Is queer ‘only’ about sexuality? or is it a state of existence? In its truest form, nature is queer and queer is free. Nature is queer when water takes the form of oceans, lakes, rivers, rain, snow, steam, dew and every other avatar it chooses and expresses itself through. It’s queer when the soil takes the shape of a hill or a mountain or a ravine. Queer is when one tree doesn’t force another tree to become its clone, and every flower finds a place under the sun. Queerness lies in the consciousness that if left free, everyone becomes more rooted in their existence and stronger in their individuality. Queersapien is neither an individual’s search for identity, nor is it a lamentation of societal prejudices. The book recognizes the fact that there are many ways to live. A queer mind sees itself as part of the extreme diversity nature offers. It is, therefore, aware that if we shed the veneers we wear and the blinkers we view life with, we’d know there isn’t a solitary kind of food or form to clothing, history, education and wisdom. There isn’t a singular structure to a family, a union or one way to love or one normal. In what is a searing and raw reflection on life, media, neoliberalism, politics and the inner self, Sharif D. Rangnekar, who identifies as a gay man, explores through lived experiences, the meanings of love, freedom, identity and dignity in a society where family, religion, caste and class dictate how we live our lives every day. This is a book that can’t be put in a thematic box, much like queerness. Becoming queersapien is not a revolution but an evolution of the self, a nation and its people.
When I first picked up this book, I was skeptical because I was ignorant of the life of a queer. I only know that much media has told me, and google translated the meaning of the word queer in a sentence. After a page or two, I realized that the word queer couldn’t be defined in a sentence. It is an ocean, and you can’t fill an ocean in a bucket. This is a book you need to read to understand yourself, what you are holding and what you are giving back to society in the name of tradition and cultural values. So please read this book.
I was highly intrigued by the title and had already read some great reviews for it, so I added it to my TBR. I found it to be super insightful and fascinating! It is a great book for anyone looking to learn more about the true essence of being queer and belonging to the queer community.
Queer Sapien is a memoir. It's a collection of pieces encompassing experiences of the author's life. If you had appreciated and established Sharif's 'Straight to normal' to be candid and relatable, this one is not distinct but full of additional fascination.
Soulful writing, straight from the heart! It’s an easy read! Enjoyed the stimulating conversation at the book launch too!
Enjoyed this story which had the right amount of sweetness n spice to it. The right kind of entertainment throughout the story. This book is a must-read. It's a total package. One person found this helpful
What is Queerness? This question can be answered in a million ways but the path Sharif Rangnekar chose gives us a holistic worldview which then helps us to navigate through its intricacies. Being from the queer community himself, Rangnekar has very carefully etched out the problems that we face and what needs to be done to move forward for a better tomorrow. While narrating some incidents from his life, he has portrayed how important love and camaraderie is for queer people to survive. This moving piece of literature needs to be read by everyone.
Self-identify your gender? Why not self-identify your species, too? I'm a dog now. It reflective of self identification, the book's main theme concerns the author's life as he brings the plausible fact that there is no linear direction to life, rather many ways to live one's life. The author reflects upon the whole foundation of being a queer as it connotes freedom and necessary detachment from the diversity of nature and this understanding is vital in order to appreciate the true LGBTQ Revolution.
A must read for anyone wanting to understand contemporary India and queer perspectives as well as just what it means to be human. This is an important addition to the corpus of Indian gay writing, and to library collections covering India, South Asia and LGBTIQ studies. Very readable. Recommended! This type of brave writing and topic needs to be encouraged more and more.
Sharif D Rangnekar’s Queersapien is a tall drink of tender coconut water on days when the entire world seems to have been hard baked in intolerance and hatred.It is a candidly narrated tale of the author’s quest to shed his own fears and insecurities after coming out of the closet, braving the hostility of a landscape where, on one hand, the Supreme Court has decriminalised ‘gay sex’, reading down Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, but on the other, acceptance is still hard to come by for the LGBTQIA+ community, in order to find love and live his best life.
even fewer manage to remain there. But every story like Queersapien serves as a much-needed beacon of light to guide those who wander––lost and far too frightened to come to terms with who they really are.Queer Sapien" is a remarkable read that offers a fresh perspective on queerness and its role in shaping our society
It is an anthology of articles about events in the author's life. If you enjoyed Sharif's "Straight to normal" and thought it was realistic and honest, this one won't surprise you either. being LGBTQ. the yearning for romance. the requirement for approval. the desire for company. All too relevant and true.
This book, which is both a memoir and a societal criticism, is perceptive, provocative, and above all, a comforting read. It's like being invited into someone's living room to chat about all the things that make us oddballs but also extraordinarily delightful. The book provides a distinct Asian perspective on queerness, which is often absent in this field. This, combined with the fact that the story is recounted via personal tales, makes the book all the more relevant.
