singers than they do about the status of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, you know something is wrong.
It is largely due to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach’s strong hand that this book doesn’t read as a tabloid, but rather as an exploration of how Michael Jackson’s relationship with his family, with fame, and with his fans affected him. While Boteach does express admiration for Jackson and acknowledges his massive contribution to pop culture and music, Rabbi Boteach never slips into a sappy form of adoration, neither elevating Michael Jackson to a deity nor abasing him as Satan’s minion.
By the same token, Rabbi Boteach doesn’t speak of Michael Jackson as only a victim or an evil manipulator; but rather he talks about Michael Jackson as someone stuck in an unhealthy system where artists are elevated to deities and thus considered more important than governance issues and war.
This book is definitely not for the faint of heart. If you can’t handle the truth (as seen by Rabbi Boteach, of course), then don’t pick it up. This book is certainly not for the adoring fan in self-denial, intent on seeing Michael Jackson as a saint. Nor is it for the hateful enemy, intent on seeing him as a sinner and nothing but. For like all humans, which was what Michael Jackson was, he had a good side and a bad one. We tend to only see Michael Jackson the star. This book is about Michael Jackson the man. We tend to classify people as bad or good; this book explores the shades of grey that defines all humans.
It’s also a side of the unhealthy obsession we have with celebrities and their deification. And I have the impression that, at its core, this book is a call for action, to change the priorities in our personal lives as well as in our community, so that the real issues take precedence again and celebrities stick to what they do best: entertaining us.
The book begins with Rabbi Shmuley explaining how he came to know Michael Jackson and the evolution of their friendship, as well as the reasons behind the conversations, why they were taped, and what was originally planned. As one reads through these first pages of this book, one realises immediately that Rabbi Shmuley isn’t here to dish out information, but rather that he is engaging us in an important and deep self-reflection; the beginning is his personal self-reflection on what happened between himself and Michael Jackson, and the conversations themselves encourage Michael Jackson to also engage in such a process.
Rabbi Shmuley is at the same time refreshingly honest and extremely perceptive. That he got to meet Michael Jackson the man is probably a dream many a fan would have loved to see accomplished; the fact that the Rabbi was able to maintain a man-to-man relationship rather than that of star-struck fan to deified celebrity truly is an inspiration.
The Rabbi sounds confident at times, enters deep reflection at other times, and even flirts with melancholy in a couple of places. There are glimmerings of something that could be equated to arrogance at some points. For example, the Rabbi explains how he pounded out a rehabilitation plan for Michael Jackson in a matter of an evening. While it’s touching that he had such a level of enthusiasm to help Michael Jackson, it’s a little unsettling at the same time, for how can a rehabilitation plan be drawn up so fast and with so short a time spent with the subject in question?
At some points it did feel like the Rabbi was getting a little defensive; perhaps it’s because he has yet to forgive himself for not being able to help Michael Jackson, something we have seen Lisa Marie Presley also struggle with.
The transcriptions of the conversations are centered around various themes, including but not limited to: his childhood fame, and how Michael Jackson remembers it; his relationship with his father, Joe Jackson; his protectiveness towards his little sister, Janet; the place of religion in his life and that of his family; dealing with fame and living in a fishbowl in adulthood; his thoughts on women and romance; his friendships with particular stars such as Elizabeth Taylor; and his views on children.
Michael Jackson does have some very interesting views on some of these themes, offers a look into some aspects of his life that we only have had brief glimpses of, and opens his heart on other matters. And while it does seem that Michael was being honest with Rabbi Boteach, I sometimes couldn’t help but wonder if he was being honest with himself. Have the lies written and said about him piled up so high that even Michael Jackson himself was getting confused? Was he trying to get more attention by manipulating the truth? Or was it part of his defence mechanism?
We will never really know.
However what I do know is that this book offers a great opportunity for those of us left behind to change the way things are. The current cult of celebrity adoration is beyond ridiculous. Yes, these people are beautiful and talented, and yes, their job as entertainers is important enough to be acknowledged and respected; but when there is increased circulation of tabloids while newspaper circulation is down, one can’t help but wonder if, even had he been a stronger person, Michael Jackson’s life in a fishbowl was inevitable.
Perhaps the best homage we can pay to him would be to change the entire system so that such a tragedy never occurs again.
(First published on Blogcritics and on http://saharsreviews.wordpress.com)
This book can serve multiple purposes. For those who are avid tabloid readers, this book will definitely be a rich source of information you will be able to inject in future conversations about Michael Jackson. For intense fans, this book is an amazing look into who their idol was.
But for those of us who are concerned with the bigger picture of how a fairy tale can go so wrong, this book provides us with great insight into the relationship between an entertainer and his public, and how the two can feed each other negatively until both collapse.
Michael Jackson collapsed in an obvious way; and, upon reflection, it’s easy to see how the American and Canadian cultures have also collapsed. When more teenagers know about the relationship status of their favourite actors and singers than they do about the status of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, you know something is wrong.
It is largely due to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach’s strong hand that this book doesn’t read as a tabloid, but rather as an exploration of how Michael Jackson’s relationship with his family, with fame, and with his fans affected him. While Boteach does express admiration for Jackson and acknowledges his massive contribution to pop culture and music, Rabbi Boteach never slips into a sappy form of adoration, neither elevating Michael Jackson to a deity nor abasing him as Satan’s minion.
