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Forgiveness
Have you ever found it difficult to forgive? Do you know you should forgive but you just can't? Have you ever wondered to yourself, 'why is it important to forgive?' or 'what is unforgiveness doing to me?' or "is it really possible for me to forgive and get past this offense?' Have you ever convinced yourself that you are somehow punishing your offender by retaining the offense? Do you think that somehow forgiving someone is just letting them off the hook? You may not realize it but forgiveness is more important for what it does for you than what it does for your offender. Do you realize that your offender still has power over parts of your life until you forgive? The act of forgiveness can be and should be a simple act of the will. Once you know you should forgive, it could be just an immediate decision of the will. However for many it just isn’t that simple. Some people need to wrestle through this process in order to solidify it in their lives. It isn’t uncommon to find people who, after making a choice of their will to forgive, still find themselves wondering if they really did forgive since feelings of unforgiveness still linger. Others haven’t done the necessary follow-up work to rebuild their heart so that bitterness has no place to return. Based on a Christian frame work, the author leads the readers to the place of being willing to take the risk of releasing their offenders and learn to live in freedom. In the book the reader will see the necessity of forgiveness to release every offender in their life. To accomplish that objective the reader will first understand what forgiveness really means. There are too many misconceptions of what forgiveness really is and it requires clarification. When one really understands what they are doing when they forgive another, they might not be reluctant to forgive, or even struggle with the idea of it. The author then examines how one opens the door to bitterness and gives it a home in their heart. This subject is covered because it helps unravel the areas where we have entangled ourselves that have kept this door open. The book In conclusion, seeks to help create a heart where bitterness has a difficult time penetrating into it. Wouldn’t it be great to walk through life with a Teflon nonstick spiritual armor, where offenses slide off rather than stick as they are thrown at you daily? Building a heart that quickly resolves offenses is actually the most important aspect of this book. It is imperative that our hearts be ruled by a stronghold of compassion so we will react and see everyone – even our offenders – through the eyes of Jesus.
First published June 6, 2008
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January 11, 2024
Excellent book on the definition of forgiveness. I learned a great deal about true forgiveness. This book is short - only 77 pages and I read it in a day. I will be revisiting this book regularly and adding to my already highlighted areas. True forgiveness is freeing and allows one to move on in life with a lot less pressure. Again, excellent book!
February 11, 2021
Great book on the topic of forgiveness. The author gives a definition of the word, forgiveness, near the beginning of the book. He also discusses a symptom of unforgiveness and the feelings associated with unforgiveness. Throughout the book, he uses his biblical perspective and shares scripture that not only explains more about forgiveness but also discusses the reasons for forgiving your offenders and their offense. He even gives an exercise towards the end of the book to help in the process. If you are having difficulty in forgiving people who have hurt you and/or offended you in your faith journey, I recommend this book to you.
May 19, 2022
One of those life-changing books. Highly recommend for anyone who has experienced trauma or know someone who has. There is one chapter where the author emphasizes how a lack of forgiveness can cause physical issues and while he isn’t necessarily wrong, it seemed a stretch at some points. He did say that while physical issues aren’t always spiritual, it is something we should consider and I agree with that 💯. All in all, HIGHLY recommend. Only 70-something pages but FILLED with Biblical truth. So while it’s a short read, it isn’t necessarily a quick one.
January 27, 2021
Where to start? This ebook has absolutely changed my life, and has become a part of me forever. Will be placed on my bookshelf within easy reach and will be referred to time and time again. So much truth in between the pages about forgiveness. The ' why ' and the ' how '. Anyone who spends time reading this will not be disappointed. Very highly recommended.
September 12, 2021
A MUST READ! If you struggle with forgiveness!
The author gives you a firm Godly perspective on why it's important to forgive in order to move forward. I appreciate the acknowledgement that its not easy, and provides beginning step for the process. You will begin to see the freedom head. The freedom you deserve!
The author gives you a firm Godly perspective on why it's important to forgive in order to move forward. I appreciate the acknowledgement that its not easy, and provides beginning step for the process. You will begin to see the freedom head. The freedom you deserve!
March 5, 2026
Enlightenening
This book is transformative to the core. Rodney Hogue never ceases to blow my mind with his incredible insight into the deep things of God. What a blessing his books are! I declare blessings in abundance over you, your family, and your ministry! In Jesus name...
This book is transformative to the core. Rodney Hogue never ceases to blow my mind with his incredible insight into the deep things of God. What a blessing his books are! I declare blessings in abundance over you, your family, and your ministry! In Jesus name...
November 8, 2022
A great book on how to forgive
As a pastor I have read many books and listened to many teachings on forgiveness. in my opinion, Rodney Hogue has done a fantastic job. The reason is he takes us beyond forgiveness to the place of rebuilding compassion for others.
