A lot of wisdom in this book. I really appreciate the approach - the five phases of going through this difficult period of one's life. Betrayal, surrender, receiving, being present and pacing. Also, I like how she talks about purpose, self care practice, initiatory challenge, alchemical capacity and gold of each of these phases. Menopause is like a rite of passage to a transformed version of self who is capable of relishing and cherishing one's life, who is attuned to one's body and nervous system and who is whole and sovereign. If I had read this book a few years before, perhaps I would have struggled lesser. Would definitely recommend it to friends who are beginning peri-menopause, so that they are aware of the territory from spiritual perspective. Having said that, I feel the book could have been edited better.