By the same token, Rabbi Boteach doesn’t speak of Michael Jackson as only a victim or an evil manipulator; but rather he talks about Michael Jackson as someone stuck in an unhealthy system where artists are elevated to deities and thus considered more important than governance issues and war.
This book is definitely not for the faint of heart. If you can’t handle the truth (as seen by Rabbi Boteach, of course), then don’t pick it up. This book is certainly not for the adoring fan in self-denial, intent on seeing Michael Jackson as a saint. Nor is it for the hateful enemy, intent on seeing him as a sinner and nothing but. For like all humans, which was what Michael Jackson was, he had a good side and a bad one. We tend to only see Michael Jackson the star. This book is about Michael Jackson the man. We tend to classify people as bad or good; this book explores the shades of grey that defines all humans.
It’s also a side of the unhealthy obsession we have with celebrities and their deification. And I have the impression that, at its core, this book is a call for action, to change the priorities in our personal lives as well as in our community, so that the real issues take precedence again and celebrities stick to what they do best: entertaining us.
The book begins with Rabbi Shmuley explaining how he came to know Michael Jackson and the evolution of their friendship, as well as the reasons behind the conversations, why they were taped, and what was originally planned. As one reads through these first pages of this book, one realises immediately that Rabbi Shmuley isn’t here to dish out information, but rather that he is engaging us in an important and deep self-reflection; the beginning is his personal self-reflection on what happened between himself and Michael Jackson, and the conversations themselves encourage Michael Jackson to also engage in such a process.
Rabbi Shmuley is at the same time refreshingly honest and extremely perceptive. That he got to meet Michael Jackson the man is probably a dream many a fan would have loved to see accomplished; the fact that the Rabbi was able to maintain a man-to-man relationship rather than that of star-struck fan to deified celebrity truly is an inspiration.
The Rabbi sounds confident at times, enters deep reflection at other times, and even flirts with melancholy in a couple of places. There are glimmerings of something that could be equated to arrogance at some points. For example, the Rabbi explains how he pounded out a rehabilitation plan for Michael Jackson in a matter of an evening. While it’s touching that he had such a level of enthusiasm to help Michael Jackson, it’s a little unsettling at the same time, for how can a rehabilitation plan be drawn up so fast and with so short a time spent with the subject in question?
At some points it did feel like the Rabbi was getting a little defensive; perhaps it’s because he has yet to forgive himself for not being able to help Michael Jackson, something we have seen Lisa Marie Presley also struggle with.
The transcriptions of the conversations are centered around various themes, including but not limited to: his childhood fame, and how Michael Jackson remembers it; his relationship with his father, Joe Jackson; his protectiveness towards his little sister, Janet; the place of religion in his life and that of his family; dealing with fame and living in a fishbowl in adulthood; his thoughts on women and romance; his friendships with particular stars such as Elizabeth Taylor; and his views on children.
Michael Jackson does have some very interesting views on some of these themes, offers a look into some aspects of his life that we only have had brief glimpses of, and opens his heart on other matters. And while it does seem that Michael was being honest with Rabbi Boteach, I sometimes couldn’t help but wonder if he was being honest with himself. Have the lies written and said about him piled up so high that even Michael Jackson himself was getting confused? Was he trying to get more attention by manipulating the truth? Or was it part of his defence mechanism?
We will never really know.
However what I do know is that this book offers a great opportunity for those of us left behind to change the way things are. The current cult of celebrity adoration is beyond ridiculous. Yes, these people are beautiful and talented, and yes, their job as entertainers is important enough to be acknowledged and respected; but when there is increased circulation of tabloids while newspaper circulation is down, one can’t help but wonder if, even had he been a stronger person, Michael Jackson’s life in a fishbowl was inevitable.
Perhaps the best homage we can pay to him would be to change the entire system so that such a tragedy never occurs again.
(First published on Blogcritics and on http://saharsreviews.wordpress.com)
November 14, 2009
I decided to read this book because I was curious about the strange and unusual relationship that the rabbi and the "king of pop" shared, and I sort of wanted to know what it was all about. I also wanted to read the first hand comments MJ made about various subjects... I think Jackson was a very talented entertainer and a star in his own right. I also think that most likely he was sincere for the most part in wanting to "heal" the world, help children, etc. I think he did try to be a kind person and meant well when he did some very foolish things. But having said that, I don't think he came off as a very intelligent man when he spoke out. While reading this book, I cringed at many of the things that came out of his mouth, and having also seen some of the interviews with him in the past, the comments in this book are consistent, in other words most of the time he doesn't really make all that much sense... I know that it's not that nice to speak ill of the dead, but this is my perception of him. If I were his publicist, I would have advised him not to give interviews and just stick to what he did best - singing and dancing and make people happy with that. I am not just referring to things he said about children, which later got him in a lot of trouble, but other things he spoke about, for example that he was convinced that he could have "rehabilitated" (for the lack of a better term) Adolf Hitler hence change history, the things that he said about women in general, etc. Some readers felt that rabbi Shmuley was too harsh in his interpretation of MJ, IMO he was quite non-judgmental... or at least as non-judgmental as it was possible considering what he heard and witnessed while spending time with MJ... Now, I do consider myself a fan of Michael Jackson's talent (although not as much as I was when I was a teenager) but I don't consider him to have been a wise man, or even a reasonable man... Especially after reading some of his thoughts and comments in this book. Let's give him credit where credit was due: his talent to entertain, but that's all... I didn't find myself tearing up or getting sentimental while reading MJ's comments in this book, I actually caught myself feeling a little embarassed for him and thinking "wow, what planet did this man live on" and that he really needed serious help and it's too bad he never got it... I am not sure what this rabbi's intentions were when he decided to publish this book, but if it was to demonstrate what a deep and intelligent man MJ was, it didn't work for me...