As a pastor I have read many books and listened to many teachings on forgiveness. in my opinion, Rodney Hogue has done a fantastic job. The reason is he takes us beyond forgiveness to the place of rebuilding compassion for others.
November 21, 2024
THE best book on forgiveness!
The content of this book is the core of being able to love others as we love ourselves and gives you the freedom to live life as you never experienced before!
The content of this book is the core of being able to love others as we love ourselves and gives you the freedom to live life as you never experienced before!
March 1, 2026
Fors such a slim volume, this took a while to read. I had to put it down to think about every once in a while. The basis of this is that we should determine ahead of time to forgive anyone who offends us throughout the days, just as Jesus forgave us when he hung on the cross.
February 24, 2018
An unparalleled and enormously practical study in the nature and necessity of forgiveness in the Christian life. If you can have one book on forgiveness, this should be that book.
August 2, 2019
Be set free from everything the enemy has entangled you with. Great book on deliverance. a must read.
October 25, 2019
Great book!
Much needed insights. Following these processes will change your life. Forgiving is hard, but that is partly because we don’t understand how to do it.
Much needed insights. Following these processes will change your life. Forgiving is hard, but that is partly because we don’t understand how to do it.
June 28, 2020
Perfection
This book perfectly sums up what forgiveness is and isn’t. Very powerful truth and wisdom in these pages. Loved it!
This book perfectly sums up what forgiveness is and isn’t. Very powerful truth and wisdom in these pages. Loved it!
July 31, 2020
Very good. What it means to forgive, and what to do next.
October 15, 2020
God has been working on me about forgiveness and this is a very helpful little book. It's an easy read and full of more than useful advice.
May 1, 2022
A great book on the need for and impact of forgiveness in our lives. A must read for everyone.
September 7, 2022
Hogue gives a very clear and concise explanation of what biblical forgiveness is, why it's important, and how to do it. Well done.
October 10, 2023
Really good book. Short, practical, and powerful.
April 17, 2024
Really good practical applications on how to forgive and work through your emotions.
February 6, 2025
This was a very challenging book. Bringing up parts of m life that I thought I gotten past.
Such a good book, I would recommend it to anyone.
Such a good book, I would recommend it to anyone.
November 25, 2025
#convicted
January 1, 2026
Very good and important theology/philosophy of forgiveness. Some points felt a little over-repeated but I can understand how it’s helpful for someone really new to these ideas.
April 10, 2026
Each of these chapters could be its own book and I would not get sick of reading about it. This little book packs a punch. I really appreciated all of the insights and the practical advice.
May 8, 2026
Eye Opener
If you’re struggling with forgiveness and letting go of bitterness and resentment against someone, this book is for you, it helped me so very much to dig deeper into myself and helped me finally cut the chains that held me down for so long!
If you’re struggling with forgiveness and letting go of bitterness and resentment against someone, this book is for you, it helped me so very much to dig deeper into myself and helped me finally cut the chains that held me down for so long!
January 28, 2015
JANUARY 31, 2015 / As you can see below, I have read this book before. My opinion has not changed with this second read other than I was able to get more out of it. After reading, My One Word: Change Your Life With Just One Word, my One Word for 2015, is Forgiveness. This is why I re-read the book.
OCTOBER 28, 2012 / One of the most complete books on forgiveness that I have read. It doesn't just stop at you should forgive and how to fogive but it actually lets you know what happens afterwards. A recommended read to anyone who has anyone to forgive, including themselves.
OCTOBER 28, 2012 / One of the most complete books on forgiveness that I have read. It doesn't just stop at you should forgive and how to fogive but it actually lets you know what happens afterwards. A recommended read to anyone who has anyone to forgive, including themselves.
July 18, 2014
I have read a number of good books on forgiveness but this one resonated deeply within. It clarifies and simplifies the message of the gospel on forgiveness and gently allows you to apply these truths to your life. The book is written simply with scriptural and anecdotal references. If you struggle with forgiveness issues ( I'm not sure who doesn't) this book can be a life changer.
June 21, 2015
Simple truths have the heaviest impact
The author speaks so any man or woman can understand the message, lays out the path any willing person can walk, and clearly presents the costs and benefits of extending or withholding forgiveness. This concise book can change a life, maybe yours.
The author speaks so any man or woman can understand the message, lays out the path any willing person can walk, and clearly presents the costs and benefits of extending or withholding forgiveness. This concise book can change a life, maybe yours.
July 8, 2016
As much as I loved that it was short and toothy, I wish it were longer because of all the truths it unearthed.
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