Healing The Feminine Energy: & The Wounds Of Your Inner Child

by Reemus Bailey

“This book is life-changing” - has been the response of those women worldwide. “Healing the Feminine Energy” is a spiritual guide, written with love and empathy for those who want to nurture their feminine energy. It’s the perfect catalyst for those looking to ignite or go deeper into, their healing journey. By learning how to embrace the deepest parts of yourself, you gain an increase in confidence, self-love and a clear understanding of the beauty of feminine energy . We currently live in a society that discourages the expression of divine feminine energy , keeping millions of women from embracing their natural state . Their natural connection to womanhood is shamed, trapping them in a state of unhappiness, lack of fulfilment and continuously attracting the wrong type of men . This practical guide contains ancient wisdom , yet with a great understanding of the modern society that we live in. And as you learn the powerful information that has been kept secret from you, experience a deep connection to your authentic self. This is for the person who is excited about growing into an empowered, healthy woman . It is also for men who want to better appreciate the power of feminine energy (that is within them too and in their partners). This guide will teach you: Learn to reconnect to the power that lies within and receive the practical exercises that will help you to protect and nurture this great energy.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction

84 pages, Paperback

Published September 19, 2022

Reviews

[macabrebookwitch · Rating 3 out of 5]

I was quite enjoying the book at first, but then began to realize while a lot of the exercises could be helpful in your general development, and are common CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) lessons, this book was not written with certain people in mind. If you are a woman with a very "traditional" mindset, beliefs, and point of view, then this book might really help you learn and grow. However, I am definitely not that. It is also not only non-inclusive, but actually actively exclusive of trans, intersex, and non-binary folks. There is a line where "two genders" is literally bolded, and as a Forensic Anthropologist myself, I found myself entirely uncomfortable with the strong dichotomy created. While I fully believe everyone has both masculine and feminine energy within them (and recent human biology proves everyone has differently "gendered" cells, even within one body [https://www.scientificamerican.com/ar...]), it seems the topic of this book is very heavily reliant on embracing only one of, and the "correct" one of, these energies. There is also a portion which claims that "no career will ever feel as rewarding as bringing life into the world", which clearly excludes all women who don't want to have kids, and belittles those women with fertility issues or who are unable to conceive. If you are a traditional woman with traditional values surrounding the masculine and feminine, this book could be seriously healing for you, but I am not that woman.

[Mylene · Rating 1 out of 5]

I will say about this book that it’s easy to read and she makes a couple of good points. However, i do think that the way she frames certain things they come of as a bit problematic. (But I guess i’m proving her point?) And has a very limited world view.

And she lost me at the sentence: 'The traits of the feminine energy are ‘receptiveness’ and ‘openness’. Consider the sexual design of the female body. The vagina is an open receiver.'

Edit: it’s written by a man…

[Meireads · Rating 3 out of 5]

Overall this book is great to look back at your life and find exactly what traumas caused you to shut down your feminine features. What I didn’t enjoy was the way feminism was portrayed and often identified as the cause of blocking women’s femininity. I believe encouraging women that they have same right and capabilities as men will do no harm to femininity. Saying that feminists laugh at women who want to peruse more ‘traditional’ life like be a housewife and mother is brutally wrong. Feminism encourages women to be WHO THEY WANT to be, feminism talks about how house labour is equally as important and hard (if not harder) than working 9-5, for instance. This is the only ick that this book gave me, other than that, it offers great explanations, answers and solutions to identifying the hurt feminine inside of you.

[Kassidy Faust · Rating 1 out of 5]

Honestly I hated listening to a man tell me how to be more feminine. And stating that a career woman is masculine is actually ridiculous.

[ComfyCass]

This is by far the weirdest book I've ever read and I've read an erotic retelling of the Nutcracker. I can't believe I made it through this 😂 - all the typical self help crap like "let go of your fear" and "practice self care." I echo the other reviewer who pointed out this guy has 0 credentials to be writing about the feminine experience, especially for women who may have trauma and are looking to heal their inner child. Oh also look him up on social media, he's a polygamist and a passportbro 🤣🤣

Not leaving a rating as I'm trying to be charitable 😇

[Carissa B · Rating 1 out of 5]

Not only was this book written by a man about women, but it also displayed disdain for women who chose or could not have children on their own as well as transphobic tendencies, going as far as bolding the word “two” when describing gender.

