Jamie Buckingham was the founder of the Tabernacle Church in Melbourne, Florida. He was the author of Run, Baby, Run (with Nickey Cruz), Shout it From the Housetops (with Pat Robertson), Ben Israel (with Arthur Katz) and 34 other books. Buckingham was editor for Charisma Magazine until his death in 1992.
This book was very empowering and helpful in learning to see criticism as a good thing. It also helps you develop coping skills and discernment with things that are said to you. Biblical verses are throughout the book (which I love)as confirmation and clarification of some truths, like you are designed to do and feel certain things.
Best lesson/tidbit of information in the book is the authors theme throughout the book, differentiating between Critic, Criticize and Cope:
backside of the dedication page, "Critic: One who detects and points out faults or defects Criticize: In its basic sense suggests a discernment and judicial evaluation of both merits and faults. In ordinary use, however, commonly implies an unfavorable judgement or a pointing out of faults whether real or imagined. Often takes on the form of a severe rebuke.
Cope: To deal with on fairly even terms and manage to overcome problems and difficulties".
All can be positive when done and received correctly.
I love the way the author uses examples of his faults and failures to show us how to deal with criticism. I learned a lot of tools from reading this book on how to react/respond to a critic with LOVE.
Weird how when you just discover a great, new author, you find out he's already dead! So authentic, Buckingham uses his own life experiences as teaching points. His son and grandson carry on the radio ministry.