This is an excellent book to teach children that there are 2 types of Complaining, each with polar opposite outcomes. Complaining for the sole purpose of venting negative emotions (blaming others, boredom, hurt, etc) without seeking a solution leads to more negativity, deeper disappointment, no learning., nothing gained. The book illustrates that there is a better way: complain with the goal of seeking a solution or a new understanding. Thanks Joy!