Sir, it’d serve you well to remove your head from your own a$$.

[Kaylah Gavin · Rating 4 out of 5]

It feels illegal that a book with this title was written by a man.. However, it was a quick easy read that has some good points/ perspective. I’m not totally mad about it.

[Tracey Sohner · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is where I wish Goodreads had private bookshelves. This is something I’ve struggled with my whole life, so I’m glad that people are writing about it and providing it to people like myself. I like that this was a bite sized introduction to the topic, and so much resonated with me! It reminds me that I need to return to the important work that I started in 2019 and have lost touch with. I feel like I have slid backwards and shied away from my inner child worm because it is so difficult.

It’s also reminds me that living in the present is necessary because like an addict, I need to be constantly working and making choices that move me in the right direction. Too many times have I fallen back into complacency and subsequently, into toxic habits. Ultimately pushing me further away from who and what I want to be. She said that it’s a long journey, but I like the reminders about the steps I need to take.

Knocked one star off for the typos and occasional strange grammar, but over all I really enjoyed this little read!

[Calyx Elliott · Rating 2 out of 5]

okay, so there’s a lot to unpack here. first of all, this book pmo for many reasons but this can be primarily attributed to the author using positivity and femininity interchangeably. this is what hurts women tho! — the expectation and stereotype of women needing to be the life of the party and happy all of the time. this is what i was trying to distance myself from when i bought this book—we need to let go of this idea that women need to be happy to be feminine because let me tell you; my inner feminine is isn’t happy 24/7. but i am still feminine bc i am a woman, therefore maybe my approach is just different. but definitely wouldn’t recommend this book bc this approach is misogynistic too

in a nutshell, here’s the rest of reemus’s ideas:
be nice. be acceptable. don’t be masculine. always be positive. don’t use your sexuality as a way to manipulate men. allow men to help you move furniture around when needed.

ughhhh. and it’s sooo written for straight women. “the vagina is an open receiver” how about no? what if we just… what if we made this title inclusive and didn’t target women who aren’t straight 😭 reference page 37 for the quote abt women manipulating men with her sexuality to get what she wants…

idk man maybe im taking it out of context, but maybe then the author should provide more context :)

anyway yeah it was bad , but if you’re into that kind of thing and stereotypes fit you well then maybe it’ll help you and i guess it wasn’t all bad

srry this is poorly written im tired lol

[Kayleigh Jones · Rating 2 out of 5]

I'll start with the good. There are SOME good points in this book.

However, I can't say it was life changing. I think there's nothing I couldn't have found on the Internet for free. And the author doesn't seem to know what feminism actually is, and talks about it negativity in a book about the feminine energy.

I wouldn't recommend to be honest and had I read the reviews on here instead of amazon I wouldn't have purchased.

[Apexa Varu · Rating 3 out of 5]

As I was reading this book, there were certain paragraphs, opinions, and narratives that compelled me to think that it must have been written by men. And I was right. (I am not saying this as a compliment.)

Overall, it is not a bad book; it is short and can be read in one sitting. However, there are certain parts of the book I really don’t agree with, but there are others I resonated with, so I would say that this is a decent book. Therefore, I advise female readers to focus only on the positive aspects and neglect the negative ones.

[Booky Book · Rating 1 out of 5]

Women beware! This book gave me the ick on so many levels. Written by a clearly misogynistic man if you take 2 minutes to find his socials. The way the book was packaged/described had me looking forward to the read. IN reality it is just a typical patriarchy experience of being mansplianed about how I should be as a woman---yawn. Not to mention the blatant anti-feminism (while also deceptively not actually describing feminism correctly and stating the feminist movement is steeling our feminity...like, sir, what?!) and literally boldening the word "two" when suggesting there are only two genders. Not that this guy has any sort of credentials or background to back up his little book of ranting hidden in a few basic CBT techniques that any moron can Google...and it's part of a "series" but each book is tiny lol. Such a poser even went through the trouble of having his SEO show a photo of a black woman when you Google his name.
If you want to continue to have men to tell you how you should behave as a woman and fit into the box that fits nicely for them to control, then sure go for a read. Otherwise this one went straight to my ebook trash bin. Just glad I had a free copy and didn't give this sicko a penny. 0 stars is what it truly deserved.

