Two women decide to escape their lives on a Thelma & Louise style road trip that will change them forever.
'Oh, you're not crazy, Denise. I think this is probably the sanest you've ever been...'
Two women. An open road. The trip of a lifetime.
Thea is confident, sorted, determined to have fun, but there are sorrows beneath the surface of her life. Denise is struggling under the weight of her many commitments and in desperate need of some excitement. When these polar opposites meet, and unexpectedly become friends, they realise they're both looking to escape. So begins a road trip that leads them far from home and yet closer to their true selves.
But they can't outrun their pasts forever and when things start to become complicated, both women have an important decision to make. Do they give up or keep going? Turn around or drive on?
Thea And Demise is a novel by British author, Caroline Bond. While they may be of a similar vintage, Thea and Denise are living quite diverse lives. Denise is raising three teenaged sons, working in her husband’s import/export business and bearing the brunt of care facility visits to her angry and miserable verbally abusive father-in-law.
Thea is still coming to terms with the divorce that followed her husband’s infidelity. But even more concerning is the fact that her fifteen-year-old daughter seems to prefer living with her father, his new wife and their young children. It’s true that Thea works full-time for a government department, but how else can she afford a place to live, or prove to her daughter that a woman can be independent? There’s something else, too, that Thea would rather not think about.
They first encounter each other at a business dinner, when Thea extends much-appreciated kindness in Denise’s moment of need. But then a favour is returned and they learn that they enjoy each other’s company. Denise finds Thea attractive, confident and strong. Thea can’t help but comment on Denise’s regimented, busy life of servitude.
When her daughter gives her what Thea sees as the worst possible news, and the ultimate insult, she reacts poorly and, feeling she has unintentionally burnt bridges, decides a break is needed. She impulsively invites Denise on a road trip. Denise, too, could do with a break from being unappreciated by the four men in her life: a night away with Thea could be fun, just what she needs.
One night turns into two: they are really having fun. Then Denise is meant to return home while Thea travels on to tick off her F##k-it List. But her husband’s attitude rubs Denise the wrong way, and they continue on together. At first a little hesitantly, Denise participates in Thea’s crazy activities: she’s amazed to enjoy track day at Silverstone; with surprising gusto, she throws herself into the Rage Rooms; she won’t get a tattoo, though.
Then, when Thea’s customary confidence and control deserts her, Denise takes over, and they retreat to a safe place.
Bond gives the reader a tale inspired by Thelma and Louise, with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments as well as some lump-in-the-throat ones. Her protagonists are two very different women who reach the end of their respective tethers and act. They challenge each other’s life choices, offer support and care, and ultimately become the firmest, if unlikeliest, of friends. Funny, moving and uplifting. This unbiased review is from an uncorrected proof copy provided by The Pigeonhole.
Sometimes a book teeters on the cliff edge of star ratings. Is it a 3.5, a 4 or a 5? With Thea and Denise, both these strong, determined, but ultimately very different women, deserve 5 stars apiece bringing my overall rating to a glowing 10 stars. (I'm good at maths, aren't I?!) This story is uplifting but there are also many moments while reading it when I felt uneasy. What a skill to be able to move readers in this way! There isn't a dramatic tornado of emotion but a much more subtle, nuanced depiction of feeling sweeping throughout the entire book. The unlikely friendship between the two middle-aged women, one desperate to wrest control over her life by sticking two fingers up at it (whilst simultaneously trying to destroy it with a hammer), and the other, run down with the responsibility of nurture, domesticity, a demanding job and The Menopause, is captured perfectly by an author who writes in a style it is so easy to fall, and stay, in love with. Life has lots of tricky moments, challenges we might wish to turn our backs on, but hopefully also interspersed with plenty of moments of joy and carefree abandon, where the rock and the hard place can temporarily be eluded and the soft, springy grass comfort us beneath our feet. Thea and Denise and their sudden journey together encompasses the beauty and majesty of true friendship and independence as well as the jagged, crumbling rocks of fear and uncertainty that make up the varied landscape of life. One question faces Thea and Denise, do you keep going? And if you do, does the road come to an abrupt end or do you find the courage to swerve in a different direction? Poignant, clever, well written, funny, sad and a BRILLIANT book to read, I am of course highly recommending it to all.
St Albans might sound like a relatively inauspicious starting point for a British road trip novel that has shades of Thelma and Louise about it, but it does no disservice to this compelling journey of self-discovery and tale of an unlikely friendship between two mature females. Thea and Denise are two very different women, both facing their own personal crossroads and looking for a way to escape. Pretty much polar opposites the pair aren’t an obvious friendship match, yet when their paths cross several times in one week, they each see something in the other that draws them together..
