Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity

by Brenda J. Allen

This captivating book analyzes six salient categories of social identity (gender, race, social class, disability, sexuality, and age) and why difference within and between those categories matter. Brenda J. Allen provides overviews of sociohistorical developments and their impact on how people perceive and treat one another. She explains how communication constitutes social identity and explores relationships among social identity, discourse, and power dynamics. Difference matters to everyone. Establishing meaningful dialogue begins with curiosity about differing perspectives, empathy for others, and cultural humility. Allen addresses the uncertainty and anxiety too often connected with difference, advises mindfulness to reveal the hidden associations connected with stereotypes, and urges proactivity to challenge and change mainstream meanings of difference. She also provides tools and techniques to help readers apply lessons learned.

Genres: Nonfiction, School, Communication

Kindle Edition

First published September 1, 2003

Reviews

[Lisa · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this book with my coworkers. Our discussions challenged me to explore the constructs I value and how I view others. I will admit that it was the great group of people, who were willing to be vulnerable enough to share their experiences and let others show theirs that made this so valuable. Had I read this by myself, I would probably have not marked it as high. It was hard work to see my short comings and realize where it might hurt other people and it will push you to challenge your ideas of interacting with others.

[Louise Sullivan · Rating 3 out of 5]

I probably would give this book a 3.5 rather than a 3. I just didn't like it quite enough to give it 4. This was a textbook for a diversity class I took. I appreciated the various examples and theories.

[Emily · Rating 5 out of 5]

How does one rate a text like this??

In all seriousness, I read this book for my winter quarter humanities class and it helped me understand diverse identity and communication surrounding identities on a much deeper level. There were very helpful tools and reflection guides in this text that gave the reader more options for interacting with the text beyond just reading. My favorite part was how Allen included anecdotes from her personal life to give better perspective on the problems with identity we all face. Her honest reflection about her own internalized beliefs and how even she struggles to practice what she preaches made this text more than something I had to read for a class, but also something I can relate very deeply with.

[Ella Mulchrone · Rating 3 out of 5]

Had to read this for a class… not a bibliography/ non fiction person but it was informational so I guess it was beneficial in a way.

[Diana · Rating 4 out of 5]

Because the author uses anecdotes from her own life to illustrate examples of discrimination and overcoming stereotypes, this book is much more readable and less dry than most textbooks.

[Kelli Williams · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this as a textbook for a diversity course and thoroughly enjoyed it! would recommend

[Ella Morgan · Rating 3 out of 5]

Had to read this for a class… not a bibliography/ non fiction person but it was informational so I guess it was beneficial in a way.

[Andres De La Rosa · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good textbook for sure. Shines a light on topics that most people don’t even think about.

[Kristin GrandersonDelaney]

Read for class. Some good Info but probably needs to be updated with a new edition

[Huy Le · Rating 1 out of 5]

The writing, although clear, is repetitive and somewhat biased (despite the fact that the writer mentioned she is a social constructionist herself).

[Chanel · Rating 5 out of 5]

I had to use this book for a college class, it was an excellent book.