April 3, 2012
I'm a huge fan of MJ but I found the author rather unlikeable. He made some good points but at times, totally misunderstood what Michael was trying to say. Some interesting moments but they are few and far between. Hard to recommend this. Read Moonwalk instead. A FAR superior book, written/voiced exclusively by MJ himself!
November 17, 2009
"MJ: Everybody's funny bone is the same color, isn't it? We are all the same, really. I have seen that a lot." (Page 258)
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's The Michael Jackson Tapes is a unique look at a larger-than-life celebrity musician in an intimate setting, but portions of the book are written like a thesis or an examination of celebrity and its adverse impact on America and its stars. This is not a book for those looking for pictorial depictions of the star in his home or seeking titillating details about his personal relationships with women, his children, or other family members. While family is talked about, it is not the crux of this book nor of the taped conversations between Jackson and Boteach between 2000 and 2001.
"And it's heady stuff to be needed by a global superstar. It makes you feel important and special and soon you close your eyes to all you know to be righteous. The glow of fame is too bright, the gravitational pull of celebrity too difficult to resist, until you have become nothing but a satellite in its orbit. All resistance has been quelled by the superpowerful narcotic of superstardom." (Page 269)
Through these recorded conversations with his acquaintance and spiritual guide -- at least for a time -- Michael Jackson revealed some of his demons, his joys, and his fears. But even for all the explanations by the author of his convictions about Jackson's innocence and sincerity, there are times when readers will uncover something amiss with Jackson -- whether from the drugs or other influences is anyone's guess. Answers to certain questions will start off coherent and then reach the absurd, leading readers to wonder how the Rabbi failed to see something wrong with Jackson (i.e. drug abuse). Boteach knew Jackson for just a few years, and while readers may take issue with his assessments of the celebrity or the closeness of their relationship, readers will see a side of Jackson rarely shown to the public.
"MJ: See, why can't we be like the trees? That come, you know, they lose their leaves in the winter, and come back as beautiful all over again in the spring, you know? It's a sense of immortality to them, and the Bible says man was meant for immortality." (Page 67)
Jackson and Boteach discussed religion, family, fame, celebrity, and many other topics, with the goal of creating a book. Jackson at one point espouses the need for celebrities to be responsible for their public displays and shows to ensure they send an appropriate message to their fans, but in many ways acted contrary to that message (i.e. grabbing his crotch during concerts, which he says he did not do consciously).
However, there are times when this book grows tedious with the repetition of Boteach's theories and assessments of Jackson's actions and past; it is almost like he doesn't trust the reader to make his or her own assessments about Jackson and his downfall, which is a major drawback. Readers will absorb and get lost in the conversations between Boteach and Jackson and enjoy the snippet of conversation included with Jackson's mother. The Michael Jackson Tapes seeks to bring out the flaws and the good qualities in a wayward superstar lost in his own image.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's The Michael Jackson Tapes is a unique look at a larger-than-life celebrity musician in an intimate setting, but portions of the book are written like a thesis or an examination of celebrity and its adverse impact on America and its stars. This is not a book for those looking for pictorial depictions of the star in his home or seeking titillating details about his personal relationships with women, his children, or other family members. While family is talked about, it is not the crux of this book nor of the taped conversations between Jackson and Boteach between 2000 and 2001.
"And it's heady stuff to be needed by a global superstar. It makes you feel important and special and soon you close your eyes to all you know to be righteous. The glow of fame is too bright, the gravitational pull of celebrity too difficult to resist, until you have become nothing but a satellite in its orbit. All resistance has been quelled by the superpowerful narcotic of superstardom." (Page 269)
Through these recorded conversations with his acquaintance and spiritual guide -- at least for a time -- Michael Jackson revealed some of his demons, his joys, and his fears. But even for all the explanations by the author of his convictions about Jackson's innocence and sincerity, there are times when readers will uncover something amiss with Jackson -- whether from the drugs or other influences is anyone's guess. Answers to certain questions will start off coherent and then reach the absurd, leading readers to wonder how the Rabbi failed to see something wrong with Jackson (i.e. drug abuse). Boteach knew Jackson for just a few years, and while readers may take issue with his assessments of the celebrity or the closeness of their relationship, readers will see a side of Jackson rarely shown to the public.
"MJ: See, why can't we be like the trees? That come, you know, they lose their leaves in the winter, and come back as beautiful all over again in the spring, you know? It's a sense of immortality to them, and the Bible says man was meant for immortality." (Page 67)
Jackson and Boteach discussed religion, family, fame, celebrity, and many other topics, with the goal of creating a book. Jackson at one point espouses the need for celebrities to be responsible for their public displays and shows to ensure they send an appropriate message to their fans, but in many ways acted contrary to that message (i.e. grabbing his crotch during concerts, which he says he did not do consciously).