On the surface Thea appears supremely confident with vocal opinions and an unapologetic attitude, all things which unassuming Denise wishes she were, yet there is a caginess to Thea that belies far more serious complications. Denise is taken for granted by her husband and three teenage sons, her marriage is crumbling and in between her commitments to the family business and visits to her obnoxious father-in-law, her life feels like a treadmill of routine. Meanwhile Thea is staring into the abyss and when she makes the decision to take off for a few days and seek out some excitement, an initially reluctant Denise seizes on the opportunity and asks to go with her. Thea and Denise share the narrative and despite the first forty percent of the book providing a glimpse into their current lives before they even take flight, the final sixty percent packs in a number of cathartic events that gradually peel back the layers and get closer to the core issues both are battling. As the road trip rolls on it is a joy to see the growing trust between the two women, and their support and encouragement as they spur each other on to make the difficult decisions they both face.
I was sceptical that Caroline Bond would do justice to the stories of two women, each dealing with their own problems, and portray both their own internal struggles and burgeoning friendship convincingly. Kudos to the author, however, as she does just that and writes perceptively and sensitively about everything from the menopause to marital disillusionment and fractious family relations. As someone around the same age as Thea and Denise, I found this book both relevant and life-affirming and Bond excels at creating believable characters with depth. Although Thea is the impetus behind the road trip, and the character dealing with the most critical concerns as the novel opens, I felt the actual story afforded more of a focus to Denise, perhaps because she is the more open of the two. Thea’s reluctance to offload however definitely made her the slightly more intriguing of the duo. My only reservation regards the final chapter, which gives a sense of closure to both women’s journeys and offers a snapshot of their futures, whereas I felt an open-ended resolution for readers to muse on might well have been more fitting.
Caroline Bond excels at perceptive observation: small absurdities, suppressed emotions, self-deception, friendship and love of various kinds. All of these come riotously into play in this latest of her novels, an uplifting story of Thea and Denise - two very different women (or are they so very different, in the end?) whose worlds collide at a time when both are in their own kind of turmoil, and who embark on an unexpected road trip that impacts both their lives. For me, this is a new favourite among Caroline Bond's novels. There are serious themes but handled with real warmth, compassion and optimism. Wonderful.
As might be guessed from the title, Thea and Denise is inspired by the author’s favourite film, Thelma and Louise. In the Acknowledgements, Caroline describes her book as ‘a very English take’ on that film. It’s a film I haven’t seen myself but I’m guessing it doesn’t include a lot of swimming in the cold North Sea or wearing one of your mother’s old nighties.
Denise and Thea’s friendship develops following a series of coincidences, one of which is a meeting that takes place in the ladies’ toilet in the Grosvenor Hotel. They seem unlikely friends with Thea initially taking the upper hand and Denise following her lead, prompted as much as anything by an incident involving an exploding freezer drawer. However, the dynamic subtly changes as their road trip progresses. Suddenly it’s Denise who is taking charge as a result of a new-found confidence and who encourages Thea to open up about her true reasons for making the trip. As Lillian, Denise’s mother, later observes, ‘They were chalk and cheese but somehow the combination worked’.
I found Thea’s motivation for embarking on the road trip easier to understand. She’s running away from things she can’t – or doesn’t want to – face, trying to persuade herself that what she’s doing is for the good of others and not just a reaction to her own fears. It’s an act of desperation whereas with Denise it felt more like an act borne out of a general discontent.
The road trip includes some fun scenes. My favourite was their trip to a Rage Room, the existence of such a thing being completely new to me.
The three women in the book – Denise, Thea and Lillian – are all interesting, well-developed characters. I particularly liked the portrayal of Lillian as an older woman living an independent lifestyle. The men in the book – Thea’s ex-husband, Marc, and Denise’s husband, Simon, play minor roles and neither are particularly attractive characters. Simon, in particular, seems to want a wife who will fulfil the role of housekeeper and administrator rather than that of life companion or lover.
Although I wasn’t completely convinced the epilogue was necessary, I enjoyed the way the book deftly explored the nature of female friendship and tapped into that feeling we’ve probably all had at some point – wouldn’t it be great to just run away?
Thea and Denise is a book about female friendship and shows just how important it is.
The fact both women are middle aged and dealing with their own fair share of problems, adds a level of vulnerability to both characters (even the more confident Thea).
Comparisons to the film Thelma and Louise have been made by quite a few others, and the author mentions herself that she sees her book as British version - having gained inspiration from her favourite film.
I havent actually ever watched Thelma & Louise, so can't compare the two, other than them both being about 2 women on a road trip. But the book kept me entertained!
This was a fairly quick read, nice short chapters featuring both women's narrative. I felt as though I got to know both of them and by the end was quite invested in what was going to happen next.
St Albans is the starting point for a British road trip in this journey of self-discovery and the tale of an unlikely friendship between two older women. Thea and Denise are very different, both facing their own personal crossroads. The pair aren’t an obvious friendship match, yet when their paths cross several times, they each see something in the other that draws them together.