Neither a personal quest for identity nor a protest against systemic discrimination, Queersapien is neither. The text acknowledges that there are several ways to live. The enormous diversity that nature affords is something that a queer mind views as its own. Therefore, it is conscious that if we removed the masks and lenses with which we now perceive the world, we would realise that there are many different types of food, clothes, history, education, and wisdom. There is no one set up for a family, a marriage, one way to fall in love, or one normal.
The language of the book is very simple and can be understood without interrupting your reading, This book has the right connection of chapters and content.
The book- Queer Sapien is written in a very raw manner where author, Sharif Rangnekar, himself belongs to the gay community and speaks about the problem that still lies in society in terms of accepting the community as its own.
Author specifies how his background helped him to avoid few complex situations but he also tells how its not easy for everyone to come open in India because of their vulnerable positions.
Author frankly discusses the issues with the society and also communicates what can be done to improve the same.
Queer Sapien is a thought provoking book which is a very unique read as it takes you into the insights of the community with whom you don't get to interact otherwise.
🌈What if I tell you that you have to hide your identity for a long time and be someone else ? What if I forced you to live like that ?
🌈Sounds odd , frustrating, unbelievable or absurd, right ?
🌈That exactly the LGBTQ community went through all their lives.
🌈There are rare books which can influence you just by the cover and this book is one of those - such a colourful and thoughtful cover.
🌈This book is penned by the author , pouring all his life's struggles , sexuality , problems, heartaches, love, dilemma, confusion and so many emotions into this book.
🌈How painfully the author admitted that he feels suffocated in his own country, while Thailand seems more relaxing and accepting to him when he found his love partners, life gave him chances so many times and those relationships worked as long as they were in different countries.
🌈Its so sad to witness these situations where love is not the problem but a narrow-minded society is.
🌈It shows how much society influences people that even people in LGBTQ community or the author feels constantly uncomfortable in his own home or city.
🌈How people from this community suffer from all their lives; bullying, ragging , abuse , violence, why ? Because they love differently, and who are we to decide about someone else's choice of love ? Some of them don't even try to fight , end their lives or leave the country.
🌈It shows the deep , ugly , disgusting rules society implies without any justified reasons.
🌈I admired a non-as human being, as someone who was so ready to accept new things and had courage to fight wrong.
🌈It shows how much difference in terms of clothes, characters, love , food , culture all these countries have.
🌈 As the author always has his family's , friends' support throughout, but still it was all in a hush-hush tone , in-closet like its something illegal.
🌈 It made me feel helpless to reIt made me feel helpless to read those heartbreaking stories.
🌈 A powerful, thought-provoking, honest read.
Tags: @rupa_publications @kharidobechobooks Book name : Queer Sapien
Author name : Sharif Rangenkar
Genre : Self-help ,LGBTQ
Language: English
Rating :5/5
🌈What if I tell you that you have to hide your identity for a long time and be someone else ? What if I forced you to live like that ?
🌈Sounds odd , frustrating, unbelievable or absurd, right ?
🌈That exactly the LGBTQ community went through all their lives.
🌈There are rare books which can influence you just by the cover and this book is one of those - such a colourful and thoughtful cover.
🌈This book is penned by the author , pouring all his life's struggles , sexuality , problems, heartaches, love, dilemma, confusion and so many emotions into this book.
🌈How painfully the author admitted that he feels suffocated in his own country, while Thailand seems more relaxing and accepting to him when he found his love partners, life gave him chances so many times and those relationships worked as long as they were in different countries.
🌈Its so sad to witness these situations where love is not the problem but a narrow-minded society is.
🌈It shows how much society influences people that even people in LGBTQ community or the author feels constantly uncomfortable in his own home or city.
🌈How people from this community suffer from all their lives; bullying, ragging , abuse , violence, why ? Because they love differently, and who are we to decide about someone else's choice of love ? Some of them don't even try to fight , end their lives or leave the country.
🌈It shows the deep , ugly , disgusting rules society implies without any justified reasons.
🌈I admired a non-as human being, as someone who was so ready to accept new things and had courage to fight wrong.
🌈It shows how much difference in terms of clothes, characters, love , food , culture all these countries have.
🌈 As the author always has his family's , friends' support throughout, but still it was all in a hush-hush tone , in-closet like its something illegal.
🌈 It made me feel helpless to reIt made me feel helpless to read those heartbreaking stories.
