This is a novel of two people who find themselves at a crossroads in their relationships and careers. We meet Jane Cody, a fortyish woman who is married to a man who loves her, has an overweight and smart mouth 6 year old boy who calls her Jane instead of mom, and whose cranky, and complaining mother-in-law lives in a carriage house on their property. Jane makes list in code, feels because she is forty,she feels she has become invisible at her career as a PBS producer for many of the shows at her local station. Especially with a younger and more energized co-worker beating at her heels. She is also good friends with her exes current wife (Carol).Carol thinks that Jane's ex and her current husband, Dale is cheating on her. Carol begs Jane to meet with Dale and find out the truth. Also,we get Jane's endless lists that are written in code and that aren't always truthful. We next meet Desmond Sullivan, a biographer that had moderate success in a biography of another writer who was a closet case. Desmond lives in New York and is in a 5 year relationship with Russell. Desmond, who is almost 40 and been working on another biography of a Z level singer who had a little success in the 50's. Desmond has decided (without discussion with Russell) to accept a 4 month long teaching position at Deerforth College in Boston. Since the person in the biography lived in Boston in her latter years, Desmond feels it will be great for research (he seems to have been working on the book for a couple of years). Russell isn't happy with Desmond leaving. Desmond seems to be in a rut, in his relationship, in writing his book, in his life. Of course, Desmond meets Jane's husband, Thomas who teaches also at the college. When worlds collide...Thomas strikes up
a friendship with Desmond who comes to dinner at his home, where he meets Jane. Jane makes a proposal (that's not indecent) to Desmond. I won't say what the proposal is,but it's just the start in this funny, heartwarming, and dad novel.This is a good read and high!y recommended.😍