The Committed Marriage: A Guide to Finding a Soul Mate and Building a Relationship Through Timeless Biblical Wisdom

by Esther Jungreis

Marriage has the potential to be one of life's most fulfilling experiences. But even in the best marriages, communication problems, everyday stress, or lack of compassion can prevent a relationship from truly blossoming. Rebbetzin Jungreis has been counselling couples and singles for decades, helping them find their soul mates and strengthen their marriages. Now she shares her wisdom in The Committed Marriage . Drawing on experience gained from her own 40+ years of marriage, as well as her strong faith in the healing power of prayer and tradition, Rebbetzin Jungreis outlines some common marital problems and their solutions, offering practical, optimistic advice on how to find a mate by becoming a desirable mate; how spouses can strengthen their marriage by strengthening their own identities; how couples can communicate in a loving, compassionate way even in the midst of hurts and arguments; and how faith can provide a loving foundation for marriage.

Genres: Jewish, Religion, Nonfiction, Personal Growth, Relationships, Marriage, Judaism

288 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 2003

About the author

Esther Jungreis was the founder of the international Hineni movement in the United States. A Holocaust survivor, she worked to bring Jews to Orthodox Judaism.

Reviews

[Daniela Misrahi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Hay libros que nos gustan para pasar el rato, mientras que hay otros que nos ofrecen una escapatoria a mundos más divertidos y entretenidos.
Pero de vez en cuando ocurre un milagro, y llegan a ti los libros que trascienden la vida, y una vez empezados, uno no quiere ni soltarlos.
Gracias Hashem por hacerme llegar éste hermoso libro ❤️❤️

Matrimonio comprometido es un libro que nos ayuda a poner en práctica la sabiduría de la Tora, y nos enseña a través de diversos relatos cómo podemos tener relaciones sanas con nuestros padres, amigos y pareja, y claro, con nosotros mismos.

Gracias Rebetzin por tan maravillosas palabras, por dulces enseñanzas y por las historias que viven para relatar la existencia de los milagros que parecen imposibles, pero que con un buen corazón y un rezo sincero, están siempre a nuestro alcance❤️

[Katie · Rating 4 out of 5]

wasn’t sure about this one as it was more anecdotal than I prefer, but the author’s style was completely charming and the anecdotes were actually filled with very practical and achievable steps for a solid marriage, regardless of what stage you may be in (don’t be thrown by the match-making subhead)

[Andrea · Rating 5 out of 5]

"We come into this world with clenched fists, as if to signal that we want to grab it all, but we die with our palms open, for we can’t take anything with us but a good heart—that is, if we were fortunate enough to develop one." 💙💙💙

[Elaine · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved reading this found it because my therapist recommended it as part of getting in touch with my Jewish roots. It made me cry. It made me hopeful. She is a marvelous writer

[Rebecca · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really enjoyed this book. Found it informative and written in a clear and concise way. I recommend it.

[Lígia Penia]

An amazing book that brings real examples and connects them to the wisdom of Torah. I really feel like reading more from the author.

[Anais · Rating 5 out of 5]

must read and perfect for girly swirlies wanting to keep shteiging🥰

[Joan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Would that any of us be as committed to our spouse as Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis is. I read this book some time ago, but will revisit chapters or pages every so often. Rebbetzin Jngreis writes from an orthodox perspective, but there are so many stories and suggestions that can be helpful to anyone. The book has chapters that span the stages of most relationship including, among others, beginning with finding your soul mate, becoming a desirable mate, marriage, being your own person, some of the limitations of divorce, communicating without hurting, and growing old together.

[batya7 · Rating 5 out of 5]

Like Rebbitzen Jungreis' other book, The Committed Life, this book had me thinking deeply and feeling a range of emotions. The writing is clear, the ideals are based on authentic Torah values. For marrieds and non-marrieds, the lessons can be applied to maintaining all relationships.

I have an autographed copy from her visit to Pittsburgh sponsored by the Kollel.

[Oriyah N · Rating 3 out of 5]

Having read extensively on the topic of Jewish marriage and relationship building, there wasn't much new in this volume, but the messages are real, relevant, and worthwhile. It was a valuable chance to review what I already knew from other works, and inspired me to try just a little bit harder to improve an already good thing.

[Glittervomit · Rating 5 out of 5]

A wonderful book for understanding what is truly important in relationships.

[Holly · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent book! Once again, Rebbetzin Jungreis says what we need to hear right when we need it.

[Andrezza Torres · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ensinamentos interpretados da Torah e do Talmud para esse tema. Sabedoria e fé.