Is being queer "only" about being a virgin or sexual differentiation? or is it a condition of being? Nature is weird and free in its purest form. When water manifests itself as seas, lakes, rivers, rain, snow, steam, dew, and whatever other guise it chooses, nature is queer. When the earth assumes the form of a hill, mountain, or ravine, it is strange. When a tree doesn't try to clone another tree and every bloom finds a spot in the light, that is when nature is at its most bizarre. Queerness is the awareness that everyone strengthens their sense of self and individuality when they are allowed to be themselves.
Neither a personal quest for identity nor a protest against systemic discrimination, Queersapien is neither. The text acknowledges that there are several ways to live. The enormous diversity that nature affords is something that a queer mind views as its own. Therefore, it is aware that there are many different types of food, clothes, history, education, and knowledge. If we were to remove the veneers and lenses with which we currently perceive the world, we would realise this. There is no one set up for a family, a marriage, one way to fall in love, or one normal.
Sharif D. Rangnekar, examines the meanings of love, freedom, identity, and dignity in a society where family, religion, caste, and class dictate how we live our lives on a daily basis in what is a searing and raw reflection on life, media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self through lived experiences. In the same way that queerness is difficult to categorise, this book is as well. Being a queersapien is a development of the self, a society, and its citizens rather than a revolution.
The book defies classification, much like the very essence of queerness, and is a fascinating and moving meditation on life, media, capitalism, politics, and the inner self. Being a Queersapien, according to the author, is not a revolution but rather a slow development of oneself, of a country, and of its citizens.
In conclusion, "Queersapien" is a captivating and educational book that encourages readers to push the boundaries of conventional thinking and appreciate uniqueness and variety.
"It takes no compromise to give people their rights... It takes no money to respect the individual. It takes no political deal to give people freedom. It takes no survey to remove repression." ~ Harvey Milk
I always wanted to explore the world of #lgbtqia community and pick this book for the same. I heard many praises for both this book and "Straight to Normal" by the same author and so I decided to give it a try and I am glad that I did so. This book gave me a wonderful reading experience. The preface was so touchy and from there I felt connected with the queer community.
This book is a kind of memoir were the author tries to explain the lgbtqia+ community and their struggles and also shares some of his own experiences.
✅ The life of queer people is narrated in simple language using perfect choice of words. So it was easy to read and analyse. I felt a strong urge to finish the book from the very beginning. ✅ Even if it's not a work of fiction, it was highly interesting, intriguing and informative too. ✅ It not only talk about the queer people but also about the gender inequality in our society. ✅ Author's personal experiences made it more engaging. Especially the Bangok-Pattaya chapters. ✅ The first chapter itself holds details about the victory of their legal battle in India. I was already aware about the verdict but not about it's importance and it's emotional value for a whole community. ✅ It is sad to believe that both men and women are still forced to get married without their consent. ✅ To be very honest, I always thought of these people as weird. But this book gave me a wide window to look into their lives. In a way this book is an eye opener for me. This book taught me to accept them in the way they are and to respect their choices and right to be free.
I will suggest this book to each and everyone because this topic needs more attention and acceptance. Even after almost five years of decriminalizing 'gay sex', still most of the society thinks same about it. We have travelled a long way of civilization. But our system is still stuck in those age old tradition and beliefs. We have to rebuilt our culture. I hope this book and other books discussing this topic reaches more hands and open more eyes and hearts.
Queer Sapien by Sharif D. Rangnekar is a powerful and thought-provoking book that challenges traditional beliefs and societal norms surrounding queerness. The author uses his personal experiences to showcase the complexities of queer identity, presenting it as more than just sexual orientation. He argues that queerness is a radical form of self-expression and individualism that can liberate and transform individuals and society at large.
The book is a fusion of memoir, social commentary, and cultural criticism, making for a unique and engaging reading experience. Rangnekar's writing style is incisive, witty, and deeply personal, allowing readers to connect with his message on a personal level. Through his astute observations about the intersectionality of race, class, and sexuality, he encourages readers to reevaluate their assumptions and biases and approach the world with greater compassion and empathy.
Queer Sapien is a timely book that tackles contemporary issues surrounding identity, diversity, and social justice. It is a powerful call to action that urges readers to celebrate their individuality and embrace their differences, all while striving to create a more just and equitable world. The author covers various themes throughout the book, such as love, freedom, identity, and dignity, delving deeply into the complexities of these topics and their importance in shaping our lives.
The book is not limited to just the LGBTQ+ community, as Rangnekar also examines the broader societal issues that affect us all. He challenges society's rigid norms and structures that restrict individuals from being their true selves, inspiring readers to push back against the status quo and strive for a more accepting and inclusive society.