[Emma Harper · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was in a broken place after suffering a harsh breakup so I was researching things that could potentially help me heal from that because it was really tough. And this book helped to release so many things for me.
It helped me to heal from things that had happened consistently in many of my past relationships and inspired me to see how I can change and improve for future relationships.

I still need to complete the exercises in the book, which might feel like a bit much if you don’t have the time or mental space to do it. But I will make time later and try it out because I’m sure it will help.
I think this book is especially important for people who have been through things. Maybe if you’re already in touch with this side of yourself you may not need to read it. But for me it was perfect timing.

[Amanda Barnette · Rating 2 out of 5]

I couldn't finish the rest of this book. I went into reading this with an open mind, thinking that this author was possibly a woman with a pseudonym. The author writes about the topic of femininity from the male point of view. There is no evidence-based research to back up the claims written. As I understand, the author is a content creator with a predominantly masculine audience, and some of the content has serious overtones of misogynistic views.
I think a man writing about how women can heal the wounds of their inner child without going through any of the struggles that women face daily is insulting to femininity. He has no research or a CV that would give credibility to any of this book.

[Andrea Lama · Rating 4 out of 5]

What I love about the book is how the author acknowledges and values women, particularly in terms of feminine energy. In today's society, there's a bias that sees femininity as a weakness or undervalued. Reemus explains how feminine energy is just as natural and important as masculine energy. This book will make you feel valuable and help you connect with yourself on a deeper level.

However, I do have some reservations about the author's traditional view on the roles of women and men. I would have liked to see more about how to balance both feminine and masculine energies in healthier ways. Despite this, I encourage you to read it with a critical mind and take the best insights on femininity from the book.

[Kashif Mehmood · Rating 5 out of 5]

I liked this one so I decided to get it for my sister to read and she absolutely loved it. The reason why I liked it is because it is uplifting the feminine energy. People think that feminine energy is weakness but this book broke down why you should be proud of it.

Many women that I know grow up believing that it is a weakness which is outrageous when you think about it. But the more that you think about it and learn: feminine energy is so necessary in this world and I think that there is no better time for people to embrace it now.

So I’ll be buying it for the other women that are in my life so that they can also benefit from it.

[Olga Satrevica · Rating 4 out of 5]

Despite other reviews I must say I actually liked this book. I was very sceptical especially when I saw the big font as if the author tried to fill as many pages as possible and had nothing to say so he had to spread the same thought throughout several pages. The book is a super easy read and even if some of the things are basic and common sense it is a great reminder when you forget your value or just simply how to be feminine in this fast paced world. The importance of stopping, resting, preserving your energy for the people who deserve it and especially how to stop pleasing others. It's not incredible but it was a good easy positive read.

[Tom Cole · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’m impressed with the way that the book was written. Very empathetic in its understanding of feminine energy which was surprising because I think it was written by a guy. This could be a problem for some people, but I think that if the message is right then it doesn’t matter who the messenger is.

I really enjoyed the practical aspect to the book. It makes it like a real-life course rather than just a feel-good book. We need the rise of the divine feminine more than ever and this book definitely contributes to that. Amazing!

[Adam Winston · Rating 5 out of 5]

I had come across this book because I saw that it was recommended on TikTok and I’ve been on a healing journey so this seemed like a good source of info to use.
It’s very easy to read and understand. It doesn’t take too long to read too. It’s about 100 pages or less. I do think it’s good if you re-read it though so that the main points truly stick or instead, you can take your time when you read it so you properly digest it.
It was a good book and I recommend it for those that know they need to do some healing work.