However, there are times when this book grows tedious with the repetition of Boteach's theories and assessments of Jackson's actions and past; it is almost like he doesn't trust the reader to make his or her own assessments about Jackson and his downfall, which is a major drawback. Readers will absorb and get lost in the conversations between Boteach and Jackson and enjoy the snippet of conversation included with Jackson's mother. The Michael Jackson Tapes seeks to bring out the flaws and the good qualities in a wayward superstar lost in his own image.
May 3, 2013
In his book 'The Magic, The Madness, The whole story'' by Randy Taraborrelli about Michael Jackson, there is a part of the book where he talks about the first time Michael Jackson met Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears at a hotel. In his book he mentioned another man in the room but not his name.
I'm reading a different book right now called 'The Michael Jackson Tapes'. It's not a biography but transcripts of conversations Michael had with Rabbi Smuley Boteach about life, god, and how being a star had affected him.
I've reached a part of the book where The Rabbi made an annotation about how he had just met N'sync and Britney with Michael at the time of one of the conversations.
And I just found that kinda funny both books sort of meet into each other with that part.
I'm gonna make an educated guess and say it was Rabbi Shumley Boteach as the unnamed guy in the room.
Those kinds of 'aha' moments are fun to me.
If you overlook the commentary annotations by the author, this book is really good. I learned a few new things about Michael that were never mentioned in other books. Like he didn't believe in Karma and he had a crush on Katie Couric. And other interesting bits.
Its definitely worth a read if you are interested in Michael Jackson. I really want to reread this book to see if I missed anything. 5 stars.
I'm reading a different book right now called 'The Michael Jackson Tapes'. It's not a biography but transcripts of conversations Michael had with Rabbi Smuley Boteach about life, god, and how being a star had affected him.
I've reached a part of the book where The Rabbi made an annotation about how he had just met N'sync and Britney with Michael at the time of one of the conversations.
And I just found that kinda funny both books sort of meet into each other with that part.
I'm gonna make an educated guess and say it was Rabbi Shumley Boteach as the unnamed guy in the room.
Those kinds of 'aha' moments are fun to me.
If you overlook the commentary annotations by the author, this book is really good. I learned a few new things about Michael that were never mentioned in other books. Like he didn't believe in Karma and he had a crush on Katie Couric. And other interesting bits.
Its definitely worth a read if you are interested in Michael Jackson. I really want to reread this book to see if I missed anything. 5 stars.
September 5, 2013
When I read the book, I was very angry because Mr. Shmuley wrote some unacceptable statements in it. As a person of faith something like that he should never say. For example he wrote that Michael was a "lost soul". Who can say something like that? As a Christian, I was very appalled by such an inappropriate statement. In addition, the author constantly gives his opinions and his own kind of "psychological analysis" of what was happening deep inside Michael's heart. As he was allowed just to publish recordings of their dialogue, I think he should not write through the book mostly negative comments about Michael's lifestyle. Although the author in some places of the book clearly speaks against false public opinions that had destroyed Michael's life, however, the book is on many places too dismissive to the musician. To me it seems also inappropriate the religious preaching, which is noticeable through the book. When I was reading the book, I constantly had the feeling that the author praises himself and despises Michael. Maybe this was also due to the fact that after some time their friendship ended.
I think it's very hard to understand or judge someone who had such an unusual and extraordinary life like Michael Jackson.
The Rabbi Shmuley's second book about Michael "Honoring The Child Spirit" is much better.
I think it's very hard to understand or judge someone who had such an unusual and extraordinary life like Michael Jackson.
The Rabbi Shmuley's second book about Michael "Honoring The Child Spirit" is much better.
January 31, 2010
I really loved this book. It provided a lot of insight into Michael's feelings on many subjects and made me understand him better. It also had some good points about being the celebrity in your own life. I am my husband's celebrity and he is mine. Nobody else's opinion of me matters as much as that. I don't care to have the world's approval. If Michael would have let some people in he could have been much happier. Anyone who tried to get close to him for the right reasons were pushed away when he got any sort of criticism. I recommend it. It made me think more about my own life and how I can be a better person.
January 7, 2010
This book opened my eyes to who michael jackson really was..truly a glimpse into his soul. What a hurting sad soul it was. I couldn't put this book down, and when I was finished reading it, I feel so bad for judging this man. One who had so much sadness and darkness in his life. May he rest in peace..finally.
June 6, 2015
Every Michael Jackson fan, especially those with a ridiculous worship complex of him and other celebs should read this book. If I were Michael Jackson this is what I would want people to read. Shmuley sees both sides of Jackson in an extremely understanding way, and from a direct experience as his friend. Without the deeper perspective it's harder to understand Jackson's eccentricity.
December 31, 2010
Depressing. He tells how Michael lied, showed how he lied, and then proceded to give us the interviews of Michael - but I can't believe anything Michael is saying because I'm wondering, 'Is he lying again?"
I did enjoy reading such an in depth view from someone very close to him, but it was depressing to read, and shows how in desperate need of therapy Michael was.