Overall, Queer Sapien is an important and powerful book that challenges readers to think beyond their own beliefs and biases. It is a must-read for anyone seeking to broaden their understanding of queer identity and the struggles faced by the LGBTQ+ community, as well as those seeking to create a more just and equitable world for all.
Amidst the remnants of stigma and discrimination, the LGBTQ community in India persists to blossom and flourish. Despite the challenges faced, their spirit remains unshaken as they strive for equality and acceptance. Though the path towards full acceptance and protection may still be long, the growing public support and representation in media and popular culture serve as gentle whispers of change in the wind. As the LGBTQ community continues to shed light on the beauty of diversity, the society slowly but surely opens its arms to embrace the colourful tapestry of humanity.
Queersapien by Sharif D. Rangnekar, presents a stunningly imaginative interpretation of the concept of queerness, viewing it as a state of existence that transcends mere sexuality. The author embarks on a journey of self-discovery, delving into the ethereal themes of love, freedom, identity and dignity through his personal experiences and encounters with societal norms and prejudices imposed by family, religion, caste, and class. The book's central thesis revolves around the idea that nature itself is queer, and that a queer mind is attuned to the infinite diversity that nature offers. It suggests that if we cast aside the superficial trappings of our lives and view the world through an unencumbered lens, we would come to understand that there is no single way to live, love, or express ourselves.
The book is a spellbinding and poignant meditation on life, media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self, and it defies categorization, much like the very essence of queerness. The author's message is that becoming a Queersapien is not a revolution but a gentle evolution of the self, a nation, and its people.
In conclusion, "Queersapien" is a mesmerizing and enlightening book that invites its readers to venture beyond the confines of traditional thinking and embrace the beauty of diversity and individuality.
Writing about Queer Sapien by Sharif D Rangnekar in a few words is difficult. However, at the same time, I can write just this: “Nature is Queer and Queer is Natural.” A sentence will be enough to convey the message. I believe if we as a society can understand this and accept this, things would be a lot easier. The word queer evokes a rainbow of emotions in different people and most people don’t understand or don’t want to understand what it means to be queer. The author has poured his heart out and tried to tell us what it means to be queer. Diversity is natural and so is queerness. The author has chronicled his experiences in this book along with narrating the prejudices and biases people have for the queer community. The author has very candidly said that he had an advantage in the form of education and fluency in the language which made it easier for him to embrace his queerness and also advance his career. But it is not the same for most of the people who don’t get accepted in society and are unable to earn their bread and live respectably. The author’s account is passionate and deals with many issues like love, identity, freedom, and dignity in a society which discriminates against and judges. If we start accepting people as they are and respect them for who they are, give them equal opportunities to survive and thrive, and treat them as equals we can proudly say that we have matured. But there is still a long road ahead for this to materialize and a book like this can help in nurturing the right kind of understanding and beliefs and start conversations about the subject. Lastly, the book has become richer by incorporating the author’s experiences of living as a queer person and gaining the freedom to express himself. Reading this book was an experience which is difficult to put in very few words, so I would urge you all to read it, reflect on it, and play your part in making society a better place for every individual.
"Queer Sapiens" by Sharif D. Rangnekar is a thought-provoking and insightful book that challenges the stereotypical notions of queerness and explores the complexities of love, freedom, identity, and dignity in a society where social norms dictate how we live our lives. The author, who identifies as a gay man, shares his personal experiences and observations to highlight the diversity of the queer community and to liberate queerness from the narrow confines of victimhood and coolness.
The book's strength lies in its ability to present a unique and queer perspective on the world that goes beyond the LGBTQ+ discourse. The author's writing is evocative and bold, and he uses his personal experiences to provide a new and nuanced understanding of the queer experience. The book is not just an individual's search for identity or a lamentation of societal prejudices but recognizes the fact that there are many ways to live, and queerness is about embracing diversity and individuality.
The book is not just a memoir or a personal reflection but also a searing commentary on life, media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self. The author's writing is insightful, and he uses his experiences to challenge the status quo and to explore new ideas and perspectives.
The book is well-structured and easy to read, and the author's writing is engaging and thought-provoking. The best chapter in the book is where he talks about Sex, Lust, Love, and a Masseur called Non. This chapter provides a fascinating insight into the mindset of someone who is queer and challenges the traditional notions of love and sexuality.
Overall, "Queer Sapiens" is a must-read book for anyone who believes in equality, freedom, and justice. It is an eye-opener and a path to answer, hope, and a sort of goosebumpy upliftment. The book is an evolution of the self, a nation, and its people and a testament to the fact that queerness is about embracing diversity and individuality.
