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263 pages, Hardcover
First published March 30, 2010
He believes now there is an evolutionary, biological caution at work, that when a person - a woman, he means - gives off the constant signal of need, requiring so much attention and so much care, with so much talk of pain and private things, that red flags should be triggered in the nervous systems of normal people. And that the impulse to get away is very strong and incidentally very normal, and that an environment in which so many of such women live together is an affront to normalcy. [. . .] Maybe the simplest explanation is that such women will suck and suck away at anyone else's energies. That not only will they give a weak, unfair exchange in return for the attention they need, but they will create even more pain as a comfort to themselves.That also captures something I felt while reading: that red flag in my own system triggered by the claustrophobic atmosphere of the Suvanto asylum where these odd women lived their cold Finnish winters. If that was Chapman's intention then she succeeded.