I did enjoy reading such an in depth view from someone very close to him, but it was depressing to read, and shows how in desperate need of therapy Michael was.
November 24, 2022
I understand people have strong views about this book from both points of view. The low rating is for the Rabbi's poor attitude, and mean spirited approach to religious worship. He does not hide it very well. Micheal's talk of his father's abuse stopped my breath. I know Micheal wanted this to be published and that is why he did it in the first place. That is why I read it. Its just sad to see the Rabbi's attitude. Micheal was reaching out for help spiritually, yet Rabbi Boteach refused. While I think the author was truthful in his recordings and transcripts, just not his conclusion drawn from those talks.
I read this with an open mind to both people involved. And it's clear to me that the Rabbi is jealous of Micheal. My suggestion to any reader is to read the PDF of this book. He compares himself and his marriage to Micheal's fame and fan-base. Seems shocked that a person can be truly humbled, thankful for his blessings in life and have a true spirit of forgiveness or as much as one can forgive.
The Rabbi seems very upset after questioning Micheal on the subject of Hitler. Being of a German Jew ancestry myself I found myself drawing in my breath at this point in the book. Michael believes he could in fact find humanity in one of the most evil men of our time. A modern day Pharaoh. Forgiveness is the greatest thing you can do and strive to give. He also asked Micheal if a murder who murders many deserves forgiveness if it is truly sought. And Micheal says yes. If someone killed 99 people and then woke up to their wrong deeds sincerely do they still deserve the forgiveness IF they seek out God sincerely and want to change their life? Micheal said yes. And I can't help but agree.
We live in a society of jealousy, anger and pointing the finger. Oh you did this or that. We make things harder than they need to be and don't let people who want a chance to redeem themselves to do that. We just tell them they are beyond saving. No wonder people go off the deep end. As long as you are alive you are able to start your redemption story. The Rabbi seems to think the worst of Micheal but in turn I think that does not cloud who Micheal actually was.
I never understood how growing up in the spotlight can be so harmful to those involved. We really need to stop doing this to kids. There is a part in the book where Micheal talks about as a teenager he realizes he missed out on his own childhood and isn't a child anymore. Which is heartbreaking. But instead of being destructive he sought out ways to heal his own inner child. But not in a perverted way which everyone assumes. As an adult Micheal gave a record breaking amount to children in need and their families in need. He started Heal the world, Heal LA and other non-profits. He would visit orphanages and see how the kids were tied to beds and would free them.
Micheal Truly had a God given talent. One that cannot be beaten into someone by an abusive father. It was shocking to read how Micheal's Dad Joseph would throw Micheal against the wall, slap his face and beat him. Or beat Micheal with an ironing cord plug so badly he thought he was going to die. That is not discipline. That IS abuse. No one deserves that.
Michael was a complex human with flaws. Like we all are. But not a bad man.
He would stop eating when he was upset. It was his way to control the situation. And I don't think that is the best way to go about things clearly but that is what he did. He also would turn to prescription drugs during the time of the false accusations. Even after at least 10 years of FBI raids, and surveillance and the FBI coming out and saying there was no abuse Micheal was still put through a trial. One where he was acquitted on all counts. Acquitted means the following: free (someone) from a criminal charge by a verdict of not guilty. "He was acquitted on all counts".
I know the Rabbi distanced himself during the trial and didn't release the book till shortly after Micheal's death. Everyone wanted a piece of this man. Included this Rabbi. Who would write about Micheal and compare himself to Micheal in his own books before even knowing him. Micheal is a larger than life figure but the Rabbi seems jealous and angry at times and seemed to be trying to convert Micheal and or make Micheal worship the way the Rabbi does. God made us all different and diverse. In order to learn from one another. And at the end of our life God is the one who will judge us.
I am sure people will disagree with me and my point of view which is fine. But Micheal was able to survive being a child star from a very young age, an abusive Joseph and went on to be amazingly successful as an artist, and then in turn helped those in need. He was very misunderstood. He also rose above having two auto-autoimmune disorders of lupus and vitiligo. And the slander of people wanting his money ( He owned half of Song Publishing rights after all) . He was healing is own inner child with helping kids. He also rose above many things in is personal life. May the man rest in peace.
The Rabbi needs to stop comparing himself to other people. Not very wise. We all have our own calling and part in life. That is how we serve our creator with how well we do those things. There is only one of each of us and not everyone can be a world loved Star or Rabbi.
My suggestion to any reader is to read the PDF of this book.
Books to read on Micheal Jackson: his own book Moonwalk, You are not alone by his brother Jermaine, Remember the time by his former bodyguards and any authorized video of Micheal,Humanitarian - The Real Michael Jackson, and his interviews, his quotes, book lists, and what he gave his time to. Watch Square One, Interviews with Taj Jackson, How his own sister Latoya who was threatened with death and those of her siblings if she didn't lie about Micheal by her former husband to lie on him and how she later supported her brother. Along with all the evidence of both the 1992 and 2005 false allegations. Peace.
I read this with an open mind to both people involved. And it's clear to me that the Rabbi is jealous of Micheal. My suggestion to any reader is to read the PDF of this book. He compares himself and his marriage to Micheal's fame and fan-base. Seems shocked that a person can be truly humbled, thankful for his blessings in life and have a true spirit of forgiveness or as much as one can forgive.