Thea has a teenage daughter, Ella, she has a well-paid job and appears to be confident with her opinions and an unapologetic attitude, the latter, things which unassuming Denise wishes were true for herself, but there is also a guardedness to Thea. Denise, married and with three teenage sons, Aaron, Lewis and Joe is taken for granted by her husband, Simon and her life is full of dull routines. Denise works in Simon's business. Thea decides to take off for a few days to seek out some excitement, and reluctant Denise seizes on the opportunity and goes along, too.
Thea and Denise share the narrative and the book gives the reader a peep into their current lives before they set off, then packs in a number of events that get closer to the core issues both are fighting. I was confident that Caroline Bond would do justice to the stories of the women, having read a few of her books before. The two ladies' problems and internal struggles are expertly portrayed, as is their blossoming friendship. Sensitively written and poignant, with topics touching on marital disillusionment, difficult family relations and menopause, I could relate to the masterfully created Thea and Denise very easily. Humorous, razor-sharp and uplifting, the ending is a good one.
A special thank you to Corvus, Caroline Bond, NetGalley and Pigeonhole for the opportunity to read. This review is my unbiased opinion.
Inspired at some level by the adventures of Thelma and Louise (consider the name choice as starters, Thea and Denise), this novel sees two women of a certain age – ok, menopausal women – who start a friendship which sees them journeying up through England to St Abbs in Scotland.
Each has a life that works reasonably well until it doesn’t. Thea sees her teenage daughter choosing to live with her father, which feels like a total rebuttal of everything that Thea is offering her daughter. Her work is putting her under pressure and finally she decides to head off. The aim was to do this on her own, to see places of her choosing and to do things that would restore her sanity.
Denise happens to live opposite Thea’s ex and through serendipitous events their paths happen to cross, several times. Denise is soon hitching a ride with Thea, unbeknownst to her own husband, Simon. Things are rattling along in the marriage (three boys and a job in her husband’s company) but something is definitely missing – being valued, for one.
And they are off, mulling over life, sharing intimacies and seeing a bit of the country as they set off from St Albans and make their circuitous way up North, enjoying each other’s company and generally putting their own worlds to right.
This is a nicely written story of female friendship that is redemptive and engaging.
I feel the orange coloured cover overly references Thelma and Louse’s trip, which started in Arkansas and went over to the Grand Canyon – heat and colour being integral – whereas the two women in this story confine themselves to England where the weather is milder (ok, cold!) and toned down, and they probably need umbrellas and thermals. We took a quick straw poll and most guessed that the book (just looking at the cover) was set in California (the other was Italy). So it might be a revelation or a disappointment when readers pick up this novel and discover where it is actually set. A bit of a misleading book cover, to be honest.
I wasn’t sure what to expect with Thea and Denise by Caroline Bond - apart from the obvious link to the famous Thelma and Louise film I was unsure on what the setting of this novel would be.
I have previously watched the film and really enjoyed it and this book didn’t disappoint. Both characters, Thea and Denise were well written and I warmed to them both early on. The complexities of both were really interesting and I felt for both of them throughout the novel.
These characters each have their own challenges and the importance of friendship and family are evident throughout. I particularly enjoyed the focus on strong female characters: Thea, Denise and in particular Denise’s mum. I also really enjoyed the descriptions of the different locations throughout the book, particularly Lillian’s home and the beautiful surroundings.
Absolutely loved this book. A nice easy read about friendship between two women in their late 40s, both dealing with families, husbands, menopause and how they are changing at this time. Loosely based on Thelma and Louise in the sense that they run away together on a road trip both with secrets and problems they're leaving behind. About the strength and resilience of women. A lovely read.
One last hurrah before the end! What I wouldn't give to be able to go and travel around for a while and leave all the mundane chores and routines behind! I can keep dreaming I guess! Thea's losing a long battle with her daughter, fighting with her ex husband over custody and now has been hit with the news that her cancer has come back. Denise is bored with her life. Her kids just want feeding and their laundry done and her husband has forgotten what romance is. Thea's after one last hurrah before giving up and Denise, not knowing the full story, is happy to go along for the ride. Tattoo Parlours, rage rooms and more are on the agenda with no end in sight. Their unlikely friendship builds, bringing the best out of each other and also sharing their deepest and darkest secrets. When questioned "what to do now", surely the answer can only be "keep going?" Fantastic read, highly recommend!
The front cover is lovely, it has such Summer vibes and makes me want to go on a road trip myself. When I read the first impression I thought the writing was great and it was short and fast paced. I had wanted to learn more about Thea and Denise because they were polar opposites. I wanted to see how their road trip panned out as it sounded exciting.
However, I took two tries before I could finish the book, the ending feel a bit rushed. Personally I had lost interest after a third of the book as I thought the plot was very slow and it fell flat. I wasn't particularly invested in Thea or Denise and it wasn't what I was expecting as I think I was hoping for more.
Saying that, Thea and Denise were encountering real life situations and if you don't mind a slow read that's not really a page turner but love to peek into someone's life then this is the book for you.