Queer Sapien by Sharif D. Rangnekar is a compelling book that centers around the author's personal experiences and insights into the complexities of queer identity. The book's main character is Rangnekar himself, who uses his life story to reflect on the broader issues faced by the LGBTQ+ community. Through his vivid storytelling, Rangnekar brings to life the struggles and challenges that queer individuals face in a society that often discriminates against them. The book is also populated with other characters who play significant roles in the author's journey.
Rangnekar introduces readers to people who have influenced his life and helped him better understand his own queerness. The author's father, for example, is portrayed as a complex figure who struggled to reconcile his own beliefs and expectations with his son's sexuality. Rangnekar's partner, too, is a significant presence throughout the book, offering love, support, and understanding as the author navigates the challenges of being queer in a society that often stigmatizes and marginalizes LGBTQ+ individuals.
What makes Queer Sapien unique is its focus on the intersectionality of race, class, and sexuality. Rangnekar examines how these factors influence individuals' experiences of queerness and shape their sense of self. He also delves into the broader societal issues that impact the LGBTQ+ community, such as discrimination, violence, and prejudice. Through his nuanced exploration of these topics, Rangnekar offers readers a powerful and thought-provoking perspective on queerness that challenges traditional beliefs and norms.
Overall, Queer Sapien is a book that celebrates individuality and diversity while advocating for a more inclusive and equitable society. Through his personal insights and astute observations, Rangnekar encourages readers to embrace their differences and work towards a world where everyone can be their true selves.
"Queersapien" by Sharif D. Rangnekar is a compelling and emotional memoir that chronicles the author's journey of being a gay in India before it was legalized. The book follows Sharif as he travels to Thailand in search of a place where he can live and love openly as a gay man.
Sharif's story is both heartbreaking and inspiring, as he navigates the challenges of coming out in a culture that is often hostile to LGBTQ+ individuals. His experiences in Thailand offer a stark contrast to his life in India, as he discovers a community of LGBTQ+ individuals who are living their lives openly and without fear.
Throughout the book, Sharif's writing is honest and raw, as he explores the pain and isolation that often comes with being a gay man in India. His words have a way of reaching into the reader's heart and stirring up emotions that many LGBTQ+ individuals can relate to, and are a reminder that we all deserve to live our lives authentically and without shame.
Another powerful theme of the book is the idea of community and belonging. Sharif's experiences in Thailand highlight the importance of finding a community of like-minded individuals who can offer support and understanding. It remind us that no matter where we come from or what our background is, we all have the capacity to connect with others and find a place where we belong.
The book also includes other social parameters like equality for women etc. I also loved the ideology of Sharif and the open-mindedness of his family, the hard work of his mother, the supporting nature of his acquaintances.
Overall, "Queersapien" is a powerful and moving book that is sure to leave a lasting impression on readers. It is a testament to the power of self-acceptance, and a reminder that we all have the capacity to live our lives authentically and with love. I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a thought-provoking and inspiring read.
In his book Queer Sapien, Sharif D. Rangnekar delves into the complexities of identity, love, freedom, and dignity through a personal and raw reflection on his own experiences as a gay man. Rangnekar asserts that nature is inherently queer and that this queerness allows for a diversity of expression and existence. He argues that society often imposes narrow definitions of normalcy and forces individuals to conform to predetermined roles and expectations, but that becoming a "queersapien" allows for an evolution of the self and a society that embraces extreme diversity. Rangnekar's book is a thought-provoking exploration of the intersections of media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self in the pursuit of a more inclusive and accepting world.
Rangnekar's writing is searing and raw, offering a unique perspective on the challenges and triumphs of living as a queer individual in a society that often fails to recognize and accept diversity. He touches on themes of family, religion, caste, and class, and how these societal constructs can both limit and enrich our understanding of ourselves and others. Through his lived experiences, Rangnekar poignantly illustrates the importance of love, freedom, and dignity in the quest for self-acceptance and acceptance by others.
Overall, Queer Sapien is a thought-provoking and poignant read that challenges readers to reflect on their own biases and preconceived notions about what it means to be "normal." Rangnekar's writing is raw and honest, offering a unique and personal perspective on the struggles and triumphs of being a queer individual in a society that often fails to recognize and embrace diversity. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of the complexities of identity and the importance of acceptance and inclusion.
We’ve mostly heard that nature is strange and mostly odd when you least expect it but, honestly, when it comes to humans, we are stranger than nature for sure. Beautiful in our own way, we all have different qualities and inclinations that make us different from each other. Queersapien explains just that. It's more than just a memoir; it is a reflection on the impact homo sapiens make on the world when they decide to embrace their oddities. Written by one of the most audacious writers, who calls a spade a spade, this account, very subtly, touches upon the vagaries of society and its implication on individuals.
