No spoilers....
I shared my own relationship with water....
Thankful to Bonnie Tsui for writing this perfectly beautiful book....
A tribute to water, and swimming.
Audiobook...narrated by Angie Kane.....
I was in heaven for six hours and 35 minutes.
Author Bonnie Tsui is an author I’d like to meet...'in the water'.
I’m a water baby. My kids are water babies. ( one of them was on the TV news with me at 2 weeks old as I demonstrated how she was 'water safe'), from swim teams, master swim classes, lots of swimming in Hawaii, playing in the ocean, personally swimming a mile 7 days a week during ‘both’ of my pregnancies- 4 years apart. In both cases I swam a mile in the morning of the same day I gave birth twice later in the evening,
to teaching aqua yoga (I’m certified to teach yoga and a Aqua yoga), to giving *Watsu* therapeutic sessions to others in our saline water garden pool, ( if you don’t know what *Watsu* is, visit google), to soaking in cold-plunges in ice cold winter mornings, to swimming in lakes - to warm water soaking while listening to Audiobooks, ( great treat during our pandemic lifestyle), to long distant swims at Emerald Bay in Lake Tahoe, to our Candle lightening-Community Friday Night Warm-Water-Soaks & Social, we hosted every week for 5 years at our house .....
My website had over 1,000 members....people from all over the world who visited us to ‘water-soak-and-meet others from 7pm till midnight.
Each week we had a waitlist of at least 20 people wanting to attend. We only wanted around 20 people each week.
People came from everywhere to soak in our pool....( most from all over the Bay Area, but many visitors from Europe, India, and other countries).
We didn’t allow drinking or drugs, no music, no ‘party’ atmosphere in the general sense, we told guests to eat dinner ‘before’ and leave their food at home. I didn’t want a food-feast gathering. ( I wanted real authentic enjoyable safe people-connections)....we had a wonderful time and some people fell in love and have gotten married from meeting in our pool.
Each Friday night was something we all looked forward too. We didn’t need to dress to impress....just bring a towel.
I put out a large fruit & nut platter each week which members came to expect. We had plenty of filtered drinking water. Nothing fancy...that was it.
We also told guests to ‘whisper-their-words’......( no loud or rude behavior or they would be asked to leave)
I had a donation bucket. We asked for $20 per person to help cover the costs of heating the water to 96 degrees. I never kept track of whether or not people paid. The honor system worked beautifully.
I wanted to create a relaxing social nourishing - gathering for people to come on Friday nights - at the end of a busy work week — to ‘relax’.
Our place was for people who generally preferred our quiet-water-social option, than the noisy bars.
Our events were non-sexual clothing optional gatherings. (yes, I spent a great deal of time clearing the rules with newbies)....each person ‘had’ to have a clearing phone call with me before they were allowed a first visit or even given the address to our house. I had rules...parking rules too.
People followed and respected them, or were never allowed back. Our guests did not get to bring ‘their’ guests. Each person was required to have that one clearing call with me first. It was the same for everyone.
But most of the time we had regulars. A community was growing.
I had ‘special’ events twice a summer....by invitation only: music events, women’s yoga retreat, massage weekend with a qualified trained masseuse, meditation retreats, and Full Moon Crystal bowls...sound healing events, ( absolutely beautiful evenings - in and out of the water)....
I wanted ‘everyone’ to feel safe in a clothing optional environment without being gawked at. I could write a book about those 5 years! Lol
Wonderful people and great stories.
And....it all stars with WATER....
People enjoyed water soaking here ( who had their own pools)...
Rain or shine.... water people took dips in the cold plunge, relaxed in dry heat of the sauna...used the outdoor shower....and got addicted to social connecting in water.
I could fill a water event at my house in an hour....that’s how in demand this water-pleasure social - non- eating- non drinking - no clothes necessary - respectful of other & whispering voices is.
Yep....we were ‘packed’ .....a highly desired evening by many.
Today....It’s more quiet around here. Paul and I needed to slow things down for medical and aging needs. But on occasion ( minus covid), we host events on holidays.
Why water? What attracts us?
“It’s the most omnipresent substance on earth, and along with air, the primary ingredient for supporting life as we know it”—quoted by Wallace J. Nicholas, Ph.D ( author of “Blue Mind”...a research associate at the California Academy of Sciences and founder-co-director of Ocean Revolution)
“Why We Swim”, by Bonnie Kane....was everything I could ask for. I seriously want to invite Bonnie to be a guest at our house.
Bonnie told *great stories*....
And her book is wonderfully informative....great history about ‘everything’ water, (swimming, soaking, hot or cold water, competitive, relaxation, healing, and the great health benefits water is).
This is a self select book ....Water people/readers will find it on their own.
But....I also suggest this book for those aging....to consider adding water time for health and pleasure benefits.
It was sooo good...
One does not need to be a die hard competitive swimmer or gifted synchronize swimmer - or Esther Williams to enjoy this book ....
but there is a good chance, readers might finish the book wanting to take a water plunge.
5 strong stars from me....I loved everything about it!!!