You don’t need to be a genius to intuit that the inspiration behind Caroline Bond’s latest novel is the film Thelma and Louise. My immediate thoughts were “what a fabulous and clever title” and “yippee” I have a new novel to read penned by an author I greatly admire. My expectations therefore were running high before I’d even begun.
What lies between these covers is a remarkable celebration of female friendship, although the novel is also concerned with the human connections we make throughout life, good and bad, and how these relationships influence and shape the people we become. When Thea and Denise first meet they are both struggling with the stresses and strains of everyday life and although their personalities and problems hugely differ, they have one thing in common. Between them they’ve clocked up a lot of mileage and negotiated plenty of potholes and hazards along that road called life but have now reached a crossroads where there are no clear signposts indicating whether to turn left or right, reverse, plough on ahead, or simply admit defeat. It’s their unexpected journey together in search of answers to their individual dilemmas that is the driving force in this FANTASTIC novel. The dark storm clouds may be gathering but will Thea and Denise manage to reach a destination filled with light and sunshine and hope or are they stuck travelling on the road to nowhere?
I have to say this novel spoke volumes to me, almost as if the author was in direct conversation with me, a feeling I’m positive many readers will also experience when they pick up this book. (PLEASE DO because you’re in for a real treat!). I felt an instant connection to these two women, some of their individual worries/ life scenarios so relatable ensuring my affinity with the pair grew exponentially. In fact there were times, particularly early on, when I felt as if I was looking at a reflection of myself in the mirror so in tune was I with the complex emotions Thea and Denise battle with. My empathy towards them knew no bounds, some of their thoughts and actions horribly familiar! Caroline has, as always, captured exactly the whole messy nature of life; the ugliness and the beauty, the joy and sadness, the laughter and the happiness that accompany our best and worst moments but on this occasion she also describes with razor sharp accuracy what it feels like to be a woman of a certain age. She does this so beautifully, with clarity, humour, poignancy and honesty without ever being sentimental or depressing or flippant! Yes, the M word does feature but is dealt with maturely rather than frivolously. Despite there being an air of melancholy underpinning the narrative, this novel is incredibly uplifting, a term I think is overused in fiction but for once is completely justified. There is the perfect blend of tender, heartfelt moments, humorous ones, some dark ones and some lighter, surprising ones with words of wisdom sprinkled throughout. Some scenes are breathtaking (quite literally) in terms of the eloquent, understated but powerful prose which are moving in a way that doesn’t necessitate tears but had me hanging onto every single word.
Thea and Denise are a triumph in terms of characterisation, their blossoming friendship a thing of beauty and utterly glorious to witness, proving two people don’t need to be in perfect harmony with each other to develop a strong bond. I loved their spontaneity, their introspection, their bravery, their mutual respect and affection for one another, their ability to understand each other even when truths aren’t forthcoming and I definitely relished all the pit stops along the way! With the addition of another strong female character who features in some of the more uplifting/nurturing scenes there is so much to love about this novel. Through Thea and Denise, Caroline Bond reminds us of the value of female friendship and solidarity, of living in the moment and cherishing the good times which can potentially help us through the bad ones. She also reminds us of the fragility of life and how precarious and precious it is. I’m of the opinion this novel celebrates the strength of women in general, allowing us to congratulate ourselves for enduring and surmounting the toughest challenges in life, whatever they may be. Caroline’s novels always put me in a reflective mood (an added bonus in my opinion) and so I hope to hang onto the sentiment behind her words and remember them when I need them most. In fiction we often talk about unforgettable characters; Thea and Denise certainly fit that mould.
All in all, this is a beautifully written piece of fiction, the conclusion of which is quietly superb. A real page turner for me and one that deserves to receive many positive and enthusiastic reviews. It probably goes without saying that I highly recommend!!
I’ve always enjoyed Caroline Bond’s books thanks to her beautiful storytelling and creation of characters who I really care about, and felt the exact same reading this one!
I loved how the story opened with a short prologue which told of a road trip Thea and Denise were on before taking us back in time, to show us their lives and struggles before their paths cross and a friendship develops between them. It was clear from the prologue that Denise already feels more alive and that she and Thea have learnt so much about each other and supported each other to grow and feel revitalised during their days away from home. In only a few short pages my attention was piqued and I couldn’t wait to find out more about these two women!
I really enjoyed learning about Thea and Denise’s lives before they became friends and of their respective family dynamics. In chapter one when we meet Denise we learn of the various things she is worried about both in her work life and in respect of her sons, her father-in-law and her mother. It’s the middle of the night and her husband Simon is laying beside her, oblivious. Denise will readily admit to herself that she is lucky so is struggling to understand why she feels so off kilter.
In chapter two we meet Thea whose teenage daughter Ella is staying with her father again. It has been five years since the breakdown of her marriage to Marc. Thea has returned home to her apartment after a first date and I was intrigued about the hidden flaws referred to as she is dissecting/reliving her evening. The end of that chapter also describes a scar on Thea’s stomach and how it is a marker of how close to death she once came. There is also a big secret that Thea is keeping which I was wondering about constantly at the story progressed and didn’t guess at all before it was revealed!
