How to Set Healthy Boundaries: Necessary Self-Care to Help You Feel Freedom, Take Control of Your Life and Relationships, and Avoid Being Taken Advantage Of
Don't let anyone take advantage of you ever again. A must-read book on personal boundaries that will change your life forever. When you're arguing with your partner, over-worked to the point of exhaustion, or wondering why your child is always in trouble for making bad decisions, it's often because of a lack of boundaries. The time for understanding boundaries has come. Get out of the mindset that's keeping you stuck and letting others run your life. If people are disrespecting or hurting you in any way, go ahead and say something. You're worth it! We need to address the importance of boundaries not only for ourselves but our loved ones, too. You should never have to feel like there's "no point in saying anything" because sometimes people take advantage and overstep their bounds, hurting others without even knowing it. Don't let anyone push you around anymore! This book is a must-read for anyone who needs to learn how setting boundaries can make your life easier. You'll never have another pointless argument with a partner or be stuck in the same situation where you're overworked and resentful again. Order How to Set Healthy Boundaries today!
Qat Wanders is a full-time writer and editor with a unicorn and pug obsession. When she isn’t writing or editing books about unicorns or pugs (or owl shifters, vampires, werewolves, faeries, witches, angels, or succubi), she is likely eating sushi with her daughter or jumping out of a plane in the Rocky Mountains.
I really love this book and it definitely made me sit up and take stock! This talented author shares some of her own experiences to get the message across to readers. The book talks about having no limits, free reign to do what you want without boundaries or fear of being watched and judged for our actions. It gives great tips and hints if you are in a situation that seems hopeless and how to take a step back and deal with it. I found I could really relate to some of the boundary violations and loved the tips on how best to deal with them. It's always a problem of what to say so you don't hurt people's feelings, but this book makes you realise you, your time and your needs are just as important as theirs. The added food for thoughts at the end of each chapter is a great summary to reinforce what has been said to really makes you think. Great inspirational book, certainly worth reading. Strongly recommend.
Since I am on the journey to learning about boundaries I feel this book helped me a whole lot. Throughout the book, we are given a system that we can create healthy boundaries for our own mental and emotional health that meet our priorities, from relationships to situations to tasks in our daily life. I really appreciated how the book was laid out in understanding our own needs and those of others. The author makes some valid points about how sometimes slowing down is crucial for our own well-being and growth. My favorite part in this book was learning to say no.
Boundaries is something that I had never even thought of and now it is something I do focus a lot on. This book puts it all together and I love the food for thought it provides at the end of each chapter. Overall, the book will really feed you!!
Insightful and thought provoking into the world of boundaries
As I started this book and learned more about Ms. Wanders personal story, I was not sure where the book would go. I was delightfully surprised at the various topics around boundaries and I did pick up some "food for thought" as I contemplated my own world's boundaries. If you feel that you are getting ran over all the time, or if it seems that you feel that you get in knocked down constantly, this book may be exactly what you are looking for. The advice is practical and deals with many scenarios. While I was not offended, there are some that could be turned off by the author's voice and style. For me, I felt the author was being pure to herself and it came out through her voice with some helpful actions.
Absolutely loving this author! Her perspective is refreshing and unlike anyone I have come across. I like her no-cares-given attitude, and her insistence on taking responsibility for your own actions.
There was also really fascinating chapter in there about getting rid of the need to set boundaries in the first place, because if your life is flowing, you won’t even need to do it. This was a fascinating concept. I had never thought about. This is a short and no-fluff read that I couldn’t recommend more highly.
I thought I had this subject covered until I read this book. The author offers insight on how setting boundaries in all aspects of your life is essential to your well being. After reading this book you will definitely feel a sense of freedom and an empowerment.