4.5/5- To date, this is one of the best memoirs I have read.
Tchicaya Missamou was born in the Republic of Congo; this book chronicles his journey from childhood, through civil war outbreaks, escape to the US Marines, and his eventual homecoming visit. From the beginning, the author's account of childhood is so different from what we have all grown up accustomed to- Missamou recounts things that I never would have considered, such as never wearing shoes, and the first time eating cake. Missamou is eventually moved from his rural childhood community and taken to live with his father in the city. His father, who is a respected police/military officer, has decided that his son will follow in his footsteps- from there, the events turn to bootcamp in the Congo, which sounds thoroughly unenjoyable.
Luckily, this training has prepared Missamou for the civil war that breaks out. Unprepared, wealthy European ex-pats are stranded in war zones, or have had to leave their valuables behind. Through a wealthy neighbour, Missamou is put in contact with these expats and is able to make a great deal of money moving these items. As a result, he becomes a target and must flee his country, eventually settling in the US and becoming a marine.
This account is truly moving. Although I have read accounts on similar subject matter, what makes this book stand out is the detail that the author provides. Often times I have read memoirs on similar conflicts that gloss over important events for the sake of the reader, and therefore the events feel disconnected. Make no mistake, this is not an easy read; the author describes brutal events in painstaking detail- nothing is left out. Through this, I gained far more knowledge about events in this country, and was better able understands the horror of this conflict.
The only slightly disappointing thing about this book that I would change is the end. While the actual memoir ended at exactly the right moment, I really wish the epilogue had been another chapter, as opposed to just a few sentences. The book contains pictures of the author's wife and family and life after Congo, and a quick epilogue would have brought it all together. After being so moved by the author's story, it feels a bit brief and slightly unfinished as is.