I was fully invested in Thea and Denise’s friendship and couldn’t wait to see what they would experience next on their road trip together. They had so many fun adventures and I couldn’t believe there is actually a real life ‘The Rage Rooms’ when I googled it! I particularly loved the time they got to spend with a third wonderful woman (I don’t want to say more so it’s a surprise) and how the time they spent with this person really benefited them all.
Family relationships and friendships, and all the difficulties they can entail, were so brilliantly explored in this book and I loved seeing the different dynamics. I thought it was a really empowering read! I also absolutely loved the ending! It was a perfect final chapter and really made me smile!
Thea And Demise is a novel by British author, Caroline Bond. The audio version is narrated by Rachel Atkins. While they may be of a similar vintage, Thea and Denise are living quite diverse lives. Denise is raising three teenaged sons, working in her husband’s import/export business and bearing the brunt of care facility visits to her angry and miserable verbally abusive father-in-law.
Thea is still coming to terms with the divorce that followed her husband’s infidelity. But even more concerning is the fact that her fifteen-year-old daughter seems to prefer living with her father, his new wife and their young children. It’s true that Thea works full-time for a government department, but how else can she afford a place to live, or prove to her daughter that a woman can be independent? There’s something else, too, that Thea would rather not think about.
They first encounter each other at a business dinner, when Thea extends much-appreciated kindness in Denise’s moment of need. But then a favour is returned and they learn that they enjoy each other’s company. Denise finds Thea attractive, confident and strong. Thea can’t help but comment on Denise’s regimented, busy life of servitude.
When her daughter gives her what Thea sees as the worst possible news, and the ultimate insult, she reacts poorly and, feeling she has unintentionally burnt bridges, decides a break is needed. She impulsively invites Denise on a road trip. Denise, too, could do with a break from being unappreciated by the four men in her life: a night away with Thea could be fun, just what she needs.
One night turns into two: they are really having fun. Then Denise is meant to return home while Thea travels on to tick off her F##k-it List. But her husband’s attitude rubs Denise the wrong way, and they continue on together. At first a little hesitantly, Denise participates in Thea’s crazy activities: she’s amazed to enjoy track day at Silverstone; with surprising gusto, she throws herself into the Rage Rooms; she won’t get a tattoo, though.
Then, when Thea’s customary confidence and control deserts her, Denise takes over, and they retreat to a safe place.
Bond gives the reader a tale inspired by Thelma and Louise, with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments as well as some lump-in-the-throat ones. Her protagonists are two very different women who reach the end of their respective tethers and act. They challenge each other’s life choices, offer support and care, and ultimately become the firmest, if unlikeliest, of friends. Funny, moving and uplifting.
This book centres on two women Thea and Denise, both at a similar stage in their lives. Thea lives with her teenage daughter Ella in an apartment, after separating from her husband, she loves her apartment, especially the fact that she can look down on everyone on street level below, after spending her life being looked down on. Denise is married to Simon and has three teenage sons Aaron, Lewis and Joe. She is also suffering greatly with symptoms of the menopause. Both women have one thing in common, they both have a relative in the nearby care home, Denise has her father in law Eric, and Thea her mother Nancy. Thea's daughter Ella decides that living with her father and his new family is much more fun than living with her mum. Both women feel that they have the world on their shoulders and when Thea suggests going on a road trip together, Denise initially declines, but when things come to a head with Denise and her whole life as it is at the moment, she just has to put space between herself and everyday life, life where freezers break and family life is just horrendous. So one evening after a "bad " goodbye between Ella and Thea, they are off in Thea's mini on their road trip to goodness knows where, but they are away from family, life, work and elderly parents. After some time exploring together and visiting venues to make themselves feel better with their family lives, such as they are, and also it begins a strong friendship that will last many years and gradually they start to feel more at peace with their lives and themselves and decisions have to be made, decisions that are right for Thea and Denise and not for anyone else.
A tale of two women's self discovery, of finding out about themselves and what they need from their lives both right now and in the future, and also mainly of friendships and how important they are to women of all ages. I really enjoyed reading this book and I'm sure many women will relate to Thea and Denise at the different and sometimes difficult stages of their lives. Another addictive and relatable book from Caroline Bond, a 5 ☆ read.
What’s not to love about this book? It was brilliant right from the start. The two main characters are as unalike as chalk and cheese, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be exactly what the other person needs does it? Denise is leading a busy life, raising three older teenage sons, working in her husband’s business and making weekly visits to his father at his care home. Basically looking after the five men in her life. For little, if no reward.
Thea is living with her fifteen year old daughter and trying (and failing) to come to terms with her husband’s infidelity. He left their family for his new one and to put a cherry on top, is growing a new family. Her daughter would prefer to live with her father, and this puts Thea into a tail spin. Thea has a good, well paid job and she is determined to show her daughter that she can live an excellent independent life. However, there is something else going on with Thea that she refuses to face.
