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Twenty Disastrous Limerence Errors: & Exactly How to Avoid Them
Are you trying your hardest to recover from unrequited love, but feel trapped in an irrational, depressive headspace...craving someone you cannot be with?
Twenty Disastrous Limerence Errors is a book to read alongside or after The Limerent Mind ; it will grant you profound insight into how you are currently perpetuating your state of lovesickness without realising. This supplementary resource is an in-depth analysis of the subtle, insidious ways in which virtually every single limerent unknowingly delays and complicates their own recovery, and practical, foolproof ways to avoid committing these errors yourself , despite your afflicted brain trying to persuade you that they are the most logical things to do and think.
You will learn how to rapidly tweak your attitude, thinking process and actions in order to stop tripping yourself up and permit your own seamless recovery - in other words, to guarantee that you see rapid and permanent results from the subconscious mind techniques detailed in The Limerent Mind .
The TWENTY WAYS in which you are probably keeping yourself limerent fall into five main
As we explore our twenty limerent errors in depth throughout the course of this book, you will learn exactly what you need to stop committing each one . Assimilate the information presented to you in each chapter, and then assess your personal experience with limerence. Do not be impartial about it. Elucidate which of these errors (or problematic states of being) YOU have fallen prisoner to, so that you can coherently and seamlessly ‘catapult’ yourself away from them—mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Clearing your path of obstacles in this way will leave you perfectly poised to cure your limerence pattern once and for all , since there will be nothing blocking you from gaining momentum and gliding towards your much deserved emotional freedom - towards a version of yourself that is one hundred percent immune to obsessive unrequited love, and can thrive as your truest self without repressing any aspects of your uniquely passionate nature.
Twenty Disastrous Limerence Errors is a book to read alongside or after The Limerent Mind ; it will grant you profound insight into how you are currently perpetuating your state of lovesickness without realising. This supplementary resource is an in-depth analysis of the subtle, insidious ways in which virtually every single limerent unknowingly delays and complicates their own recovery, and practical, foolproof ways to avoid committing these errors yourself , despite your afflicted brain trying to persuade you that they are the most logical things to do and think.
You will learn how to rapidly tweak your attitude, thinking process and actions in order to stop tripping yourself up and permit your own seamless recovery - in other words, to guarantee that you see rapid and permanent results from the subconscious mind techniques detailed in The Limerent Mind .
The TWENTY WAYS in which you are probably keeping yourself limerent fall into five main
As we explore our twenty limerent errors in depth throughout the course of this book, you will learn exactly what you need to stop committing each one . Assimilate the information presented to you in each chapter, and then assess your personal experience with limerence. Do not be impartial about it. Elucidate which of these errors (or problematic states of being) YOU have fallen prisoner to, so that you can coherently and seamlessly ‘catapult’ yourself away from them—mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Clearing your path of obstacles in this way will leave you perfectly poised to cure your limerence pattern once and for all , since there will be nothing blocking you from gaining momentum and gliding towards your much deserved emotional freedom - towards a version of yourself that is one hundred percent immune to obsessive unrequited love, and can thrive as your truest self without repressing any aspects of your uniquely passionate nature.
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133 pages, Paperback
Published August 30, 2021
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August 23, 2025
This book led to the biggest breakthrough of my life, here is my story:
During my freshman year of high school I fell in love with a guy who was actively into music and living my dream that I didn’t think I could do because of parents, I one day was dealing with a lot at that time hs bullies, coursework and balancing all of that with track and field which I didnt know how to do, I got mad at him because my thoughts were on overdrive where the anger took over my soul and I could not get over him. I was stuck on him for 10 years until someone on TikTok talked about what was limerence and I felt for the first time it resonated with me of what was going on, I promised myself that if I found out what this was I would educate myself all about this, this was when I read Lucy Bain’s book and she covered everything that I was experiencing and how to get out of limerence. I read something about gratitude in this book and I don’t want to write the whole quote cuz that will take too long (and it’s 6 am here😅) and got into music and all of a sudden I have finally gotten over it - my dream of getting out of this state where if I would have never gotten married and TRULY didn’t think I would get out of it came true!🥹 If this girl who was stuck on this guy for 10 years and finally got out of it by refocusing and moving on then I believe anyone can get over their LO as well. Have faith in Lucy again and find this book on Amazon NOW!📚
During my freshman year of high school I fell in love with a guy who was actively into music and living my dream that I didn’t think I could do because of parents, I one day was dealing with a lot at that time hs bullies, coursework and balancing all of that with track and field which I didnt know how to do, I got mad at him because my thoughts were on overdrive where the anger took over my soul and I could not get over him. I was stuck on him for 10 years until someone on TikTok talked about what was limerence and I felt for the first time it resonated with me of what was going on, I promised myself that if I found out what this was I would educate myself all about this, this was when I read Lucy Bain’s book and she covered everything that I was experiencing and how to get out of limerence. I read something about gratitude in this book and I don’t want to write the whole quote cuz that will take too long (and it’s 6 am here😅) and got into music and all of a sudden I have finally gotten over it - my dream of getting out of this state where if I would have never gotten married and TRULY didn’t think I would get out of it came true!🥹 If this girl who was stuck on this guy for 10 years and finally got out of it by refocusing and moving on then I believe anyone can get over their LO as well. Have faith in Lucy again and find this book on Amazon NOW!📚
December 7, 2025
I read this one right after the „main“ book and I think it is well worth the read. It really does list all or a lot of problematic thoughts you might have as a limerent. It feels like you are getting called out and you know you’re not the only one with those thoughts.
I think it is a great addition to the main book in the series.
I think it is a great addition to the main book in the series.
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