Identifying one’s gender might sound like a daunting task owing to societal prejudices and political injustices. Yet the author doesn’t shy away from expressing the pathos associated with being gay. From acceptance and dignity in the society to fighting tooth and nail to find a significant place in the world at large, the journey has been poignant yet meaningful. Hence, Queersapien serves as a delightful read, more like a rendezvous or heart-to-heart with the author, who, yet again, passes the muster with another raw and bold narrative.
Queersapiens derives its narrative from two sources- the author's very own encounters with people, their reactions and the invisible boundaries that often put his freedom at stake, and nature's mechanism of coexistence. Nature is queer; it allows room for a periwinkle as well as a primrose to bloom alongside each other yet it is disheartening how humans always allow their self-seeking ways to inhibit growth.
Rangnekar's writing reeks of discrimination yet the subtlety of the events and their allusive mention makes the overall impact less persuasive. He offers a different point of view which projects the challenges one faces in this stereotypical world. And that's heart-wrenching to read.
"Queerness" in simple terms means being different. On this earth there are so many other beings which are different from humans, same as that humans can also be different from male and female. LGBTQIA+ community people are also the same humans like male and female who deserve equal amounts of respect, freedom, love and care like every other. But are they getting what they deserve even in this 21st century? This book throws a light on the life, challenges and struggles of the LGBTQIA+ people in an effective manner.
After giving a great amount of Information of being a queer at the beginning of this book, the author starts by mentioning the decriminalisation of IPC section 377 and even after that how people or India didn't change their view on being a queer. Author had explained the problems faced by the people who are queers or transgender in the closed minded society of India.
This book is not just a work of research but a work of personal experience of life and different types of challenges from the society for being a queer. Author had greatly shown Queerness from a self perspective which can change some closed minded people and understand its importance.
The narration of this book is very captivating and the language is simple enough to grab the attention of beginners. I've completed this book in a single sitting and I've learnt so many things from this book which are neglected by society due to lack of knowledge on the subject.
This book is a worthy read for me and everyone who read this. There are no flaws that can be mentioned but I definitely like how the author has tried to spread awareness about Queerness.
I highly recommend this book for all my bookish friends to give this book a read and understand its valuable message. Happy Reading ❤️😊…
Queer i never much liked the word dictionary defines it as 'strange' ,' odd' or away from the norms like hetero sexuality. But i would have been still be okay if they just don't understand it, it's okay to find something odd when you haven't seen it much or know about it but what's really vexing is that just bcz they don't know it they don't even try to. They hold so tightly to their blind belief that they can't see the weathering flowers of heart that god himself created in his image.
This book should be read by everyone of this society to bring empathy to their heart for the person standing before them holding so much love in their heart not scrutinize the person towards whom the love is aimed at.
Who are we to judge someones love, this book is a thought provoking book with every word as a trigger of cascade of thoughts and pain , not my pain or yours but pain of every heart that hurt bcz there is cage inside which their love is suffocating.
In the first line of the book when the author writes that "All those who loved me and gave me an opportunity to love back" it broke my heart into pieces that the love which we are free to give to whom ever we wish they are thanking for that love to be able to just express it. Can anything be more heartbreaking.
This book should be read by every, parents, neighbour, friend, siblings,relative,student, teacher, boss, colleague so that no one has to suffer the pain of going unheard or suppressed.
I love that author gives the links to different news stories from the real world to emphasize the severity of this issue. Overall it was one of the best book i read.
The story of actual people and their problem caused by real life villian and every ignorant person. So this is a great book to give to everyone to make them understand of the heart that is hurting from not being heard.
We all are very much familiar to the popular line,"The first impression is the last impression"- the cover page. It gives me the true feelings of the line. The cover page is very much attractive and eye pleasing and the title gives you a hint about the summery of the book. Firstly I was curious because of the title, so i picked this out then I fell in love with this book just after reading the first few lines and it turned out to be such a great and wonderful read.This book got me hooked right from start and you just can't stop reading it unless you have finished it.
This book presents a stunningly imaginative interpretation of the concept of queerness, viewing it as a state of existence that transcends mere sexuality. The author embarks on a journey of self-discovery, delving into the ethereal themes of love, freedom, identity and dignity through his personal experiences and encounters with societal norms and prejudices imposed by family, religion, caste, and class.
The book not only delves deeply into the everyday struggles of LGBTQIA+ community but becomes a prominent voice that must be heard and understood. The call is for freedom, equality and respect in a society that is heavily prejudiced against the community. Sharif D. Rangnekar, the author, himself gives accounts from his troubled life to substantiate what is wrong with the patriarchal and homophobic society at large.