[Melissa · Rating 4 out of 5]

Lots of good and interesting points although a bit surface level for people healing from trauma especially when subjects around abuse are touched on. Other parts didn't resonate and felt like the author was bringing their own bias into it instead of just educating.
I had to look up the author to find out more about them to discover it's a guy and it doesn't really sit right that a book about healing feminine energy wasn't written by a female. Maybe that's my wounded feminine talking, I'm not sure.

[Sarah T · Rating 1 out of 5]

About half way through this book i thought “this sounds like it was written by a man..” well, it was!!! Although there were some good points and takeaways, there were also a lot of oppressive viewpoints. The line in bold letters that talked about “TWO GENDERS” was strange and a whole section dedicated to telling women they need to accept the ideology that we are born to become mothers and wives was………………..not my favorite. I am sure there are women that would enjoy this book, but for me it was a miss and I wouldn’t recommend it to a woman trying to find herself or her feminine power.

[Carter · Rating 5 out of 5]

Eye opening! - As someone who is delving into spirituality and on a quest to heal from attachments and traumas that have been surfacing recently, this book has come at the right time.

I do like that there are exercises in each chapter. This helps to make the book more practical so that you can actualize the things you are learning.

One potential counterpoint to the book is that it is very much for traditional minded people. If you do not subscribe to the idea of masculine and feminine expressions you may not like the book

However, I think it is certainly a powerful read for those that see value in the differences between the masculine and feminine, and so many people in the world could benefit from checking it out. I am going to read volume 2 very soon

[Jades Benjamin · Rating 5 out of 5]

*Perfect gift*
This could possibly be my favourite book on spirituality and polarity. The feminine energy is so powerful and it is overlooked in this society. This series is bringing back the remembrance of it's value. It doesn't just talk about feminine energy in a basic and simple way, and that's why I love it. It tells you how to embody and project those qualities, so you are the living expression of divine femininity.

[Jasmine · Rating 5 out of 5]

Fantastic Book to Love your feminity

I just got done reading and decided to reach out to the author like it said at the end. I am shocked this book is written by a man! Nevertheless, I'm very grateful for the book. The time to write it and help others is priceless. So many good ideas and tips. Well worth the read. I am outwardly feminine but needed tips to heal my inner world and this was it! I'll be using the tips in my life. ☺️😍

[Ashley Allen · Rating 3 out of 5]

I’m having a terrible time rating this book. I think it’s overall a bit problematic, but if given to an open minded person, there are tools that can be useful. I am always happy when I’m in my feminine energy, but my trauma takes me out at times, some of these tools were helpful overall. However I feel this book is morally close minded and very misguided on its views of gender. It’s very traditional in ideals, so it must be taken with a grain of salt.

[Brenda · Rating 4 out of 5]

There’s not a ton of depth to this book, 📕 but there are some wonderful nuggets of wisdom 🧘🏻‍♀️within it.
The book is a super easy read and even if some of the things are basic and common sense it is a great reminder when you forget your value or just simply how to be 🌷feminine in this fast paced world. The importance of stopping 🧘🏻‍♀️, resting, preserving your energy⚡️ for the people who deserve it and especially how to stop pleasing others.

[Olivia Land · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book really opened my eyes. It has made me sit, think and reflect about myself, past experiences and why do I think or feel the way I do. If you are like myself and are not very confident, feel insecure about yourself, had past issues/relationships which have broken you. I couldn’t recommend this book more!

[rey · Rating 5 out of 5]

Such a precious book :) I wish everyone in the world could read it to show the value of feminism and push away the narrative that the world has made it to this day. I loved how it explains that it’s both in women and men as well, as a man I want to be able to express those emotions and this was definitely a step in the right direction.

[Camini · Rating 2 out of 5]

Unintentional bias?

If intentional, then the author’s position is to be respected and not all have to agree. However, wondering if there is room to consider editing the cis/hetero slant regarding relationships and dating. This adjustment could broaden the audience that can benefit from the other Feminine Energy content within.

[Jenna Pavlov · Rating 1 out of 5]

downs women who want a career.

I enjoyed this book until the pages that stated careers are masculine & to be feminine we must focus on parenting. It also said a career couldn’t possibly be as fulfilling as having children. I am a stay at home mom of 4 who loves parenting and even I found this extremely off putting. This is not a book for modern femininity