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欲情十四课

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Paperback. Pub 2018-07-01 154 Chinese Qingdao Press The goal of love is to combine and integrate the two minds. The essence of love is nothing more than the realization process of the desire of both men and women to attract each other and pursue each other. However. in this process. you can't just take the courage and enthusiasm and rush forward as you like...

154 pages, Paperback

Published July 1, 2018

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Jun'ichi Watanabe

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Junichi Watanabe ( 渡辺淳一, Watanabe Jun'ichi, October 24, 1933 – April 30, 2014) was a Japanese writer, known for his portrayal of the extra-marital affairs of middle aged people.

His 1997 novel 'A Lost Paradise' became a bestseller in Japan and over Asia, and was made into a film and a TV miniseries. He has written more than 50 novels in total, and won awards including Naoki Prize in 1970 for 'Light and Shadow' (Hikari to kage), New Current Coterie magazine prize for Makeup, the Yoshikawa Eiji Prize in 1979 for 'The Setting Sun in the Distance' (Toki rakujitsu) and 'The Russian Brothel of Nagasaki' (Nagasaki roshia yujokan).

He was born in Sunagawamachi (present-day Kamisunagawa) and died on April 30, 2014 of prostate cancer in Tokyo.

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June 20, 2025
这敢情看的是相当的快哪,谁让我看得是这般的投入,拿着kindle,硬是吃了一个小时之久的早饭。

1. 对作家新的认识

看着渡边老师款款到来的恋爱经验分享,我对他这个人的兴趣变得越来越浓厚。

原来他有这么丰富的情感经历啊!原来他在书里写的都是依靠他真实的经历啊!

读完这本,再去翻他的回忆录《伤感的青春》,竟有猜谜语的快感:这段经历这般眼熟,原来就放在了《失乐园》这本书里;处理宫外孕的医学回忆,被放在了《欲乐园》里。

他对男女情事如此信手拈来,也就可想而知了。

2. 对恋爱的指导和认识

至于读完后,对自己恋爱是否有帮助和指导,我就得多斟酌一下了。

显而易见的有两点:

一个是要勇敢出击。“男人总是被拒绝的”,抱着这样的信条,被拒绝就不是灰心丧气、而是稀松平常的事情了。那么往下推,像我这样经验少的人,就更应该模仿他,一次追求多个兔子。

一个是对待女性的耐心。在性事的描写上,渡边老师总是显得很有耐心,有着充分服务女士的态度。这样的服务精神,自然是要传承和吸收的。

不过嘛,老师都是上世纪三十年代的人,他的这些经验放在现代社会,是否还依旧适用,就变成一个值得思考的问题了。
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