The Rabbi seems very upset after questioning Micheal on the subject of Hitler. Being of a German Jew ancestry myself I found myself drawing in my breath at this point in the book. Michael believes he could in fact find humanity in one of the most evil men of our time. A modern day Pharaoh. Forgiveness is the greatest thing you can do and strive to give. He also asked Micheal if a murder who murders many deserves forgiveness if it is truly sought. And Micheal says yes. If someone killed 99 people and then woke up to their wrong deeds sincerely do they still deserve the forgiveness IF they seek out God sincerely and want to change their life? Micheal said yes. And I can't help but agree.
We live in a society of jealousy, anger and pointing the finger. Oh you did this or that. We make things harder than they need to be and don't let people who want a chance to redeem themselves to do that. We just tell them they are beyond saving. No wonder people go off the deep end. As long as you are alive you are able to start your redemption story. The Rabbi seems to think the worst of Micheal but in turn I think that does not cloud who Micheal actually was.
I never understood how growing up in the spotlight can be so harmful to those involved. We really need to stop doing this to kids. There is a part in the book where Micheal talks about as a teenager he realizes he missed out on his own childhood and isn't a child anymore. Which is heartbreaking. But instead of being destructive he sought out ways to heal his own inner child. But not in a perverted way which everyone assumes. As an adult Micheal gave a record breaking amount to children in need and their families in need. He started Heal the world, Heal LA and other non-profits. He would visit orphanages and see how the kids were tied to beds and would free them.
Micheal Truly had a God given talent. One that cannot be beaten into someone by an abusive father. It was shocking to read how Micheal's Dad Joseph would throw Micheal against the wall, slap his face and beat him. Or beat Micheal with an ironing cord plug so badly he thought he was going to die. That is not discipline. That IS abuse. No one deserves that.
Michael was a complex human with flaws. Like we all are. But not a bad man.
He would stop eating when he was upset. It was his way to control the situation. And I don't think that is the best way to go about things clearly but that is what he did. He also would turn to prescription drugs during the time of the false accusations. Even after at least 10 years of FBI raids, and surveillance and the FBI coming out and saying there was no abuse Micheal was still put through a trial. One where he was acquitted on all counts. Acquitted means the following: free (someone) from a criminal charge by a verdict of not guilty. "He was acquitted on all counts".
I know the Rabbi distanced himself during the trial and didn't release the book till shortly after Micheal's death. Everyone wanted a piece of this man. Included this Rabbi. Who would write about Micheal and compare himself to Micheal in his own books before even knowing him. Micheal is a larger than life figure but the Rabbi seems jealous and angry at times and seemed to be trying to convert Micheal and or make Micheal worship the way the Rabbi does. God made us all different and diverse. In order to learn from one another. And at the end of our life God is the one who will judge us.
I am sure people will disagree with me and my point of view which is fine. But Micheal was able to survive being a child star from a very young age, an abusive Joseph and went on to be amazingly successful as an artist, and then in turn helped those in need. He was very misunderstood. He also rose above having two auto-autoimmune disorders of lupus and vitiligo. And the slander of people wanting his money ( He owned half of Song Publishing rights after all) . He was healing is own inner child with helping kids. He also rose above many things in is personal life. May the man rest in peace.
The Rabbi needs to stop comparing himself to other people. Not very wise. We all have our own calling and part in life. That is how we serve our creator with how well we do those things. There is only one of each of us and not everyone can be a world loved Star or Rabbi.
My suggestion to any reader is to read the PDF of this book.
Books to read on Micheal Jackson: his own book Moonwalk, You are not alone by his brother Jermaine, Remember the time by his former bodyguards and any authorized video of Micheal,Humanitarian - The Real Michael Jackson, and his interviews, his quotes, book lists, and what he gave his time to. Watch Square One, Interviews with Taj Jackson, How his own sister Latoya who was threatened with death and those of her siblings if she didn't lie about Micheal by her former husband to lie on him and how she later supported her brother. Along with all the evidence of both the 1992 and 2005 false allegations. Peace.
May 28, 2019
Me encantó conocer un poco más a Mike, no sabía que pudiera hablar tan bien sobre diferentes temas. Me quedé asombrada con tanta sabiduría. También me dolió aceptar que si, definitivamente tenía doble vida, la de persona super buena y comprensiva a egocéntrico y querer ser el centro de todo. No me gusto mucho que este autor, hable a cada rato de la religión, osea entiendo, Mike perteneció a un grupo importante al igual que Shmuley, pero era necesario tantas referencias a la religión y a Dios? Por otra parte, disfrute más que nada, los momentos de las cintas o conversaciones que tenían. Eso fue lo mejor! ❤ King forever.
February 21, 2019
I really enjoyed reading the Michael Jackson bits themselves, but I hated Boteach's commentary. I understand he's a religious man, so his commentary will, of course, be laced with a religious tone, but I just found it annoying. The conversations could've stood on their own. Overall, it was a good read though. It was an interesting look inside Michael's mind.
