“To save a life” is a movie I will talk about for a long time. It was so impressive and meaningful. The main character of the movie is Jake, one of the most popular boys at school with fame, lots of friends, a basketball scholarship and a girlfriend. He had a best friend Roger,totally different from him- with no friends and no hope. They stood up for each other despite of everything but high school pulled them apart. Jake didn’t care anymore about him but one day changed everything. A sudden tragedy turned his life upside down and made him think about life’s different side, which I think makes us live, not only exist.
In the movie we face up lots of social problems. The first and the most enlightened is racism. Make difference by their nation,skin color and wealth is the sign to ruin the world. In 2005, an African child’s poem was nominated for the best Poem. Has anyone ever thought who is skin-colored? Us, the ones who are red in sun, blue in cold, yellow when scared, grey when we die or the ones who were born black, grew up black, are black in sun and black when scared? Or does the color mean so much to hurt anyone’s heart. Bullying is the one of the hardest parts of the movie. In my opinion we can talk about racism and bullying at the same time because, both have one beginning- the fact that we never think to treat others as we want to be treated.
Suicide is identified as one of the social problems as well. It is the most tragic ending of keeping pain in the heart. By statistics 1 in 12 teens commit a suicide. You may be just one person in the world, but one person, at one time, you are the world.We always forget to think that we can be the best help for each other. Mahatma Gandi said “Be the change you want to see in the world”. What if, we all tried “just to pay it forward”...
“The biggest disease this day and age is that of people feeling unloved”-wrote the kindest princess ever- princess Diana. She probably has imagined what it must be like for a little boy to read that daddy never loved mummy. Nowadays people live together but they are not happy and this is shown in the movie. I think this is one of the biggest and the most important social problems. If there’s one thing I’ve learned along the way, it’s that all our personal successes shine a little less brightly if we fail in family. That’s what matters most. Sadly, in our time, regardless of divorceharming children's psychology andcausingissues, it is very common. No one knows what a reserved character person is keeping. We have to think below the surface.
Being shy of you may also be considered as a social problem. People pressure our lives, influence and we lose ourselves. Maybe that is our fault, not to be sure in us, but mostly teens are not mature enough to stand for themselves. And there is rarely a person who really knows how to listen and nobody truly asks “how are you?”
Fake religious people are probably the whole believers’ biggest challenge. People go to churches to make others see, not because of serving God. They spend time judging people for things that they are guilty of.
Lastly, I would add that in my opinion, one of the social problems is that we watch movies and cry, but never think that maybe next to us there is a person who really needs our help and a sincere “how are you?”.This movie was very close to me. Now when I am far away from my home, family and friends I nearly feel the same as Roger. I am not a black person, children aren’t bullying me, but it’s hard when you are re-born and developing yourself in a place where no one knows you and nobody is coming to you. It’s hard, but I believe that sun is in every person, you just have to wait to make it shine. I believe that we all can save a life from our sides, we just have to try and be proud of our uniqueness, instead of being shy for the things that differentiate us from others.