Don't get me wrong, this book is excellent. It's steamy, it's a good story, it has interesting dialogue and the plot is really good. From the second the book starts until the last page, it has you in a trance. I was literally up until 3:30am one morning reading because it was so good. That's all I can really say about this book without giving away any great secrets: it's really, really, really good!
🏳️🌈How many times have you picked up a book just because of its stunning cover? It’s happened a lot of times with me as it also did in the case of this book.
🏳️🌈Also the name ‘Queer Sapien’ was something that added to my curiosity towards the content of the book. Until now, I thought that the meaning of queer meant ‘strange/odd’ but there is also another meaning to the word queer which is ‘Being homosexual or gay’ which I only got to know after I read this book.
🏳️🌈‘Sharif Rangnekar’ the author of this book, who identifies himself as a homosexual, has beautifully written the ordeals and struggles of his experience as a gay man in our country where homosexuality wasn’t accepted legally until 2018.
🏳️🌈When I started reading this book, I knew very little about the LGBTQIA+ community but as and how I went ahead in this book, I was exposed to a whole different world and it actually took me by surprise.
🏳️🌈Sharif has shared his journey in this book right from when he identified his sexuality until his present day life and all that he did in between like hopping to Thailand every now and then, which was fun to read. His command over the language is quite impressive as well.
🏳️🌈At parts, I did find the book to be repetitive and slow, and I wished that some parts could have been avoided or written in a non-repetitive manner, but on the whole I got to see a new perspective that was until now hidden from me.
🏳️🌈I understood how important it is to respect every individual’s preferences even though they don’t align with yours. Cos at the end of the day, we are all humans and all we want is love; then what’s all the fuss about when that love comes across from the same gender?
🏳️🌈As they say, Love is Love, and thus it should be respected in all forms, shapes and sizes.
Having loved his memoir, I already knew I was going to love reading this one too. Queersapien dares to defy the limits of conventional storytelling, refusing to be confined within the rigid walls of societal expectations. Rangnekar fearlessly delves into the multifaceted nature of queerness, challenging us to question the very essence of our existence. This is not merely a narrative about sexuality; it transcends the boundaries of labels and categories, inviting us to embrace the kaleidoscope of human diversity.
Drawing parallels with the natural world, Rangnekar highlights the inherent queerness found in the diversity of nature itself—the way water takes various forms, the uniqueness of every tree, and the myriad expressions of beauty.
Through his exploration of life, media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self, Rangnekar confronts the societal structures that seek to confine and restrict individuality. He challenges us to shed the veneers we wear and the blinkers through which we perceive life, urging us to embrace the vastness of existence and the multitude of ways in which we can love, connect, and thrive.
This is a book that traverses genres, blending memoir, philosophy, and social commentary into a singular work of art. Rangnekar's prose is evocative, inviting you to reflect on your own lives, beliefs, and biases. This is not a book that offers easy answers or prescriptive solutions but rather a catalyst for introspection and self-discovery.
In a world where conformity dominates, Queersapien serves as a clarion call for an evolution of the self and society at large. It reminds us that true freedom lies in embracing our unique identities, breaking free from the shackles of societal expectations, and fostering a world where all individuals can thrive authentically.
"Queersapien" by Sharif D. Rangnekar is a powerful exploration of queerness as a state of existence rather than just sexuality. The book challenges the reader to question societal norms and sheds light on the beauty of diversity in nature. It is divided into 12 chapters that traverses the author’s journey in life - of observations, experiences, of ups and downs, and personal beliefs. As the blurb of the book says as well - In its truest form, nature is queer and queer is free. The world after all is queer, if you have enough curiousity to see it that way.
The author provides a refreshing perspective on queerness by emphasizing the importance of individuality and freedom. His writing style is raw and searing, providing an intimate insight into his personal experiences and how they have shaped his understanding of love, freedom, identity, and dignity. The author acknowledges that there are many ways to live and celebrates the uniqueness of every individual.
The book is not just about the LGBTQ+ community, but it also explores themes of media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self. Rangnekar's writing is thought-provoking and challenges readers to question their own beliefs and prejudices. The author's voice is strong and authentic, making the book a compelling read.
"Queersapien" is a book that cannot be put in a thematic box. It is a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and evolution. The book is a celebration of diversity and a call for society to embrace individuality and freedom. It ends with an epilogue in the form of a thought worthy poem that captures the true essence of the story. This is a must-read for anyone who wants to gain a deeper understanding of queerness and its importance in our society.
The book reached me specially packed. I had the complete opposite feeling after reading the kind of book thought it might be. But in any case, the author's pen deserves praise. And it's a pity that I don't voice his description before reading this book because it greatly reduces my desire to read it. After reading the first two pages of this book, I got a distinct excitement that made me swallow the entire book. Sharif D. Rangnekar's, "Queer Sapien" is a thought-provoking and heartfelt exploration of queerness as a state of existence beyond just sexuality. This book delves into the complexities of identity, love, freedom, and dignity through a personal and raw reflection on his own experiences as a gay man.