July 13, 2013
wow i was a little confused with the rating but i finally managed to rate it a huge 3.!!!
so just to make myself clear throughout the book i only read the conversations between mj and the rabbi. i didnt read his comments at all because i would get very mad.
so what i came to realise is that michael was an amazing person. he had deep knowledge of history and religion and you can see that throughout the book. i loved the way he spoke the words he used.
i would just loved to have a conversation with mj. he was such a interesting person and nothing like the person the media presented. at some points in the books its easy to lose track of who is talking.
many of the things that the rabbi and mj discussed had to do with fame, money, childhood, children etc. you can see that mj only wanted to take care of kids and help those in need. he wanted to bring nations together through his songs and he managed that well.
what i didnt like is that the rabbi kept reapeating himself over and over keeping the conversation to children and innocence. that was kind of weird. at some points i read his comments and what he did (mostly) was to apologize for some things michael said. its like mj didnt have an opinion on some matters and that all people should believe the same things...thats what the rabbi did through his comments. why would you discuss with someone when you are not ready to hear and accept their beliefs and opinions.
lastly, it was a big mistake of the rabbit to make a book after michael. i know it was mj's wish but still he sold out his friend.
p.s. through the book he is advertising a lot of his books...
so just to make myself clear throughout the book i only read the conversations between mj and the rabbi. i didnt read his comments at all because i would get very mad.
so what i came to realise is that michael was an amazing person. he had deep knowledge of history and religion and you can see that throughout the book. i loved the way he spoke the words he used.
i would just loved to have a conversation with mj. he was such a interesting person and nothing like the person the media presented. at some points in the books its easy to lose track of who is talking.
many of the things that the rabbi and mj discussed had to do with fame, money, childhood, children etc. you can see that mj only wanted to take care of kids and help those in need. he wanted to bring nations together through his songs and he managed that well.
what i didnt like is that the rabbi kept reapeating himself over and over keeping the conversation to children and innocence. that was kind of weird. at some points i read his comments and what he did (mostly) was to apologize for some things michael said. its like mj didnt have an opinion on some matters and that all people should believe the same things...thats what the rabbi did through his comments. why would you discuss with someone when you are not ready to hear and accept their beliefs and opinions.
lastly, it was a big mistake of the rabbit to make a book after michael. i know it was mj's wish but still he sold out his friend.
p.s. through the book he is advertising a lot of his books...
September 25, 2013
As a Michael Jackson fan, there was nothing new or surprising in this book. Having said that, it was an overall, well put together book.
I hope that people are able to get into the glimpse of what Michael Jackson was thinking, feeling. For the good, bad, healthy, unhealthy, normal and weird thought process-I think the book is able to explain the deeper soul of Michael Jackson.
However, there were a couple of things that I didn't care for. Mostly with the author himself. 1-he repeated a few things a couple of times. That not only annoys me but bores me as well. And 2-the bigger one of the two is that the author was self-promoting. I think there were too many times that I read something along the lines 'if you want to read more about that area, I recommend my book...'.
And it's not about the author's belief. I love reading about other religions and their workings. You had a lot of talk about the Jewish faith and the J. Witnesses' faith in this book. I enjoy reading about that. It's the self promotion of his other works over and over again that I didn't care for.
It is said that this is the first installment of the "Michael Jackson Tapes", I hope his followup doesn't hold back on anything and I hope the followup doesn't have self-promotion.
Regardless of what you think about Michael Jackson, I hope that you're able to take it for what his soul is and was. For the good and bad. No one person on this planet is perfect.
I hope that people are able to get into the glimpse of what Michael Jackson was thinking, feeling. For the good, bad, healthy, unhealthy, normal and weird thought process-I think the book is able to explain the deeper soul of Michael Jackson.
However, there were a couple of things that I didn't care for. Mostly with the author himself. 1-he repeated a few things a couple of times. That not only annoys me but bores me as well. And 2-the bigger one of the two is that the author was self-promoting. I think there were too many times that I read something along the lines 'if you want to read more about that area, I recommend my book...'.
And it's not about the author's belief. I love reading about other religions and their workings. You had a lot of talk about the Jewish faith and the J. Witnesses' faith in this book. I enjoy reading about that. It's the self promotion of his other works over and over again that I didn't care for.
It is said that this is the first installment of the "Michael Jackson Tapes", I hope his followup doesn't hold back on anything and I hope the followup doesn't have self-promotion.
Regardless of what you think about Michael Jackson, I hope that you're able to take it for what his soul is and was. For the good and bad. No one person on this planet is perfect.
December 28, 2009
The Goodreads community should know that I did not myself choose to read this book - It was a holiday gift from my Little Brother who asked that I read it and report back to him.
I almost gave the book 2 stars since it is interesting to see what a whacko Michal Jackson is (or has become). The author, a Jewish rabbi, tries to humanize him through carefully selected quotes, but it's a tough job. Jackson comes off as a self-absorbed, mentally disturbed, and utterly unlikeable. Yes, he talks about charity and humility and other moral issues, but as a reader you get the sense that Michael is always posturing - It's never quite about the issue as much as it's about how others perceive Michael feeling about the issue.
As for the rabbi, he doesn't come off much better. He's either fallen for Michael or sees him as a way to make a buck. He feeds him lines, apologizes for him in the subtext, and often goes on his own rants about the topics they discuss. (Sometimes you don't realize who is doing the talking, which is not a good sign for any interview, especially one with such a troubled figure.)