The two women meet at a business dinner, when Thea stops Denise from an embarrassing incident. When Denise assists Thea, returning her kindness, the two women find that they enjoy each other’s company. Thea finds that Denise is living a life of servitude to her male family members, and impulsively invites her to join her in a weekend trip away from it all. Denise loves Thea’s confidence and decides to join her at the last minute, leaving little time for discussion with her family.
The trip is fabulous for both women. When Denise’s husband speaks to her dismissively, she decides to extend her stay. Denise joins in at a track day at Silverstone, shocked at herself for her bravery. When they both spend time at the Rage Rooms, Denise finds a catharsis she didn’t realise she needed. When Thea starts to “crash” Denise takes over for a while and they spend time in a safe space they both really need.
This story is inspired by Thelma and Louise, as can be guessed by the title. Their road trip is unplanned and unexpected. It is full of fun, some laugh out loud moments and some sad moments. The two women have found their missing pieces, now more complete than before they found each other. I loved this book and have thought about it long after I finished it. Brilliant.
Thea and Denise follows two middle aged women who form an unlikely and different bond. The book is split into dual point of views from both Thea and Denise. At first appearance, the women could not seem to be any more different. Thea is reckless and a force of nature while Denise is more placid and sticks to her routine. However, when Thea’s personal life begins to crumble and Denise starts to feel trapped in her mundane day to day activities, the two women set off on a road trip together.
First of all, I really loved the attention that this placed on women, especially mothers. All too often, when a woman becomes a mum, her identity is erased by society and this book highlighted that struggle. It also unapologetically talked about the dream for freedom from responsibility, even if that’s children that you love. I think that this was definitely my favourite aspect of the book as so many things that are considered taboo topics, such as menopause, are discussed. It was quite a niche subject that was spoken about really well!
I wouldn’t quite say that I ‘liked’ both Thea and Denise, but I certainly found them interesting and wanted to find out more about them and their relationship together. Because their relationship was so developed I felt like others were lacking. Obviously the most important aspect of the book was them, but for there to be relationship issues with Denise and her husband I felt like I needed to know more about them and see them more as a couple.
I also thought that the ending felt quite rushed to me and to be honest I’ve never been a fan of a look many years into the future epilogue. That’s just a personal taste and for me it didn’t really add much to the book.
Overall, this was a fun read and I liked that it made me think more about motherhood, individuality, freedom and female friendships.
I didn't recognise the author's name, but turns out I've read, and indeed very much enjoyed, two of her other books - The Forgotten Sister (brilliant) and The Legacy (pretty good). So now Caroline Bond is actually in my head!
This book is a play on/version of Thelma and Louise, and the author doesn't attempt to hide that throughout the story. Thea and Denise are unlikely pals, with what seems to be very little in common. They connect one night at an event, where Thea comes to Denise's aid in a way I would hope every woman in the world would do for another and making me thrill with joy for the sisterhood. It then turns out that Thea's ex-husband has just moved in across from where Denise lives with her husband and her three sons. Add in to that that they both have a connection to the local care home, and it seems crazy they don't already know each other, but clearly fate wants them to meet.
Thea comes across as confident, independent, a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, except maybe where her 15 year old daughter is concerned. Denise is a woman hidden by and weighed down by her caring responsibilities - her husband, her sons, her cantankerous father-in-law, her husband's business. She's lost herself in her life.
Then one day, even though they're still at the very early stages of their friendship, Thea asks Denise if she'd like to come away for night at a fancy hotel....
It might be my age, but this story of friendship, and the bonds women form with other women, how we can support each other, hold each other up, lift each other, give each other space to breathe, to reconsider how we see ourselves, resonated so much with me. I really loved it - and even more so when what I thought was about to become a predictable ending was definitely not predictable!
This isn't my usual kind of read and in the beginning I wasn't sure I was going to get on with it at all but I have to admit I found myself really enjoying it.
A story about two middle aged women running away from their problems / taking a break from life by going on a road trip around the UK isn't the sort of story I usually go for but I was very tempted by the Thelma and Louise influences so decided to give it a go. I'm not quite at the same stage as Thea and Denise but I'm not far off so their lives, with all the responsibilities and worries were very relatable. I could certainly understand the need to take off, I've been tempted to do it myself.
As characters go I have to confess I didn't find them the most likeable, particularly at the start but they did grow on me over the course of the story. Denise was a little too wishy washy, too passive and a bit of a doormat. She seemed so much older than her age. Thea was the opposite, trying so hard to be young and adventurist and aggressive. It was difficult to see how these two could ever be friends but that's exactly what happens.
I loved the focus on female relationships in this story. There's the friendship that develops between Thea and Denise, the relationship between Thea and daughter Ella and between Denise and her mother. All of these allow the characters to develop and grow in the best possible way.