It's a collection of essays which are experiences from the author's life. Particularly author's views on how privilege and oppression coexist in the lives of queer urban Indians, I felt this book to be the more intellectual and reflective. This book is incredibly readable and makes a significant contribution to the body of homosexual Indian writing as well as library collections on India and LGBTIQ research.
The book consists of 195 pages and 12 Chapters . A unique way of index is shown by the author. I really enjoyed this insightful book. It is so clearly and logically organised as well as being extremely readable. I have no authority to call the book bad. Because I was fascinated by the back cover of the book and it was the first time I got attracted to the name. Moreover, from the quality of the page to the description of the book, the author's choice of language, the specification of the language, the consonance of the language, everything has been shown to be skillful.
It was an amazing read and will recommend to all. Happy reading!
Queer Sapien by Sharif D Rangnekar is about "something", many people have failed to notice. In the preface to the book, the author brings up that the goal of the book is to leave the reader with 'the thought that the opposite of order isn't disorder, it is diversity.' He believes that if we can include this thought in our consciousness, we'd all stand a chance to partake and share this beautiful world, its nature and our ability to give and receive love.
Back to the beginning, the "something" I mentioned is the fact that this world is meant for all of us to live peacefully and happily no matter what our sexual orientation, race or gender is. Everyone deserves a happy life regardless of their background and who are we to deny them that right?
Written from the author's personal experiences, this book is a representation of the "real world" of queer people. This book shows how the world of queer is separated from the "other" world by certain myths and beliefs. The book also displays how ignorance about LGBTQA+ affects people.
Discriminated against for whom they loved and chided for being themselves, the LGBTQA+ community falls into depression.
The book shows how people react to finding a homosexual person not hiding his "interests" in a public space, no matter what their nationality is. The book also portrays how parents react to their children coming out and how this knowledge would change them for better or for worse.
The book describes how a person loses his chance to be with the person they love just because of societal control. It also shows how homophobia affects these people.
I loved learning more about homosexuality from the author's personal experience and I hope you'll like it too.
This book is about a gay man in his fifties who receives no joy from hearing that homosexuality has been decriminalised in India, but only a sense of relief that someone had finally accepted the truth of queer people. This book is an account of his life, an autobiography of sorts. The author shows how difficult things can be due to the society's fear of anything out of the ordinary. How so many gay people suffered due to the lack of their family's support and understanding which affected their relationships and life in general. How many men and women belonging to the queer community were forcibly married to the opposite sex seems barbaric when read in a book, but happens so often in society that we probably overlook it everyday unknowingly. This book talks about everything queer. Being queer is not just about sexuality, it's about being different and unique. The author talks about how none of us are free. He quotes, Bob Dylan, 'No one is free, even birds are caged to the sky’. But concedes that between the land and the sky, there's plenty of freedom to live life fully; how it is important to not cage oneself into templates and fixtures. No matter how many different choices different people make, there's plenty of room for everybody and their choices.
I love how eloquent the author is and how touching his words are. His writing is logical and utterly raw. It left me feeling emotional. This is a gem of a book, that gives us a first hand insight into the queer community.
I would have to give it a 5 star. The writing style alone deserves a 10.
Queer is often a misunderstood and misjudged term. The author embarks on a journey of self-discovery, delving into the ethereal themes of love, freedom, identity and dignity through his personal experiences and encounters with societal norms and prejudices imposed by family, religion, caste, and class. The book's central thesis revolves around the idea that nature itself is queer, and that a queer mind is attuned to the infinite diversity that nature offers. It additionally mirrors the difficulties and issues looked by individuals of this local area. This book is extremely intriguing. The Writer assess the Queerness from its very own viewpoint. This book is separated into 12 parts and Writer effectively elaborate the legitimate status as well as the decriminalization of Area 377 of Indian Correctional Code, 1860.
The author offers a one of a kind point of view on eccentricity, zeroing in on the acknowledgment of numerous approaches to everyday life and existing as opposed to only the orientation perspective.It suggests that if we cast aside the superficial trappings of our lives and view the world through an unencumbered lens, we would come to understand that there is no single way to live, love, or express ourselves.
The book is a spellbinding and poignant meditation on life, media, neoliberalism, politics, and the inner self, and it defies categorization, much like the very essence of queerness.This book explores Queerness in it's collective yet diverse form. That which cannot be fitted within regular stringent norms, is Queer. Queerness is free, it doesn't have a boundary.