I almost gave the book 2 stars since it is interesting to see what a whacko Michal Jackson is (or has become). The author, a Jewish rabbi, tries to humanize him through carefully selected quotes, but it's a tough job. Jackson comes off as a self-absorbed, mentally disturbed, and utterly unlikeable. Yes, he talks about charity and humility and other moral issues, but as a reader you get the sense that Michael is always posturing - It's never quite about the issue as much as it's about how others perceive Michael feeling about the issue.
As for the rabbi, he doesn't come off much better. He's either fallen for Michael or sees him as a way to make a buck. He feeds him lines, apologizes for him in the subtext, and often goes on his own rants about the topics they discuss. (Sometimes you don't realize who is doing the talking, which is not a good sign for any interview, especially one with such a troubled figure.)
February 22, 2010
This is an interesting book. Rabbi Boteach is an author and figure that I respect in the field of theology and Judiasm. At times, this read seems like an advertisement for his other books, as he makes many references to them as he provides his analysis as to how MJ got the way he is. In some ways, one can see the honesty and the cry for help that MJ lets very few see. Other times, you wonder how much of it is showmanship, BS and lies that are fueled by drugs and closeted criminology.
The best lesson that anyone can get from this toll of fame, especially upon those that are fragile from the start. MJ was failed by may things. He was never allowed to hit rock bottom. Sadly for his 3 children, the grave had to be that bottom.
The best lesson that anyone can get from this toll of fame, especially upon those that are fragile from the start. MJ was failed by may things. He was never allowed to hit rock bottom. Sadly for his 3 children, the grave had to be that bottom.
September 16, 2015
I borrowed this from the library. I went in just for the MJ quotes. It was a surprisingly good read. If you are an over sensitive fan who thinks he can do no wrong, then this isn't the book for you. However, if you have a realistic and are not afraid to acknowledge that even the most famous person in the world has flaws, then I think you will enjoy it. I could have done without the authors condescending tone in a couple of places. I already knew that Michael was intelligent, thoughtful and spritual. This book emphasizes that. Long time fans shouldn't be surprised by this but given the sensationalist and unprofessional behavior of the media, this was a breath of fresh air. It is worth a look just to read MJs rants on popular music and phone calls from Madonna. LOL!
May 15, 2010
I would like to know what Michael's mother and his sister Janet think about this book. Do they believe it to be true? Do they agree with the author's opinion of Michael?
At first I was wondering if the author felt that commas are not kosher since he left out so many commas where they would rightfully belong. That made the book a little more difficult to read.
There was quite a bit of repetition in the book which I found rather annoying. It was slow reading except for the dialog from the tapes themselves.
How sad that Michael's life had to end so soon and so tragically!
At first I was wondering if the author felt that commas are not kosher since he left out so many commas where they would rightfully belong. That made the book a little more difficult to read.
There was quite a bit of repetition in the book which I found rather annoying. It was slow reading except for the dialog from the tapes themselves.
How sad that Michael's life had to end so soon and so tragically!
February 3, 2011
It reveals so many truths that the world never really knew. It reinforces my belief that he was accused of a crime he did not commit One that was most despicable to him because it was AGAINST CHILDREN.
If he was a child molester don't you think more than 2 (or was it 3) money hungry parents would have went after him???? DUH.. we dumbie down so easily in this world of chaos, greed and power hungry people.
Tragic, the project he was working on had an impact for the earth, just as we are the world did for the people! WAKE UP!!!
If he was a child molester don't you think more than 2 (or was it 3) money hungry parents would have went after him???? DUH.. we dumbie down so easily in this world of chaos, greed and power hungry people.
Tragic, the project he was working on had an impact for the earth, just as we are the world did for the people! WAKE UP!!!
December 23, 2010
This was interesting. I found that this window into a small part of MJ's life caused me to really like him much more...and certainy pull for him to grow up and move closer to "normal." But as we saw unfold in the media...this story ended up telling how the addiction to fame did him in. As the author said, "You stupid, stupid, Man." MJ allowed his insecurities and addition kill him. What a shame.
October 3, 2012
Even though he is struggling and fighting for his privacy, he never forgets to help and to heal every single people, he helped a lot of child who has a cancer, but in the end, they manage to repay him such a terrible thing. And he never see his kids more special among every children,, becuase for him, all of the children around the world were special and beautiful. (he is such a wonderful person) -Michael Jackson: definition of genius
December 12, 2009
The movie "This is It" made me curious to learn more about Jackson 's life. Though extremely creative. he seemed driven. He verbalizes his search for love often in the tapes. But Rabbi Schmuley Boteach, who published the book, explains the sad fact that Jackson's drug of choice was fame itself, a destructive force.
February 28, 2010
Enjoyed the conversations between Michael and Rabbi Schmuley. The somewhat judgmental commentary from Schuley could have been left out however. Jackson speaks for himself just fine. I appreciated this mostly for his views on God and children, and the manner in which he felt both saved/inspired him during what he expressed was a generally sad, painful life.
June 29, 2010
I loved to feel like im talking to Michael, but shumelys comments were getting very annoying.I felt really bad for Michael. Ughh. He didn't deserve what happened to him. When you think about it, there is soo many reasons that led up to his death. But the truth is, only Michael could have saved Michael. :(
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