It's a pretty slow paced story and I found it a little frustrating to read at times. Both Thea and Denise have secrets and it felt like the reveal took a bit too long.
It is however a well written and warm story and I found myself really enjoying the journey.
Overall an enjoyable read, just maybe not for me.
I received an advance copy from the publisher via Pigeonhole.
I was immediately attracted to this from the cover and title - it looked so carefree and happy-go-lucky but, actually what I found inside was so much more than this, so much deeper and more emotionally complex.
Thea and Denise’s lives were not carefree, they had worries, issues, thoughts and concerns and the way they shared these together strengthened their friendship and their bond. They discussed the most serious of their problems, their relationships and their families, the mistakes they had made and their hopes for the future. The honesty and openness they shared with one another was very enviable and special.
It wasn't always as easy for them to open up to one another, as they got to know each other more on their trip, their trust grew, and with it their friendship. The power of the female friendship and sisterhood so real and written so well. I loved Thea and Denise's escapades together; their sense of adventure and escapism. I felt taken along for the ride and enjoyed getting to know each of them more - my suspicions about them proven to be true; it's an emotionally touching book.
It's not all fun and adventure though, some really serious issues are covered in the book and it feels a really genuine and honest account of issues the characters faced and how support and friendship can get us through the worst and the most challenging of times.
I’ve read several of Caroline Bond’s books now and she writes such wonderful character-driven stories so well. This was a book that I looked forward to picking up each time I read, I enjoyed my time with these characters and felt it a privilege to get to know them.
This is a book I’ve already recommended to those that like a thoughtful, and meaningful story.
I haven't watched the famous "Thelma and Louise" movie but of course I recognised the allusion to it given the title of the novel. It's about two women approaching 50 who end up on a spontaneous adventure, or - to quote one of the husbands - their "midlife crisis masquerading as a road trip".
Making friends later in life - past university, in my opinion - is a task that depends more on luck and "right person, right time" than on social skills. When Thea and Denise keep bumping into each other it was clear than they have a chance at friendship, which blossoms with each leg of the journey and each decision they take together. Thea has planned this journey to achieve some sort of bucket list of activities, one more reckless than the other, after losing her daughter's top choice of parent. Denise is also a mother and a wife who feels stuck in her day to day life and can't see any reason why she wouldn't join a woman she barely knows on a few days away, without consulting with her husband. To some extent I felt like I understand these women and why they choose to rebel against the life they so attentively put together, just to distance themselves for a while from the ordinary and find some more authentic versions of themselves.
I wasn't sure which direction this journey would take (apart from Up North!) but the story covered nicely ideas about marriage, friends versus relationships, speaking your mind and, generally, finding out what's important and what's not. Everyone deserves a break and if the husband and kids don't agree, they can learn to deal with it.
Overall 4/5, with great characters and some satisfying turns and conclusions.
I read The Forgotten Sister by Caroline Bond three years ago. Ever since I've been meaning to read another of her books because I loved it so much but sadly I didn't get round to it until now, with Thea and Denise, and I'm kicking myself because this is an author who really is right up my street.
Thea and Denise. Think Thelma and Louise but considerably less dramatic or crime-ridden. Our eponymous heroines meet by chance and become friends, somewhat unlikely ones as Thea is quite glamorous and confident in comparison to Denise's more downtrodden demeanour. I think it's a case of right person and right time as each provides the other with the friendship they need at a difficult time in their lives.
I thought this was a brilliant book. The story goes along at a great pace and I was hooked right from the beginning. Part 1 sets the scene and brings the women together and then from Part 2 onwards it's a rollercoaster of events and emotions as Thea and Denise head off on an impromptu road trip together.
It's the ideal read for women of 40+, dealing with mid-life issues such as the impending menopause, relationships that have become stale and taken for granted, and maybe the prospect of having to start all over again. I found it uplifting, enriching and inspirational and I think that Caroline Bond is a fabulous writer tackling relatable family-led topics and doing it intuitively and incredibly well. I loved Thea and Denise and will try very hard not to leave it another three years before I read another book by this author.
To begin with this felt a bit of a slow burn; the first few chapters felt a bit hard going and the characters of Thea and Denise were both quite unlikeable (to me) in their own way.
Happily once they took off on their road trip the storyline opened up and their characters developed. There was one particular part when they stay with Denise's mum which I thought was beautifully written and I think at this point both characters truly came alive for me.
I really loved the fact that the focus of the book was on both Thea and Denise as individuals and as friends, rather than their relationships as wives and mothers. Although those were elements of their character, they were small parts. The book really focused on how women can reinvent themselves as they get older, developing confidence that they may not have had when they were younger. So often books about older women seem to focus on endings and sadness, whereas this was a celebration of older women.
However, I did find my interest waning throughout the book. The main plot "twist" was easy to see coming and I felt like there needed to be a little more mystery through the book. Once they left Denise's mother's house it felt like the book meandered a little too much.
I read this with online book group The Pigeonhole at the same time as a number of other books, and although overall I enjoyed the book and read it all the way through, it wasn't quite intriguing enough to put it top of the pile as the one I reached for first.
This is the second book I've read by this author and they were both really relatable and enjoyable to read. Caroline Bond draws her characters very well and you feel very quickly absorbed into their lives, to the extent that you could almost believe you're with them. In this tale, which you won't be surprised to hear was inspired by Thelma & Louise, we follow Thea & Denise. The former is a seemingly successful divorcee who is struggling with the fact that her ex-husband has moved on. New wife, new kids, new house and now her teenage daughter wants to live with him instead of her. Despite surface appearances, Thea has a brittleness about her. She bumps into Denise a few times, as their paths cross on various random occasions and it's not long before they form a friendship. A friendship that escalates from tentative buddy stage to full blown BFFs when Thea rashly invites Denise on a road trip. As an unappreciated wife/mother, it's an opportunity that Denise grabs with both hands. What follows is a journey beyond the miles covered in the car. Great stuff that deals with lots of the worries, issues faced by women of a certain age - I definitely saw myself in elements of both characters!
Told from both Thea and Denise's perspective, set over "three parts", then "the Ending". Part one, these ladies have met by chance, initial meeting an unlikely way to meet a new acquaintance, although at first it doesn't appear a friendship could grow. Covering how the friendship starts, taking you to the very start of the road-trip. Part two, covers the trip itself, where the ladies are trying to find their place with each other, not initially having that close bond unsure of how frank they can be. Whilst personally tackling their own personal worries. Part three takes them back to reality.
Thea at first seems the confident lady who has it all, but really is single, has a difficult relationship with both her daughter and ex husband and seems almost lonely.
Denise seems quite the opposite in personality/confidence. Denise's relationship with husband Simon, doesn't appear to be smooth, Simons behavior seems quite selfish, taking for granted she'll always be there. Denise's new friendship seems to help her reevaluate her life, her self worth.
It's rare and lovely to see a close friendship blossom, later in life. Whilst neither I'd class as old, good friends are hard to find and keep.
This is the second book I've read by this author and they were both really relatable and enjoyable to read. Caroline Bond draws her characters very well and you feel very quickly absorbed into their lives, to the extent that you could almost believe you're with them. In this tale, which you won't be surprised to hear was inspired by Thelma & Louise, we follow Thea & Denise. The former is a seemingly successful divorcee who is struggling with the fact that her ex-husband has moved on. New wife, new kids, new house and now her teenage daughter wants to live with him instead of her. Despite surface appearances, Thea has a brittleness about her. She bumps into Denise a few times, as their paths cross on various random occasions and it's not long before they form a friendship. A friendship that escalates from tentative buddy stage to full blown BFFs when Thea rashly invites Denise on a road trip. As an unappreciated wife/mother, it's an opportunity that Denise grabs with both hands. What follows is a journey beyond the miles covered in the car. Great stuff that deals with lots of the worries, issues faced by women of a certain age - I definitely saw myself in elements of both characters!
I have read The Forgotten Sister and The Second Child, which I loved reading both of those books.
I am a big fan of the author Caroline Bond, and after reading the blurb on the story for Thea and Denise, I thought it sounded a good story about them going on a road trip. Plus I loved the cover and thought this story is for me.
But I was quite surprised to find out while reading the first five or so chapters that nothing much happened to keep me glued to story, unlike when I read the other two books, The Forgotten Sister and The Second Child I literally couldn’t put either of them down.
I was genuinely surprised that I didn’t get into Thea and Denise. As I am one those readers that can get into most books.
But Sadly for me this book was a difficult one to get into, as after about five or six chapters nothing happened to keep up my interest. I just didn’t know where the story was going.
However this is my own reflection of Thea and Denise. And I would definitely read a another book by Caroline Bond as she is one of my favourite authors, but not this novel.
Lots of other reviewers have enjoyed reading this book. As Caroline Bond is one my favourite authors with previous books of hers that I have enjoyed I will recommend reading Thea and Denise.
This is far more than a road trip novel. This is a tear-jerking, uplifting, empowering, laugh-inducing rollercoaster that explores its themes of friendship, adulthood, grief and adventure with sensitivity and love.
The main characters are great examples of female friendship, despite their obvious differences and backgrounds. Each of them is strong in their own unique way: Thea's easy self-assurance and recklessness brings out Denise's wilder side, and Denise is the quiet, steady rock for tumultuous Thea to anchor to.
Neither character is carefree or perfect, and the slow unweaving of their flaws and vulnerabilities is beautifully handled. I'm easily triggered by some of the topics covered in the later pages, but the author offset the shock of such moments by using them to show the strength of the characters' trust and support and the importance of loving each other at our worst as well as at our best.
By reading this, I gained a whole new appreciation for my close friendships and a far bigger bucket list than I've ever had before. I recommend it to lovers of Thelma and Louise and anyone looking for a heartfelt novel about unlikely companions.